Helen Mary
thehelenmary.bsky.social
Helen Mary
@thehelenmary.bsky.social
TMEs get lost.
Does the anti-trans legislation name and apply equal focus on all trans people or does it specify trans women by name while TMEs experience unintended 1% splash damage? Quickly now.
November 28, 2025 at 11:47 PM
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It does but seriously how?

Honestly id start with splitting trans men and trans women. We don’t say ‘homosexuals’ anymore, we say gay and lesbian bc they’re different things with separate (if you’re cis lol) experiences.

Conflating trans men and trans women is a disaster.
November 26, 2025 at 2:45 AM
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Focusing on HRT access, DIY, and material conditions rather than validity and inclusivity is paramount imo, we need to make being trans *mean* something again
November 26, 2025 at 3:01 PM
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That’s why trans men are, regardless of their words and actions, always perfect and innocent and harmless.

It’s why they’re always worthy of respect and kindness and patience from us and don’t need to show any in return.

Because they are inherently good and we are inherently evil.
September 5, 2025 at 7:55 PM
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This whole accusation is just the ideological version of the monsterfication trans women get subjected to.

Since the wider trans community is already perfectly fine with physically monsterizing trans women, it’s not surprising that they’re also eager to believe that we’re monsters in ideology too.
August 29, 2025 at 3:24 PM
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Yeah trans mascs and trans men don't want to build community or infrastructure themselves because they fundamentally see it as women's work and will whine their way into learned helpless until a woman does it for them and then pat themselves on the back for all the work they do.
July 16, 2025 at 10:49 PM
My thinking is that while trans women can inflict pain on our equals (ie using transmisogyny on our sisters), saying we can be transphobic implies that we're punching down at TMEs and we're in a position of privilege over them. We can't oppress our oppressors.
August 7, 2025 at 7:12 AM
System working as intended: trans women are ostracised into accepting the biggest possible starting handicap vs the giftwrap pass for people who can fully pass after a year on exogenous testosterone at any stage of their lives.
August 5, 2025 at 2:20 PM