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Psychic Death and Transitions with @badlylickedbear.bsky.social

Queer Death Salon is a facilitated drop-in discussion space with the purpose of building connection, skill & resources for 2SLGBTQIA+ people navigating grief & end of life.

More info & registration: www.eventbrite.ca/e/psychic-de...
An image of Badly Licked Bear gazing to the right with shimmery pink lipstick, swept back wavy hair, her hands clad in black leather gloves rest upon her pearl necklace. She is the foreground to green leather texture background with event information all around her. Psychic Death and Transitions Tuesday December 16 at 7 p.m. EST Badly Licked Bear loves death. As a transsexual person, as an Indigenous person, as an adoption survivor, as someone who works with the knowledge of the body and of bodies, death is a constant companion in her work. Participants will be held in exploring psychic deaths, what it means to be “once dead and twice born,” and how our sexuality often skirts, confronts, plays with, or outright embraces death. What does it mean to bring death and the process of death consciously into one’s daily life and practices? Queer Death Salon is a community space for all 2SLGBTQIA+ people to come together to discuss death, dying and grief. It is a facilitated drop-in discussion space, with the purpose of building connection, skill, and resources for 2SLGBTQIA+ people navigating end of life in our personal lives and in our communities. Participants are encouraged to bring their own questions, stories, and complexities to share. Automatic closed captioning is enabled for the zoom session. Follow the link in bio for more information about Badly Licked Bear, on format and accessibility, and to get the zoom link.
November 19, 2025 at 10:18 PM
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November 18, 2025 at 2:50 PM
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Grieving Medically Assisted Death at Queer Death Salon.

Queer Death Salon is a facilitated drop-in discussion space with the purpose of building connection skill & resources for 2SLGBTQIA+ people navigating end of life.

More info and registration: www.eventbrite.ca/o/queer-comm...
Grieving Medically Assisted Deaths Tuesday November 18 at 7 p.m. EST Medically assisted death is becoming more common globally, and yet there are few places to share about this experience. Join us as we discuss our experience and share about our loved ones who chose medically assisted death at the end of their lives. Some questions to consider: How did you support or interact with the decision making around this choice? What opportunities has this choice opened up? How did this compare to other deaths you’ve experienced? How does it feel to know ahead of time when a loved one will die?
November 9, 2025 at 12:53 PM
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Join us tonight!

Sign up here:

www.eventbrite.com/e/sexual-ber...
October 21, 2025 at 12:41 PM
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"In some places, French postal workers now pick up prescriptions, return library books, and deliver flowers. Last year, only twenty eight per cent of La Poste’s revenue came from sending mail."

Services can evolve in positive ways to meet new and growing needs.
juliennedanvers.bsky.social Julienne Danvers (WE WANT TRAINS!! 🚂) @juliennedanvers.bsky.social · Sep 25
For those who wonder what a modern postal service could look like, one example is in France, where letter carriers provide check-ins on the elderly for very affordable rates, while completing their routes.

I encourage everyone to read the whole thing

#CanadaPost

www.newyorker.com/culture/anna...
In France, Elder Care Comes with the Mail
Carriers for La Poste have a new job: checking in on the aged.
www.newyorker.com
September 26, 2025 at 2:59 PM
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queerdeathcare.bsky.social
Tuesday October 21 at 7pm eastern Let’s gather and engage with our questions and feelings about: sex after the death of a loved one. the disenfranchised grief of polyamorous and kinky relational loss. how pleasure and erotic energy can support our mourning. changes in desire as death approaches for ourselves or a loved one. cultural expectations of how a widow should act and our internalized stories about that. anything sex/pleasure and bereavement related. No question is too taboo. Jess will invite folks to participate in embodiment exercises, freewrite and consider the ways they want to be in relationship to their sexual expression within their (anticipatory) grief. Jess DeVries is a queer somatic sex coach and grief worker. She primarily serves the queer/trans community supporting folks in reclaiming body autonomy and to inspire curiosity about pleasure and sexual expression, guiding folks to define and pursue pleasure on their own terms. She is a grief advocate who regularly facilitates spaces for people to grieve, inviting the wisdom of the body to guide the grief process. Queer Death Salon is a community space for all 2SLGBTQIA+ people to come together to discuss death, dying and grief. It is a facilitated drop-in discussion space, with the purpose of building connection, skill, and resources for 2SLGBTQIA+ people navigating end of life in our personal lives and in our communities. Participants are encouraged to bring their own questions, stories, and complexities to share. Automatic closed captioning is enabled for the zoom session. Follow the link in bio for more information about Jess, on format and accessibility, and to get the zoom link.
September 26, 2025 at 9:40 PM
motherarchetype.bsky.social
It has been so long since I’ve taken any pervy photos. Truly these times have chilled my desire to be horny on the Internet. Which is a deep loss.
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Recently I took my boy to a secluded off grid cabin. We were only clothed long enough to make a game of removing clothes. This is an image of him standing and facing away from the camera. His white y-front undies have been sliced away, exposing his luscious butt. My ankh flogger by Talisman Leather is resting over his shoulder while I take a break to enjoy the view.
September 24, 2025 at 12:27 PM
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queerdeathcare.bsky.social
Tues Sept 9 7pm eastern on zoom.

Grief & Political Identity

What is the meaning of grief in the context of political identity? Who gets to grieve? When? How?

Prepare to move just a bit, think critically, sow hope, & acknowledge the grief of living in this world & dreaming the futures we desire!
What is the meaning of grief in the context of political identity? Who gets to grieve? When? How? Drawing from her own intersectional identity and spiritual evolution, Victoria is thrilled to guide us through an exploration of our bodies and minds as we discuss what roles we have to play in our unfolding future. Prepare to move just a bit, think critically, sow hope, and acknowledge the grief of living in this world while dreaming into the futures we desire! Victoria Rutledge is a tenured yoga teacher and certified death doula, with experience leading group processing sessions, leading workshops and retreats, and hospice volunteering. Passionate about self inquiry and creating an equitable and just world for all people, she finds purpose in creating spaces to hold the vastness of the human experience. This is a facilitated drop-in space hosted on zoom, in English, with automated closed captioning. The purpose is building connection, skill, and resources for 2SLGBTQIA+ people navigating end of life in our personal lives and in our communities. Follow the link to learn more about Victoria and register for the zoom session. See you September 9th at 7pm eastern
September 7, 2025 at 9:26 PM
motherarchetype.bsky.social
The cool thing about pride celebrations is they happen all over the place on different days. If you live in a city, where prides are quite large, consider a little roadtrip to a smaller town to bolster their numbers and make new friends!
leannelapspace.bsky.social leannelapspace.bsky.social @leannelapspace.bsky.social · Jun 15
Another day, another sweet and strong small town Pride!
June 15, 2025 at 1:41 PM
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I hope to see you there!
queerdeathcare.bsky.social Queer Community Deathcare @queerdeathcare.bsky.social · Jun 15
Tuesday June 17 7-8:30 pm eastern time we are hosting a Queer Death Salon for 2SLGBTQIA+ about disability at end of life

Find out more information, and get the zoom link at www.eventbrite.ca/e/june-queer...

#deathpositive #disability #grief #queer #lgbtq #death #crip
An image of a hellebore with informational text above and below saying: Queer Death Salon Tuesday June 17 7 to 8:30 pm eastern time Topic: Disability at end of life Facilitated by Carrie Batt Hosted by Queer Community Deathcare On zoom with automatic closed captioning
June 15, 2025 at 1:35 PM
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queerdeathcare.bsky.social Queer Community Deathcare @queerdeathcare.bsky.social · Apr 30
Tuesday May 6 7-8:30 pm eastern time we are hosting a Queer Death Salon for 2SLGBTQIA+ people who have lost others to overdose and tainted supply.

Find out more information, and get the zoom link at www.eventbrite.ca/o/queer-comm...

#deathpositive #overdose #grief #queer #lgbtq #death #lavender
And image of freshly picked lavender and sweetgrass with text overlay as follows: Queer Death Salon Tuesday May 6 7pm eastern time topic: loss from overdose and tainted supply On zoom with automatic closed captioning Hosted by Queer Community Deathcare
April 30, 2025 at 12:37 PM
motherarchetype.bsky.social
One way to counter repression is to get louder
queerdeathcare.bsky.social Queer Community Deathcare @queerdeathcare.bsky.social · Apr 5
Recording, archiving, sharing, and performing our stories are acts of resistance.

Join us for a 2-day workshop where you'll learn to shape a piece that highlights your meaningful life moments and connects deeply with others.

www.eventbrite.ca/e/telling-my...
Telling My Queer Story
Interested in releasing your inner queer storyteller? Learn how to craft and shape the stories that define your life as 2SLGBTQIA+
www.eventbrite.ca
April 5, 2025 at 4:55 PM
motherarchetype.bsky.social
You’re invited. Bring your friends.
queerdeathcare.bsky.social Queer Community Deathcare @queerdeathcare.bsky.social · Apr 3
Tuesday April 15 7-8:30 pm eastern
we are having a zoom session for 2SLGBTQIA+ people who have lost people to suicide and are looking to share space with people who have lived through similar circumstances.

Find out more:

queercommunitydeathcare.ca/queer-death-...

#death #suicide #grief #queer
April 3, 2025 at 7:32 PM
motherarchetype.bsky.social
This weekend I got to force feed some pups some Queen Anne cordial cherries until their mouths and throats could hold not more and there was spit up to rub their snouts in and vomit to praise them for.

Invite me to all your parties 🍒
March 22, 2025 at 2:55 AM
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queerdeathcare.bsky.social
Tuesday March 11 7-8:30 pm eastern we are having a zoom about Writing, Preserving and Sharing our Stories. Optionally includes pre-writing our own obituaries!

Join us and guest Jeffrey Canton of Queers In Your Ears

queercommunitydeathcare.ca/queer-death-...

#deathpositive #lgbtq #archive #story
March 3, 2025 at 9:50 PM
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TRAILER DROP! We're thrilled to announce the first in a new series from AORTA films... CUMPILATIONS: 10 Years of Group Scenes features the hottest moments from our best queer & trans gangbangs and orgies!! Premieres March 7th only at aortafilms.com
March 1, 2025 at 3:10 PM
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Assigned was on the ground and in the Discord, reporting on the historic return to the streets of foundational trans rights activist group Transexual Menace, @transexualmenace.bsky.social

@valorievandieman.bsky.social has our story, with photos and additional reporting by Simon Feisthauer Fournet.
Reclaiming Our History, Transexual Menace Roars Back to Life at Stonewall — Assigned
A fiery rally outside Stonewall Inn marked the re-emergence of an activist group that had been a force from the days of Brandon Teena. “You never really get away from being a menace,” a founder said, ...
www.assignedmedia.org
February 24, 2025 at 1:15 PM
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andrewgurza.bsky.social Andrew Gurza @andrewgurza.bsky.social · Feb 23
I just had to finance a bigger Macbook because the one I had was smaller and was getting hard to type on due to my Cerebral Palsy. I use my laptop to create my podcast and do all the posts about disability. It was about $3K. If you want to help finance the work I do: paypal.me/andrewgurza6
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February 24, 2025 at 5:48 PM
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queerdeathcare.bsky.social Queer Community Deathcare @queerdeathcare.bsky.social · Feb 17
Late last year I was interviewed for this podcast and had such a lovely conversation with the hosts. Give it a listen and find out what scares me most about death.

www.buzzsprout.com/2257447/epis...
End of Life Conversations podcast. Episode name: Compassionate End-of-Life Care for the 2SLGBTQIA+ Community with Tiana Dargent Published February 6 2025 Rev Annalouiza Armendariz & Rev Wakil David Matthews & Tiana Dargent Season 3 Episode 6 33 minutes 46 seconds in length Tiana’s name is misspelled with an extra N in the podcast title so she edited it to be correct on this image.
February 17, 2025 at 12:57 PM
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Whoops I forgot to post here but Tuesday Feb 11th we’re doing a Queer Death Salon with presenters talking about medical assistance in dying and a discussion afterwards.

#deathpositive #maid

queercommunitydeathcare.ca/queer-death-...
February 11, 2025 at 3:44 AM
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queerdeathcare.bsky.social Queer Community Deathcare @queerdeathcare.bsky.social · Feb 6
Guest speakers from Dying with Dignity Canada lead us through the choices around accessing medical assistance in dying with discussion where we can ask questions and share experiences about MAiD and how it relates to our lives.

www.eventbrite.ca/o/queer-comm...

#deathpositive #maid #lgbtq #queer
Tuesday, February 11 at 7 p.m. EST Medical Assistance in Dying We will be joined by two guest speakers from Dying with Dignity Canada who will lead us through the choices that come up around accessing medical assistance in dying. In Canada (and likely elsewhere), there are important concerns tied to the way MAiD is made available while other life-saving supports are not. Although the presentation will not focus on these aspects, the presentation will be followed by discussion where we can ask questions and share experiences about MAiD and how it relates to our lives. Expect engaging discussions and a supportive community to share your thoughts and experiences. This session is for people curious about MAiD, who are considering it for themselves, or with loved ones who have accessed or applied for MAiD. On zoom with closed captioning. Hosted by Tiana Dargent of Queer Community Deathcare
February 6, 2025 at 4:43 AM
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Suddenly, out of nowhere, a declassified World War II-era CIA guide to sabotaging fascism in the workplace has become one of the most popular free ebooks on the internet:

www.404media.co/declassified...
Declassified CIA Guide to Sabotaging Fascism Is Suddenly Viral
The World War II-era "Simple Sabotage Field Manual" is full of steps that office workers can take to resist leadership.
www.404media.co
January 29, 2025 at 8:53 PM
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[Mexico City, Mexico]

Following the attempted murder of a trans woman. Cops just let the alleged perp go. So actionists from the Mexican sex workers union stormed the judicial building.

Via Ghost of Durruti
January 17, 2025 at 3:33 PM
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queerdeathcare.bsky.social
Often when I’ve spoken of the dead in the present tense, people got really uncomfortable about it. 😂😂

#deathpositive
marlo.ooo marlo @marlo.ooo · Jan 16
david lynch on angelo badalamenti, who passed away in 2022
MS: I've noticed that all the way through this conversation David, you've referred to him in the present tense. DL: You have to keep Angelo alive. I believe life is a continuum, and that no one really dies, they just drop their physical body and we'll all meet again, like the song says. It's sad but it's not devastating if you think like that. Otherwise I don't see how anybody could ever, once they see someone die, that they'd just disappear forever and that's what we're all bound to do. I'm sorry but it just doesn't make any sense, it's a continuum, and we're all going to be fine at the end of the story.
January 17, 2025 at 12:36 AM