being polyam is incredibly freeing. i can’t believe i spent so long feeling guilty about what i wanted.

cumming is hard already and now ur EXPECTING ME TOO??? like no thank you

genuinely a huge turn off yeag

yeah i’m definitely also still learning polyam / relationship anarchy & taking my time.

i genuinely adore how much more secure i am becoming. a lot of self-work, but so worth it.

i was really trying to force myself into a monogamous framework & i’m uhhh not particularly wired for that.

yeah i’m definitely also still learning polyam / relationship anarchy & taking my time.

i genuinely adore how much more secure i am becoming. a lot of self-work, but so worth it.

i was really trying to force myself into a monogamous framework & i’m uhhh not particularly wired for that.

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I'm just saying, even monogamous people should read Polysecure. Even if they stay monogamous, it is such a great tool for understanding attachment.

being polyam is incredibly freeing. i can’t believe i spent so long feeling guilty about what i wanted.

showing my appreciation for a lesbian sharing alchemical delights by deep throating her girlfriend’s cock while she strokes my hair & calls me a good girl

I can’t ask my grandpa why he never used a literal bush mainly because he’s an urn of ashes now lmfao

i still feel that way, ngl. if you pretend a scene with many women in it is just dudes i'm gonna think you're a pussy whose spank bank begins and ends at your mom 15-20 years ago with missionary

here is one of the ugly secrets about heteromasculinity: straight guys are exactly as catty and judgy as straight girls, they just use a different posture for it. they seethe about their friends getting laid easy by having different standards the same as straight girls do

roddenberry's biggest skill as a showrunner was finding guys that teenage girls would form crushes on and teenage boys would develop confused parasocial relationships to that were supposed to eventually resolve into a sort of father-son bond