vividdreamer
@officialdea.bsky.social
here for the ladies, gaydies, & theydies only.
singing/sleeping. loving gently.
34. they/them. celestial nonbinary femme.
singing/sleeping. loving gently.
34. they/them. celestial nonbinary femme.
there’s nothing more valuable to me in this healing journey than experiencing and practicing attunement.
after spending years being neglected and -not- having that? yeah, thaaaat’s the absolute bare minimum i’m willing to accept in any relationship.
after spending years being neglected and -not- having that? yeah, thaaaat’s the absolute bare minimum i’m willing to accept in any relationship.
December 29, 2025 at 12:28 AM
there’s nothing more valuable to me in this healing journey than experiencing and practicing attunement.
after spending years being neglected and -not- having that? yeah, thaaaat’s the absolute bare minimum i’m willing to accept in any relationship.
after spending years being neglected and -not- having that? yeah, thaaaat’s the absolute bare minimum i’m willing to accept in any relationship.
omg, my spouse. 😭😭😭😭
Nothing.
No reason at all.
Women randomly: “I think I want some crab legs.”
No reason at all.
Women randomly: “I think I want some crab legs.”
December 29, 2025 at 12:21 AM
omg, my spouse. 😭😭😭😭
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When you can do both 💅🏾
Would you rather wrap a present or fold a fitted sheet?? 🤔🫤
December 28, 2025 at 8:34 PM
When you can do both 💅🏾
always always always your biggest fan and supporter, my love 🥰 @twentyonesavages.bsky.social
December 18, 2025 at 5:22 AM
always always always your biggest fan and supporter, my love 🥰 @twentyonesavages.bsky.social
having one of those (sleepy) pinch-me moments, because my spouse’s smile and laugh is truly everything. i swoooooon. 🥹
December 18, 2025 at 5:10 AM
having one of those (sleepy) pinch-me moments, because my spouse’s smile and laugh is truly everything. i swoooooon. 🥹
it’s friday and i’m FINALLY finishing the last few pages of this dashboard that’s taken me…6+ months to develop. thank goodness. and then i gotta put in more applications lol.
December 12, 2025 at 2:16 PM
it’s friday and i’m FINALLY finishing the last few pages of this dashboard that’s taken me…6+ months to develop. thank goodness. and then i gotta put in more applications lol.
so, i am once again trying to learn the football.
i, currently, understand the concept of a kick-back, the downs, and the yards.
this is also very emotionally overwhelming, omg. everything is…strange. but i am trying!
i, currently, understand the concept of a kick-back, the downs, and the yards.
this is also very emotionally overwhelming, omg. everything is…strange. but i am trying!
December 9, 2025 at 2:19 AM
so, i am once again trying to learn the football.
i, currently, understand the concept of a kick-back, the downs, and the yards.
this is also very emotionally overwhelming, omg. everything is…strange. but i am trying!
i, currently, understand the concept of a kick-back, the downs, and the yards.
this is also very emotionally overwhelming, omg. everything is…strange. but i am trying!
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… thankful for this life of mine.
December 6, 2025 at 6:37 PM
… thankful for this life of mine.
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Here's a rule of thumb: If "AI" seems like a good solution, you are probably both misjudging what the "AI" can do and misframing the problem.
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December 7, 2025 at 4:55 AM
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not being able to take pain meds before tomorrow is….ngl, kinda wanna rip my stomach out? 🥲 my god.
December 3, 2025 at 10:07 PM
not being able to take pain meds before tomorrow is….ngl, kinda wanna rip my stomach out? 🥲 my god.
as of today, i have -officially- started watching one piece.
i can internally hear six of my friends yelling ‘FINALLY’ lmaooo.
i can internally hear six of my friends yelling ‘FINALLY’ lmaooo.
November 21, 2025 at 5:38 PM
as of today, i have -officially- started watching one piece.
i can internally hear six of my friends yelling ‘FINALLY’ lmaooo.
i can internally hear six of my friends yelling ‘FINALLY’ lmaooo.
omg??? 🥹💞💞💞
My wife looks good everyday .. but gah damn today ? 🫠
October 30, 2025 at 4:56 PM
omg??? 🥹💞💞💞
ya body really do fall apart as soon as you feel safe in a relationship lmaooo. but i’m glad i’m finally feeling like a whole person after seven years.
waking up feeling rested and not exhausted in and of itself is one of the biggest blessings.
waking up feeling rested and not exhausted in and of itself is one of the biggest blessings.
October 30, 2025 at 1:18 AM
ya body really do fall apart as soon as you feel safe in a relationship lmaooo. but i’m glad i’m finally feeling like a whole person after seven years.
waking up feeling rested and not exhausted in and of itself is one of the biggest blessings.
waking up feeling rested and not exhausted in and of itself is one of the biggest blessings.
chile, soon as one thing gets knocked off-kilter in my life, i be going GHOST. 😭 i got two (?) more procedures to get done and then hopefully i’ll feel better enough to come out my damn cave. niggas is tide.
October 30, 2025 at 1:09 AM
chile, soon as one thing gets knocked off-kilter in my life, i be going GHOST. 😭 i got two (?) more procedures to get done and then hopefully i’ll feel better enough to come out my damn cave. niggas is tide.
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That’s the thing about healthy relationships. It gives you the space and safety for self development which helps you become a better partner
October 29, 2025 at 5:22 PM
That’s the thing about healthy relationships. It gives you the space and safety for self development which helps you become a better partner
i’m late in the game, but i’m about to formalize this dbt/snowflake addition to my tech stack.
sql (in a few ides) has gotten me far!! but i’m growing in my career & super excited to -officially- start being able to take on more.
(if i can survive javascript then maybe i can survive anything??)
sql (in a few ides) has gotten me far!! but i’m growing in my career & super excited to -officially- start being able to take on more.
(if i can survive javascript then maybe i can survive anything??)
August 19, 2025 at 2:32 AM
i’m late in the game, but i’m about to formalize this dbt/snowflake addition to my tech stack.
sql (in a few ides) has gotten me far!! but i’m growing in my career & super excited to -officially- start being able to take on more.
(if i can survive javascript then maybe i can survive anything??)
sql (in a few ides) has gotten me far!! but i’m growing in my career & super excited to -officially- start being able to take on more.
(if i can survive javascript then maybe i can survive anything??)
i really almost came on here to document my experience with 24mg melatonin in my system but thankfully i have only consumed my usual 12 LOL
August 19, 2025 at 1:34 AM
i really almost came on here to document my experience with 24mg melatonin in my system but thankfully i have only consumed my usual 12 LOL
coming out of my absolute overwhelm and dread to share a joy pocket bc niggas got engaged during ii hands ii heaven on the fourth of july 🥹🥹🥹
July 14, 2025 at 3:32 AM
coming out of my absolute overwhelm and dread to share a joy pocket bc niggas got engaged during ii hands ii heaven on the fourth of july 🥹🥹🥹
this mf be out here in sweatpants and i be tryna sop them up. like…. yeah. just buff as all hell.
they my first bad bitch fr. 😭 bc do i know how to act?!? absolutely not!!
they my first bad bitch fr. 😭 bc do i know how to act?!? absolutely not!!
June 28, 2025 at 2:03 AM
this mf be out here in sweatpants and i be tryna sop them up. like…. yeah. just buff as all hell.
they my first bad bitch fr. 😭 bc do i know how to act?!? absolutely not!!
they my first bad bitch fr. 😭 bc do i know how to act?!? absolutely not!!
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capitalism is bad because it incentivizes every profit-seeking company on earth to call anything attached to an algorithm "AI" even though they are wildly different technologies utilizing totally unrelated forms of machine learning, literally none of which actually qualify as Artificial Intelligence
June 20, 2025 at 11:07 PM
capitalism is bad because it incentivizes every profit-seeking company on earth to call anything attached to an algorithm "AI" even though they are wildly different technologies utilizing totally unrelated forms of machine learning, literally none of which actually qualify as Artificial Intelligence
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Resistance is not a one size fits all model.
Your activism doesn't mean less if you are kept from a protest because of disability, childcare, or access restrictions, etc.
It's a great sense of community, but every form of support matters. You aren't less than because of your circumstances.
Your activism doesn't mean less if you are kept from a protest because of disability, childcare, or access restrictions, etc.
It's a great sense of community, but every form of support matters. You aren't less than because of your circumstances.
June 14, 2025 at 1:30 AM
Resistance is not a one size fits all model.
Your activism doesn't mean less if you are kept from a protest because of disability, childcare, or access restrictions, etc.
It's a great sense of community, but every form of support matters. You aren't less than because of your circumstances.
Your activism doesn't mean less if you are kept from a protest because of disability, childcare, or access restrictions, etc.
It's a great sense of community, but every form of support matters. You aren't less than because of your circumstances.
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there is no such thing as “ethical ai” given the environmental and labor issues inherent to literally all of it
June 14, 2025 at 1:17 AM
there is no such thing as “ethical ai” given the environmental and labor issues inherent to literally all of it
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in very very desperate need of silence and not thinking for an extended period of time 😭
May 27, 2025 at 6:37 PM
in very very desperate need of silence and not thinking for an extended period of time 😭
it’s been four days i been icing my shoulder and neck, this is truly thirty four.
June 6, 2025 at 5:00 PM
it’s been four days i been icing my shoulder and neck, this is truly thirty four.