Mar
mareish.bsky.social
Mar
@mareish.bsky.social
AuDHD Queer Equestrian & Dog Parent
Empathy is the epicenter of my pursuits.
They/them
I've burnt out at least 3 times before and its was hell each time. I actually like my life and trajectory now. the idea of fully burning out and the years long recovery is devastating. I'm hoping I can take some intentional and radical rest
September 14, 2025 at 5:11 PM
Any friends have tips on making the most of rest? I can try to dedicate my days to rest, aside from barn chores and billions of appointments and some errands. I'm really lucky that my mom is able and willing to take on a lot for me when I need to ask for help
I'm going to have to start forcing rest on myself, even as my brain desires to do something and seek novel experiences. I cannot afford to be hit by the physical reality of full on burnout. I hate the polarity of being AuDHD at times.
September 14, 2025 at 5:05 PM
I have had two therapists in the past week (as I transition care to a new practitioner) express concern about whether I'm in the early stages of autistic burn out. I definitely did not consider that but its a real possibility
September 14, 2025 at 5:02 PM
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"let's keep politics out of it" - someone with one very specific set of politics
September 14, 2025 at 4:11 AM
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Well.

Charlie Kirk was a horrible hateful human being. His being dead does not change that.

As for the way he passed- watching people who shrugged off the elected officials in Minnesota being shot suddenly decrying political violence is a hell of a thing.
September 10, 2025 at 9:03 PM
One of my newest pet peeves is seeing able bodied "all you need is grit and hard work to build fitness" riders shitting on equipment that allows disabled equestrians to ride safely and kindly.
September 8, 2025 at 3:42 PM
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Hi, immunologist here:

(a scientist who studies immune & inflammatory processes)

RFK Jr is talking absolute bullshit when he says he can “see in kids faces that they have inflammation”

That’s NOT how immunology works.

He is an anti-science profiteer.
Start calling him such.
August 28, 2025 at 8:59 PM
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I'm not the only one to make this point, but there will need to be the equivalent of Nuremberg Trials when this is all over (however long that takes). If there are no consequences for fascists, we'll keep having fascism.
Inhuman. “I don’t have any choice” is a lie.
August 29, 2025 at 4:47 PM
Me: I want a large pony or small horse, nothing over about 15.2hh

Also me: brings home a baby that was already taller than Remi's 14.2hh in July and is now likely 15.1hh (I need to tape her but she got here yesterday evening)
August 29, 2025 at 10:37 PM
Genuine question- is it okay to do anscetral work with my adoptive family rather than my birth family? I don't know that I'm ready to seek out and connect to that part of myself, or that the information is even available.
June 29, 2025 at 2:55 AM
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yep! unpaywalled:
June 12, 2025 at 8:33 PM
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“if they can do this to a senator they can do this to anybody”

they already are doing it to everybody wtf do you think weve been saying
June 13, 2025 at 11:20 AM
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“You know leggings aren’t real pants.”

Baby, shame is not an effective tool to use on me! I’ll wear 3D printed jeans if I want to.
June 12, 2025 at 2:16 PM
My only take is thst I hope she's not overworked because damn she's had a busy year
you dont need to have a take about the sabrina carpenter album cover. I am releasing you from the obligation to have a take about the sabrina carpenter album cover.
June 13, 2025 at 12:13 AM
About to be living every horse girl who watched Spirits dream. Meet Benedicta my dun Spanish mustang. I'm entering my baby horse era (with a mare of course)
June 12, 2025 at 11:00 PM
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Alt text:
bsky post “If you're a Marine or other service member being mobilized to Los Angeles and you'd like to apply for conscientious objector status, call the Gl Rights Hotline to get some guidance on your options:
1-877-447-4487”
Posted
June 9, 2025 at 2:08 PM by
@charlotteclymer.bsky.social
June 10, 2025 at 1:17 AM
Do the little things now to protect yourself in the future
June 9, 2025 at 2:27 AM
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You REALLY have to be on the wrong side of things if the LAPD is siding with protesters.
June 9, 2025 at 12:01 AM
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Warning: ICE is planning 30 days of immigration raids across Los Angeles County. If you or someone you know may be impacted, now is the time to set up a support system, identify a safe place, and stay alert.
June 8, 2025 at 6:41 PM
Anyone else that pays for the Proton suite as a replacement default Google apps, do you find it a good replacement?
June 7, 2025 at 3:15 AM
Ugh I want to work with my horse and take some extra sessions this month but I can't plan to do shit with the house going on the market and needing to be able to get 3 big dogs out of the house on short notice 😭
June 6, 2025 at 1:37 AM
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Xavier Beccera, HHS secretary in the pre-madness era before RFKJ, has broken his silence. 👇
Former HHS Chief Blasts Trump's Enablers, Says Policies Will Cost Lives
Enabling is 'how you end up with tyranny and dictatorship,' Xavier Becerra says
www.medpagetoday.com
June 5, 2025 at 1:45 AM
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Today was shitty. Because of Trump, Vought, and the cowards in Congress, people will die. These monsters don’t care. Remember: social movements take time. Every corrupt regime falls, eventually. We’re tired and calling it early tonight. But we’ll be back tomorrow. And the next day. And the next. ✊
May 23, 2025 at 12:53 AM
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if you love deportation so much you should consider deporting yourself to hell
May 22, 2025 at 7:02 PM
Any VA friends want to go check out some ponies with me in Staunton 👀
May 22, 2025 at 8:56 PM