No emails are doctored as @digitaldavina.bsky.social claims. There has never been a need for that. The accusation reflects her thinking. When accountability feels threatening, some people project their own avoidance onto those they once called community. Honesty would have resolved this early.

The lies by @digitaldavina.bsky.social have continued even with full screen recordings, timestamps, and written agreements. This is not confusion. It is a pattern. Documentation exists and has been consistent from the start.

2/ nah amma need us to hug and eat our safe foods and actually be safe around certain folks y’hear. Cos we are hilarious.

I sure do and also my meetings with my autistic women always is them explaining their autism to me and I am like Maam I told you you were autistic I literally saw you from space and here you are giving me a 40 minute lecture on the thing I told you plus adding “you understand” 1/2

You betta stop now 😂😂😂 I did my best with this essay to help I even made an audio you know 30 minutes plus!

3/ But we’re not creating safety. We’re training the nervous system to expect danger every time we speak.

2/ Every time we over-explain, we reactivate the emotional circuitry that encoded the original harm. The autistic brain stores every sensory cue from social pain. When similar cues appear, the amygdala fires. The body prepares for loss. So we talk, justify, add detail hoping for protection. But ⤵️

Thank you for sharing ✊🏾✨

Hey Miriam! You are a good one I appreciate you 🫂❤️

erase it it just burns you out faster.

Many don’t realise that to be diagnosed with #autism you must meet the threshold for disability. The DSM-5 requires “clinically significant impairment” in daily life.

So saying “I’m autistic but not disabled” isn’t self-acceptance, it’s a contradiction.

We out here! 😅

3/ link here

open.substack.com/pub/lovettej...

2/Your inner child doesn’t need to be exiled, but they can’t drive.

When you let unhealed parts of you steer, every relationship becomes a reenactment. Healing begins the moment the adult takes the wheel and says, “We don’t live there anymore.”

✍🏾 Read or listen: 👇🏾

This is exactly the problem - diagnostic criteria that exclude people who’ve learned to cope ‘too well.’ High IQ becomes a weapon against getting help because we’ve decided masking = fine, when really it = exhausted. Your kids deserve assessment regardless of grades or how quiet their struggles are.

4/When I get my sht together it’s over for you h**s.

But no one knows when that is, cos 1 minute I’m writing essays at 3am, next plotting beef with your grandma.

Whatever superpowers y’all claim we have…YOU end up becoming tge kryptonite we have to wade through.

We aren’t new. 🫵🏾 are tiring.

3/ Spectrum they said. I thought rainbow, soft glowing balls, titt*es maybe, unicorns a side of legos?

Reality: loud noises, busted ear, light too bright, brain buffering like 2001 dial-up modem.

Where’s my rainbow guys?