“Few could object to any of this. But the person it describes—a kind and conscientious sort, who aspires to make a decent living and who looks after their loved ones—seems blessedly gender-free. So why make this about manhood?”

Such a clear distillation of patriarchy as an organizing principle

easy recipe is downthread. godspeed

oh that looks lovely!

massive own goal there alison, I’m sorry for your loss :(

oh don’t worry I am cozy as hell. thanks for the nice wishes 💗

A moister and richer cake "if preferred" hell no brother give me that dry diet cake all day every day

It’s ridiculous. I love it so much

Yeah ideally this “cake” is a very firm slurry that will cause you to fail a drug test

No problem Needhi, the year is turning cozy and we all need good books & treats 💕

I’m going to interpret this as you being very happy for me. Thank you! 😊

it’s so dark