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'kay then。
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𝚅𝙸𝚅 𝙱𝚂
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👩🏼‍🦯👩🏼‍🦼🧛🏼‍♀️

ᴅᴀʀᴋ ʜᴜᴍᴏʀ ɪꜱ ᴍʏ ᴄᴏᴘɪɴɢ ᴍᴇᴄʜᴀɴɪꜱᴍ
Pinned
Beyond fed up with white performativism, fragility, tears, centrism, forcing POC to carry OUR emotional labor of responsibility, etc.

Anyone welcome: a space for unpacking complex feelings then doing more—not just feeling guilty.

#listen
#learn
#fuckwhitesupremacy

bsky.app/profile/did:...
Financial assistance agencies:

"Hey, we get that you're poor & disabled & already sent in tons of paperwork, but can you send it in again, in a stressful timeframe so we don't just throw your application out, to prove you're *still* poor and *still* disabled? K thx"
#burnedout
#poverty
#disabled
February 4, 2025 at 2:19 AM
youtu.be/hLeqbtaZf8M

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December 24, 2024 at 8:47 PM
cont.
And for some dark humor 🍒🍨:
Fueled by hatred?
What can I say, I'm white—runs in my veins 😂

The work it takes to dismantle the system pales in comparison to letting things stay the same.

I still have much to learn. Unlucky for you, I graduated Valedictorian. 😆

#fuckwhitesupremacy
cont.
Fellow whites, you have only yourselves to thank

I am now the villain you treated me as my whole life.

"Thanks" to you, I have little to lose. I eat up white guilt's garmonbozia 😆

When you grow up being so isolated & neglected that hatred feels like love?
Better believe it fuels me 😈
cont.
..thankful, because it is now impossible to NOT see the beast for what it is.

Tearing down white supremacy isn't just part of my responsibility as a human being.

It is also delicious vengeance, to see the shock in other white faces that one of their own WANTS to do this
December 24, 2024 at 4:58 AM
cont.
Fellow whites, you have only yourselves to thank

I am now the villain you treated me as my whole life.

"Thanks" to you, I have little to lose. I eat up white guilt's garmonbozia 😆

When you grow up being so isolated & neglected that hatred feels like love?
Better believe it fuels me 😈
cont.
..thankful, because it is now impossible to NOT see the beast for what it is.

Tearing down white supremacy isn't just part of my responsibility as a human being.

It is also delicious vengeance, to see the shock in other white faces that one of their own WANTS to do this
cont. (flare-up interrupted my thought stream 🙃)

So, being AuDHD + mirror-touch + CSAed + a pariah + becoming severely disabled (& treated like trash) + now learning how insidious white supremacy is, how it's part of EVERYTHING..

In a twisted way, I'm thankful all this happened..
December 24, 2024 at 4:54 AM
cont.
..thankful, because it is now impossible to NOT see the beast for what it is.

Tearing down white supremacy isn't just part of my responsibility as a human being.

It is also delicious vengeance, to see the shock in other white faces that one of their own WANTS to do this
cont. (flare-up interrupted my thought stream 🙃)

So, being AuDHD + mirror-touch + CSAed + a pariah + becoming severely disabled (& treated like trash) + now learning how insidious white supremacy is, how it's part of EVERYTHING..

In a twisted way, I'm thankful all this happened..
cont.
Mirror-touch = feeling others' emotions & physical sensations as my own.

I did not understand I had this growing up.

Nor did I understand others *didn't* have this.

I knew I didn't fit in since I was 3. I didn't understand why until my therapist taught me.
December 24, 2024 at 4:48 AM
cont. (flare-up interrupted my thought stream 🙃)

So, being AuDHD + mirror-touch + CSAed + a pariah + becoming severely disabled (& treated like trash) + now learning how insidious white supremacy is, how it's part of EVERYTHING..

In a twisted way, I'm thankful all this happened..
cont.
Mirror-touch = feeling others' emotions & physical sensations as my own.

I did not understand I had this growing up.

Nor did I understand others *didn't* have this.

I knew I didn't fit in since I was 3. I didn't understand why until my therapist taught me.
cont.
I am so grateful to her for blowing off the lid by teaching me about white supremacy.

I still have so much to learn.

What we've pieced together is that likely the whites around me *intentionally* kept their racism at bay around me.

I'm a mirror-touch synesthete.
December 24, 2024 at 4:44 AM
cont.
Mirror-touch = feeling others' emotions & physical sensations as my own.

I did not understand I had this growing up.

Nor did I understand others *didn't* have this.

I knew I didn't fit in since I was 3. I didn't understand why until my therapist taught me.
cont.
I am so grateful to her for blowing off the lid by teaching me about white supremacy.

I still have so much to learn.

What we've pieced together is that likely the whites around me *intentionally* kept their racism at bay around me.

I'm a mirror-touch synesthete.
cont.
I kept running into this issue, over & over: white friendships ending out of the blue. Even my autism wasn't making sense for why this kept happening.

After my former therapist retired, I purposely sought a Black female therapist to teach me about intersectionality, for my daughter
December 21, 2024 at 6:51 PM
cont.
I am so grateful to her for blowing off the lid by teaching me about white supremacy.

I still have so much to learn.

What we've pieced together is that likely the whites around me *intentionally* kept their racism at bay around me.

I'm a mirror-touch synesthete.
cont.
I kept running into this issue, over & over: white friendships ending out of the blue. Even my autism wasn't making sense for why this kept happening.

After my former therapist retired, I purposely sought a Black female therapist to teach me about intersectionality, for my daughter
cont.
What's even worse is if you try to confront them w/ how their actions impacted you: they'll get defensive or dismissive
i.e. your feelings DO NOT matter.

I can't think of a single white person who hasn't acted like this to some extent, with the exception of my former therapist
December 21, 2024 at 6:44 PM
cont.
I kept running into this issue, over & over: white friendships ending out of the blue. Even my autism wasn't making sense for why this kept happening.

After my former therapist retired, I purposely sought a Black female therapist to teach me about intersectionality, for my daughter
cont.
What's even worse is if you try to confront them w/ how their actions impacted you: they'll get defensive or dismissive
i.e. your feelings DO NOT matter.

I can't think of a single white person who hasn't acted like this to some extent, with the exception of my former therapist
Being white, having grown up in religious white circles, 100% makes sense.

It's like no one wants to have emotional intimacy—they wanna control each other and the narrative yet feel like a "good" person. And they don't care if the coldness and emotional isolation make you want to die.
December 21, 2024 at 6:38 PM
cont.
What's even worse is if you try to confront them w/ how their actions impacted you: they'll get defensive or dismissive
i.e. your feelings DO NOT matter.

I can't think of a single white person who hasn't acted like this to some extent, with the exception of my former therapist
Being white, having grown up in religious white circles, 100% makes sense.

It's like no one wants to have emotional intimacy—they wanna control each other and the narrative yet feel like a "good" person. And they don't care if the coldness and emotional isolation make you want to die.
December 21, 2024 at 6:30 PM
"If you really want to know how just, how civilized a society is, you have only to look at how it treats its poor, its prisoners, and its most despised citizens." ~James Baldwin
Let’s never forget the time men who are systemically dehumanized showed more care and compassion than the folks who get paid to oversee them and govern us.

Let’s always remember who chose humanity.
December 21, 2024 at 6:19 AM
I think any time Republican politicians or voters are *shocked,* this is just my go-to reaction:
December 21, 2024 at 6:12 AM
Oo! Next edit: Trump is the ventriloquist dummy 💩
Parody? 🤔🤣🤔
December 21, 2024 at 6:08 AM
Having attended a K-12 Christian school that was also pro-gun.. and gifted a .22 on my 17th birthday..
'cognitive dissonance' does not cover the feelings inside rn..
December 21, 2024 at 6:07 AM
Your last sentence—had to swallow my laugh so I didn't wake my toddler up.

How soon are dating profiles going to start including, "..and did I mention I'm NOT a mass murderer? 👉🏼😏👉🏼"

🫠💀
Ah the global christo-fascist, seven mountains, opus dei network has radicalized another weak-minded simp into becoming a psychotic mass murder. Must be a day ending in 'y.'
WOW: :Suspected Christmas Market Attacker Was Anti-Islam Activist. He had also shared pro-Israel content since the Oct. 7 attack, as well a support for Germany’s anti-immigration AfD party" per WSJ www.wsj.com/world/europe...
December 21, 2024 at 6:01 AM
If real life wasn't horrific atm, this would make a great Sims 2 love triangle

#MuskratLove 😂
#TrumpDumped
#Plumbobezos
Elon caught Trump cheating on him with Bezos. 😂
December 21, 2024 at 5:57 AM
Never have I ever considered setting up a Ponzi scheme to fool a billionaire into giving up his money for the greater good might be the most ethical solution... but even I'm surprised sometimes 😳
December 21, 2024 at 4:17 AM
I wouldn't be shocked if someone told me they took said funding agreement, folded it into a paper football, and made their next "decisions" based on wherever it landed on a roulette wheel..

#GOPolio
December 21, 2024 at 4:09 AM
When it seems so plausible you're not sure if it's satire or real life
December 21, 2024 at 3:31 AM
If it weren't such a fustercluck I'd say what a great photo for Disney-esque portraits of villainy
December 21, 2024 at 3:29 AM
Even Trump *winning* and his voters are losing their mind, except now in an "Oh crap" manner

#FAFO
A tale of two elections.
December 21, 2024 at 3:23 AM
Reposted by 'kay then。
December 14, 2024 at 3:06 AM
So the CEOs pulling this trash on ppl are asking us to include them in the wanted posters because they feel left out—that's what that means, right? 🤔
These CEOs ain’t scared enough if you ask me. You tell thousands of people that they no longer have employment AND no severance pay during the holidays? In this economy? They need to build a guilly in front of the CEO’s house.
December 20, 2024 at 10:56 PM
On the contrary, bigots are some of my greatest source of entertainment, without the ethical qualms.

Because they can't be persuaded with logic or empathy, I just take them for a ride, poke at their ego in such a way that *they* look ridiculous if they complain.

It's cathartic 😆😆
December 20, 2024 at 10:53 PM