Jess Kyle (Data Bae)
@databae.bsky.social
Data engineer in the streets, emotional literacy coach in the sheets. I’ll help you feel and discuss your emotions AND clean up your ETL pipeline all in the same day 💅🏻
Come for the math behind why the 9-9-6 is total bullshit, stay for the unironic sour fart metaphor open.substack.com/pub/humanfir...
Don't Believe the Gaslighting about Work-Life Balance
Who benefits when we start believing that the only way to have a meaningful life is to center it around work?
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November 25, 2025 at 2:46 AM
Come for the math behind why the 9-9-6 is total bullshit, stay for the unironic sour fart metaphor open.substack.com/pub/humanfir...
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i say this about once every six months but that final A Tribe Called Quest record is truly extraordinary. could make a legitimate case that it is their best record, which by default makes it one of the greatest hip-hop albums of all time
September 11, 2025 at 10:20 PM
i say this about once every six months but that final A Tribe Called Quest record is truly extraordinary. could make a legitimate case that it is their best record, which by default makes it one of the greatest hip-hop albums of all time
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when two of your friends start hooking up and the rest of you know it’ll end in disaster
August 30, 2025 at 3:32 PM
when two of your friends start hooking up and the rest of you know it’ll end in disaster
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when it happens... I will be online ALL day. cancel my appointments. hold my calls. "what were you doing when you found out?" my grandchildren will ask. "the posts, children, I was reading the posts!!" I'll say, and we'll all crowd around my scrapbook containing the best ones
August 30, 2025 at 3:31 AM
when it happens... I will be online ALL day. cancel my appointments. hold my calls. "what were you doing when you found out?" my grandchildren will ask. "the posts, children, I was reading the posts!!" I'll say, and we'll all crowd around my scrapbook containing the best ones
www.tiktok.com/t/ZTjmpMu3W/ What if it’s clear that everyone likes you, but you still feel like you don’t belong?
Everyone at work seems to like you, but you can’t let yourself believe that it’s true… what gives?! #corporatelife #beyourself #belonging #speakyourtruth #emotionalintelligence
TikTok video by Jess | Feels & Comms Coach
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May 20, 2025 at 11:52 AM
www.tiktok.com/t/ZTjmpMu3W/ What if it’s clear that everyone likes you, but you still feel like you don’t belong?
Are you struggling to communicate w someone in your life? Feeling anxious or avoiding certain interactions altogether?
I’m doing a new TikTok series called Say the Things. My intention is to give people language they can use to have more peaceful and productive conversations. #communicationskills
I’m doing a new TikTok series called Say the Things. My intention is to give people language they can use to have more peaceful and productive conversations. #communicationskills
May 7, 2025 at 2:10 PM
Are you struggling to communicate w someone in your life? Feeling anxious or avoiding certain interactions altogether?
I’m doing a new TikTok series called Say the Things. My intention is to give people language they can use to have more peaceful and productive conversations. #communicationskills
I’m doing a new TikTok series called Say the Things. My intention is to give people language they can use to have more peaceful and productive conversations. #communicationskills
How to get back on track if you catch yourself rambling in a job interview! #interviewtips www.tiktok.com/t/ZTj6SF5DB/
This technique will get you back on track if you find yourself rambling in an interview. #interviewtips #fyp #jobinterview
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April 23, 2025 at 8:37 PM
How to get back on track if you catch yourself rambling in a job interview! #interviewtips www.tiktok.com/t/ZTj6SF5DB/
April 21, 2025 at 2:22 AM
Here’s how to stop #overthinking in its tracks.
April 18, 2025 at 9:13 PM
Here’s how to stop #overthinking in its tracks.
Here’s a sneaky way to find out about a candidate’s management style. #interviewtips
April 18, 2025 at 1:17 PM
Here’s a sneaky way to find out about a candidate’s management style. #interviewtips
Check yourself before you wreck yourself - don’t derail that job interview by not being in touch with your emotions or giving a wrong answer as to why you want to work there! #jobsearch #interviewtips
April 17, 2025 at 11:55 PM
Check yourself before you wreck yourself - don’t derail that job interview by not being in touch with your emotions or giving a wrong answer as to why you want to work there! #jobsearch #interviewtips
Empathy is a hot topic right now, but a lot of folks are misunderstanding what empathy IS. #signalboost
April 17, 2025 at 4:07 PM
Empathy is a hot topic right now, but a lot of folks are misunderstanding what empathy IS. #signalboost
Be ready to answer this question in your next job interview. #interviewtips
April 17, 2025 at 1:49 AM
Be ready to answer this question in your next job interview. #interviewtips
Ok but does your bestie have a bottomless capacity to unpack your feelings with you? #friendgoals #feelings #ivegotyou
April 15, 2025 at 10:58 PM
Ok but does your bestie have a bottomless capacity to unpack your feelings with you? #friendgoals #feelings #ivegotyou
Often when we say we are jealous, we actually mean we are envious. I’ll tell you why you should care. #jealousy #emotionalliteracy #selfawareness
April 15, 2025 at 12:36 PM
Often when we say we are jealous, we actually mean we are envious. I’ll tell you why you should care. #jealousy #emotionalliteracy #selfawareness
Here’s how #emotionalliteracy can help you with your next interview. #interviewprep
April 15, 2025 at 12:12 AM
Here’s how #emotionalliteracy can help you with your next interview. #interviewprep
Have you wondered what the difference is between #emotionalliteracy and #emotionalintelligence?
April 14, 2025 at 4:03 PM
Have you wondered what the difference is between #emotionalliteracy and #emotionalintelligence?
Do you have job interviews coming up? About 30 min before it starts, do a heavy breathing exercise, quiet your mind, and get clear on how you’re feeling and what questions you have about the opportunity. If you don’t even know how you feel, you won’t be able to connect w the interviewer. #interviews
April 14, 2025 at 4:01 PM
Do you have job interviews coming up? About 30 min before it starts, do a heavy breathing exercise, quiet your mind, and get clear on how you’re feeling and what questions you have about the opportunity. If you don’t even know how you feel, you won’t be able to connect w the interviewer. #interviews
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Here are 5 often overlooked contributors to anxiety. Do any of these apply to you?
Here are 5 often overlooked contributors to anxiety. Do any of these apply to you?
Many folks are feeling heightened anxiety right now. Here are a few often overlooked contributors to anxiety and how you can address them. #fyp #mentalhealth #anxiety #selfimprovement
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April 12, 2025 at 3:41 PM
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Here are 5 often overlooked contributors to anxiety. Do any of these apply to you?
Here are 5 often overlooked contributors to anxiety. Do any of these apply to you?
www.tiktok.com/t/ZTjJsuc1L/ How are you supposed to stop worrying about things you can’t control?
Ok but HOW do you stop stressing over stuff you can’t control?!#creatorsearchinsights #fyp #stress #control #selfcare #emotionalliteracy #mentalhealth
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April 9, 2025 at 8:45 PM
www.tiktok.com/t/ZTjJsuc1L/ How are you supposed to stop worrying about things you can’t control?
Emotions are meant to be felt and understood, not fixed. #emotionalliteracy #selfawareness
April 6, 2025 at 5:41 PM
Emotions are meant to be felt and understood, not fixed. #emotionalliteracy #selfawareness
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I'll straight up use viewer discretion even when that shit ISN'T advised.
December 15, 2024 at 12:53 AM
I'll straight up use viewer discretion even when that shit ISN'T advised.
Trauma bonding with strangers at Target over the line being wrapped around the store and one cashier on duty is a lot like when it’s over 100 degrees outside: “Can you believe how hot it is out here?! Man it is HOT! I just… hoo! What’s up with this HEAT amirite?!”
March 2, 2024 at 3:24 PM
Trauma bonding with strangers at Target over the line being wrapped around the store and one cashier on duty is a lot like when it’s over 100 degrees outside: “Can you believe how hot it is out here?! Man it is HOT! I just… hoo! What’s up with this HEAT amirite?!”
Me watching Saltburn
December 31, 2023 at 5:05 AM
Me watching Saltburn