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Brigid Keely She/Her
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Chicago. Parent. Fat. Bisexual. Bipolar II. Loud. Still masking. Kind of cute if you squint. Nerdy, but in a way that's fairly socially acceptable now. I have a kid, Nikole, who is she/they and a spouse, N, who is he/him.

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My husband is NOT a lawyer, but HAS dealt with some aspects of the hypothetical situation.

"Let's ask Chat GPT, a thing that skims general info and assumptions. SURELY it'll know more than a LAWYER who stated the question was too complex for a simple answer!"
November 23, 2025 at 5:57 PM
My husband didn't have an absolute answer - it was a complex question. But he was able to say "that absolutely won't work for reasons X, Y, and Z."

Note that the person posing the question had previously asked a lawyer who declined to answer, as it was outside of his field of expertise.
November 23, 2025 at 5:57 PM
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This is scratching an itch that's going to be a bigger thought -

about how the recurring failure of white American society is hearing about someone who's being marginalized, and meaning well and wanting to fix it... but thinking that changing a word is the beginning and end of the work.
November 23, 2025 at 7:25 AM
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And, for me personally, the insistance that all of this is totally secular, totally *unconnected* to the celebration of Jesus' birth, that only a grump wouldn't participate, is one of the most uncomfortable things about it.
November 23, 2025 at 12:57 PM
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It doesn't have to be ancient to be thoroughly Christian. And it doesn't have to be religious to be part of the celebration of a Christian holiday and alienating to non-Christians
November 23, 2025 at 7:35 AM
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During my tween/early-teen magic phase, I went to see a Penn and Teller show and chatted with them after. I asked their advice about being a magician.

Teller gave me a long, thoughtful answer about study and perseverance.

Penn said if I was interested in girls, quit magic and learn guitar.
November 23, 2025 at 2:51 AM
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I got to fly on a NASA/NOAA plane once that had old seats (cause it was an old plane), and the seats are bigger than the ones you get in Delta Comfort Plus.

An unspoken thing though is flights in the Golden Era of travel were way way way more expensive and slower.
What Flights Used to Cost in the 'Golden Age' of Air Travel
Explore how airfare costs from the golden age of travel compare to today's prices. Airfares are cheaper and more accessible now than ever before.
www.travelandleisure.com
November 23, 2025 at 2:46 AM
Oh lol the first episode is free but we have to pay for the rest.

It's how they get you!!!
November 23, 2025 at 2:24 AM
With.

but possibly dunked in.
November 23, 2025 at 12:33 AM
I'm so sorry that raccoons torment you so.

My husband has similar issues with possums, his great nemesis.
November 22, 2025 at 3:34 AM
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housing crisis could solve itself if more conservatives self deported to russia to escape the gays
November 22, 2025 at 2:48 AM
Something To Look Forward To

It's a gift for Future Me
November 22, 2025 at 3:31 AM