Kazmierz Ballaski
@kazmierzballaski.bsky.social
I'm a divorced, autistic, bisexual, polyamorous dad living in Chicago, and work in professional politics. I write bisexual erotica and takes on my life. Recent heart surgery, recovering alcoholic.
Substack: notallman.substack.com
Substack: notallman.substack.com
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In the rooms of AA they call 12/31 “amateur night.”
Stay safe if you’re drinking (get a ride, have a buddy).
Stay safe if you’re not drinking and want to stay stopped (drive yourself, have a buddy).
Good luck out there.
Stay safe if you’re drinking (get a ride, have a buddy).
Stay safe if you’re not drinking and want to stay stopped (drive yourself, have a buddy).
Good luck out there.
December 31, 2025 at 11:51 PM
In the rooms of AA they call 12/31 “amateur night.”
Stay safe if you’re drinking (get a ride, have a buddy).
Stay safe if you’re not drinking and want to stay stopped (drive yourself, have a buddy).
Good luck out there.
Stay safe if you’re drinking (get a ride, have a buddy).
Stay safe if you’re not drinking and want to stay stopped (drive yourself, have a buddy).
Good luck out there.
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A bad batch of potato salad leads to a good time at the cookout in "Mia's Patio Playtime," a great introduction to the Fox Run Swingers' Club! corneliaquick.blog/b...
December 28, 2025 at 10:30 PM
A bad batch of potato salad leads to a good time at the cookout in "Mia's Patio Playtime," a great introduction to the Fox Run Swingers' Club! corneliaquick.blog/b...
Oh hey, it's my mother 🤣 not literally but she did side with my second ex wife in the divorce then was shocked when I took it poorly 🙄🙃
Asking Eric: Parents stayed close with son’s ex after she cheated
www.washingtonpost.com/advice/2025/...
Asking Eric: Parents stayed close with son’s ex after she cheated
www.washingtonpost.com/advice/2025/...
Column | Asking Eric: Parents stayed close with son’s ex after she cheated
Son had a “raging fit” about his parents’ tight relationship with his cheating ex-girlfriend.
www.washingtonpost.com
December 28, 2025 at 8:59 PM
Oh hey, it's my mother 🤣 not literally but she did side with my second ex wife in the divorce then was shocked when I took it poorly 🙄🙃
Asking Eric: Parents stayed close with son’s ex after she cheated
www.washingtonpost.com/advice/2025/...
Asking Eric: Parents stayed close with son’s ex after she cheated
www.washingtonpost.com/advice/2025/...
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Here's a bunch of spicy holiday-themed books to warm up your day. Includes Naughty & Spice, Season's Teasings: Snowbound Seductions, and Season's Spice.
Ends Dec. 31
#smutsky #spicybooks🌶️📚 #eroticwriterslift #booksky💙📚 #romancelandia #booktok ✍️🔥 ✒️🔞
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Ends Dec. 31
#smutsky #spicybooks🌶️📚 #eroticwriterslift #booksky💙📚 #romancelandia #booktok ✍️🔥 ✒️🔞
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December 28, 2025 at 9:35 AM
Here's a bunch of spicy holiday-themed books to warm up your day. Includes Naughty & Spice, Season's Teasings: Snowbound Seductions, and Season's Spice.
Ends Dec. 31
#smutsky #spicybooks🌶️📚 #eroticwriterslift #booksky💙📚 #romancelandia #booktok ✍️🔥 ✒️🔞
books.bookfunnel.com/christmas-er...
Ends Dec. 31
#smutsky #spicybooks🌶️📚 #eroticwriterslift #booksky💙📚 #romancelandia #booktok ✍️🔥 ✒️🔞
books.bookfunnel.com/christmas-er...
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You want free spicy books? Here's a bunch, including Houston, Houston Goes to Washington, Burn! Tales of Infidelity and Retribution, Vol. 1, and a sample of Tabitha Prime
#smutsky #spicybooks🌶️📚 #eroticwriterslift #booksky💙📚 #romancelandia #booktok ✍️🔥 ✒️🔞
books.bookfunnel.com/hotbooksforf...
#smutsky #spicybooks🌶️📚 #eroticwriterslift #booksky💙📚 #romancelandia #booktok ✍️🔥 ✒️🔞
books.bookfunnel.com/hotbooksforf...
December 27, 2025 at 4:03 AM
You want free spicy books? Here's a bunch, including Houston, Houston Goes to Washington, Burn! Tales of Infidelity and Retribution, Vol. 1, and a sample of Tabitha Prime
#smutsky #spicybooks🌶️📚 #eroticwriterslift #booksky💙📚 #romancelandia #booktok ✍️🔥 ✒️🔞
books.bookfunnel.com/hotbooksforf...
#smutsky #spicybooks🌶️📚 #eroticwriterslift #booksky💙📚 #romancelandia #booktok ✍️🔥 ✒️🔞
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Merry Christmas, degenerates. Give yourself the gift of a vicarious divorce orgy and read my seasonal smut. It's my gift to all of you 😘🌲
Christy's new husband hates Christmas, and sex, and joy. So her slutty bisexual friends help her give him a scorching divorce notice
Enjoy this free smut, and happy holidays!
#erotica #lgbtq #orgy #holidays
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Enjoy this free smut, and happy holidays!
#erotica #lgbtq #orgy #holidays
reamstories.com/page/lraz9y3...
December 25, 2025 at 3:03 PM
Merry Christmas, degenerates. Give yourself the gift of a vicarious divorce orgy and read my seasonal smut. It's my gift to all of you 😘🌲
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If you want to escape from your family drama by reading a hot story about someone else's disfunction, I gotcha covered! 🎅🔥
#erotica #smutsky
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#erotica #smutsky
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Beach Bum Christmas - Erotic Couplings - Literotica.com
Christmas dinner, Christmas drama, Christmas sex.
www.literotica.com
December 25, 2025 at 1:50 PM
If you want to escape from your family drama by reading a hot story about someone else's disfunction, I gotcha covered! 🎅🔥
#erotica #smutsky
www.literotica.com/s/beach-bum-...
#erotica #smutsky
www.literotica.com/s/beach-bum-...
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Buy yourself a little Christmas present - you deserve it! Check out all of my books on Amazon, including my latest anthology of hot short and sweet stories!
#erotica #smutsky #agegap #groupsex
www.amazon.com/stores/Anton...
#erotica #smutsky #agegap #groupsex
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December 24, 2025 at 2:36 PM
Buy yourself a little Christmas present - you deserve it! Check out all of my books on Amazon, including my latest anthology of hot short and sweet stories!
#erotica #smutsky #agegap #groupsex
www.amazon.com/stores/Anton...
#erotica #smutsky #agegap #groupsex
www.amazon.com/stores/Anton...
Christy's new husband hates Christmas, and sex, and joy. So her slutty bisexual friends help her give him a scorching divorce notice
Enjoy this free smut, and happy holidays!
#erotica #lgbtq #orgy #holidays
reamstories.com/page/lraz9y3...
Enjoy this free smut, and happy holidays!
#erotica #lgbtq #orgy #holidays
reamstories.com/page/lraz9y3...
December 21, 2025 at 11:18 PM
Christy's new husband hates Christmas, and sex, and joy. So her slutty bisexual friends help her give him a scorching divorce notice
Enjoy this free smut, and happy holidays!
#erotica #lgbtq #orgy #holidays
reamstories.com/page/lraz9y3...
Enjoy this free smut, and happy holidays!
#erotica #lgbtq #orgy #holidays
reamstories.com/page/lraz9y3...
"What are you doing up there?" my partner's mother asks. "Working?"
"Yep, working," I say as I finish up the draft of Cucking Scrooge Hubby With A Christmas Orgy 😈🍆🏳️🌈 #erotica
"Yep, working," I say as I finish up the draft of Cucking Scrooge Hubby With A Christmas Orgy 😈🍆🏳️🌈 #erotica
December 21, 2025 at 10:16 PM
"What are you doing up there?" my partner's mother asks. "Working?"
"Yep, working," I say as I finish up the draft of Cucking Scrooge Hubby With A Christmas Orgy 😈🍆🏳️🌈 #erotica
"Yep, working," I say as I finish up the draft of Cucking Scrooge Hubby With A Christmas Orgy 😈🍆🏳️🌈 #erotica
True story: I once joked to my PCP that obviously I eat a lot of fiber bc I'm a queer man and she stared blankly and asked why
Me: ...bc I like to get fucked up the ass sometimes?
And it STILL took another minute of awkward explanation before she got it 🙃🙄🏳️🌈
Me: ...bc I like to get fucked up the ass sometimes?
And it STILL took another minute of awkward explanation before she got it 🙃🙄🏳️🌈
Heated Rivalry is unrealistic because they don't accurately portray the gay experience of being prescribed PrEP and navigating a healthcare system full of doctors who don't know how anal works.
December 21, 2025 at 1:34 AM
True story: I once joked to my PCP that obviously I eat a lot of fiber bc I'm a queer man and she stared blankly and asked why
Me: ...bc I like to get fucked up the ass sometimes?
And it STILL took another minute of awkward explanation before she got it 🙃🙄🏳️🌈
Me: ...bc I like to get fucked up the ass sometimes?
And it STILL took another minute of awkward explanation before she got it 🙃🙄🏳️🌈
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People say they want immigrants to “go about it the right way,” but those are the ones being deported because it’s easiest to find the ones doing it the right way because they filled out forms with their addresses and show up to appointments.
December 13, 2025 at 10:54 PM
People say they want immigrants to “go about it the right way,” but those are the ones being deported because it’s easiest to find the ones doing it the right way because they filled out forms with their addresses and show up to appointments.
It is an offensive biphobic STEREOTYPE that bisexuals are polyamorous sluts who can't be satisfied with one gender
-me, in a Lyft from my girlfriend's place to go shower off our morning activities right before a date with a man 🤣🏳️🌈
-me, in a Lyft from my girlfriend's place to go shower off our morning activities right before a date with a man 🤣🏳️🌈
December 13, 2025 at 5:44 PM
It is an offensive biphobic STEREOTYPE that bisexuals are polyamorous sluts who can't be satisfied with one gender
-me, in a Lyft from my girlfriend's place to go shower off our morning activities right before a date with a man 🤣🏳️🌈
-me, in a Lyft from my girlfriend's place to go shower off our morning activities right before a date with a man 🤣🏳️🌈
I was having a bad time with the Manor Lords update, trying to quietly develop my lands while the other barons just hired brutes with sharp objects to take them
...then I realized I could hire my own brutes first and long story short I have an additional lightly used peasant village now 🗡️🪓👨🌾
...then I realized I could hire my own brutes first and long story short I have an additional lightly used peasant village now 🗡️🪓👨🌾
December 12, 2025 at 2:24 AM
I was having a bad time with the Manor Lords update, trying to quietly develop my lands while the other barons just hired brutes with sharp objects to take them
...then I realized I could hire my own brutes first and long story short I have an additional lightly used peasant village now 🗡️🪓👨🌾
...then I realized I could hire my own brutes first and long story short I have an additional lightly used peasant village now 🗡️🪓👨🌾
I have individual/ACA coverage and am downscaling my plan from a heart surgery-year gold PPO to a POS
The biggest downside is that I have to completely redo my mental care, which is no small thing with chronic severe depression, alcoholism, and PTSD. Hopefully this helps but I'm concerned
The biggest downside is that I have to completely redo my mental care, which is no small thing with chronic severe depression, alcoholism, and PTSD. Hopefully this helps but I'm concerned
Advocates hope newly passed bill will inspire more Illinois therapists to take private health insurance
Advocates hope newly passed bill will inspire more Illinois therapists to take private health insurance
Many therapists have stopped taking insurance because of what they describe as low payment rates and administrative hoops that make it difficult to treat patients.
trib.al
December 10, 2025 at 1:50 AM
I have individual/ACA coverage and am downscaling my plan from a heart surgery-year gold PPO to a POS
The biggest downside is that I have to completely redo my mental care, which is no small thing with chronic severe depression, alcoholism, and PTSD. Hopefully this helps but I'm concerned
The biggest downside is that I have to completely redo my mental care, which is no small thing with chronic severe depression, alcoholism, and PTSD. Hopefully this helps but I'm concerned
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Everything is awful!
*But it would be worse if I relapsed.*
This is my thought for the day, you can have it as yours for FREE if that's helpful to you.
*But it would be worse if I relapsed.*
This is my thought for the day, you can have it as yours for FREE if that's helpful to you.
December 8, 2025 at 2:10 PM
Everything is awful!
*But it would be worse if I relapsed.*
This is my thought for the day, you can have it as yours for FREE if that's helpful to you.
*But it would be worse if I relapsed.*
This is my thought for the day, you can have it as yours for FREE if that's helpful to you.
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The AA person may have learned that concept in AA but it applies to a lot more than just alcoholism.
December 6, 2025 at 5:27 PM
The AA person may have learned that concept in AA but it applies to a lot more than just alcoholism.
It took me 45 years to realize that while stupid political infotainment often influences elections, it doesn't matter how stupid sports infotainment gets, the sports will still sports the same
December 5, 2025 at 12:50 AM
It took me 45 years to realize that while stupid political infotainment often influences elections, it doesn't matter how stupid sports infotainment gets, the sports will still sports the same
I am back on the swiping apps, RIP me 💀🏳️🌈
Scruff is useless and uninstalled. Feeld has gone through yet another UI overhaul and is ALMOST functional. Archer is lame but has supplied me with a man who uses his words so that's good. 3Fun is sparsely populated and not terribly interesting so far...
Scruff is useless and uninstalled. Feeld has gone through yet another UI overhaul and is ALMOST functional. Archer is lame but has supplied me with a man who uses his words so that's good. 3Fun is sparsely populated and not terribly interesting so far...
December 3, 2025 at 3:33 PM
I am back on the swiping apps, RIP me 💀🏳️🌈
Scruff is useless and uninstalled. Feeld has gone through yet another UI overhaul and is ALMOST functional. Archer is lame but has supplied me with a man who uses his words so that's good. 3Fun is sparsely populated and not terribly interesting so far...
Scruff is useless and uninstalled. Feeld has gone through yet another UI overhaul and is ALMOST functional. Archer is lame but has supplied me with a man who uses his words so that's good. 3Fun is sparsely populated and not terribly interesting so far...
"I thought you broke up with that guy" -my younger son, while signing a holiday card to one of my occasional FWBs
Slut shamed by my own offspring 🤣😭🏳️🌈
Slut shamed by my own offspring 🤣😭🏳️🌈
December 2, 2025 at 11:38 PM
"I thought you broke up with that guy" -my younger son, while signing a holiday card to one of my occasional FWBs
Slut shamed by my own offspring 🤣😭🏳️🌈
Slut shamed by my own offspring 🤣😭🏳️🌈
Ohhhh, I can just check out the "Popular With Friends" tab for new content and avoid the absolute toilet of the Discover tab
I am old and bad with technology, don't judge 🤣👴
I am old and bad with technology, don't judge 🤣👴
December 2, 2025 at 6:03 PM
Ohhhh, I can just check out the "Popular With Friends" tab for new content and avoid the absolute toilet of the Discover tab
I am old and bad with technology, don't judge 🤣👴
I am old and bad with technology, don't judge 🤣👴
A minor but fun perk of being a professional snoop is I never have to ask anyone for their address for holiday cards
December 1, 2025 at 9:04 PM
A minor but fun perk of being a professional snoop is I never have to ask anyone for their address for holiday cards
Outlander started as Twilight AU fanfic
(Am I doing this right)
(Am I doing this right)
December 1, 2025 at 7:10 PM
Outlander started as Twilight AU fanfic
(Am I doing this right)
(Am I doing this right)
Me, a USC alum, watching everyone freak out over Lane Kiffin's dubious life choices
a man with a beard and long blonde hair is holding a sword in a forest .
ALT: a man with a beard and long blonde hair is holding a sword in a forest .
media.tenor.com
November 30, 2025 at 3:39 AM
Me, a USC alum, watching everyone freak out over Lane Kiffin's dubious life choices