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Fia 🏳️‍⚧️
@dogged-deer.bsky.social
28 • trans lesbian 🏳️‍⚧️ • Aspiring Musician • Based in Ireland 🇮🇪 • I like nerd stuff, art, and music (especially Jazz!) • minors DNI • Ⓐ

If you know me irl, just be cool
You can’t hear the backing track, and there’s a lot of things I don’t like in this clip, but some good things too
December 7, 2025 at 6:23 PM
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December 6, 2025 at 2:17 AM
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something that never happened to me before is when you are loved, your walls are slowly being taken down and you are surprised by your own self with discoveries

i have learned so much about myself, it's awesome

also, i love my wife so much
December 4, 2025 at 4:42 PM
I totally forgot to take any kind of video, but I actually got to practice music today, and that was nice. I just wish the studio wasn’t so cold 🥶
December 4, 2025 at 3:38 PM
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I think "financialize everything and create a tradable asset out of any difference in opinion" might be the worst thing I've ever read

the competition is strong but it's a real contender
The co-founder of Kalshi says: " The long-term vision is to financialize everything and create a tradable asset out of any difference in opinion."
December 3, 2025 at 11:16 PM
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i don't wish to not be trans but i sure do wish i was doing it in a kinder world.
December 3, 2025 at 5:27 AM
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There's a couple reasons so many IWW songs are set to the tunes of hymns and one is that the Salvation Army Band would show up and try to stop workers organizing by playing hymns to drown out speeches, so the Wobblies came up with words so they could sing along. SA has been trash all along.
It's that giving time of year again, so this is a reminder that no matter how they try to dress it up, the Salvation Army is not a charity.
December 3, 2025 at 2:09 AM
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ICE is a criminal organization that deserves prosecution to the last man, but also cops in general have been doing this to protesters for ages, and maybe we should understand it has always been this horrific
December 2, 2025 at 6:48 AM
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#bakedrhymes

I'm often fascinated
By manufactured strife
Mountains out of molehills
A traumatic take on life

Try a long deep breath
Close your eyes and sigh
I offer you this mantra
"Kiss girls until we die"
November 30, 2025 at 7:37 PM
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"YOU CANNOT COOK A DISH SO GOOD IT FORCES DINERS TO HAVE GOOD TABLE MANNERS"

is such a nice way to express "You cannot fix social problems with techological solutions", communicated in such a fluent way.

This is such a good post, I wanted to share it with you.
November 30, 2025 at 1:26 PM
Going for walks in Autumnal Texas to get cookies and lemonade from a local shop
What's a charming memory you have from the worst period of the pandemic?
November 30, 2025 at 4:58 AM
I’m not usually the poetry type, but maybe @halfbakedrhymes.com is getting to me
November 29, 2025 at 7:21 AM
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Anyone here have experience with using insulin syringes for subq hrt and can give me some advice? Please reskeet
November 27, 2025 at 3:18 AM
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You can literally say what you want about trans people and the UK courts are fine with it.

This was a *child*
November 25, 2025 at 10:37 AM
And now I’m having trouble getting back to sleep, heck
I got a rare cuddle as I went to bed, a bit earlier than usual and was woken up by her galloping around my room like a horse
November 24, 2025 at 1:31 AM
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bring back jazz fusion anime theme songs
November 23, 2025 at 5:02 PM
I love this muppet so much, she doesn’t like to cuddle much, but she’s always nearby, like a little shadow
November 23, 2025 at 6:02 PM
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Begging dudes to realize that these actors look like they do because of the male gaze
November 23, 2025 at 12:16 AM
I switched my facial jewelry from silver to gold, and got two nasal piercings so I can eventually get a chain across my nose. I think it looks really good and I’m excited for it
November 22, 2025 at 6:47 PM
Toxic yuri but it’s just my and my wife’s cats learning to get along. The late 30’s professional learning how to hold her tongue and the late 40s boss woman learning to not throw hands on sight
November 22, 2025 at 10:38 AM
I’m not keen on posting pictures of myself online but I do feel like I need help making my gender more legible given how consistently I’m misgendered

I don’t want to be super fem, but I also don’t think I should wear as many men’s clothes as I do, it’s just impossible to find others that fit
November 21, 2025 at 12:10 PM
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if you're transgender you have to live
November 20, 2025 at 3:23 PM
I kinda wish getting misgendered didn’t make me just dissociate for a few hours to get away from the discomfort
November 20, 2025 at 11:23 PM
Out to a jazz concert tonight 🥰
November 20, 2025 at 8:15 PM
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I think the more people talk about the AI bubble bursting, the more investors will fear it’ll burst, we can make this a self-fulfilling prophecy just by yapping enough
November 18, 2025 at 9:37 PM