Cindy
thewayoflove.bsky.social
Cindy
@thewayoflove.bsky.social
I’m a single mom following Jesus during deconstruction. When I have time, I write about the things I’m learning. Currently working on my master’s degree in clinical mental health counseling.
Pinned
This is my blog where I write about deconstructing while holding on to my faith in Jesus.

www.deconstructingwithjesus.com
Deconstructing With Jesus
Deconstructing harmful doctrines and theology while embracing the person and work of Jesus, and building a loving, inclusive community of Jesus-followers.
www.deconstructingwithjesus.com
This year, I found myself longing for an Advent devotional relevant to deconstruction. Since I couldn’t find anything that fit, I decided to create something here: wayoflove.substack.com/p/hope-risin...
#Advent #Deconstruction #Christmas2025
Hope Rising from the Ashes
Advent Week 1: God Meets Us in the Ashes
wayoflove.substack.com
December 1, 2025 at 10:40 PM
Absolutely
Donald Trump and @jd-vance-1.bsky.social's refusal to provide SNAP benefits to Americans in need isn't just illegal — it's immoral.
November 9, 2025 at 7:00 PM
This holiday, my table holds both laughter and grief. I’ve left behind rigid beliefs and chosen a path of unconditional welcome. I’m making room for healing and belonging. If you’re in a similar place, there’s space for you. There’s hope.

shorturl.at/3vcm1

#HolidayGrief #InclusiveFaith
Reclaiming the Table: Belonging, Inclusion, and the Season of Healing
Exploring the ache of belonging and the hope of radical inclusion
open.substack.com
November 9, 2025 at 1:57 AM
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In @nytopinion.nytimes.com

“If Trump cares about Christians or anyone else in Nigeria, all he needs to do is restore aid and let babies live,” our columnist Nicholas Kristof writes.
Opinion | Trump Aid Cuts Kill More Christians Than Jihadists Do
Murderous attacks on Christians and Muslims alike are a real problem in Nigeria. Cutting humanitarian assistance there is even more lethal.
nyti.ms
November 9, 2025 at 1:20 AM
“Allyship is not a title we can give ourselves...Instead, it’s about how our actions are experienced by those we claim to stand with..."

wayoflove.substack.com/p/stop-calli...
Stop Calling Yourself an Ally and Just Do the Work
Why Action Matters More Than Labels
wayoflove.substack.com
October 5, 2025 at 4:56 PM
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Jones: We have a presidential administration that has more outrage about the changing of the cracker barrel logo than they do about changing the policies that allow our children to be gunned down in school…
August 30, 2025 at 8:42 PM
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Gavin Newsom is exactly right, Trump is doing everything we told you he would do and more. It's time to wake the hell up, America. Authoritarianism is here.
August 30, 2025 at 9:00 PM
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We the people have spoken. Congress must do their job and represent the will of the nation. Say NO to “King” Donakd!
"Do you want America to be at war with Iran?"

No: 85%
Yes: 5%

YouGov / June 22, 2025
June 23, 2025 at 8:17 PM
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LA DODGERS just now:

“This morning, ICE agents came to Dodger Stadium and requested permission to access the parking lots. They were denied entry to the grounds by the organization. Tonight’s game will be played as scheduled.”

Right on, Dodgers!
More of this, please.
June 19, 2025 at 7:35 PM
#nokings #resist
TikTok video by Cindy Koen
www.tiktok.com
June 17, 2025 at 7:44 PM
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It is firmly in the “somebody’s making an active decision to downplay this” territory.
I count 49 news headlines on the NYT mobile app home page right now, not including opinion, sports or cooking. None of them are about the massive protests yesterday.
June 15, 2025 at 6:18 PM
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Based on crowd-sourced records of No Kings Day event turnout, and extrapolating for the cities where we don't have data yet, it looks like roughly 4-6 million people protested Trump across the U.S. yesterday. That's nearly 2% of the U.S. pop!

Mobilized anti-Trump resistance is exceeding 2017 levels
"No Kings Day" protests turn out millions
Our unofficial estimate is that around 4 million people attended a protest event yesterday. Anti-Trump resistance is outpacing 2017.
www.gelliottmorris.com
June 15, 2025 at 11:10 AM
Went to the protest with 2 of my kids yesterday and it was amazing! #nokings #resist
June 15, 2025 at 6:51 PM
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When NO KINGS reigns over your parade.

#SAD 🤣
June 15, 2025 at 6:29 PM
At our #nokings protest yesterday! #resist
June 15, 2025 at 6:49 PM
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Since Donald Trump is freaking out about Bruce Springsteen calling this the most corrupt, incompetent and treasonous administration, it would be a shame if this video was shared even more widely....
May 16, 2025 at 7:25 PM
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April 19, 2025 at 11:37 PM
Tyranny. Absolute tyranny.
“The officers grabbed him and two other boys right at the entrance to our building. One said, ‘No, he’s not the one,’ like they were looking for someone else. But the other said, ‘Take him anyway.’” www.thecity.nyc/2025/04/14/b...
ICE Took His Son From Their Bronx Apartment. Now He's in El Salvador's Mega-Prison.
Merwil Gutiérrez had no criminal record when ICE agents detained the 19-year-old outside his home. Now his father, Wilmer, is still searching for answers.
www.thecity.nyc
April 16, 2025 at 12:14 AM
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Let’s be clear. When the President defies the Supreme Court, it is the role of Congress to remove him from office. Full stop.
April 15, 2025 at 9:30 PM
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Christianity does not look like praying, singing, and giving money while ignoring the screams, unspeakable suffering, filth, and death of others. Christianity is not calling others *them*—somehow unlike us, not human, and deserving of their suffering.
April 3, 2025 at 3:13 PM
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March 24, 2025 at 5:08 AM
After reading the report about TNE/Tim Whitaker, I am profoundly troubled, especially by the behavior of @drlauraeanderson.bsky.social, co-founder of the Religious Trauma Institute. Her behavior was abusive and exactly what you see when churches try to bully victims into recanting their accusations.
March 19, 2025 at 5:29 PM
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I’m convinced American exceptionalism is a big part of what made us vulnerable to Trump. We’re so used to thinking of ourselves as the Special Freedom Country that a lot of people find it inconceivable we could rapidly collapse into shabby despotism even as they watch it happen.
Real talk. I’ve lost all belief in American exceptionalism. There is no secret Liberty Sauce that makes us inherently better. We’re just human beings (derogatory). But it also means we’re human beings (laudatory), so I refuse to believe Republicans won politics forever and can rule as god kings.
March 14, 2025 at 1:42 PM
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We all know it's because they are all compromised and wouldn't pass a real background check.
March 14, 2025 at 3:21 PM
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In one way, Elon Musk is right: "The federal government is often wasteful and inefficient," the editorial board writes. But DOGE's "haphazard demolition campaign is undermining the basic work of government and the safety and welfare of the American people."
Opinion | Musk Doesn’t Understand Why Government Matters
If a business fails, it’s not a big deal. When government services break down, people can die.
www.nytimes.com
March 8, 2025 at 4:02 PM