No emails are doctored as @digitaldavina.bsky.social claims. There has never been a need for that. The accusation reflects her thinking. When accountability feels threatening, some people project their own avoidance onto those they once called community. Honesty would have resolved this early.

I’ve expanded and edited my essays on autism and ableism into one full piece, now with audio.

If You’re Autistic, You Are Disabled explores internalised ableism, race, and liberation.

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2/Your inner child doesn’t need to be exiled, but they can’t drive.

When you let unhealed parts of you steer, every relationship becomes a reenactment. Healing begins the moment the adult takes the wheel and says, “We don’t live there anymore.”

✍🏾 Read or listen: 👇🏾

Every morning I make plans. #Autism rewrites them, #ADHD loses them, and somehow I end up reorganizing the fridge at 3 a.m.

Small talk isn’t harmless for autistic & ADHD professionals. It’s labor, not glue. In workplaces it allocates access, credit & care while punishing clarity, esp. in Black neurodivergent women. Directness is care. Clarity is ethical.

#Autism #ADHD #Neurodivergent #WorkplaceCulture #Inclusion