Flups
@flups.bsky.social
56% certain I once saw Jeremy Paxman eating a sandwich at Warwick Castle.
One day, my genie arse will be discovered.
November 11, 2025 at 7:54 AM
One day, my genie arse will be discovered.
I have very little self confidence. I’ve been criticised about my weight in the past by people who should have supported me so I’m very self critical. But, that said, I am finally learning to love myself and all my flabby bits. I am very content being a born again spinster 😊
November 9, 2025 at 7:22 PM
I have very little self confidence. I’ve been criticised about my weight in the past by people who should have supported me so I’m very self critical. But, that said, I am finally learning to love myself and all my flabby bits. I am very content being a born again spinster 😊
Maybe when I’ve lost a bit more. Perhaps.
November 9, 2025 at 7:16 PM
Maybe when I’ve lost a bit more. Perhaps.
Be your own happy ending.
November 9, 2025 at 4:28 PM
Be your own happy ending.
I’m sorry to hear that. I’ve been through similar (not the going back to the ex husband part) and it has put me off relationships for good. But I’m at peace with it and love hearing about other people’s happy endings (not those kind).
November 9, 2025 at 4:24 PM
I’m sorry to hear that. I’ve been through similar (not the going back to the ex husband part) and it has put me off relationships for good. But I’m at peace with it and love hearing about other people’s happy endings (not those kind).
I have been told far too often that I wasn’t good enough by those who should have been my biggest cheerleaders. But they’re no longer part of my life and I’m learning to love this daft, flabby muppet x
November 9, 2025 at 4:16 PM
I have been told far too often that I wasn’t good enough by those who should have been my biggest cheerleaders. But they’re no longer part of my life and I’m learning to love this daft, flabby muppet x
Some people struggle to understand why I have no interest in being in a relationship but that’s their prerogative and doesn’t change how I feel. I’ve spent my whole life trying to keep others happy, it’s time to put the same effort into making myself happy.
November 9, 2025 at 4:14 PM
Some people struggle to understand why I have no interest in being in a relationship but that’s their prerogative and doesn’t change how I feel. I’ve spent my whole life trying to keep others happy, it’s time to put the same effort into making myself happy.
I hear you, I do. My barriers are permanently raised high and I really struggle to trust. But I’ve had to tamp down being on high alert and always thinking the worst as it’s self destructive and only hurts you. It would take a lot for me to ever let myself become close to someone romantically.
November 9, 2025 at 4:12 PM
I hear you, I do. My barriers are permanently raised high and I really struggle to trust. But I’ve had to tamp down being on high alert and always thinking the worst as it’s self destructive and only hurts you. It would take a lot for me to ever let myself become close to someone romantically.
You are all of the fabulous x
November 9, 2025 at 4:06 PM
You are all of the fabulous x
Do you remember when they were huge and only available during Easter? They were fabulous.
November 9, 2025 at 4:05 PM
Do you remember when they were huge and only available during Easter? They were fabulous.
This is excellent news! It’s taken me 52 years to realise I do not need to be in a relationship to be validated. I am finally content in my own skin. I felt grateful that anyone wanted to be with me but never felt good enough. If anyone came along now, they’d have to work hard to win me over 😄 x
November 9, 2025 at 4:04 PM
This is excellent news! It’s taken me 52 years to realise I do not need to be in a relationship to be validated. I am finally content in my own skin. I felt grateful that anyone wanted to be with me but never felt good enough. If anyone came along now, they’d have to work hard to win me over 😄 x
Someone I used to work with once made Creme Egg brownies. They are one of the best things I have ever had in my mouth.
November 9, 2025 at 3:55 PM
Someone I used to work with once made Creme Egg brownies. They are one of the best things I have ever had in my mouth.
There are genuine people in this world. Being consumed with cynicism and having a dim view of the world is incredibly draining and limits your possibilities. I speak from experience as I too have fallen foul of wolves in cheap clothing but I still find joy in hearing that love and honesty exist.
November 9, 2025 at 3:54 PM
There are genuine people in this world. Being consumed with cynicism and having a dim view of the world is incredibly draining and limits your possibilities. I speak from experience as I too have fallen foul of wolves in cheap clothing but I still find joy in hearing that love and honesty exist.
She absolutely does not look her age at all and she came across as a really kind person. It can happen without hidden agenda, so I’ve been told. A lovely lady I work with has been with her partner for 20 years, they met in their fifties after both having awful marriages. They adore each other.
November 9, 2025 at 3:48 PM
She absolutely does not look her age at all and she came across as a really kind person. It can happen without hidden agenda, so I’ve been told. A lovely lady I work with has been with her partner for 20 years, they met in their fifties after both having awful marriages. They adore each other.