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BB🏳️‍🌈🏴‍☠️🏳️‍⚧️Stedephile
@tanteclem.bsky.social
she/her, amateur actor, Trekkie, Whovian, Ineffable Pirate-Shipper, Sozialdemokratin and more; tante_clem on IG, Stedephile on AO3, @tanteclem on Twitter

https://archiveofourown.org/users/Stedephile/works
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I started #MumHugSunday over on the other app in January for the #OurFlagMeansDeath fandom and beyond, and I'm bringing it over here now, too!
If you would like a virtual mum hug, please reply to this post or send me a message!
Here are my sweet childhood friends from earlier this year. There's some heavy themes and emotional hurt/comfort in there but they are very fluffy as well!

archiveofourown.org/works/646765...
November 14, 2025 at 5:47 PM
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ok folks, you want a fic spreadsheet, come help fill in a fic spreadsheet! i threw The Reno Cure on there as an example since it covers a lot of the columns in different ways.

it's editable by everyone, let me know if you have any questions
docs.google.com/spreadsheets...
OFMD Fics
docs.google.com
November 13, 2025 at 7:46 PM
10 random things you like:

A bed freshly made with beaver cloth
Chocolate caramel cake
Building lego sets
Planning multi-course meals
Closet cosplay
Hot showers
Autumn leaves
Rabbits
Drinking Ipanemas and crunching the sugar into the limes with my straw
Pathetic little men in films and TV shows
10 random things that you like:

My kids laughing so hard they cry
Falling down a research rabbithole
Sunny days with scattered clouds
Ladybugs
Strawberry matcha lattes
Fun dangly earrings
A brand new ball of yarn
Finding that one perfect song
Travelling, anywhere
Food that tastes just right
Get to know your mutuals. List 10 random things that you like.

Stracciatella gelato
Greek mythology
Fall, especially when the cold air takes hold
Singing
Pineapple
Long walks
Travel
Elephants
Mountains
The smell of the soil after the first rainfall of the season
November 13, 2025 at 8:51 AM
I bitch about GEMA a lot when I have to fill in their forms for music use in our theatre productions or they accidentally charge us too much etc. However, I've always acknowledged their necessity and appreciated the protection they afford especially lesser known composers, like my brother! Go GEMA!
November 12, 2025 at 8:44 AM
These are really so great! My kid has made me several embroideries after Alice's patterns and I love them all!
Hello! Just a reminder that I have multiple free cross stitch OFMD patterns on my Kofi! Mostly crew patterns (one Stede), varying difficulty. If you are UK crew and would like to try cross stitch but can't afford supplies I will also happily send you some by post 🧵🪡💜

ko-fi.com/thesearethek...
November 9, 2025 at 5:45 PM
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Sad to have to post this - Further pictures from Christine Wada’s panel are being circulated, despite my clear request they not be. I do not have permission sharing these, and spreading them not only damages my reputation but also any chance of future events and guests sharing exclusive material.
November 7, 2025 at 5:12 PM
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Guess I should make more of those…
"Over 84 million American adults say they’re more likely to watch a TV show if it features at least one LGBTQ+ character,” Townsend said. "… This audience has continued to tune in year after year.”
Nearly Half of All LGBTQ+ Characters Will Disappear From TV Next Season, GLAAD Study Finds
The 2024-25 TV season recorded 489 queer characters across broadcast, cable and screenings, but cancellations and plot find a deep decline to come
www.thewrap.com
November 6, 2025 at 8:38 PM
Hi all and welcome to another #MumHugSunday
I'm a bit out of the loop these days, so please let me know if there's anything you'd like to celebrate with a virtual mum hug or something making you sad that you'd need a hug against.
For loooooove! ♥️
I started #MumHugSunday over on the other app in January for the #OurFlagMeansDeath fandom and beyond, and I'm bringing it over here now, too!
If you would like a virtual mum hug, please reply to this post or send me a message!
November 2, 2025 at 3:16 PM
I finally managed to sit at my laptop for long enough to type up another chapter of Stede's Apartment ...
Sorry to have left you hanging for so long!

archiveofourown.org/works/695009...
Stede's Apartment - Chapter 6 - Stedephile - Our Flag Means Death (TV) [Archive of Our Own]
An Archive of Our Own, a project of the Organization for Transformative Works
archiveofourown.org
October 29, 2025 at 9:39 PM
Sorry guys (gn), I missed #MumHugSunday last week!
Double virtual mum hugs for everyone who wants them this week... Please DM me or reply to this post!
For loooooove! ♥️
I started #MumHugSunday over on the other app in January for the #OurFlagMeansDeath fandom and beyond, and I'm bringing it over here now, too!
If you would like a virtual mum hug, please reply to this post or send me a message!
October 26, 2025 at 2:03 PM
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Here you go!

Vacuums fun best on solar by @adamarks.bsky.social

on.soundcloud.com/QFVXDQuSzxYj...

And Are you ready to roomba? By @tanteclem.bsky.social

on.soundcloud.com/yQR4oAux9o5l...

Please refer any future Stede as Roomba fics directly to me!
Vacuums run best on solar
https://archiveofourown.org/works/61630573#main Fun couples’ activities: 1. going antiquing 2. building your partner a new body. - Stede is a Roomba that’s gained consciousness. Ed tries to give him
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October 23, 2025 at 5:38 PM
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happy calypso's birthday to all who celebrate 🥹❤️‍🩹
October 19, 2025 at 3:13 PM
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New baking class! Nov 22nd where we’ll bake my signature profiteroles👨🏾‍🍳 And get yourself a Tender As Hell tote bag too, perfect for Halloween candy or holiday shopping🫶 Join us as we raise money for Feeding America & spread some love and tenderness just in time for Thanksgiving❤️🙏🏾
#OurFlagMeansDeath
October 14, 2025 at 6:37 PM
In honour of these lil guys getting finished, can I interest you in "How To Be A Pie-Rat" for #TakeTwoTuesday?

archiveofourown.org/works/555030...
October 14, 2025 at 2:29 PM
Still reaping rewards from the #ofmdcraftfair!
@multifandomhomo.bsky.social made a cross-stitch pattern out of my kid's art and they just finished embroidering it for me! 🥹
Cuddly Gentlebeard from my fic "How To Be A Pie-Rat" 🐹🐀
Thank you so much to my kid and to Jeremy! ♥️
October 13, 2025 at 9:21 AM
Hi all!
It's #MumHugSunday again!
If you promise not to squeeze my back too hard I'm happy to give out virtual mum hugs for everyone who wants one. Just DM me or reply to this post!
For loooooove! ♥️
I started #MumHugSunday over on the other app in January for the #OurFlagMeansDeath fandom and beyond, and I'm bringing it over here now, too!
If you would like a virtual mum hug, please reply to this post or send me a message!
October 12, 2025 at 2:30 PM
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Happy 50th Birthday Nat Faxon. #HappyBirthdayNatFaxon #NatFaxon #Birthday
October 12, 2025 at 4:54 AM
If you've been wondering what the worst thing is about falling down the stairs first thing in the morning, cracking a vertebra, getting a migraine in hospital and sharing your room with a mentally disabled person yelling day and night and a grandma muttering to herself about it: It's the grandma.
October 10, 2025 at 5:19 AM
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Happy Birthday @david-jenkins.bsky.social! 💜🦄🏴‍☠️🧜🏼‍♂️🐙🍊
October 8, 2025 at 1:10 PM
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Rhys Darby on hit Dropout TV show Make Some Noise I AM BEGGING.
October 7, 2025 at 3:52 PM
GIVE US OUR SHOW BACK!

#OFMD
October 6, 2025 at 6:25 PM
Happy Birthday to this scene of all scenes

#OFMD
October 5, 2025 at 8:23 PM
Hi all! It's #MumHugSunday again!
I hope everyone is holding up fine. If you need a virtual mum hug, please DM me or reply to this post!
For loooooove!!! ♥️
I started #MumHugSunday over on the other app in January for the #OurFlagMeansDeath fandom and beyond, and I'm bringing it over here now, too!
If you would like a virtual mum hug, please reply to this post or send me a message!
October 5, 2025 at 4:28 PM
Chapter five is live.

Things are getting worse before they get better in Stede's Apartment

archiveofourown.org/works/695009...
Stede's Apartment - Chapter 5 - Stedephile - Our Flag Means Death (TV) [Archive of Our Own]
An Archive of Our Own, a project of the Organization for Transformative Works
archiveofourown.org
October 2, 2025 at 9:59 PM