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Nicky
@nickycdr.bsky.social
Bi feminist, she/her
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They have not spoken to us directly since the investigation was announced. They made the decision to take away what for my daughter was life saving care without ever hearing from us or taking into account the harm of that decision. It’s been devastating. Thank you for talking about it.
November 6, 2025 at 10:58 AM
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To be really clear, Sussex ICB threatened, in writing, to close a Brighton GP practice serving 25,000 patients, purely to bully them into passing over child records. The GP did not want to pass on these records, because they understood the acute risk (& reality) of harm to trans adolescents.
Sophie's article is back up with a statement from the ICB. They are lying. They threatened Well BN with closure if they weren't given access to our childs records. Well BN held off for months, trying to stop them.
"Laura fears all will be lost if ICB Sussex forces her child off the medication.

If ICB Sussex get their own way in a matter of weeks and they force detransition, Olive may well take her life."

northwestbylines.co.uk/news/health/...
November 6, 2025 at 10:31 AM
Sophie's article is back up with a statement from the ICB. They are lying. They threatened Well BN with closure if they weren't given access to our childs records. Well BN held off for months, trying to stop them.
"Laura fears all will be lost if ICB Sussex forces her child off the medication.

If ICB Sussex get their own way in a matter of weeks and they force detransition, Olive may well take her life."

northwestbylines.co.uk/news/health/...
NHS threatens GP practice over trans care
A GP practice in Brighton and Hove is currently under investigation for legally providing gender affirming care to trans teens
northwestbylines.co.uk
November 6, 2025 at 10:20 AM
If you have been reading my posts and wondering how you can help, donating to Anne Health would be a good way. Many of the kids are on blockers via the NHS because they can't afford to go private. I know times are tough, so sharing this instead would be helpful if you can't afford to donate.
This Christmas, give a gift that can change lives. ✨

Across the UK, thousands of trans+ people face years-long waitlists and barriers to the care they need.

We’re asking you to donate to our Christmas fundraiser. Even £5 can make a difference. anne.health/christmas/ #CareForXmas
November 5, 2025 at 8:25 AM
The hypocrisy of the ICB is shocking. They refuse to allow us a right to reply. They don't turn up for meetings with us. They refuse to speak to us at all. They make decisions on his treatment whilst refusing to even meet him or discuss with us. Where's our right to reply?
My reporting has touched a nerve with Sussex ICB.

They contacted North West Bylines to remove my article untill they give a right to reply. They already gave a statement, which is included in the article.

I think they're rattled.

TBC.........

www.thepinknews.com/2025/11/04/p...
Parents of trans teens condemn puberty blocker ban
Parents of trans teens have spoke out about the "horrific" impact of the puberty blockers ban imposed by successive UK governments.
www.thepinknews.com
November 5, 2025 at 12:20 AM
Thank you for all the kind words and support. Can I please ask a favour? Can you spread this story as far and wide as you can. Share it with people you know, forward it to your MP's, anyone in the public eye that might be supportive. This is unbelievably horrific, and no one knows about it..
My son is on blockers legally from before the ban and we did everything they told us to do and now we are being threatened with social services if we don't allow them to "safely withdraw" medication. They admit that the impact will be "stark" for our kids but they are going to do it anyway.
"Laura fears all will be lost if ICB Sussex forces her child off the medication.

If ICB Sussex get their own way in a matter of weeks and they force detransition, Olive may well take her life."

northwestbylines.co.uk/news/health/...
November 4, 2025 at 10:00 AM
My son is on blockers legally from before the ban and we did everything they told us to do and now we are being threatened with social services if we don't allow them to "safely withdraw" medication. They admit that the impact will be "stark" for our kids but they are going to do it anyway.
"Laura fears all will be lost if ICB Sussex forces her child off the medication.

If ICB Sussex get their own way in a matter of weeks and they force detransition, Olive may well take her life."

northwestbylines.co.uk/news/health/...
NHS threatens GP practice over trans care
A GP practice in Brighton and Hove is currently under investigation for legally providing gender affirming care to trans teens
northwestbylines.co.uk
November 3, 2025 at 3:22 PM
I keep seeing people say that although the Green Party are rising rapidly, they won't win the next election. This is the thinking that has kept us stuck in a 2 party system. Kept us voting for the least worst option. We need to change our thinking first if we want to change our politics....
October 20, 2025 at 9:56 AM
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ANNOUNCEMENT
This evening, 14/10/25 the Trans Advocacy and Complaints Collective and the Trans Exile Network have taken the next step in the struggle to restore the human rights, dignity & safety of UK trans people.
October 14, 2025 at 8:13 PM
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🎉 We've done it. We've passed 100,000 Green Party members!

📈 But we're not stopping there.

💚 Let's make hope normal again! Join the Green Party today!
October 13, 2025 at 7:01 AM
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My child was a patient there also and the ICB have put us through hell in the last few months. They released a public statement at the exact moment they knew we were being told about the investigation, stating that our children would be having their medication "safely withdrawn"....
October 11, 2025 at 8:38 AM
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Laurel Hubbard weightlifting in 2020 who left the competition after suffering potentially career ending arm injury.

But I digress, fast forward from 2004 again, trans people have been living relatively normal lives, the 2010 equality act is passed with further protections for Trans people

5/26
September 23, 2025 at 10:09 AM
We are leaving the country in February because we can't cope with how unsafe this country has become for my trans son, I had no hope that it would get better anytime soon. But I have to say watching @zackpolanski.bsky.social these last few weeks is giving me a tiny bit of hope...
September 7, 2025 at 8:44 AM
I will not be verifying my age on here or anywhere else. Given how corrupt this government are and how happy they are to harm trans children, I dont for a minute believe this is about safety. I can see I have unread messages, im sorry but I won't be able to read them.
July 25, 2025 at 5:55 AM
@zackpolanski.bsky.social I have just joined The Green Party in order to vote for you because we cannot have another party with transphobic leaders. We are being forced to leave the country to protect my trans child. Please assure me that you won't do a u turn on trans rights as we really want...
July 21, 2025 at 7:19 PM
I was in the toilet at a Mexican restaurant in Brighton at the weekend when a trans woman came out of the stall to wash her hands. She looked terrified and was doing everything she could to avoid me. I wanted to say something reassuring and tell her how sorry I am, but I was worried I would scare..
July 21, 2025 at 10:16 AM
Please share this as much as possible. They are threatening to access the records without consent, force the children to the gender clinics, and stop their hormones, with threats of police and social services if you refuse. youtu.be/Rw3hkic9Lzw?...
Dr. Sam Hall tells us what's going on at WellBN in Brighton
YouTube video by Trans Pride Brighton
youtu.be
July 17, 2025 at 5:05 PM
I wish the world could see how much trans kids can thrive with the right support. My son has had some tough times lately, but he bounces back. I genuinely believe it's because he is getting the help he needs. I know he is one of the lucky ones, I talk to parents who have been unable....
June 26, 2025 at 8:19 AM
This made me mad this morning. Have to fill out an online form to get my son a GP appointment to be met with this. Apparently its crucial to know in order for them to help with his swollen knees. Won't let me bypass it either.
June 23, 2025 at 8:03 AM
My confident, happy trans child couldn't face walking in the parade at Pride yesterday. My son, who happily walked last year waving his trans flag and blowing on his whistle. He told me he didn't feel safe. I'm so unbelievably angry.
June 15, 2025 at 10:36 AM
What will it take for the majority of people in this country to wake up and see the horrific way trans people are being treated right now? As the parents of a trans child, we are just utterly exhausted with the daily onslaught of shit aimed at our child....
June 5, 2025 at 12:57 PM
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Always remember they're going after trans people not because trans people became too public, not because trans people asked for too much, not because trans people had too many genders, not because trans people were annoying online.

They're going after trans people because they lost to gay people.
February 28, 2025 at 3:16 AM
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February 20, 2025 at 4:12 AM
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The press has successfully turned trans people existing into a problem

All it took was several years of right-wing disinformation, editorial bias and a near-total exclusion of our voices

Yay for democracy /s
🧵/ Where does the British public stand on transgender rights in 2024/5?

The 4th study in our series shows that scepticism has grown across the board over the last two years, including among groups typically more sympathetic to trans people

yougov.co.uk/politics/art...
February 11, 2025 at 1:23 PM
I have a question for my trans friends if you don't mind helping. How do I guide my 12 year-old trans son through dating? I have always said that it is entirely up to him whether he tells people or not. He is unsure about it all, as normal for his age, I want to help him, but no clue how?
February 11, 2025 at 1:30 PM