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Toby Pace
@tobyjpace.bsky.social
co-parent, chef, trans & queer citizen 🏳️‍🌈 🏳️‍⚧️(they/she)

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A few milestones today:

-I took my kid to their first Pride event today. She enjoyed the kids zone & the drag show a lot. I did have to explain why there were protesters screaming nasty things at & booing the drag queens. She says bullies should stop that

-I wore a skirt in public for the 1st time
October 11, 2025 at 9:17 PM
Good things are still happening!

After a 2 year back order, it has arrived :)
March 7, 2025 at 2:11 AM
If you see this drop a pic from the last place your passport was stamped.

Berlin
December 17, 2024 at 2:01 PM
December 5, 2024 at 3:41 AM
Quote post with the first DVD you ever bought.
November 21, 2024 at 12:25 AM
The Chute in Nashville, TN. A co-worker at the restaurant I was working at took me after I came out to him. I was scared silly after he disappeared into the back room and left me alone 😂
November 19, 2024 at 1:02 AM
If you see this quote your favorite horror movie using a gif

It didn’t necessarily keep me awake as a kid, but it definitely awakened me in other ways 😂
October 31, 2024 at 11:58 AM
Let’s F’in GO!!!
October 23, 2024 at 1:32 PM
October 6, 2024 at 11:37 PM
Pink Pony Club of the Dead is open! It’s Chappell Roan Halloween!
October 6, 2024 at 11:33 PM
They debut tonight!
October 6, 2024 at 7:52 PM
I don’t typically see nostalgia shows but I couldn’t pass up seeing Violent Femmes. They are putting on a great show!
October 3, 2024 at 1:00 AM
I don’t typically attend nostalgia shows but I could not pass up seeing Violent Femmes. They are not disappointing!
October 3, 2024 at 12:58 AM
Still a work in progress:
September 29, 2024 at 11:40 PM
Work in progress: Chappel Roan Halloween

Pink Pony Club of the Dead
September 29, 2024 at 9:38 PM
September 29, 2024 at 3:00 AM
Seeing Sigur Ros for the first time this evening!
September 28, 2024 at 11:36 PM
I went to see “I Saw The TV Glow” yesterday and I am still thinking about it. I haven’t felt a film like this in a long time. I think it’s great and highly recommend seeing it. Support queer film in theaters!
May 30, 2024 at 12:48 AM
I had to get through 27 hours of work in the span of 36 hours, feeding over 6000 people, but I finally got to see The Decemberists live. It was very much worth it!
May 12, 2024 at 3:08 AM
One of the Chicago Cubs owners is a member of the LGBTQIA+ community. They have a good track record.
April 23, 2024 at 2:58 AM
@dalzell.bsky.social Thank you for the suggestion! It was all really delicious!
March 23, 2024 at 3:25 PM
February 24, 2024 at 4:33 PM
I am so excited about this app! Since I have to participate in capitalism, I want to make sure as many of my dollars as possible feed our community. The app is live and ready to download!
February 20, 2024 at 4:56 PM
Give Emma Stone all the awards. The entire cast is stellar. I loved it.
January 28, 2024 at 3:57 AM
I really, really loved this film! It is so damn good. See it in the theater!
January 12, 2024 at 10:51 PM