vividdreamer
@officialdea.bsky.social
here for the ladies, gaydies, & theydies only.
singing/sleeping. loving gently.
34. they/them. celestial nonbinary femme.
singing/sleeping. loving gently.
34. they/them. celestial nonbinary femme.
mannn, i be so anxious thinking about leaving my pup at home during outings. 😭 and then i just miss him after like an hour.
i am definitely a dog person, bc that’s my tiny besfren. 🥹
i am definitely a dog person, bc that’s my tiny besfren. 🥹
January 3, 2026 at 4:45 PM
mannn, i be so anxious thinking about leaving my pup at home during outings. 😭 and then i just miss him after like an hour.
i am definitely a dog person, bc that’s my tiny besfren. 🥹
i am definitely a dog person, bc that’s my tiny besfren. 🥹
been about you & i’m still about you 🥹💞😍🥰✨
January 3, 2026 at 4:44 PM
been about you & i’m still about you 🥹💞😍🥰✨
every day is truly a blessing. happy first day of this new year!! ✨💞🎊
January 1, 2026 at 2:48 PM
every day is truly a blessing. happy first day of this new year!! ✨💞🎊
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may palestinians see freedom in 2026
January 1, 2026 at 2:55 AM
may palestinians see freedom in 2026
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2026 is dedicated to prosperity, friendship, and health.
December 31, 2025 at 3:12 PM
2026 is dedicated to prosperity, friendship, and health.
there’s nothing more valuable to me in this healing journey than experiencing and practicing attunement.
after spending years being neglected and -not- having that? yeah, thaaaat’s the absolute bare minimum i’m willing to accept in any relationship.
after spending years being neglected and -not- having that? yeah, thaaaat’s the absolute bare minimum i’m willing to accept in any relationship.
December 29, 2025 at 12:28 AM
there’s nothing more valuable to me in this healing journey than experiencing and practicing attunement.
after spending years being neglected and -not- having that? yeah, thaaaat’s the absolute bare minimum i’m willing to accept in any relationship.
after spending years being neglected and -not- having that? yeah, thaaaat’s the absolute bare minimum i’m willing to accept in any relationship.
omg, my spouse. 😭😭😭😭
Nothing.
No reason at all.
Women randomly: “I think I want some crab legs.”
No reason at all.
Women randomly: “I think I want some crab legs.”
December 29, 2025 at 12:21 AM
omg, my spouse. 😭😭😭😭
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When you can do both 💅🏾
Would you rather wrap a present or fold a fitted sheet?? 🤔🫤
December 28, 2025 at 8:34 PM
When you can do both 💅🏾
always always always your biggest fan and supporter, my love 🥰 @twentyonesavages.bsky.social
December 18, 2025 at 5:22 AM
always always always your biggest fan and supporter, my love 🥰 @twentyonesavages.bsky.social
having one of those (sleepy) pinch-me moments, because my spouse’s smile and laugh is truly everything. i swoooooon. 🥹
December 18, 2025 at 5:10 AM
having one of those (sleepy) pinch-me moments, because my spouse’s smile and laugh is truly everything. i swoooooon. 🥹
it’s friday and i’m FINALLY finishing the last few pages of this dashboard that’s taken me…6+ months to develop. thank goodness. and then i gotta put in more applications lol.
December 12, 2025 at 2:16 PM
it’s friday and i’m FINALLY finishing the last few pages of this dashboard that’s taken me…6+ months to develop. thank goodness. and then i gotta put in more applications lol.
so, i am once again trying to learn the football.
i, currently, understand the concept of a kick-back, the downs, and the yards.
this is also very emotionally overwhelming, omg. everything is…strange. but i am trying!
i, currently, understand the concept of a kick-back, the downs, and the yards.
this is also very emotionally overwhelming, omg. everything is…strange. but i am trying!
December 9, 2025 at 2:19 AM
so, i am once again trying to learn the football.
i, currently, understand the concept of a kick-back, the downs, and the yards.
this is also very emotionally overwhelming, omg. everything is…strange. but i am trying!
i, currently, understand the concept of a kick-back, the downs, and the yards.
this is also very emotionally overwhelming, omg. everything is…strange. but i am trying!
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… thankful for this life of mine.
December 6, 2025 at 6:37 PM
… thankful for this life of mine.
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Here's a rule of thumb: If "AI" seems like a good solution, you are probably both misjudging what the "AI" can do and misframing the problem.
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December 7, 2025 at 4:55 AM
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not being able to take pain meds before tomorrow is….ngl, kinda wanna rip my stomach out? 🥲 my god.
December 3, 2025 at 10:07 PM
not being able to take pain meds before tomorrow is….ngl, kinda wanna rip my stomach out? 🥲 my god.
as of today, i have -officially- started watching one piece.
i can internally hear six of my friends yelling ‘FINALLY’ lmaooo.
i can internally hear six of my friends yelling ‘FINALLY’ lmaooo.
November 21, 2025 at 5:38 PM
as of today, i have -officially- started watching one piece.
i can internally hear six of my friends yelling ‘FINALLY’ lmaooo.
i can internally hear six of my friends yelling ‘FINALLY’ lmaooo.
ya body really do fall apart as soon as you feel safe in a relationship lmaooo. but i’m glad i’m finally feeling like a whole person after seven years.
waking up feeling rested and not exhausted in and of itself is one of the biggest blessings.
waking up feeling rested and not exhausted in and of itself is one of the biggest blessings.
October 30, 2025 at 1:18 AM
ya body really do fall apart as soon as you feel safe in a relationship lmaooo. but i’m glad i’m finally feeling like a whole person after seven years.
waking up feeling rested and not exhausted in and of itself is one of the biggest blessings.
waking up feeling rested and not exhausted in and of itself is one of the biggest blessings.
chile, soon as one thing gets knocked off-kilter in my life, i be going GHOST. 😭 i got two (?) more procedures to get done and then hopefully i’ll feel better enough to come out my damn cave. niggas is tide.
October 30, 2025 at 1:09 AM
chile, soon as one thing gets knocked off-kilter in my life, i be going GHOST. 😭 i got two (?) more procedures to get done and then hopefully i’ll feel better enough to come out my damn cave. niggas is tide.
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That’s the thing about healthy relationships. It gives you the space and safety for self development which helps you become a better partner
October 29, 2025 at 5:22 PM
That’s the thing about healthy relationships. It gives you the space and safety for self development which helps you become a better partner
i’m late in the game, but i’m about to formalize this dbt/snowflake addition to my tech stack.
sql (in a few ides) has gotten me far!! but i’m growing in my career & super excited to -officially- start being able to take on more.
(if i can survive javascript then maybe i can survive anything??)
sql (in a few ides) has gotten me far!! but i’m growing in my career & super excited to -officially- start being able to take on more.
(if i can survive javascript then maybe i can survive anything??)
August 19, 2025 at 2:32 AM
i’m late in the game, but i’m about to formalize this dbt/snowflake addition to my tech stack.
sql (in a few ides) has gotten me far!! but i’m growing in my career & super excited to -officially- start being able to take on more.
(if i can survive javascript then maybe i can survive anything??)
sql (in a few ides) has gotten me far!! but i’m growing in my career & super excited to -officially- start being able to take on more.
(if i can survive javascript then maybe i can survive anything??)
i really almost came on here to document my experience with 24mg melatonin in my system but thankfully i have only consumed my usual 12 LOL
August 19, 2025 at 1:34 AM
i really almost came on here to document my experience with 24mg melatonin in my system but thankfully i have only consumed my usual 12 LOL
coming out of my absolute overwhelm and dread to share a joy pocket bc niggas got engaged during ii hands ii heaven on the fourth of july 🥹🥹🥹
July 14, 2025 at 3:32 AM
coming out of my absolute overwhelm and dread to share a joy pocket bc niggas got engaged during ii hands ii heaven on the fourth of july 🥹🥹🥹
this mf be out here in sweatpants and i be tryna sop them up. like…. yeah. just buff as all hell.
they my first bad bitch fr. 😭 bc do i know how to act?!? absolutely not!!
they my first bad bitch fr. 😭 bc do i know how to act?!? absolutely not!!
June 28, 2025 at 2:03 AM
this mf be out here in sweatpants and i be tryna sop them up. like…. yeah. just buff as all hell.
they my first bad bitch fr. 😭 bc do i know how to act?!? absolutely not!!
they my first bad bitch fr. 😭 bc do i know how to act?!? absolutely not!!