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J Way
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No time for u Serina ass hoes
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There are MANY alternatives to adoption.
Don’t blame adoptees for your own lack of imagination or insight.
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I think it's totally fine and healthy to take puppies and kittens away from their mother immediately after birth and give them up away to a new family.
October 23, 2025 at 3:29 AM
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Since 2016, Arizona’s Department of Child Safety has paid out $30 million in settlements, most for wrongful child removals.

These aren’t isolated incidents. They’re proof that the family policing system causes harm and then makes taxpayers pay for it.

#adopteesky
October 24, 2025 at 2:02 PM
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Michigan invalidates advance directives and living wills when women are pregnant.

Residents have filed a lawsuit challenging this pregnancy exclusion, arguing it violates the right to reproductive freedom in the state constitution.
Michigan women, doctors sue over end-of-life choices during pregnancy
Nine Michigan residents are suing Gov. Gretchen Whitmer (D) and other state officials over a law that voids a pregnant patient’s health care advance directive.
www.washingtonpost.com
October 23, 2025 at 8:30 PM
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The Pentagon announces they are replacing The New York Times’ press credentials with the MyPillow guy’s media outlet.
October 22, 2025 at 8:02 PM
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Trump rewarded Changpeng Zhao, a business partner who boosted his crypto venture, with a pardon for crimes that Zhao pleaded guilty to.

Trading presidential favors for self-interest.

You can’t get more classically corrupt than this.
Q: On the pardon of Changpeng Zhao, Binance has significant business interests with World Liberty Financial, the president family's crypto company. How do you respond to criticisms that this is a corrupt act?

LEAVITT: I would respond and say the president is exercising his constitutional authority
October 23, 2025 at 6:16 PM
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Argentina got 40 billion of our tax money and now owns the cattle market. Murica
a bald eagle wearing sunglasses and a yellow glove
ALT: a bald eagle wearing sunglasses and a yellow glove
media.tenor.com
October 23, 2025 at 5:54 PM
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lots of people on the verge of a menty b without access to a therapist or other mental health tools like behavior coaching and are picking fights online because it's easier than mentally processing $20 billion to Argentina, endless tariffs, a recession, and the East Wing at the WH being destroyed
October 23, 2025 at 5:47 PM
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Hey #adoptee folks on here 🥚, curious if anyone's done research or has thoughts on adoptees who are polyamorous or otherwise non-monogamous. Looking for essays, perspectives, articles, whatever.
October 23, 2025 at 2:44 PM
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the relation of parent to child is one of stewardship, not ownership. but #adoption is designed to confer legal parenthood through the issuing of false birth records, which give the adopters permanent ownership of the adoptee's identity. why can't adult adoptees legally emancipate themselves?
April 7, 2025 at 11:39 AM
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16 year old Kanaiyah Ward died alone in a Baltimore hotel while under DHS “care.”

Maryland promised to end foster youth hotel placements years ago.

How many more?

#adopteesky #JusticeForKanaiyah
October 13, 2025 at 2:00 PM
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“The most effective way to destroy people is to deny and obliterate their history.”

"The Girl Who Could Move Sh*t with Her Mind" (2019) by Jackson Ford

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September 3, 2025 at 6:28 PM
To be fair, adoption as practiced is also deeply dehumanizing.
The interchangeability of terms between adoption of people and that of animals is deeply dehumanizing
August 7, 2025 at 10:09 PM
I forget egg.

Extra egg for inconvenience

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Here is my public list of films featuring adoption/foster/related concepts on Letterboxd 🖤 let me know if you notice I’ve missed anything or would like me to watch/review anything already on the list (120 titles total currently) boxd.it/wB7Eg
Adoptees Crossing Lines
Zaira & J Way
boxd.it
August 7, 2025 at 3:04 PM
Here is my public list of films featuring adoption/foster/related concepts on Letterboxd 🖤 let me know if you notice I’ve missed anything or would like me to watch/review anything already on the list (120 titles total currently) boxd.it/wB7Eg
Adoptees Crossing Lines
Zaira & J Way
boxd.it
August 7, 2025 at 3:02 PM
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Blatant baby selling with "voluntary" relinquishments for those underage teen moms who give up their babies to big money university donors.🥚
My face when I heard that Liberty University offered full ride scholarships to underage teen moms for *decades* contingent on them being shipped off to a maternity home and giving their newborns up to University-approved couples who happened to be big alumni donors:
a man wearing a watch is covering his mouth with his hand
Alt: Miss Jay clutching himself lest the evil of that story reach him.
media.tenor.com
August 5, 2025 at 6:53 PM
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My face when I heard that Liberty University offered full ride scholarships to underage teen moms for *decades* contingent on them being shipped off to a maternity home and giving their newborns up to University-approved couples who happened to be big alumni donors:
a man wearing a watch is covering his mouth with his hand
Alt: Miss Jay clutching himself lest the evil of that story reach him.
media.tenor.com
July 8, 2025 at 4:22 PM
Absolutely floored by this reporting. BEGGING @aurabogado.bsky.social for an update on Doña Amalia’s stolen grandchildren—and the migrant kids still being torn from their families by #ICERaids.

What happened to the girl who exposed all the shady stuff with ORR’s contracted foster homes?
August 6, 2025 at 8:38 PM
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If you need help obtaining birth information from the state of Michigan, we have you covered. Please join us for this free online workshop tomorrow night. #adopteerights #michiganadoptee 🥚 www.meetup.com/metro-detroi...
How To Apply For Your Michigan Birth Information, Adoptee Workshop, Tue, Aug 5, 2025, 6:30 PM | Meetup
**HOW TO APPLY FOR YOUR MICHIGAN BIRTH INFORMATION** **ADOPTEE WORKSHOP** This online workshop is designed for Michigan Adult Adoptees who are struggling to navigate the p
www.meetup.com
August 4, 2025 at 6:57 PM
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Troy was found dead inside a washing machine. His adoptive father, Jemaine Thomas, has been sentenced to 50 years in prison; his mother awaits sentencing. Troy was a curious, joyful boy who loved learning ...and he matters to us too. 🥚
#adopteejustice
'He mattered to me': Teacher speaks out after adoptive father sentenced in 7-year-old's murder
"I am the teacher who called CPS twice," said the boy's first-grade teacher, who once tried to raise the alarm about her student's safety before he was killed.
abc13.com
August 5, 2025 at 4:04 PM
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my legal and social identities were changed and my past was hidden.

nameless brokers steered me out of one family and community and into another.

money changed hands to bring it about.

i had no possibility of consenting to any of it.

but you call it “rescue” and none dare call it trafficking. 🥚
July 10, 2025 at 9:54 AM
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Understand that identity erasure is the bedrock of #adoption as we know it. It’s entirely independent of the distinction between “closed” and “open” adoptions. Virtually every adoption decree results in the adoptee receiving a *new birth certificate*, as if their very origins had been transformed.
erasure of identity is no less real
July 11, 2025 at 1:54 AM
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"i'm sorry you had a bad #adoption experience"

i didn't, but i'm glad you're having a good ignorance experience
#adoption is not an “experience” so much as it is a status. a second-class legal status.

to the extent that there is a common “adoption experience” i would call it a type of socially sanctioned gaslighting.
July 11, 2025 at 1:03 PM
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Doesn't matter who's good or bad within a racist, classist system intentionally designed to uphold a particular standard of parenting by punishing those deemed undeserving.

It's our duty to be absolute in our negativity when discussing systems whose sole purpose is to destroy families.

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definitely not always, and same true for step-parents, and same true for bio-parents (I know), but don't discount the good adoptive parents there are (I know some). we don't want to be as absolute in our negativity as the other side is - do we?
July 11, 2025 at 4:37 PM
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Adoptees 🥚 when they introduce themselves invariably have to talk about their adoption situation and make it a polarized "good" or "bad" situation. But I refuse to comfort Kept, especially APs. If you're going to challenge me, then I'm going to talk statistics and you know, reality.
July 12, 2025 at 8:02 PM