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Nicky
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Bi feminist, she/her
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New Fairytale of New York lyrics just dropped... 😮‍💨

Grace Petrie 👏
December 22, 2025 at 7:32 AM
Watching the GC lot tear into Cass is interesting. The narrative is that she has always pandered to trans children. Meanwhile, I'm sat hearing the stories every day of the children whose lives she has absolutely destroyed. Stories of parents who are distraught and don't know where to turn.
December 2, 2025 at 3:03 PM
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Thank you and your continued support means more to us that you could ever know. If you like, you can email Sussex ICB and tell them exactly what thier insistence on following policy is doing to children.

sxicb.complaints@nhs.net
November 28, 2025 at 11:01 AM
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Six lies transphobes tell about puberty blockers – debunked

www.thepinknews.com/...

#transgender #trans #LGBTQ #LGBTQIA
Six lies transphobes tell about puberty blockers - debunked
Ahead of the NHS PATHWAYs puberty blockers trial, PinkNews debunks six lies commonly told about puberty blockers.
www.thepinknews.com
November 26, 2025 at 8:38 PM
This is part one of my series on what it's like to be involved in the ICB Sussex investigation. unsilentmum.substack.com/p/part-one-l...
Part One: Living Through the ICB Sussex Investigation
The reality of what care at WellBN was really like for my child
unsilentmum.substack.com
November 26, 2025 at 1:42 PM
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Evidence has now emerged of the adverse consequences of the laws banning GAHT for trans youth in both the US and UK. This includes sharp declines in mental health and increased suicide attempts among transgender young people.

t.co/YZaiSgdDAl
https://www.nature.com/articles/s41562-024-01979-5
t.co
November 26, 2025 at 8:51 AM
In order to document what is happening to my child and other trans children, I have started to write about it on Substack. I'm going to keep a record of everything that happened in the past and everything that happens moving forward. unsilentmum.substack.com/p/what-is-ha...
What Is Happening to Our Trans Children
How thriving children were pushed into fear by systems meant to protect them.
unsilentmum.substack.com
November 25, 2025 at 3:13 PM
1 - My son and I met with Wes Streeting last year with other families. He heard the most horrific stories of children refused blockers and how it impacts them. We begged him not to ban blockers, and he promised to work with us, to have further meetings.
Trans Safety Network are extremely concerned that DHSC are continuing to solicit input on trans healthcare from Bayswater and other anti trans groups after a reply to our previous concerns stated they would not work with groups who promote harmful practices or discriminatory views
Wes Streeting continues to ignore safeguarding concerns about parents group linked to abusive practices
Trans Safety Network has seen evidence Wes Streeting and the DHSC solicited feedback on a “puberty blocker risk form” from Bayswater Support Group and other anti-trans groups in September 2025, 6 mont...
transsafety.network
November 24, 2025 at 1:08 PM
Not once, ever.
Cis people, how many times have you been asked to describe how you masturbate, and what you think about when you do, to access healthcare on the NHS?
November 22, 2025 at 2:48 PM
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Also at the end of the 24 month study, after 12 or 24 months on blockers, the young people have to go back to MDT review panel at the end of the study and every year for renewed approval of continuation of blockers. There's a serious threat of withdrawal of blockers hanging over them for years.
puberty blockers for trans kids with no prospect of moving to HRT after is like dangling somebody over an active volcano and going "what don't you feel better already? you're not even falling yet!"
November 22, 2025 at 1:50 PM
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Under new NHS puberty blocker trial protocols, trans youth are being subjected to more than 50 assessments, intrusive exams, and over 13 hours of intrusive testing - just to access lifesaving healthcare

It demands young people re-live distress & undergo intimate examinations

#ConversionPractices
Trans Young People Face 50+ Tests and Hours of Intrusive Assessments in the PATHWAYS Puberty…
The publication of the PATHWAYS puberty blocker trial protocols reveals how trans young people are required to complete more than fifty…
medium.com
November 22, 2025 at 12:00 PM
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I wrote this thread last night based on the leaked protocol. The protocol is now public and matches the leaked one. All of my very serious concerns about this abusive study stand. Please read the below thread for more
Some leaked (not verified) info on the puberty blocker trial linked here. In my own thread I will briefly highlight the two key measures they are prioritising. A short thread 1
A Substacker named Ben Ryan tweeted that "the long-awaited UK puberty blocker clinical trial protocol is out."

Shortly thereafter he deleted the post. I can't find a public version of the protocol but here's what I was able to salvage from the screenshot + post.

[A THREAD]
November 22, 2025 at 1:29 PM
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What
November 22, 2025 at 11:53 AM
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I've written about the gross questions trans children are asked in the non-puberty blocker trial part of the service here

growinguptransgender.com/2025/09/19/q...
Questioning trans kids
The UK Government and UK research councils have contributed £10 million pounds to a series of research studies on service users of the newly established Children and Young People’s Gender Services.…
growinguptransgender.com
November 21, 2025 at 10:06 PM
The puberty blocker trial is about to start according to the BBC, led by Dr Emily Simonoff. The same Dr who spoke at a symposium organised by Segm, a group designated an anti trans hate group by the Southern Poverty Law Centre /1
organizers-congress.org/frontend/ind...
C3-Konferenzzeitplan – 21st international Congress of the ESCAP 2025
organizers-congress.org
November 22, 2025 at 6:07 AM
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my secret transgender project… @annehealthcare.bsky.social
November 20, 2025 at 12:21 AM
The amazing F1nnster is doing a live fundraiser at the moment for Anne Health - please share as wide as possible.
www.twitch.tv/f1nn5ter
F1NN5TER - Twitch
🏳️‍⚧️ WE BUILT A TRANS CLINIC/CHARITY 🏳️‍⚧️ raising $$$ for patients!! | !anne
www.twitch.tv
November 19, 2025 at 8:52 PM
This is what NHS England and ICB Sussex are doing to our children. The worst part is that no one wants to hear it. People don't believe us. Since the election, I have been begging my MP to meet with me, and I was supposed to meet tomorrow, and he cancelled.

growinguptransgender.com/2025/11/19/h...
Harming trans kids – Using art to capture the impacts of the Sussex ICB investigation
When puberty blockers were banned in June 2024, the legislation included a clause stating that those currently on blockers would not be medically detransitioned, and could continue care if adopted …
growinguptransgender.com
November 19, 2025 at 1:39 PM
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Trans healthcare saves lives 💙

It’s not a slogan — it’s reality. Access to care means safety, dignity, and the chance to live fully.

📸 @alonglines • @transpridebrighton
November 14, 2025 at 5:03 PM
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They have not spoken to us directly since the investigation was announced. They made the decision to take away what for my daughter was life saving care without ever hearing from us or taking into account the harm of that decision. It’s been devastating. Thank you for talking about it.
November 6, 2025 at 10:58 AM
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To be really clear, Sussex ICB threatened, in writing, to close a Brighton GP practice serving 25,000 patients, purely to bully them into passing over child records. The GP did not want to pass on these records, because they understood the acute risk (& reality) of harm to trans adolescents.
November 6, 2025 at 10:31 AM
If you have been reading my posts and wondering how you can help, donating to Anne Health would be a good way. Many of the kids are on blockers via the NHS because they can't afford to go private. I know times are tough, so sharing this instead would be helpful if you can't afford to donate.
This Christmas, give a gift that can change lives. ✨

Across the UK, thousands of trans+ people face years-long waitlists and barriers to the care they need.

We’re asking you to donate to our Christmas fundraiser. Even £5 can make a difference. anne.health/christmas/ #CareForXmas
November 5, 2025 at 8:25 AM
Thank you for all the kind words and support. Can I please ask a favour? Can you spread this story as far and wide as you can. Share it with people you know, forward it to your MP's, anyone in the public eye that might be supportive. This is unbelievably horrific, and no one knows about it..
November 4, 2025 at 10:00 AM
I keep seeing people say that although the Green Party are rising rapidly, they won't win the next election. This is the thinking that has kept us stuck in a 2 party system. Kept us voting for the least worst option. We need to change our thinking first if we want to change our politics....
October 20, 2025 at 9:56 AM
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ANNOUNCEMENT
This evening, 14/10/25 the Trans Advocacy and Complaints Collective and the Trans Exile Network have taken the next step in the struggle to restore the human rights, dignity & safety of UK trans people.
October 14, 2025 at 8:13 PM