Reb v. Wade
@rsl318.bsky.social
queer disabled feminist activist formerly known as 'the abortion musicologist' // teacher, writer, PhD candidate, peer counselor // Southerner by birth, Kentuckian by trade, New Yorker forever // she & they
i know i'm still a new yorker in my bones because a friend i'm visiting here told me that she had just bought a used car and my immediate response was "congrats but now you have to deal with alternate side parking" 😬
November 24, 2025 at 4:36 PM
i know i'm still a new yorker in my bones because a friend i'm visiting here told me that she had just bought a used car and my immediate response was "congrats but now you have to deal with alternate side parking" 😬
friend: this tweet made me think of u
me: omg that should be on a t-shirt
friend, one month later: happy birthday, here's a t-shirt
me: omg that should be on a t-shirt
friend, one month later: happy birthday, here's a t-shirt
November 22, 2025 at 1:35 AM
friend: this tweet made me think of u
me: omg that should be on a t-shirt
friend, one month later: happy birthday, here's a t-shirt
me: omg that should be on a t-shirt
friend, one month later: happy birthday, here's a t-shirt
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When I'm asked what kind of friend groups I have:
November 21, 2025 at 7:20 AM
When I'm asked what kind of friend groups I have:
just remembered that today is Meredith Monk's 83rd birthday 🎉🎉
(which means that it's also Joe Biden's 83rd birthday)
(which means that it's also Joe Biden's 83rd birthday)
November 21, 2025 at 2:41 AM
just remembered that today is Meredith Monk's 83rd birthday 🎉🎉
(which means that it's also Joe Biden's 83rd birthday)
(which means that it's also Joe Biden's 83rd birthday)
my best friend just sent me the note she made after our first date ~5 years ago and i'm dying
November 21, 2025 at 12:15 AM
my best friend just sent me the note she made after our first date ~5 years ago and i'm dying
18 years ago today, my mom got diagnosed w/ cancer (ultimately terminal)... this time of year has been difficult ever since
November 20, 2025 at 8:56 PM
18 years ago today, my mom got diagnosed w/ cancer (ultimately terminal)... this time of year has been difficult ever since
WHY DOES STUFF LIKE THIS KEEP HAPPENING WITHOUT OUR CONSENT
(also, thank you to the people who post instructions for how to opt out of it)
(also, thank you to the people who post instructions for how to opt out of it)
If you use GMail, AI (Gemini) was turned on yesterday by default and now scans all of your content for machine learning. To turn off, go to Settings>General and scroll down. Uncheck the box for "Smart features."
There's other "Smart" add-ons as well, but that's the one that reads your content.
There's other "Smart" add-ons as well, but that's the one that reads your content.
November 20, 2025 at 7:38 PM
WHY DOES STUFF LIKE THIS KEEP HAPPENING WITHOUT OUR CONSENT
(also, thank you to the people who post instructions for how to opt out of it)
(also, thank you to the people who post instructions for how to opt out of it)
"For the sake of her 14-year-old son, JJ, she needed to ask her doctor for an abortion to protect her health. [...] More than 90 doctors were involved in Walker’s care, but not one offered her the option to end her pregnancy, according to medical records."
www.propublica.org/article/texa...
www.propublica.org/article/texa...
“Ticking Time Bomb”: A Pregnant Mother Kept Getting Sicker. She Died After She Couldn’t Get an Abortion in Texas.
Walker is one of several women ProPublica found with underlying health conditions who died when they couldn’t access abortions.
www.propublica.org
November 20, 2025 at 3:26 AM
"For the sake of her 14-year-old son, JJ, she needed to ask her doctor for an abortion to protect her health. [...] More than 90 doctors were involved in Walker’s care, but not one offered her the option to end her pregnancy, according to medical records."
www.propublica.org/article/texa...
www.propublica.org/article/texa...
my body canNOT get used to daylight savings this year 😫
November 19, 2025 at 11:22 PM
my body canNOT get used to daylight savings this year 😫
wait students have to buy their blue books for exams now? tf
November 19, 2025 at 3:42 PM
wait students have to buy their blue books for exams now? tf
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There are going to be more stories like this than we will ever hear about. Each person deserved the world, and we let them die.
NEW:
In 2024, Tierra Walker was sick and getting sicker. She was also pregnant.
She knew abortion was illegal in Texas, but thought there was an exception for women like her, whose health was at risk. Doctors told her there was no emergency.
Then she died.
www.propublica.org/article/texa...
In 2024, Tierra Walker was sick and getting sicker. She was also pregnant.
She knew abortion was illegal in Texas, but thought there was an exception for women like her, whose health was at risk. Doctors told her there was no emergency.
Then she died.
www.propublica.org/article/texa...
“Ticking Time Bomb”: A Pregnant Mother Kept Getting Sicker. She Died After She Couldn’t Get an Abortion in Texas.
Walker is one of several women ProPublica found with underlying health conditions who died when they couldn’t access abortions.
www.propublica.org
November 19, 2025 at 1:55 PM
There are going to be more stories like this than we will ever hear about. Each person deserved the world, and we let them die.
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told my family i'm defending my prospectus today
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November 18, 2025 at 4:29 PM
told my family i'm defending my prospectus today
apparently eugenics and AI had a baby
November 17, 2025 at 11:44 PM
apparently eugenics and AI had a baby
the word "everyday" is doin' a lotta work here
Speaking at a Texas Tribune Festival on Friday, former U.S. Secretary of Transportation Pete Buttigieg criticized the Democratic Party for failing to reach everyday Americans, arguing that it “got sucked in” to a conversation about identity. #TribFest25
Pete Buttigieg critiques Democrats for focus on identity
The former U.S. transportation secretary said the Democratic Party should focus more on issues gripping the country, such as health care and housing affordability.
www.texastribune.org
November 15, 2025 at 8:29 PM
the word "everyday" is doin' a lotta work here
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I don’t want to formulate words yet, but my friend Alice Wong, @sfdirewolf.bsky.social of the Disability Visibility Project, has passed.
Here are the words she left behind:
www.instagram.com/p/DREMDNBjnq...
Here are the words she left behind:
www.instagram.com/p/DREMDNBjnq...
Alice Wong on Instagram: "ID: Yellow background with black text "This is Alice's friend Sandy Ho, posting. Per Alice's wishes, this message is being shared at the time of her passing. Hi everyone, it ...
423 likes, 73 comments - alicatsamurai on November 14, 2025: "ID: Yellow background with black text "This is Alice's friend Sandy Ho, posting. Per Alice's wishes, this message is being shared at the t...
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November 15, 2025 at 5:57 AM
I don’t want to formulate words yet, but my friend Alice Wong, @sfdirewolf.bsky.social of the Disability Visibility Project, has passed.
Here are the words she left behind:
www.instagram.com/p/DREMDNBjnq...
Here are the words she left behind:
www.instagram.com/p/DREMDNBjnq...
being an abortion musicologist is fun because sometimes i'll put my music on shuffle and it'll be like Blondie -> Mahler -> Missy Elliott -> "2018 evangelical parade protest part 2 amplified fetus"
November 14, 2025 at 9:06 PM
being an abortion musicologist is fun because sometimes i'll put my music on shuffle and it'll be like Blondie -> Mahler -> Missy Elliott -> "2018 evangelical parade protest part 2 amplified fetus"
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An anti-abortion protester has shot someone outside of a South Carolina Planned Parenthood.
My source says one person was injured and taken to the hospital—and that the protester was arrested.
More soon.
My source says one person was injured and taken to the hospital—and that the protester was arrested.
More soon.
November 14, 2025 at 5:51 PM
An anti-abortion protester has shot someone outside of a South Carolina Planned Parenthood.
My source says one person was injured and taken to the hospital—and that the protester was arrested.
More soon.
My source says one person was injured and taken to the hospital—and that the protester was arrested.
More soon.
i've been thru some pretty objectively horrendous things in life, so it's weird that seven years down the road i'm still traumatized from getting forced out of a music PhD program. like objectively this is nowhere near the worst thing that has happened to me.
November 14, 2025 at 6:54 PM
i've been thru some pretty objectively horrendous things in life, so it's weird that seven years down the road i'm still traumatized from getting forced out of a music PhD program. like objectively this is nowhere near the worst thing that has happened to me.
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Trump getting elected a few weeks AFTER the Access Hollywood tape dropped was to America’s culture of sexual violence what Sandy Hook was for gun violence—a clear sign that tens of millions of “conservatives” were totally fine with it.
i mean c’mon. the president’s best friend was the most notorious pedo in the country’s history who ran a massive child trafficking ring. every bit of circumstantial evidence we have says that trump was a participant. if this were a criminal trial we’d have enough evidence to compel a plea deal.
November 12, 2025 at 5:05 PM
Trump getting elected a few weeks AFTER the Access Hollywood tape dropped was to America’s culture of sexual violence what Sandy Hook was for gun violence—a clear sign that tens of millions of “conservatives” were totally fine with it.
haven't paid much attention at all to the epstein stuff until today because, you know, genocide, mass deportations, etc etc, but WOW WHAT THE FUCK
November 12, 2025 at 5:54 PM
haven't paid much attention at all to the epstein stuff until today because, you know, genocide, mass deportations, etc etc, but WOW WHAT THE FUCK
the dentist convinced me to get an electric toothbrush bc i'm at risk for cavities and now every night i get to make up a new lil 2 min electronic music composition~~
November 12, 2025 at 2:59 AM
the dentist convinced me to get an electric toothbrush bc i'm at risk for cavities and now every night i get to make up a new lil 2 min electronic music composition~~
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Did I go to the bar and make a Lisa Frank-themed social media ask for an organ? Yes.
benefits to donating:
- temporary break from work and responsibilities as you convalesce
- badass scar
- you grow your own organ back, that’s kinda cool
- good karma
- you save my life
(please share)
benefits to donating:
- temporary break from work and responsibilities as you convalesce
- badass scar
- you grow your own organ back, that’s kinda cool
- good karma
- you save my life
(please share)
November 11, 2025 at 9:04 PM
Did I go to the bar and make a Lisa Frank-themed social media ask for an organ? Yes.
benefits to donating:
- temporary break from work and responsibilities as you convalesce
- badass scar
- you grow your own organ back, that’s kinda cool
- good karma
- you save my life
(please share)
benefits to donating:
- temporary break from work and responsibilities as you convalesce
- badass scar
- you grow your own organ back, that’s kinda cool
- good karma
- you save my life
(please share)
"When speaking about the months since he lost his job [as a correction officer], he repeatedly used the phrase 'becoming human.' 'The more I become human again,' he said, the more he could see this predicament from the incarcerated man’s point of view.'"
www.newyorker.com/magazine/202...
www.newyorker.com/magazine/202...
A Year of Convulsions in New York’s Prisons
Jennifer Gonnerman reports on how two murders and a strike exposed a system at its breaking point.
www.newyorker.com
November 11, 2025 at 7:41 PM
"When speaking about the months since he lost his job [as a correction officer], he repeatedly used the phrase 'becoming human.' 'The more I become human again,' he said, the more he could see this predicament from the incarcerated man’s point of view.'"
www.newyorker.com/magazine/202...
www.newyorker.com/magazine/202...