Anyone else have two different playlists based on if they want to girlmode at the gym or work out like they want to kill people
January 28, 2026 at 10:05 PM
Anyone else have two different playlists based on if they want to girlmode at the gym or work out like they want to kill people
I will girlmode in a public place at some point this year.
...I just don't know when. But I will. I'm determined to.
...I just don't know when. But I will. I'm determined to.
January 28, 2026 at 5:10 AM
I will girlmode in a public place at some point this year.
...I just don't know when. But I will. I'm determined to.
...I just don't know when. But I will. I'm determined to.
Men who don’t take responsibility and expect me to do emotional labor for/with them because I am AFAB and caring and we met 20 yrs ago when I was doing GirlMode and then blame ME for following up on what they said was upsetting them last time that has been an issue forever?
Nope. Done. Blocked.
Nope. Done. Blocked.
January 27, 2026 at 4:27 PM
Men who don’t take responsibility and expect me to do emotional labor for/with them because I am AFAB and caring and we met 20 yrs ago when I was doing GirlMode and then blame ME for following up on what they said was upsetting them last time that has been an issue forever?
Nope. Done. Blocked.
Nope. Done. Blocked.
Ironically, one of the things that pushed me towards trying girlmode was a r/4tran4 post about how girlmode automatically makes you "fembrained," even if you don't pass, because not being perceived as a cis guy fundamentally changes how society treats you... 🫣
On a serious note, brainpassing is a really nasty brainworm and trying to force yourself to be more "fembrained" (whatever the fuck that even means lol) will genuinely make you fucking miserable.
Just let things happen organically 🤷♀️
Just let things happen organically 🤷♀️
January 27, 2026 at 3:45 PM
Ironically, one of the things that pushed me towards trying girlmode was a r/4tran4 post about how girlmode automatically makes you "fembrained," even if you don't pass, because not being perceived as a cis guy fundamentally changes how society treats you... 🫣
Do trans guys girlmode like trans girls boymode
January 27, 2026 at 5:15 AM
Do trans guys girlmode like trans girls boymode
went outside in full girlmode for the first time!!
January 27, 2026 at 2:01 AM
went outside in full girlmode for the first time!!
oryx was just girlmode dong zhuo boymoding
January 23, 2026 at 11:02 PM
oryx was just girlmode dong zhuo boymoding
4. Girlmode - Magdalene Visaggio & Paulina Ganucheau
Very sweet! Will keep this rec in my back pocket for teens at work
Very sweet! Will keep this rec in my back pocket for teens at work
January 23, 2026 at 7:41 PM
4. Girlmode - Magdalene Visaggio & Paulina Ganucheau
Very sweet! Will keep this rec in my back pocket for teens at work
Very sweet! Will keep this rec in my back pocket for teens at work
January 23, 2026 at 6:41 AM
The only advice I can give is that you really have to take that girlmode leap of faith at some point...
I know it's scary, and I can't promise it will work out, but what I can promise is that you will stay locked up in the agonizing mental prison that is boymoding until you try... 🤷♀️
I know it's scary, and I can't promise it will work out, but what I can promise is that you will stay locked up in the agonizing mental prison that is boymoding until you try... 🤷♀️
January 22, 2026 at 5:37 PM
The only advice I can give is that you really have to take that girlmode leap of faith at some point...
I know it's scary, and I can't promise it will work out, but what I can promise is that you will stay locked up in the agonizing mental prison that is boymoding until you try... 🤷♀️
I know it's scary, and I can't promise it will work out, but what I can promise is that you will stay locked up in the agonizing mental prison that is boymoding until you try... 🤷♀️
At some point, boymoding just stopped working for me. I was backed into a corner with no other option but to address my shame and fears and try girlmode...
I explained how it felt it in detail here...
bsky.app/profile/mela...
I explained how it felt it in detail here...
bsky.app/profile/mela...
To be completely honest... If you keep this estrogen thing up you will have to deal with transphobia sooner or later.
I boymoded for two years, because I was completely terrified of being visibly trans, but at some point it became very unsustainable... and ironically it made me *more* visibly trans
I boymoded for two years, because I was completely terrified of being visibly trans, but at some point it became very unsustainable... and ironically it made me *more* visibly trans
January 22, 2026 at 5:05 PM
At some point, boymoding just stopped working for me. I was backed into a corner with no other option but to address my shame and fears and try girlmode...
I explained how it felt it in detail here...
bsky.app/profile/mela...
I explained how it felt it in detail here...
bsky.app/profile/mela...
@magsvisaggio.com I just finished your Girlmode! It’s such a wonderful story, thank you!
January 22, 2026 at 8:58 AM
@magsvisaggio.com I just finished your Girlmode! It’s such a wonderful story, thank you!
im the "first public girlmode appearance was a convention where i was totally just crossdressing for silly fun haha dont think about it guys" genre of trans girl
i kinda miss cons for that reason
i kinda miss cons for that reason
January 19, 2026 at 5:20 PM
im the "first public girlmode appearance was a convention where i was totally just crossdressing for silly fun haha dont think about it guys" genre of trans girl
i kinda miss cons for that reason
i kinda miss cons for that reason
Spent the weekend (and this morning) traversing through the works of Magdalene Visaggio. So many great reads!
Some favorites:
• Kim & Kim
• Quantum Teens Are Go
• Sex Death Revolution
• Morning in America
• Girlmode
Some favorites:
• Kim & Kim
• Quantum Teens Are Go
• Sex Death Revolution
• Morning in America
• Girlmode
January 19, 2026 at 3:56 PM
Spent the weekend (and this morning) traversing through the works of Magdalene Visaggio. So many great reads!
Some favorites:
• Kim & Kim
• Quantum Teens Are Go
• Sex Death Revolution
• Morning in America
• Girlmode
Some favorites:
• Kim & Kim
• Quantum Teens Are Go
• Sex Death Revolution
• Morning in America
• Girlmode
*sigh* Should know better than to go out in girlmode in this fucking town when I'm tired. Not as easy to ignore the loud ones.
And hey, if you're an ally and you're with someone mocking or denigrating us? Do us a favor. Tell them to shut up. Don't come up later and apologize after staying silent.
And hey, if you're an ally and you're with someone mocking or denigrating us? Do us a favor. Tell them to shut up. Don't come up later and apologize after staying silent.
January 18, 2026 at 9:38 PM
*sigh* Should know better than to go out in girlmode in this fucking town when I'm tired. Not as easy to ignore the loud ones.
And hey, if you're an ally and you're with someone mocking or denigrating us? Do us a favor. Tell them to shut up. Don't come up later and apologize after staying silent.
And hey, if you're an ally and you're with someone mocking or denigrating us? Do us a favor. Tell them to shut up. Don't come up later and apologize after staying silent.
i should find a way to girlmode so that i can take some pics of myself tbh this is like the first time in my life id ever wanted to take pictures of myself but my wardrobe is all chopped LOL
January 17, 2026 at 11:52 PM
i should find a way to girlmode so that i can take some pics of myself tbh this is like the first time in my life id ever wanted to take pictures of myself but my wardrobe is all chopped LOL
Just arrived!
January 17, 2026 at 8:43 PM
Just arrived!
oh, apologies if I implied otherwise! Not my intent but I see how it sorta reads that way 😅. No yeah no notes on the story structure, the approachability of Girlmode is a feature not a bug 👏
January 15, 2026 at 5:42 PM
oh, apologies if I implied otherwise! Not my intent but I see how it sorta reads that way 😅. No yeah no notes on the story structure, the approachability of Girlmode is a feature not a bug 👏
New earrings and eye shadow and i havent been full girlmode in weeks so heres a fun little photo dump for ya
January 14, 2026 at 9:14 PM
New earrings and eye shadow and i havent been full girlmode in weeks so heres a fun little photo dump for ya
jarvis how to girlmode and not pass out in 90° fahrenheit weather
January 14, 2026 at 6:43 PM
jarvis how to girlmode and not pass out in 90° fahrenheit weather
Hard to believe it's been one year since my first girlmode game at LCA.
January 14, 2026 at 5:48 PM
Hard to believe it's been one year since my first girlmode game at LCA.
(but also the night I stayed up till 5AM reading Girlmode was literally five days before my intake appointment to finally [fucking *finally*] start HRT, so 😅)
(sorry it took forever, depressed 20s Jen… but we did get around to it eventually 🫂💜)
(sorry it took forever, depressed 20s Jen… but we did get around to it eventually 🫂💜)
January 14, 2026 at 1:08 PM
(but also the night I stayed up till 5AM reading Girlmode was literally five days before my intake appointment to finally [fucking *finally*] start HRT, so 😅)
(sorry it took forever, depressed 20s Jen… but we did get around to it eventually 🫂💜)
(sorry it took forever, depressed 20s Jen… but we did get around to it eventually 🫂💜)