In case you're confused about this whole thing

I honestly can't take any of these conversations seriously because a lot of this is about legibility within largely anglophone online subcultures that will larely ever apply to a brown girl because darker skin = hulking manful manly man, so this topic is practically incomprehensible to me sometimes.

Often this "HRT and trans are colonial" rhetorics are comorbid with a fantasy of prior veneration of gender-diverse peoples. Daydreaming of temple priestesses. Whether that is based in fact or not, it is not the present reality. It will not be made real by wishing it was

I’m not saying someone’s so pressed I was on the cover of Teen Vogue that they started posting a bunch of misinformation about trans ppl- no wait, I am. I am saying that

i'm being normal. you're being effortlessly normal. we are not the same

it kind of feels like i'm ghostwriting my own dissertation

ok so how many of you had the experience where you saw a therapist and then didn't know what to talk about and felt like a whiny idiot and didn't engage with the medical superstructure about your transness for another decade

it would be cool if there were soap that delivered a small dose of nicotine transdermally and I could take it in the ice bath. I feel like I would wake up

"Dedicated to the memory of Theodosia Markarian (1983-2023)" & right from the start I am reading this while wiping & blinking away tears

bought yoghurt today

heathens do not interact!