Toby Pace
@tobyjpace.bsky.social
co-parent, chef, trans & queer citizen 🏳️🌈 🏳️⚧️(they/she)
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eat shit, kim davis.
November 10, 2025 at 3:06 PM
eat shit, kim davis.
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Solidarity!! Last week, Indiana University fired the director of student media & halted print on the Indiana Daily Student newspaper. Yesterday, Purdue’s student paper printed the banned edition & drove two hours to deliver it. Incredible www.heraldtimesonline.com/story/news/l...
Purdue student journalists deliver special 'solidarity' newspaper to IU Bloomington campus
The special edition blasted across town features columns from IDS and Exponent editors, alongside QR codes to support both student papers.
www.heraldtimesonline.com
October 18, 2025 at 7:32 PM
Solidarity!! Last week, Indiana University fired the director of student media & halted print on the Indiana Daily Student newspaper. Yesterday, Purdue’s student paper printed the banned edition & drove two hours to deliver it. Incredible www.heraldtimesonline.com/story/news/l...
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When a trans woman dies of natural causes, at an age greater than 75, having lived more than half her life as herself, that is cause for celebration, not mourning.
Thank you, Miss Major.
Thank you, Miss Major.
October 13, 2025 at 11:21 PM
When a trans woman dies of natural causes, at an age greater than 75, having lived more than half her life as herself, that is cause for celebration, not mourning.
Thank you, Miss Major.
Thank you, Miss Major.
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“If we’re paying attention, we’re seeing what could happen,” said Amanda Cottrill, co-chair of Wake Forest Pride Fest. “History repeats itself, (which is) why it’s so important for us to be learning and celebrating history.” #LGBTQ+
apnews.com/article/lgbt...
apnews.com/article/lgbt...
Rainbows but also clouds as NC town hosts Pride Fest amid Trump administration's anti-trans push
The sound of hymns clashed with drums as thousands gathered for Pride Fest in Wake Forest, North Carolina.
apnews.com
October 12, 2025 at 5:30 PM
“If we’re paying attention, we’re seeing what could happen,” said Amanda Cottrill, co-chair of Wake Forest Pride Fest. “History repeats itself, (which is) why it’s so important for us to be learning and celebrating history.” #LGBTQ+
apnews.com/article/lgbt...
apnews.com/article/lgbt...
A few milestones today:
-I took my kid to their first Pride event today. She enjoyed the kids zone & the drag show a lot. I did have to explain why there were protesters screaming nasty things at & booing the drag queens. She says bullies should stop that
-I wore a skirt in public for the 1st time
-I took my kid to their first Pride event today. She enjoyed the kids zone & the drag show a lot. I did have to explain why there were protesters screaming nasty things at & booing the drag queens. She says bullies should stop that
-I wore a skirt in public for the 1st time
October 11, 2025 at 9:17 PM
A few milestones today:
-I took my kid to their first Pride event today. She enjoyed the kids zone & the drag show a lot. I did have to explain why there were protesters screaming nasty things at & booing the drag queens. She says bullies should stop that
-I wore a skirt in public for the 1st time
-I took my kid to their first Pride event today. She enjoyed the kids zone & the drag show a lot. I did have to explain why there were protesters screaming nasty things at & booing the drag queens. She says bullies should stop that
-I wore a skirt in public for the 1st time
Obsessed with Folk Bitch Trio. Thank you for the recommendation @harmonycolangelo.bsky.social @thisendsatprom.bsky.social !!!
open.spotify.com/track/4n6u63...
open.spotify.com/track/4n6u63...
Spotify – Web Player
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October 8, 2025 at 5:12 PM
Obsessed with Folk Bitch Trio. Thank you for the recommendation @harmonycolangelo.bsky.social @thisendsatprom.bsky.social !!!
open.spotify.com/track/4n6u63...
open.spotify.com/track/4n6u63...
Finally made it to a Pride festivity this year. First time at Durham, NC Pride! Fun parade with a big crowd that was spread out nicely. It was great to see the parade attended by so many people! 🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️
September 27, 2025 at 6:12 PM
Finally made it to a Pride festivity this year. First time at Durham, NC Pride! Fun parade with a big crowd that was spread out nicely. It was great to see the parade attended by so many people! 🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️
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Got my copy of Best Served Cold vol. 2 today! It features a bunch of fantastic trans authors including my story "The Monster At The End of This Film" AND you can get a digital copy right here if you so desire:
www.etsy.com/listing/1902...
www.etsy.com/listing/1902...
September 25, 2025 at 6:59 PM
Got my copy of Best Served Cold vol. 2 today! It features a bunch of fantastic trans authors including my story "The Monster At The End of This Film" AND you can get a digital copy right here if you so desire:
www.etsy.com/listing/1902...
www.etsy.com/listing/1902...
World Leader Pretend is mine!
Nightswimming for sure
Without saying Losing My Religion, fav R.E.M. Song?
September 2, 2025 at 12:36 PM
World Leader Pretend is mine!
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We haven't seen numbers like this since Kelly Clarkson was elected
August 5, 2025 at 1:48 AM
We haven't seen numbers like this since Kelly Clarkson was elected
Walking into work wearing a she/they pronoun pin for the first time this morning. I am going to come out at our morning meeting. I’m nervous as hell.
August 4, 2025 at 12:11 PM
Walking into work wearing a she/they pronoun pin for the first time this morning. I am going to come out at our morning meeting. I’m nervous as hell.
32, overnight (a lot for work)
15, not including layovers/gas breaks, etc
How many y’all have visited? I’m up to 14
August 1, 2025 at 8:54 AM
32, overnight (a lot for work)
This!!!!!!!
not wanting to "do discourse" but compelled by conscience to say that Gavin Newsom accepting right-wing framing of gender-affirming care and trying to position himself as some Solomon of hard choices is bullshit. care is care. the people who need it and the people who provide it are the experts
July 15, 2025 at 5:56 PM
This!!!!!!!
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Durham Bulls clap back at anti-gay Pride Night haters like big leaguers - www.outsports.com/2025/6/30/24...
June 30, 2025 at 5:39 PM
Durham Bulls clap back at anti-gay Pride Night haters like big leaguers - www.outsports.com/2025/6/30/24...
List of things that made me gay in no particular order
Baseball
John Goodman
Lea DeLaria
A Separate Piece
Roger Ebert
Smalltown Boy
The Night Court episode named Best of Friends (where Dan finds out his college buddy is transgender)
Sumo
Baseball
John Goodman
Lea DeLaria
A Separate Piece
Roger Ebert
Smalltown Boy
The Night Court episode named Best of Friends (where Dan finds out his college buddy is transgender)
Sumo
List of things that made me gay in no particular order
Nightcrawler
Darkness from Legend
Yukio from X-Men
Jean Grey
D'Aulaire's book of Greek myths
Jennifer Connelly in Labyrinth
Batman/Kevin Conroy
The woods, probably
Nightcrawler
Darkness from Legend
Yukio from X-Men
Jean Grey
D'Aulaire's book of Greek myths
Jennifer Connelly in Labyrinth
Batman/Kevin Conroy
The woods, probably
List of things that made me gay in no particular order:
Ramona Flowers
Ranma 1/2
Dungeons and Dragons
The Legend of Korra
Malon from Ocarina of Time
Nomad (Rikki Barnes)
Jaina Proudmoore (with her BfA glow up)
critically acclaimed MMORPG Final Fantasy XIV, with an expanded free trial which you can—
Ramona Flowers
Ranma 1/2
Dungeons and Dragons
The Legend of Korra
Malon from Ocarina of Time
Nomad (Rikki Barnes)
Jaina Proudmoore (with her BfA glow up)
critically acclaimed MMORPG Final Fantasy XIV, with an expanded free trial which you can—
June 30, 2025 at 1:03 AM
List of things that made me gay in no particular order
Baseball
John Goodman
Lea DeLaria
A Separate Piece
Roger Ebert
Smalltown Boy
The Night Court episode named Best of Friends (where Dan finds out his college buddy is transgender)
Sumo
Baseball
John Goodman
Lea DeLaria
A Separate Piece
Roger Ebert
Smalltown Boy
The Night Court episode named Best of Friends (where Dan finds out his college buddy is transgender)
Sumo
A movie I've watched more than six times.
(Gifs only, with Hard mode: no Star Wars, Star Trek, or LOTR)
(Gifs only, with Hard mode: no Star Wars, Star Trek, or LOTR)
April 28, 2025 at 12:42 AM
A movie I've watched more than six times.
(Gifs only, with Hard mode: no Star Wars, Star Trek, or LOTR)
(Gifs only, with Hard mode: no Star Wars, Star Trek, or LOTR)
Fuuuuuuuck this. When’s the piss-in?
🚨 NC lawmakers just introduced SB 516 — a dangerous anti-trans bill that would ban restroom access, block ID updates, & allow lawsuits for being trans in public spaces.
This is a direct attack. We won’t back down.
#StopSB516 #TransRightsAreHumanRights
This is a direct attack. We won’t back down.
#StopSB516 #TransRightsAreHumanRights
March 26, 2025 at 9:26 PM
Fuuuuuuuck this. When’s the piss-in?
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A minute and twenty-five seconds of smack ya in yer face truth.
March 11, 2025 at 2:19 AM
A minute and twenty-five seconds of smack ya in yer face truth.
Good things are still happening!
After a 2 year back order, it has arrived :)
After a 2 year back order, it has arrived :)
March 7, 2025 at 2:11 AM
Good things are still happening!
After a 2 year back order, it has arrived :)
After a 2 year back order, it has arrived :)
Favorite sport movie go!
February 22, 2025 at 6:50 PM
Favorite sport movie go!
Good things are still happening. New Perfume Genius with Aldous Harding!
**Video is slightly NSFW and contains a firearm and a gunshot sound.
perfumegenius.org/videos/v/no-...
**Video is slightly NSFW and contains a firearm and a gunshot sound.
perfumegenius.org/videos/v/no-...
No Front Teeth (ft. Aldous Harding) — perfumegenius
perfumegenius.org
February 22, 2025 at 6:33 PM
Good things are still happening. New Perfume Genius with Aldous Harding!
**Video is slightly NSFW and contains a firearm and a gunshot sound.
perfumegenius.org/videos/v/no-...
**Video is slightly NSFW and contains a firearm and a gunshot sound.
perfumegenius.org/videos/v/no-...
Movies you’ve watched more than six times, gifs only
February 20, 2025 at 11:37 PM
Movies you’ve watched more than six times, gifs only
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I've been able to brush off most of the erasure of trans people from government websites, but this one is REALLY getting under my skin. It's just complete revisionist history.
How fucking dare they
Old vs. new
How fucking dare they
Old vs. new
February 14, 2025 at 12:30 AM
I've been able to brush off most of the erasure of trans people from government websites, but this one is REALLY getting under my skin. It's just complete revisionist history.
How fucking dare they
Old vs. new
How fucking dare they
Old vs. new