Cate (Your Wife)
@kallaipdx.com
Debut LP “We Are Forever” out on @littlecloudrecords this Fall
Guitars / Synths / Vocals / Production for kallaipdx.com
Guitars for Luscious Apparatus
Co-organizer for Dreamgaze PDX Festival
Shoegazing Mathemagician.
Friend of Dax. Hella Queer.
Guitars / Synths / Vocals / Production for kallaipdx.com
Guitars for Luscious Apparatus
Co-organizer for Dreamgaze PDX Festival
Shoegazing Mathemagician.
Friend of Dax. Hella Queer.
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This is a public health crisis and cis people acting like it isn’t because it targets trans children primarily (even though it will affect cis children too!!) is nasty business
RFK Jr. announces new rules targeting care for transgender youth
If approved, the proposed federal regulations would dramatically impact an already challenging landscape.
19thnews.org
December 30, 2025 at 12:24 PM
This is a public health crisis and cis people acting like it isn’t because it targets trans children primarily (even though it will affect cis children too!!) is nasty business
Last night was fun.
I don’t want to ever have that much 🍷 again, though.
How much🍷?
Enough that I forgot taking this picture after we got home.
I don’t want to ever have that much 🍷 again, though.
How much🍷?
Enough that I forgot taking this picture after we got home.
December 30, 2025 at 1:20 AM
Last night was fun.
I don’t want to ever have that much 🍷 again, though.
How much🍷?
Enough that I forgot taking this picture after we got home.
I don’t want to ever have that much 🍷 again, though.
How much🍷?
Enough that I forgot taking this picture after we got home.
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this seems specifically designed to break mail-in voting (where deadlines are defined by postmark)
As of 12/24/25, USPS changed policy on when they postmark mail. Mail dropped off is no longer guaranteed a same-day postmark. Tax returns & other time-sensitive items are now stamped when they reach a regional processing center, which may be days later. Plan deadlines accordingly to avoid penalties.
USPS Announces Changes to the Postmark Date System
The United States Postal Service (USPS) has adopted a final rule (FR Doc.
share.google
December 29, 2025 at 9:51 PM
this seems specifically designed to break mail-in voting (where deadlines are defined by postmark)
We are either out for a fancy occasion dinner or shooting promo photos for our new wave duo act.
December 29, 2025 at 2:17 AM
We are either out for a fancy occasion dinner or shooting promo photos for our new wave duo act.
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Our year in review
DOWNLOADS AND CDS: shorediverecords.bandcamp.com
VINYL: elasticstage.com/shorediverec...
#shorediverecords #shoegaze #indie #alternative #dreampop
DOWNLOADS AND CDS: shorediverecords.bandcamp.com
VINYL: elasticstage.com/shorediverec...
#shorediverecords #shoegaze #indie #alternative #dreampop
December 28, 2025 at 9:20 PM
Our year in review
DOWNLOADS AND CDS: shorediverecords.bandcamp.com
VINYL: elasticstage.com/shorediverec...
#shorediverecords #shoegaze #indie #alternative #dreampop
DOWNLOADS AND CDS: shorediverecords.bandcamp.com
VINYL: elasticstage.com/shorediverec...
#shorediverecords #shoegaze #indie #alternative #dreampop
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It's been an incredibly tough year, but losing my job due to transphobia and being unable to find work for 8 months has been one of the hardest parts. Financially my family is in dire straits, and any small amount you can give will be appreciated forever.
www.gofundme.com/f/support-da...
www.gofundme.com/f/support-da...
Donate to Support Dani Froom's Urgent Dental Treatment, organized by Danielle Froom
Hi! My name is Dani Froom and I'm raising money to help with medical costs… Danielle Froom needs your support for Support Dani Froom's Urgent Dental Treatment
www.gofundme.com
December 28, 2025 at 3:56 PM
It's been an incredibly tough year, but losing my job due to transphobia and being unable to find work for 8 months has been one of the hardest parts. Financially my family is in dire straits, and any small amount you can give will be appreciated forever.
www.gofundme.com/f/support-da...
www.gofundme.com/f/support-da...
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I only have a few days left to make rent. I know people usually don’t have much to spare this time if year, but please consider pitching in a little if you’re able. It would mean a lot to me. Thank you! ❤️
I make very little dollary doos and live in a very expensive city. If I’ve ever made you laugh or think and you can spare a few dollars, please consider tipping!
Paypal and Interac are both
sincerelynataliereed
at
gmail
❤️❤️❤️
Paypal and Interac are both
sincerelynataliereed
at
gmail
❤️❤️❤️
December 28, 2025 at 12:16 AM
I only have a few days left to make rent. I know people usually don’t have much to spare this time if year, but please consider pitching in a little if you’re able. It would mean a lot to me. Thank you! ❤️
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Trans folks, I would be absolutely *thrilled* if you would tell me something great that happened to you this year.
December 27, 2025 at 6:49 PM
Trans folks, I would be absolutely *thrilled* if you would tell me something great that happened to you this year.
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post a perfect album from the 90s that isn't nirvana, soundgarden, pearl jam, or alice in chains.
Curve - Doppelganger
www.youtube.com/watch?v=DmxT...
Curve - Doppelganger
www.youtube.com/watch?v=DmxT...
December 28, 2025 at 1:35 AM
post a perfect album from the 90s that isn't nirvana, soundgarden, pearl jam, or alice in chains.
Curve - Doppelganger
www.youtube.com/watch?v=DmxT...
Curve - Doppelganger
www.youtube.com/watch?v=DmxT...
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34 votes behind. Vote for #iHunt: Loose Threads for short of the year!
We were in first place in this film award voting.
A film made purely with AI just netted over 150 votes in 12 hours.
Now it's personal.
Please. Help us kick this THING's ass fair and square. ART FOR ARTISTS.
Reshare? VOTE!
www.shortoftheyear.com/audience-cho...
A film made purely with AI just netted over 150 votes in 12 hours.
Now it's personal.
Please. Help us kick this THING's ass fair and square. ART FOR ARTISTS.
Reshare? VOTE!
www.shortoftheyear.com/audience-cho...
Audience Choice Awards | Short of the Year
Vote for your favorite short films in the Short of the Year Audience Choice Awards. Watch, vote, and support independent filmmakers.
www.shortoftheyear.com
December 27, 2025 at 10:51 PM
34 votes behind. Vote for #iHunt: Loose Threads for short of the year!
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We were in first place in this film award voting.
A film made purely with AI just netted over 150 votes in 12 hours.
Now it's personal.
Please. Help us kick this THING's ass fair and square. ART FOR ARTISTS.
Reshare? VOTE!
www.shortoftheyear.com/audience-cho...
A film made purely with AI just netted over 150 votes in 12 hours.
Now it's personal.
Please. Help us kick this THING's ass fair and square. ART FOR ARTISTS.
Reshare? VOTE!
www.shortoftheyear.com/audience-cho...
Audience Choice Awards | Short of the Year
Vote for your favorite short films in the Short of the Year Audience Choice Awards. Watch, vote, and support independent filmmakers.
www.shortoftheyear.com
December 27, 2025 at 6:44 PM
We were in first place in this film award voting.
A film made purely with AI just netted over 150 votes in 12 hours.
Now it's personal.
Please. Help us kick this THING's ass fair and square. ART FOR ARTISTS.
Reshare? VOTE!
www.shortoftheyear.com/audience-cho...
A film made purely with AI just netted over 150 votes in 12 hours.
Now it's personal.
Please. Help us kick this THING's ass fair and square. ART FOR ARTISTS.
Reshare? VOTE!
www.shortoftheyear.com/audience-cho...
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I remember a presenter was asked specifically if Trans Women were welcome to attend a woman centered workshop later that day
Her response "well, I suppose we'll just have to make it open to everyone including men then"
Queer equality was a central theme at this gathering of about 3000 btw...
Her response "well, I suppose we'll just have to make it open to everyone including men then"
Queer equality was a central theme at this gathering of about 3000 btw...
There are a lot of things people get wrong about trans women but "making this space welcoming to cis men will make it more welcoming to trans women!" is I think the most wrong and also most common thing that a lot of folks are maddeningly attached to.
December 27, 2025 at 6:03 PM
I remember a presenter was asked specifically if Trans Women were welcome to attend a woman centered workshop later that day
Her response "well, I suppose we'll just have to make it open to everyone including men then"
Queer equality was a central theme at this gathering of about 3000 btw...
Her response "well, I suppose we'll just have to make it open to everyone including men then"
Queer equality was a central theme at this gathering of about 3000 btw...
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ICYMI, join Guy, Steve, Michelle and Lloyd as the crew of the USS Challenger in this Star Trek Adventures 2nd Edition series! 🚀
Catch up on the playlist: buff.ly/5dgTnWb
#startrek #ttrpg
Catch up on the playlist: buff.ly/5dgTnWb
#startrek #ttrpg
Star Trek Adventures - Yesterday's Ghosts
An abandoned stellar observatory on the edges of a dangerous system. What has happened here? Why are the crew in hiding? Who is the 'helpful' presence that s...
buff.ly
December 27, 2025 at 6:02 PM
ICYMI, join Guy, Steve, Michelle and Lloyd as the crew of the USS Challenger in this Star Trek Adventures 2nd Edition series! 🚀
Catch up on the playlist: buff.ly/5dgTnWb
#startrek #ttrpg
Catch up on the playlist: buff.ly/5dgTnWb
#startrek #ttrpg
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Your assignment for 2026 is to give trans people money
if you're still looking for a great place to spend your christmas money you should check out my merch store!!
a lot of the launch products are probably going to be gone soon!
shop.crimew.gay
a lot of the launch products are probably going to be gone soon!
shop.crimew.gay
December 27, 2025 at 5:23 PM
Your assignment for 2026 is to give trans people money
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also, this show is tomorrow in troy NY. come out. it’s going to be a banger and i’d love to see you there
December 26, 2025 at 2:57 PM
also, this show is tomorrow in troy NY. come out. it’s going to be a banger and i’d love to see you there
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Give them money
ko-fi.com/d7th/goal?g=0
They're a talented artist and photographer and mua and a longtime friend and also FIWF
thornhawthorne.com
ko-fi.com/d7th/goal?g=0
They're a talented artist and photographer and mua and a longtime friend and also FIWF
thornhawthorne.com
D-7th
thornhawthorne.com
December 27, 2025 at 2:04 AM
Give them money
ko-fi.com/d7th/goal?g=0
They're a talented artist and photographer and mua and a longtime friend and also FIWF
thornhawthorne.com
ko-fi.com/d7th/goal?g=0
They're a talented artist and photographer and mua and a longtime friend and also FIWF
thornhawthorne.com
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Ken White, notoriously definitely-not-a-bigot-and-just-friends-with-bigots, has thoughts on whether institutionalized social exclusion and legalized bullying of trans kids is "productive conversation".
Full disclosure: Ken White, a lawyer I quote in this story, is claiming I took him out of context. The assertion is without merit.
You can see the exact email here.
You can see the exact email here.
December 27, 2025 at 12:02 AM
Ken White, notoriously definitely-not-a-bigot-and-just-friends-with-bigots, has thoughts on whether institutionalized social exclusion and legalized bullying of trans kids is "productive conversation".
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you can pick-up a copy through our Bandcamp. Highly recommend grabbing a vinyl copy of that is your thing. We’re down to the last 60 out of 200 copies we have available for direct sales online or at shows. After that you’ll have to find one of the handful left through retail or Little Cloud Records.
December 26, 2025 at 8:00 PM
you can pick-up a copy through our Bandcamp. Highly recommend grabbing a vinyl copy of that is your thing. We’re down to the last 60 out of 200 copies we have available for direct sales online or at shows. After that you’ll have to find one of the handful left through retail or Little Cloud Records.
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R.I.P. Perry Bamonte, guitarist and keyboardist for @thecure.com
The Cure's Perry Bamonte Dead At 65
Perry Bamonte, guitarist and keyboardist for the Cure, has died. According to a statement the band shared on their website, Bamonte passed away from a short illness over Christmas at his home. He was ...
stereogum.com
December 26, 2025 at 7:26 PM
R.I.P. Perry Bamonte, guitarist and keyboardist for @thecure.com
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trans people if you did nothing else this year you made it through 12 months of the federal government having your extermination not low on its list of priorities and you can feel really good about that it’s a big deal
December 26, 2025 at 9:01 PM
trans people if you did nothing else this year you made it through 12 months of the federal government having your extermination not low on its list of priorities and you can feel really good about that it’s a big deal
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Have done this multiple times, highly recommend.
Well this is kind of neat. Our album made destroy//exist’s top 40 albums of the year. Nice to see they recommend listening to it all in one go, since that’s how we intended it to work.
2025 End Of Year Lists: Albums Of The Year
Underground music and pop culture through the pains of existence Shoegaze, post punk, noise rock, post rock, post metal, gothic, darkwave, alternative
www.destroyexist.com
December 26, 2025 at 8:11 PM
Have done this multiple times, highly recommend.
you can pick-up a copy through our Bandcamp. Highly recommend grabbing a vinyl copy of that is your thing. We’re down to the last 60 out of 200 copies we have available for direct sales online or at shows. After that you’ll have to find one of the handful left through retail or Little Cloud Records.
December 26, 2025 at 8:00 PM
you can pick-up a copy through our Bandcamp. Highly recommend grabbing a vinyl copy of that is your thing. We’re down to the last 60 out of 200 copies we have available for direct sales online or at shows. After that you’ll have to find one of the handful left through retail or Little Cloud Records.