Meg V
@megthegray.bsky.social
She/her 💜🤍🖤 Proud childless cat lady. Web dev, cosplay, sci-fi/fantasy/romantasy book nerd.
Getting ready for Gallifrey One with a fun but casual group cosplay. #gally1 #DoctorWho
November 13, 2025 at 6:11 PM
Getting ready for Gallifrey One with a fun but casual group cosplay. #gally1 #DoctorWho
I feel so seen.
There's often a suggestion that sex-favorable ace people have an easy road. But sex-favorable asexuality is still asexuality.
Sex-favorable asexuality *is* asexuality.
Being sex-favorable isn't an "easier" form of asexuality.
acedadadvice.substack.com
November 10, 2025 at 6:20 PM
I feel so seen.
I don't think this is exclusively an ace reaction but the way I guffawed at this...
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TikTok - Make Your Day
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November 7, 2025 at 7:29 PM
I don't think this is exclusively an ace reaction but the way I guffawed at this...
vm.tiktok.com/ZNdwHB5x4/
vm.tiktok.com/ZNdwHB5x4/
Today's new birb friend was a phoebe.
November 6, 2025 at 5:46 AM
Today's new birb friend was a phoebe.
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Raise a glass to freedom! 🍻
November 5, 2025 at 3:55 AM
Raise a glass to freedom! 🍻
New birb visitors today!
October 31, 2025 at 3:24 AM
New birb visitors today!
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Colder weather is here, and my seasonal depression is around the corner, so chances are slim I'm gonna put up with your internet bullshit. lol
October 30, 2025 at 7:07 PM
Colder weather is here, and my seasonal depression is around the corner, so chances are slim I'm gonna put up with your internet bullshit. lol
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The Republicans' shutdown message is abundantly clear:
Let us jack up millions of people's health care costs or we'll starve the poor.
I wish that was an exaggeration. It's not.
Let us jack up millions of people's health care costs or we'll starve the poor.
I wish that was an exaggeration. It's not.
October 28, 2025 at 3:50 PM
The Republicans' shutdown message is abundantly clear:
Let us jack up millions of people's health care costs or we'll starve the poor.
I wish that was an exaggeration. It's not.
Let us jack up millions of people's health care costs or we'll starve the poor.
I wish that was an exaggeration. It's not.
The excitement when the new camera bird feeder gets its first bird!
October 27, 2025 at 10:29 PM
The excitement when the new camera bird feeder gets its first bird!
Finally reading Bookshops & Bonedust by @travisbaldree.bsky.social after having it on my shelf for almost 2 years. Cozy fantasy doesn't always land for me but so far I'm loving this even more than Legends & Lattes.
October 26, 2025 at 11:12 PM
Finally reading Bookshops & Bonedust by @travisbaldree.bsky.social after having it on my shelf for almost 2 years. Cozy fantasy doesn't always land for me but so far I'm loving this even more than Legends & Lattes.
Just started reading Blind Date with a Werewolf by @mercysgarage.bsky.social. One date in and I am howling (not in a wolfish way). 🤣 Asil's POV is SO fantastic.
October 24, 2025 at 11:51 PM
Just started reading Blind Date with a Werewolf by @mercysgarage.bsky.social. One date in and I am howling (not in a wolfish way). 🤣 Asil's POV is SO fantastic.
The outsides is full of frens.
October 24, 2025 at 9:59 PM
The outsides is full of frens.
This made me think. I like romance in my stories, but what I really love is *relationships* in my stories. Found family is also huge for me....see the Twisted Luck series by Mel Todd with an aroace MC. And there's a spicy book I love because the platonic BFF side story was so moving to me.
Ace week thread!
Every ace author I know is very aware that romance sells books. It can be a hard thing to grapple with. Not every ace author is comfortable writing romantic relationships—and even if we are, it's not great to feel like we HAVE to or else we're shooting ourselves in the foot. (1/?)
Every ace author I know is very aware that romance sells books. It can be a hard thing to grapple with. Not every ace author is comfortable writing romantic relationships—and even if we are, it's not great to feel like we HAVE to or else we're shooting ourselves in the foot. (1/?)
October 22, 2025 at 10:49 PM
This made me think. I like romance in my stories, but what I really love is *relationships* in my stories. Found family is also huge for me....see the Twisted Luck series by Mel Todd with an aroace MC. And there's a spicy book I love because the platonic BFF side story was so moving to me.
For asexual week, here's a lovely description of being demi. 🖤🤍💜
October 22, 2025 at 11:49 AM
For asexual week, here's a lovely description of being demi. 🖤🤍💜
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"i hope this site doesn't end up like the last one :("
Hope has nothing to do with it--DO YOUR PART!
Twitter & Truth Social are dying. Their users are used to farming outrage for engagement. Don't give them any!
🚫 Don't argue with them!
🚫 Don't quote them!
✅ #BlockAndMoveOn
Hope has nothing to do with it--DO YOUR PART!
Twitter & Truth Social are dying. Their users are used to farming outrage for engagement. Don't give them any!
🚫 Don't argue with them!
🚫 Don't quote them!
✅ #BlockAndMoveOn
November 16, 2024 at 9:53 PM
"i hope this site doesn't end up like the last one :("
Hope has nothing to do with it--DO YOUR PART!
Twitter & Truth Social are dying. Their users are used to farming outrage for engagement. Don't give them any!
🚫 Don't argue with them!
🚫 Don't quote them!
✅ #BlockAndMoveOn
Hope has nothing to do with it--DO YOUR PART!
Twitter & Truth Social are dying. Their users are used to farming outrage for engagement. Don't give them any!
🚫 Don't argue with them!
🚫 Don't quote them!
✅ #BlockAndMoveOn
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bluesky got me hooked by showing me posts by people I like and follow on purpose
October 16, 2025 at 6:23 AM
bluesky got me hooked by showing me posts by people I like and follow on purpose
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Chug your metal vials, drain your spheres, ink your soul stamps, and prepare your Breath #WoTSkies… Brandon will be attending #JordanCon2026!!!
October 13, 2025 at 10:40 PM
Chug your metal vials, drain your spheres, ink your soul stamps, and prepare your Breath #WoTSkies… Brandon will be attending #JordanCon2026!!!
Random things I saw while playing #PokemonGo this morning.
October 13, 2025 at 2:27 PM
Random things I saw while playing #PokemonGo this morning.
Tron: Ares thoughts:
I went into it with a pretty good idea of what to expect and I didn't think I would like the plot, just went for the visuals and music. The second half fit that more or less, but the first half was a BLAST. I regret not seeing it in 3D. I do not regret buying souvenirs.
I went into it with a pretty good idea of what to expect and I didn't think I would like the plot, just went for the visuals and music. The second half fit that more or less, but the first half was a BLAST. I regret not seeing it in 3D. I do not regret buying souvenirs.
October 10, 2025 at 10:57 PM
Tron: Ares thoughts:
I went into it with a pretty good idea of what to expect and I didn't think I would like the plot, just went for the visuals and music. The second half fit that more or less, but the first half was a BLAST. I regret not seeing it in 3D. I do not regret buying souvenirs.
I went into it with a pretty good idea of what to expect and I didn't think I would like the plot, just went for the visuals and music. The second half fit that more or less, but the first half was a BLAST. I regret not seeing it in 3D. I do not regret buying souvenirs.
Winning the @dragoncon.org Marriott Hunger Games thanks to one person getting assigned 38 in the random queue woooo!
October 8, 2025 at 10:29 PM
Winning the @dragoncon.org Marriott Hunger Games thanks to one person getting assigned 38 in the random queue woooo!
I tried to create my first route in Pokemon Go and it didn't go so well. 🤣 Either recognize that I did in fact walk to the park where the pokestops are to pick a starting point OR give me a pokestop at home so it makes sense. I wouldn't complain about the latter!
October 6, 2025 at 12:39 PM
I tried to create my first route in Pokemon Go and it didn't go so well. 🤣 Either recognize that I did in fact walk to the park where the pokestops are to pick a starting point OR give me a pokestop at home so it makes sense. I wouldn't complain about the latter!
I enjoyed The Phoenix Keeper by @authorsamaclean.bsky.social by Voidwalker might be one of my favorite books I've read this year. Really hope @illumicrate.bsky.social does book 2 too!
October 5, 2025 at 4:32 AM
I enjoyed The Phoenix Keeper by @authorsamaclean.bsky.social by Voidwalker might be one of my favorite books I've read this year. Really hope @illumicrate.bsky.social does book 2 too!
First thoughts on the new Taylor Swift album:
- The Fate of Ophelia, Eldest Daughter, Wi$h Li$t and CANCELLED! are early faves for me
- I had to listen to Wood 3x because what 🤣
- The title track was not at all what I was expecting 🤔
- The Fate of Ophelia, Eldest Daughter, Wi$h Li$t and CANCELLED! are early faves for me
- I had to listen to Wood 3x because what 🤣
- The title track was not at all what I was expecting 🤔
October 3, 2025 at 5:09 AM
First thoughts on the new Taylor Swift album:
- The Fate of Ophelia, Eldest Daughter, Wi$h Li$t and CANCELLED! are early faves for me
- I had to listen to Wood 3x because what 🤣
- The title track was not at all what I was expecting 🤔
- The Fate of Ophelia, Eldest Daughter, Wi$h Li$t and CANCELLED! are early faves for me
- I had to listen to Wood 3x because what 🤣
- The title track was not at all what I was expecting 🤔