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30 | Plural | DID System | Endo Inclusive | 🏳️‍⚧️ HRT: Jan '20 | AuDHD | Minors DNI 🔞
🦇: I feel like saying "I wish I had more time during the day" takes on a more intense meaning when spoken by the member of a system because A) Maybe we can? B) Our time is divided up with other headmates.

On an unrelated note, I wish I had more time during the day. 😅 /half-joking
December 18, 2024 at 12:32 PM
🔥: If I cared as much about school as Republicans care about where I pee, I would have graduated 10 years ago.
this question is also confusing because...that's what they want. That's the scenario they are demanding - that trans women be forced into men's rooms. Why are you invoking that as the scary scenario when you think that's where the person in question belongs???
I truly wouldn’t care if a man dressed like the king of England was in the urinal next to me. I get that for extremely online rightwingers, a trip to a public bathroom might be the most memorable moment of the day, but the rest of us truly do not give a shit who is peeing nearby.
November 20, 2024 at 5:49 PM
🔥: Watched Paw Patrol the Mighty Movie with our daughter and Humdinger getting out of prison and immediately campaigning for reelection felt too real. He then said "I hate free and fair elections." When getting pushback. Like come on. I can't even escape reality with a movie about puppies.
November 17, 2024 at 1:46 PM
🦇: Our 4yo asked us "why did Donald Duck win again?!" in an exasperated voice and I felt it in my soul.
November 6, 2024 at 4:16 PM
🔥: It is a silly game for many in the MAGA crowd. But those who follow Trump and believe it is life and death are the scariest. One person I know believes Harris is the antichrist because she wore pearls one time. Have a safety plan for "dictator day 1" and stay safe everyone.
Worth noting, too, that people who vote for Trump believe they should be allowed to continue life (and their relationships) as normal. My dad couldn't believe I'd stopped speaking to him over politics. To him it's just a silly game. To me it's life and death.
This sounds all high-minded until you remember that millions have relatives and friends whom Vance and his running mate plan to deport. Journalists they want to prosecute. Loved ones they’ve called “the enemy within.” Neighbors they claim “poison the country’s blood.”

So no. Fuck that.
October 26, 2024 at 2:44 PM
1/2 🔥: Been taking awe walks twice weekly for stress management as part of a psych class project and it has dramatically made a difference in stress levels. Have not taken the final assessments but the physical stress tracking on our fitbit indicates an elevated heart related
October 22, 2024 at 1:27 PM
2/2 variability and other signs of reduced physical stress. I am honestly really impressed that this works and greatful.
October 22, 2024 at 1:27 PM
🔥:Taking a psych class and doing assignments pretending to be a singlet is... Interesting. Wonder if my professor knows? 🤔 Either way, learning a lot in the class and glad we are taking it.
October 18, 2024 at 12:19 PM
🦇: We found "Cheese Day!" written in what could only be our enthusiastic handwriting on November 10th on our calendar and none of us have a memory of writing it. 😂
August 8, 2024 at 1:18 PM
🔥: that moment when you realize that even at your highest usage you are barely hitting 80 Mbps but you are paying for Gig speeds. That is while gaming, streaming, and downloading updates at the same time. Like wow... We over bought. Anyways... We are saving like $80/month on internet now.
May 20, 2024 at 12:14 PM
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Having a mother is complicated and fraught. Not having a mother is complicated and fraught. Being a mother is complicated and fraught. Not being a mother is complicated and fraught. Sending love to you today, whatever your relationship with motherhood. ❤️
May 12, 2024 at 12:53 PM
🔥: Having your personal network severely compromised is scary. After a personal data breach you are so hyper threat aware that it is easy to see patterns that aren't there making it harder to identify the source of the breach and its exact nature. It feels so personal.
May 12, 2024 at 12:51 PM
🔥: Sometimes I feel like we don't forget that much. But then I get told by my fiancee that sometimes I forget that we have eaten and already have a plate or bowl and will grab a new one and get more food and not remember at all that we ate 15 minutes ago. 😵‍💫
May 4, 2024 at 1:18 PM
🔥: Sometimes I forget singlets use the term "headspace" to mean "mental state" and get confused when reading things like "my headspace is funky today." Enjoy your disco party? Lol /Half-joking
May 2, 2024 at 10:56 AM
1/8 🔥: April is not only Autism Acceptance Month. It is also #FNDAwarenessMonth. Functional Neurological Disorders lie directly at the intersection of psychology and neurology and can be as debilitating as any neurological disorder. And their causes are not exactly known, though

April 8, 2024 at 4:34 PM
🔥: Just sticking my nose in my computer and configuring things and ignoring the overwhelming existential threat that is the rise of right wing extremism because my mental health just can't today.
March 23, 2024 at 3:17 PM
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just checked and of course pigeon internet isn’t available yet in my area
March 16, 2024 at 7:36 PM
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A crab friend for @jopabinia.bsky.social courtesy of Sarah Andersen of Sarah’s Scribbles!
March 16, 2024 at 7:54 PM
🔥: Implementing CIS benchmarks while also being a toddler mom is a wild experience. 30% Computer Education, 10% cuddles, 55% Dinosaur, 5% OH GOD DON'T TOUCH THE REGISTRY!
March 15, 2024 at 11:44 AM
🦇: My girlfriend told me that "if you don't deal with your emotions, your emotions will deal with you" and that hit the mark today.
March 4, 2024 at 8:59 PM
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From Toni Morrison:

“The function, the very serious function of racism is distraction. It keeps you from doing your work. It keeps you explaining, over and over again, your reason for being. Somebody says you have no language and you spend twenty years proving that you do.”
February 25, 2024 at 12:04 AM
2022 US Trans Survey Early Insights Report is in!

ustranssurvey.org

#USTS
February 25, 2024 at 2:47 PM
🔥: God is just a clueless quantum frog wiggling their butt, creating new realities with no rhyme or reason. That is why everything is so chaotic and random; God's brain has no thoughts, head empty, only froggy.
February 25, 2024 at 2:05 PM
🔥: Every system on #PluralSky is now a council of elders.
If you joined Bluesky during the Beta, congratulations, you are now officially a Bluesky Elder! You will be assigned a rocking chair, a single cloud to shake a fist at, and a Chesty Gandalf Action Figure and/or Orca pool floatee while supplies last. Enjoy your new, completely inconsequential status!
February 7, 2024 at 2:22 AM
🦇: No WiFi since November because of a Cisco wireless access point that never got shipped and is apparently stuck at Amazon. The product is now only available used for double the price (otherwise we would just reorder). This is getting old.
January 13, 2024 at 1:12 PM