my gender is the queervoid
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Made a vent account so I don't shove this stuff on main
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Trying to keep intra community discourse and other bullshit off main
I was trying use Bluesky as a fresh start to get away from it completely but shit keeps ending up on my timeline anyway so here we are
I was trying use Bluesky as a fresh start to get away from it completely but shit keeps ending up on my timeline anyway so here we are
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Sex-negative trans women are a huge fucking trip. Gotta roll my eyes when I see a trans woman trying to make fun of a furry for being into any given kink.
Transphobes see you as sex perverts, you’re not gonna get acceptance from them by throwing kinksters under the bus. They think you’re the same.
Transphobes see you as sex perverts, you’re not gonna get acceptance from them by throwing kinksters under the bus. They think you’re the same.
November 19, 2025 at 9:11 PM
Sex-negative trans women are a huge fucking trip. Gotta roll my eyes when I see a trans woman trying to make fun of a furry for being into any given kink.
Transphobes see you as sex perverts, you’re not gonna get acceptance from them by throwing kinksters under the bus. They think you’re the same.
Transphobes see you as sex perverts, you’re not gonna get acceptance from them by throwing kinksters under the bus. They think you’re the same.
Reposted by my gender is the queervoid
Cis men-the best thing you can do to dismantle the patriarchy is to support marginalized men and masculinity. In addition to supporting women/femininity. It is vitally important to do these things in tangent. THAT is what breaks the patriarchy.
November 20, 2025 at 2:34 PM
Cis men-the best thing you can do to dismantle the patriarchy is to support marginalized men and masculinity. In addition to supporting women/femininity. It is vitally important to do these things in tangent. THAT is what breaks the patriarchy.
Reposted by my gender is the queervoid
solomonskalozub.blogspot.com/2025/11/tran... I'm expecting uh, mixed responses to this one, but whatever. What's media analysis if I don't get under some people's skin?
November 19, 2025 at 10:16 PM
solomonskalozub.blogspot.com/2025/11/tran... I'm expecting uh, mixed responses to this one, but whatever. What's media analysis if I don't get under some people's skin?
Reposted by my gender is the queervoid
When the next truscum/transmed rebranding happens and they claim "we were never mean to nonbinary people/we never claimed nonbinary people weren't trans/we never talked shit about people who don't/can't transition/etc".
Just to show you the sort of stuff I deal with from transmedicalists, and what sort of people they are, here is one that came after me today.
November 18, 2025 at 10:26 PM
When the next truscum/transmed rebranding happens and they claim "we were never mean to nonbinary people/we never claimed nonbinary people weren't trans/we never talked shit about people who don't/can't transition/etc".
Reposted by my gender is the queervoid
and I would love to just, like, be wrong about this
but I see it hurting trans men so often
who feel villainized and unwelcome in trans spaces because of this rhetoric that paints them as dangerous
who feel they can't defend themselves without being painted as transmisogynist
but I see it hurting trans men so often
who feel villainized and unwelcome in trans spaces because of this rhetoric that paints them as dangerous
who feel they can't defend themselves without being painted as transmisogynist
November 19, 2025 at 2:39 AM
and I would love to just, like, be wrong about this
but I see it hurting trans men so often
who feel villainized and unwelcome in trans spaces because of this rhetoric that paints them as dangerous
who feel they can't defend themselves without being painted as transmisogynist
but I see it hurting trans men so often
who feel villainized and unwelcome in trans spaces because of this rhetoric that paints them as dangerous
who feel they can't defend themselves without being painted as transmisogynist
Reposted by my gender is the queervoid
queerness is so varied, and so case by case, that you can't make such sweeping analysis that just flatly paints nbs and trans men as being an oppressor class towards trans women, that's not how it works at all
November 19, 2025 at 2:37 AM
queerness is so varied, and so case by case, that you can't make such sweeping analysis that just flatly paints nbs and trans men as being an oppressor class towards trans women, that's not how it works at all
Reposted by my gender is the queervoid
This, solidarity. Trans masc, trans femme, and all of us on the non-binary spectrum. Those that want or don’t want HRT. Pre-op, post-op, non-op. Dysphoric or not dysphoric. None of that matters outside our own individual journeys. We’re all trans and need to stand together, not turn on each other.
other trans folk are our closest allies, not our enemies
love them
love them
November 19, 2025 at 3:14 AM
This, solidarity. Trans masc, trans femme, and all of us on the non-binary spectrum. Those that want or don’t want HRT. Pre-op, post-op, non-op. Dysphoric or not dysphoric. None of that matters outside our own individual journeys. We’re all trans and need to stand together, not turn on each other.
Reposted by my gender is the queervoid
Just to show you the sort of stuff I deal with from transmedicalists, and what sort of people they are, here is one that came after me today.
November 18, 2025 at 10:02 PM
Just to show you the sort of stuff I deal with from transmedicalists, and what sort of people they are, here is one that came after me today.
Reposted by my gender is the queervoid
solomonskalozub.blogspot.com/2025/11/tran... It's a new day, have some new media analysis!
November 18, 2025 at 5:07 PM
solomonskalozub.blogspot.com/2025/11/tran... It's a new day, have some new media analysis!
Reposted by my gender is the queervoid
Like dawg, your whole purpose was for a safe space for LGBT people especially trans people. Yet, these guidelines would even potentially block discussions of diy hrt. Its so vague. Does discussing how to arm others count as "how to procure dangerous weapons"?
November 6, 2025 at 12:47 PM
Like dawg, your whole purpose was for a safe space for LGBT people especially trans people. Yet, these guidelines would even potentially block discussions of diy hrt. Its so vague. Does discussing how to arm others count as "how to procure dangerous weapons"?
Reposted by my gender is the queervoid
Read the northsky tos and guidelines and im begging for yall to hire a pr person or technical writer. It reads like a fanfic writer trying to speak legalese while whatever guidelines that do exist are just vibe based.
November 6, 2025 at 12:43 PM
Read the northsky tos and guidelines and im begging for yall to hire a pr person or technical writer. It reads like a fanfic writer trying to speak legalese while whatever guidelines that do exist are just vibe based.
Reposted by my gender is the queervoid
Schrodinger's Enby: at once a completely hidden, gender-conforming stealth "queer" who is invisible, looks just like their AGAB, blending into cishet society and evading all prejudice, AND SOMEHOW ALSO a garishly-dressed freakazoid that scares all the normies into voting Republican and banning HRT
November 17, 2025 at 10:36 PM
Schrodinger's Enby: at once a completely hidden, gender-conforming stealth "queer" who is invisible, looks just like their AGAB, blending into cishet society and evading all prejudice, AND SOMEHOW ALSO a garishly-dressed freakazoid that scares all the normies into voting Republican and banning HRT
Reposted by my gender is the queervoid
it matters a lot to me because the "youre not really trans if you don't go all the way", the entire question of "am i girl enough tho???", is what KEPT ME from transitioning myself because i didn't think i needed it that bad. it kept me in the closet for decades. i can never get that time back.
November 18, 2025 at 5:10 AM
it matters a lot to me because the "youre not really trans if you don't go all the way", the entire question of "am i girl enough tho???", is what KEPT ME from transitioning myself because i didn't think i needed it that bad. it kept me in the closet for decades. i can never get that time back.
Reposted by my gender is the queervoid
20 years ago the truscum were like "if you haven't gone through all the surgery and jumped through the existing system then youre Not Really Trans, youre just a weirdo" and now the New Truscum are like "if you haven't DIYed hormones from Vanautu you're not really trans and just ✨🌈VaLiD✨😘"
November 17, 2025 at 10:00 PM
20 years ago the truscum were like "if you haven't gone through all the surgery and jumped through the existing system then youre Not Really Trans, youre just a weirdo" and now the New Truscum are like "if you haven't DIYed hormones from Vanautu you're not really trans and just ✨🌈VaLiD✨😘"
Reposted by my gender is the queervoid
Yeah! Yeah! Like holy shit, bodily autonomy and self determination are fucking vital
but there are some who actually do say shit like not looking the part is **harmful** to those who do
Which is literally "I am not like those freaks"
Hatred towards gendernonconformity as a concept.
Fuuuuuuuuuuck
but there are some who actually do say shit like not looking the part is **harmful** to those who do
Which is literally "I am not like those freaks"
Hatred towards gendernonconformity as a concept.
Fuuuuuuuuuuck
November 17, 2025 at 11:33 PM
Yeah! Yeah! Like holy shit, bodily autonomy and self determination are fucking vital
but there are some who actually do say shit like not looking the part is **harmful** to those who do
Which is literally "I am not like those freaks"
Hatred towards gendernonconformity as a concept.
Fuuuuuuuuuuck
but there are some who actually do say shit like not looking the part is **harmful** to those who do
Which is literally "I am not like those freaks"
Hatred towards gendernonconformity as a concept.
Fuuuuuuuuuuck
Reposted by my gender is the queervoid
if non-transitioning nonbinary people who do nothing with their gender but change pronouns are so transphobia-exempt and privileged and "not really trans", why are they blamed for every mass shooting & why are they/them pronouns the main focus of every political attack ad and standup comedian's act
November 17, 2025 at 9:46 PM
if non-transitioning nonbinary people who do nothing with their gender but change pronouns are so transphobia-exempt and privileged and "not really trans", why are they blamed for every mass shooting & why are they/them pronouns the main focus of every political attack ad and standup comedian's act
Reposted by my gender is the queervoid
solomonskalozub.blogspot.com/2025/11/tran... I have decided to post it serially, as it would be wild to post a book-length blog post, I will release it as a free to download ebook when it is all done, but these posts will also remain on my blog!
Trans Men/Mascs in Storytelling, Part One (1) An Introduction, and a Case Study of Antitransmasculinity
Many months ago I finally decided to document, discuss, recommend and share media featuring transmasculine characters and/or discussions o...
solomonskalozub.blogspot.com
November 18, 2025 at 3:56 AM
solomonskalozub.blogspot.com/2025/11/tran... I have decided to post it serially, as it would be wild to post a book-length blog post, I will release it as a free to download ebook when it is all done, but these posts will also remain on my blog!
Reposted by my gender is the queervoid
when people have deep seated anger for tresspasses against them sexual or physical, a tendency i deeply dislike is when they generalize and assume everybody who has experienced hardship not only feel but cope exactly the same way they do and use it as a justification to lash out.
November 18, 2025 at 9:33 AM
when people have deep seated anger for tresspasses against them sexual or physical, a tendency i deeply dislike is when they generalize and assume everybody who has experienced hardship not only feel but cope exactly the same way they do and use it as a justification to lash out.
I really need to find/make a quick reference list or whatever about what transmascs have done/are doing
Sometimes our erasure gets to the point that I start going down an existential spiral of "we have done nothing, contributed nothing, we are not here, our ripples don't reach beyond our own bubble"
Sometimes our erasure gets to the point that I start going down an existential spiral of "we have done nothing, contributed nothing, we are not here, our ripples don't reach beyond our own bubble"
November 17, 2025 at 3:06 PM
I really need to find/make a quick reference list or whatever about what transmascs have done/are doing
Sometimes our erasure gets to the point that I start going down an existential spiral of "we have done nothing, contributed nothing, we are not here, our ripples don't reach beyond our own bubble"
Sometimes our erasure gets to the point that I start going down an existential spiral of "we have done nothing, contributed nothing, we are not here, our ripples don't reach beyond our own bubble"
Reposted by my gender is the queervoid
I delayed transition a long time, thinking, this is just how life is (with dysphoria) because I didn't want to admit I had a problem.
I had to admit I had a problem before I could access assistive tech to reduce the impact being trans was having on my life.
I had to admit I had a problem before I could access assistive tech to reduce the impact being trans was having on my life.
November 16, 2025 at 2:19 AM
I delayed transition a long time, thinking, this is just how life is (with dysphoria) because I didn't want to admit I had a problem.
I had to admit I had a problem before I could access assistive tech to reduce the impact being trans was having on my life.
I had to admit I had a problem before I could access assistive tech to reduce the impact being trans was having on my life.
It's genuinely sad to see selfie posts from trans women asking for cis people specifically to rate how femme they look
November 16, 2025 at 12:12 AM
It's genuinely sad to see selfie posts from trans women asking for cis people specifically to rate how femme they look
Genuinely don't know how to convince people that they are not helping the harms of trans fems' hyper visibility and trans mascs'/nbs' invisibility by acting like trans = trans woman and/or that bigots don't actually hate trans mascs/we face virtually no issues, so why even bring us up?
November 15, 2025 at 7:21 PM
Genuinely don't know how to convince people that they are not helping the harms of trans fems' hyper visibility and trans mascs'/nbs' invisibility by acting like trans = trans woman and/or that bigots don't actually hate trans mascs/we face virtually no issues, so why even bring us up?
Reposted by my gender is the queervoid
I also am very slowly reading and enjoying this book. My attention is flitting, due to constant burn out, I used to be able to finish something and not bounce between things, so not having finished isn't a sign of how much I like something or how good it is. store.tenebrouspress.com/products/fro...
FROM THE BELLY - a novel by Emmett Nahil (softcover; includes eBook)
About FROM THE BELLY: The whaling vessel Merciful has just made its strangest catch yet: a massive whale containing a still-living man secreted within its stomach lining. Sailor Isaiah Chase is tasked...
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November 15, 2025 at 2:38 PM
I also am very slowly reading and enjoying this book. My attention is flitting, due to constant burn out, I used to be able to finish something and not bounce between things, so not having finished isn't a sign of how much I like something or how good it is. store.tenebrouspress.com/products/fro...
Reposted by my gender is the queervoid
I very rarely watch animation or read comics, but I do have this comic book by a trans guy that I live very much. www.amazon.com/Chromatic-Fa...
The Chromatic Fantasy
The Chromatic Fantasy [A., H., Yarwood, Ari] on Amazon.com. *FREE* shipping on qualifying offers. The Chromatic Fantasy
www.amazon.com
November 15, 2025 at 2:19 PM
I very rarely watch animation or read comics, but I do have this comic book by a trans guy that I live very much. www.amazon.com/Chromatic-Fa...
Reposted by my gender is the queervoid
I personally would appreciate it if the DIY evangelists were capable of acknowledging that there are still barriers to entry in a world where DIY exists but that's another matter
November 13, 2025 at 9:33 PM
I personally would appreciate it if the DIY evangelists were capable of acknowledging that there are still barriers to entry in a world where DIY exists but that's another matter