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Ms. Beady Bead 💆🏾♀️💞♍️ | 📍NC | Love is a verb!
"My soliloquy may be hard for some to swallow, but so is cod liver oil" — Andre 3000
"My soliloquy may be hard for some to swallow, but so is cod liver oil" — Andre 3000
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To love someone is to attend a thousand births of who they’re becoming
August 30, 2025 at 1:52 AM
To love someone is to attend a thousand births of who they’re becoming
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I think I think too much
August 14, 2025 at 10:23 PM
I think I think too much
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My family hates when I say “that ain’t got nothing to do with me” bc yeah.. that ain’t got nothing to do with me lol
May 24, 2025 at 3:46 AM
My family hates when I say “that ain’t got nothing to do with me” bc yeah.. that ain’t got nothing to do with me lol
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Grief really comes in waves. One day you’re good and then the next day you wake up and you feel everything all over again
April 25, 2025 at 10:12 PM
Grief really comes in waves. One day you’re good and then the next day you wake up and you feel everything all over again
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One thing life gave me is resilience.
Resilience is, far and away, the single greatest factor to anything good that I have in my life.
Someone recently asked me what I want for the kids in my life. It’s this. Resilience. Because life ain’t fair & you gotta live it anyway.
Resilience is, far and away, the single greatest factor to anything good that I have in my life.
Someone recently asked me what I want for the kids in my life. It’s this. Resilience. Because life ain’t fair & you gotta live it anyway.
April 11, 2025 at 1:50 PM
One thing life gave me is resilience.
Resilience is, far and away, the single greatest factor to anything good that I have in my life.
Someone recently asked me what I want for the kids in my life. It’s this. Resilience. Because life ain’t fair & you gotta live it anyway.
Resilience is, far and away, the single greatest factor to anything good that I have in my life.
Someone recently asked me what I want for the kids in my life. It’s this. Resilience. Because life ain’t fair & you gotta live it anyway.
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Learn when someone’s season in your life is over and let them go. Don’t prolong the inevitable. Don’t try to hold on. If something leaves/ends, it’s absolutely necessary and FOR you!
February 21, 2025 at 2:33 PM
Learn when someone’s season in your life is over and let them go. Don’t prolong the inevitable. Don’t try to hold on. If something leaves/ends, it’s absolutely necessary and FOR you!
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Anything you put your hands on will flourish
Every step you take will lead you to success
Your name will be mentioned at places of opportunities
If you should miss any chance it should be because there’s better waiting for you.
God’s got you!
Happy new year 🙌🏾🙏🏾
Every step you take will lead you to success
Your name will be mentioned at places of opportunities
If you should miss any chance it should be because there’s better waiting for you.
God’s got you!
Happy new year 🙌🏾🙏🏾
January 1, 2025 at 9:31 AM
Anything you put your hands on will flourish
Every step you take will lead you to success
Your name will be mentioned at places of opportunities
If you should miss any chance it should be because there’s better waiting for you.
God’s got you!
Happy new year 🙌🏾🙏🏾
Every step you take will lead you to success
Your name will be mentioned at places of opportunities
If you should miss any chance it should be because there’s better waiting for you.
God’s got you!
Happy new year 🙌🏾🙏🏾
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17 years ago today, Mary J. Blige released her album “Growing Pains.”
What are 3️⃣ of your favorite songs?
What are 3️⃣ of your favorite songs?
December 18, 2024 at 5:04 AM
17 years ago today, Mary J. Blige released her album “Growing Pains.”
What are 3️⃣ of your favorite songs?
What are 3️⃣ of your favorite songs?
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When it’s your time, God will cause the universe to work together for your good. Everything will align. Every line will fall in the right place. The right people will hear your name. Money will move to you. Opportunity will track you down
It will be like a dream.
It will be like a dream.
December 18, 2024 at 11:24 AM
When it’s your time, God will cause the universe to work together for your good. Everything will align. Every line will fall in the right place. The right people will hear your name. Money will move to you. Opportunity will track you down
It will be like a dream.
It will be like a dream.
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Me, as soon as I arrive at any social event:
I’m so ready to go home
December 18, 2024 at 10:51 AM
Me, as soon as I arrive at any social event:
Being a trusting person by default speaks to the safety you felt as a child but can be detrimental in adulthood. Snakes are not always in the grass…
December 18, 2024 at 12:36 PM
Being a trusting person by default speaks to the safety you felt as a child but can be detrimental in adulthood. Snakes are not always in the grass…
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I refuse to feel rushed just because the world around me doesn't know how to slow down & breathe
December 15, 2024 at 5:21 PM
I refuse to feel rushed just because the world around me doesn't know how to slow down & breathe
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The greatest distance between two people is misunderstanding.
Had a much needed conversation that needed to be had tonight. I’m a firm believer in having good communication with people. A lot can be cleared up if you just sit down like adults and really let everything out. I mean no stone left unturned. Let out everything
November 30, 2024 at 7:59 AM
The greatest distance between two people is misunderstanding.
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That line dance where they flick their fans on TikTok? I'm up trying to learn that rn.
November 30, 2024 at 7:45 AM
That line dance where they flick their fans on TikTok? I'm up trying to learn that rn.
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It’s a nice balance of righteousness and ratchet-ness #balance
I open my Bluesky feed and it is full of really cool people saying really smart things and being really passionate about really interesting stuff.
I like this version of social media, and the world.
Thanks, folks.
I like this version of social media, and the world.
Thanks, folks.
November 20, 2024 at 5:04 PM
It’s a nice balance of righteousness and ratchet-ness #balance
I gotta tell you something so come in close…
You’re not an imposter, the other folks at the table are. Let’s work on renewing our thoughts.
You’re not an imposter, the other folks at the table are. Let’s work on renewing our thoughts.
November 20, 2024 at 1:01 PM
I gotta tell you something so come in close…
You’re not an imposter, the other folks at the table are. Let’s work on renewing our thoughts.
You’re not an imposter, the other folks at the table are. Let’s work on renewing our thoughts.
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The peace on Bluesky has made Twitter seem WORSE.
November 19, 2024 at 7:42 PM
The peace on Bluesky has made Twitter seem WORSE.
Watching Call The Midwife on Netflix and over here gritting my teeth and squirming like I’m giving birth.🤦🏾♀️
November 20, 2024 at 12:24 AM
Watching Call The Midwife on Netflix and over here gritting my teeth and squirming like I’m giving birth.🤦🏾♀️
Praying that my thoughts are clear and articulate for this interview today 🙏🏾
November 19, 2024 at 1:41 PM
Praying that my thoughts are clear and articulate for this interview today 🙏🏾
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You could do everything right and someone will still have something negative to say about you lol. DO YOU. They can kick rocks
November 19, 2024 at 2:09 AM
You could do everything right and someone will still have something negative to say about you lol. DO YOU. They can kick rocks