Tam With The Yams
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Hi! I’m Tam ✨
I dabble in a little bit of everything; anime and cosplay for funsies. I’m a spiritual gworly, a content creator, and occasionally I like to talk a lil 💩
I dabble in a little bit of everything; anime and cosplay for funsies. I’m a spiritual gworly, a content creator, and occasionally I like to talk a lil 💩
My man, my man, my man, my baby, my babehhh
November 8, 2025 at 7:05 AM
My man, my man, my man, my baby, my babehhh
Know thyself lol
November 5, 2025 at 3:31 PM
Know thyself lol
Lacking accountability will always be a lose-lose situation. You’re avoidant because you fear the outcome, but your refusal to move in honesty and truth perpetuates the very aspects of your life that you hate (e.g., imbalanced or disingenuous connections, stagnation, etc.).
November 5, 2025 at 2:55 PM
Lacking accountability will always be a lose-lose situation. You’re avoidant because you fear the outcome, but your refusal to move in honesty and truth perpetuates the very aspects of your life that you hate (e.g., imbalanced or disingenuous connections, stagnation, etc.).
News Flash: Even if you’re the person investing more into the connection, you’re JUST as responsible for the imbalance and co-dependent nature of the relationship. By not setting boundaries, you’re an active participant in the dynamic.
Inability to set boundaries is indicative of a deeper issue.
Inability to set boundaries is indicative of a deeper issue.
November 5, 2025 at 2:46 PM
News Flash: Even if you’re the person investing more into the connection, you’re JUST as responsible for the imbalance and co-dependent nature of the relationship. By not setting boundaries, you’re an active participant in the dynamic.
Inability to set boundaries is indicative of a deeper issue.
Inability to set boundaries is indicative of a deeper issue.
Everyday I realize that the bar for self-awareness is in the deepest pits of hell. Why are you not regularly assessing your reactions and responses to things?
People can understand the concept of studying for a test to get a passing score, but not self-reflection to become a better person.
People can understand the concept of studying for a test to get a passing score, but not self-reflection to become a better person.
November 5, 2025 at 2:30 PM
Everyday I realize that the bar for self-awareness is in the deepest pits of hell. Why are you not regularly assessing your reactions and responses to things?
People can understand the concept of studying for a test to get a passing score, but not self-reflection to become a better person.
People can understand the concept of studying for a test to get a passing score, but not self-reflection to become a better person.
Shame and guilt are not inherently “bad” emotions; they’re indicators of your capacity to feel and empathize. But responding with deflection and avoidance over accountability and truth indicates a lack of emotional and mental intelligence.
November 5, 2025 at 2:26 PM
Shame and guilt are not inherently “bad” emotions; they’re indicators of your capacity to feel and empathize. But responding with deflection and avoidance over accountability and truth indicates a lack of emotional and mental intelligence.
Channeling the restraint of my ancestors because chile…..
November 3, 2025 at 9:13 PM
Channeling the restraint of my ancestors because chile…..
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No one should have to face that. It's a respect thing. Happy Birthday to you. Never forget what they show you...
November 2, 2025 at 10:45 AM
No one should have to face that. It's a respect thing. Happy Birthday to you. Never forget what they show you...
I don’t really get in my feelings about my birthday, but being in my life and not acknowledging my shit at all is crazy asf
November 2, 2025 at 7:38 AM
I don’t really get in my feelings about my birthday, but being in my life and not acknowledging my shit at all is crazy asf
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🔥
November 1, 2025 at 8:15 PM
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Birthday Behavior 💙
November 1, 2025 at 8:14 PM
Birthday Behavior 💙
America already pissing me tf off
October 22, 2025 at 7:53 PM
America already pissing me tf off
You take all the pressure off my mind ❤️
October 18, 2025 at 8:01 PM
You take all the pressure off my mind ❤️
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BTW I didn't miss your point, I just thought you needed to know.
October 12, 2025 at 7:29 PM
BTW I didn't miss your point, I just thought you needed to know.
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Well, you are gorgeous.
October 12, 2025 at 7:29 PM
Well, you are gorgeous.
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I was in a tiny town in East Europe and they just could not understand how I got there😭 they will just stand and stare like deer on the side of the road😭
One even said [translation] "no issues at all with Black people, but understand I have never seen one of y'all outside of TV before"
One even said [translation] "no issues at all with Black people, but understand I have never seen one of y'all outside of TV before"
October 12, 2025 at 10:49 AM
I was in a tiny town in East Europe and they just could not understand how I got there😭 they will just stand and stare like deer on the side of the road😭
One even said [translation] "no issues at all with Black people, but understand I have never seen one of y'all outside of TV before"
One even said [translation] "no issues at all with Black people, but understand I have never seen one of y'all outside of TV before"
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Same as a black man. Especially, in spaces we typically do not occupy😅😅
As a black woman that travels a lot, you really just have to get used to people staring at you lol.
October 12, 2025 at 9:40 AM
Same as a black man. Especially, in spaces we typically do not occupy😅😅
As a black woman that travels a lot, you really just have to get used to people staring at you lol.
October 12, 2025 at 8:55 AM
As a black woman that travels a lot, you really just have to get used to people staring at you lol.
I just feel like once your supporters consist of mostly men and pick mes, you’ve lost credibility.
October 10, 2025 at 6:59 AM
I just feel like once your supporters consist of mostly men and pick mes, you’ve lost credibility.
The hate and simultaneous mimicry of African American culture is insane lol.
October 8, 2025 at 6:36 AM
The hate and simultaneous mimicry of African American culture is insane lol.
I wouldn’t even attempt to drive in Italy 😭😭😭
October 8, 2025 at 6:26 AM
I wouldn’t even attempt to drive in Italy 😭😭😭
Italy to me is Vegas for others. I might come back with husband idk
October 7, 2025 at 4:09 PM
Italy to me is Vegas for others. I might come back with husband idk
Male-centered women will always fail 😒
October 7, 2025 at 2:19 PM
Male-centered women will always fail 😒
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SALUTE!
a woman is singing into a microphone on stage .
Alt: Beyonce in silver is singing into a microphone on stage and saluting .
media.tenor.com
October 6, 2025 at 1:34 PM
SALUTE!
Glo is slowly making moves that undermines and opposes Miss Megan. And aside from the ridiculousness…that’s not smart. Because baby A LOT OF PEOPLE only f with you because of Megan Pete 🤨
Be forreal mfer
Be forreal mfer
October 6, 2025 at 7:16 PM
Glo is slowly making moves that undermines and opposes Miss Megan. And aside from the ridiculousness…that’s not smart. Because baby A LOT OF PEOPLE only f with you because of Megan Pete 🤨
Be forreal mfer
Be forreal mfer