J-Villain
@jagspoadie.bsky.social
J-Villain. Mom of a preschooler. Bereaved mom. Adoptive mom. Dog mom. Not your mom. #DTWD
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In light of everything happening, I wrote about how the KKK in the 1920s felt unstoppable, about the people that fought against them anyway, and about how fascism always fails. dansinker.com/posts/202…
February 24, 2025 at 3:25 AM
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is masculinity when you never stop fucking whining about everything? that seems to be the vance demo
JD Vance: "Our culture sends a message to young men that you should suppress every masculine urge ... my message to young men is don't allow this broken culture to send you a message that you're a bad person bc you're a man, bc you like to tell a joke, bc you like to have a beer with your friends."
February 20, 2025 at 5:04 PM
is masculinity when you never stop fucking whining about everything? that seems to be the vance demo
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The precarity of being the non-waged, caregiving parent in a society that actively penalizes you for doing the most necessary work that allows *everyone else* to function is hard to describe.
February 13, 2025 at 1:11 PM
The precarity of being the non-waged, caregiving parent in a society that actively penalizes you for doing the most necessary work that allows *everyone else* to function is hard to describe.
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For anyone else in this position, Please never underestimate the usefulness of annoying the shit out of govt officials, organizing meal trains, being the support person who stays home to be jail support during protests etc etc. I know Gwen knows. Lot of y'all still can learn to help.
There are a lot of us who are not well-positioned for street activism (in my case, I can't risk detainment because my youngest still mostly depends on breast milk for calories), and discounting work that can be done on digital space isn't just inaccurate, it's shaming of vulnerable people
I have a client stewing in shame about not doing enough to counter anti-trans and fascist actions, paralyzing himself by saying that no action is good enough except for the one he is too socially anxious to do.
For some, sending words might be a small risk that builds momentum for further action.
For some, sending words might be a small risk that builds momentum for further action.
February 6, 2025 at 5:35 PM
For anyone else in this position, Please never underestimate the usefulness of annoying the shit out of govt officials, organizing meal trains, being the support person who stays home to be jail support during protests etc etc. I know Gwen knows. Lot of y'all still can learn to help.
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February 6, 2025 at 7:50 PM
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Absolutely hate “we went too far” revisionist history. “We all believed women and it went too far.” No we did not all believe women. I was there
January 15, 2025 at 2:00 PM
Absolutely hate “we went too far” revisionist history. “We all believed women and it went too far.” No we did not all believe women. I was there
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Former CA First Lady @mariashriver.bsky.social has compiled this vetted list of charities helping those impacted by the Southern California fires including CA Community Fdn, World Food Kitchen, Pasadena Humane Society & more
www.today.com/news/climate...
www.today.com/news/climate...
How to help people impacted by the California fires
Here is a list of organizations vetted and approved by NBC News.
www.today.com
January 10, 2025 at 12:46 PM
Former CA First Lady @mariashriver.bsky.social has compiled this vetted list of charities helping those impacted by the Southern California fires including CA Community Fdn, World Food Kitchen, Pasadena Humane Society & more
www.today.com/news/climate...
www.today.com/news/climate...
Today's glorious breakfast:
21 grain bread toasted, topped with butter, cheddar cheese, scrambled egg, everything bagel seasoning
Vanilla bean Greek yogurt, raspberries, granola
Coffee
Peach kombucha
21 grain bread toasted, topped with butter, cheddar cheese, scrambled egg, everything bagel seasoning
Vanilla bean Greek yogurt, raspberries, granola
Coffee
Peach kombucha
a cartoon character giving an ok sign with his hand
ALT: a cartoon character giving an ok sign with his hand
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January 10, 2025 at 2:29 PM
Today's glorious breakfast:
21 grain bread toasted, topped with butter, cheddar cheese, scrambled egg, everything bagel seasoning
Vanilla bean Greek yogurt, raspberries, granola
Coffee
Peach kombucha
21 grain bread toasted, topped with butter, cheddar cheese, scrambled egg, everything bagel seasoning
Vanilla bean Greek yogurt, raspberries, granola
Coffee
Peach kombucha
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if shoes emasculate you perhaps the flaw is not the shoes but the masculinity
January 9, 2025 at 1:47 PM
if shoes emasculate you perhaps the flaw is not the shoes but the masculinity
Should I send this to my husband Y/N?
January 9, 2025 at 3:40 PM
Should I send this to my husband Y/N?
Just so pleased that we figured out travel plans for our trip next month, afa which night we'll be in which city, etc.
Also my dog puked up the cream cheese wrapper he ate THREE DAYS AGO. 😅
Just all the little reliefs tonight 🤗
Also my dog puked up the cream cheese wrapper he ate THREE DAYS AGO. 😅
Just all the little reliefs tonight 🤗
January 8, 2025 at 4:33 AM
Just so pleased that we figured out travel plans for our trip next month, afa which night we'll be in which city, etc.
Also my dog puked up the cream cheese wrapper he ate THREE DAYS AGO. 😅
Just all the little reliefs tonight 🤗
Also my dog puked up the cream cheese wrapper he ate THREE DAYS AGO. 😅
Just all the little reliefs tonight 🤗
Crab stuffed acorn squash. 🤗
January 7, 2025 at 12:11 AM
Crab stuffed acorn squash. 🤗
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Apple TV+ is free this weekend. My utterly biased suggestion: Little America. Every ep is a short film based on true stories of immigrants to America. Some are funny, some are moving, some are thrilling. We wanted to make a show about immigrants that was, before all else, entertaining.
January 5, 2025 at 12:46 AM
Apple TV+ is free this weekend. My utterly biased suggestion: Little America. Every ep is a short film based on true stories of immigrants to America. Some are funny, some are moving, some are thrilling. We wanted to make a show about immigrants that was, before all else, entertaining.
Got my 5yo Alexander and the Terrible Horrible No Good Very Bad Day and Alexander Who Used to be Rich Last Sunday. He eschewed them at first but requested Alexander Who Used to be Rich 3 times this week! Written in the 1970s!
I asked a child what their fave book from last year was and their answer was a series that was published about a decade ago. A good reminder that a book is always new to a child who hasn't read it. The constant publishing hustle for novelty has nothing to do with what children want. #KidLitUK
January 5, 2025 at 6:19 AM
Got my 5yo Alexander and the Terrible Horrible No Good Very Bad Day and Alexander Who Used to be Rich Last Sunday. He eschewed them at first but requested Alexander Who Used to be Rich 3 times this week! Written in the 1970s!
I enjoy a cosmic crisp every now and again but honeycrisp reigns supreme in my house. Unless I come across an evercrisp!
as a lifelong honeycrisp partisan i finally went out and tried a cosmic crisp after years of ppl yelling at me to do so
i am underwhelmed
i am underwhelmed
January 5, 2025 at 6:10 AM
I enjoy a cosmic crisp every now and again but honeycrisp reigns supreme in my house. Unless I come across an evercrisp!
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Husband texts me on his way home from hockey: still up?
Me: making banana waffles 💁🏻♀️
Me: making banana waffles 💁🏻♀️
January 5, 2025 at 5:33 AM
Husband texts me on his way home from hockey: still up?
Me: making banana waffles 💁🏻♀️
Me: making banana waffles 💁🏻♀️
Good things that are happening:
Good progress on final crochet gift(s) due Friday.
Going to Big Sad Xmas service on Thursday 🖤
We have a new hand-me-down TV in the spare room so I can watch a Xmas movie while I wrap and wrap and wrap
Went to Deck the Chairs tonight 🎄🛟
Good progress on final crochet gift(s) due Friday.
Going to Big Sad Xmas service on Thursday 🖤
We have a new hand-me-down TV in the spare room so I can watch a Xmas movie while I wrap and wrap and wrap
Went to Deck the Chairs tonight 🎄🛟
December 18, 2024 at 4:09 AM
Good things that are happening:
Good progress on final crochet gift(s) due Friday.
Going to Big Sad Xmas service on Thursday 🖤
We have a new hand-me-down TV in the spare room so I can watch a Xmas movie while I wrap and wrap and wrap
Went to Deck the Chairs tonight 🎄🛟
Good progress on final crochet gift(s) due Friday.
Going to Big Sad Xmas service on Thursday 🖤
We have a new hand-me-down TV in the spare room so I can watch a Xmas movie while I wrap and wrap and wrap
Went to Deck the Chairs tonight 🎄🛟
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SCIENTIST PLAYED BY MORGAN FREEMAN: It'll never work! We can't cool the planet by t-
SCIENTIST PLAYED BY STANLEY TUCCI: Mr. President, we are out of options. Let the Philadelphia Eagles tush push the Sun one yard away from Earth.
SCIENTIST PLAYED BY STANLEY TUCCI: Mr. President, we are out of options. Let the Philadelphia Eagles tush push the Sun one yard away from Earth.
December 16, 2024 at 2:01 PM
SCIENTIST PLAYED BY MORGAN FREEMAN: It'll never work! We can't cool the planet by t-
SCIENTIST PLAYED BY STANLEY TUCCI: Mr. President, we are out of options. Let the Philadelphia Eagles tush push the Sun one yard away from Earth.
SCIENTIST PLAYED BY STANLEY TUCCI: Mr. President, we are out of options. Let the Philadelphia Eagles tush push the Sun one yard away from Earth.
Realized it's been TEN YEARS since my late son's last Christmas. So. Gonna go cry about that for awhile.
December 16, 2024 at 2:10 PM
Realized it's been TEN YEARS since my late son's last Christmas. So. Gonna go cry about that for awhile.