Corey H.
@chinders.bsky.social
Oh god not another one of these
Right okay I’m a queer trans parent ADHD gym rat techie nerd.
Right okay I’m a queer trans parent ADHD gym rat techie nerd.
Alternatively, if you have an ironclad Place Your Wallet Must Always Go or else it will Never Be Seen Again, maybe you have AuDHD.
Confused whether you have ADHD or Autism? Take this test:
If you have the same wallet you’ve owned since you were 10, you have Autism
If you have 2 wallets of the same type and one stays in a drawer in case you lose the other one, you have ADHD
If you have the same wallet you’ve owned since you were 10, you have Autism
If you have 2 wallets of the same type and one stays in a drawer in case you lose the other one, you have ADHD
December 7, 2025 at 5:14 PM
Alternatively, if you have an ironclad Place Your Wallet Must Always Go or else it will Never Be Seen Again, maybe you have AuDHD.
I swear to god the two most effective migraine treatment strategies I have are weed and intense exercise
December 7, 2025 at 5:20 AM
I swear to god the two most effective migraine treatment strategies I have are weed and intense exercise
Throwing this out there for the #disability folks - anyone have resources for the science of burnout & recovery, if any? Failing that, I’ll take anecdata about what worked (& didn’t) for you.
December 5, 2025 at 3:02 AM
Throwing this out there for the #disability folks - anyone have resources for the science of burnout & recovery, if any? Failing that, I’ll take anecdata about what worked (& didn’t) for you.
All right, I’m playing with fire here, but I’m going ask for medical advice:
anyone have tips on cutting through migraine brain fog?
anyone have tips on cutting through migraine brain fog?
November 19, 2025 at 4:56 PM
All right, I’m playing with fire here, but I’m going ask for medical advice:
anyone have tips on cutting through migraine brain fog?
anyone have tips on cutting through migraine brain fog?
So Pluribus is pretty rad
November 19, 2025 at 6:48 AM
So Pluribus is pretty rad
Ow, my feelings
The witch made him hot chocolate.
"They say I'm strong," he said. "And I am."
He took a sip.
"They say I can overcome any hardship."
"Mm," said the witch.
"And I can. I do."
The witch said nothing.
"But I shouldn't have to!"
"No."
The witch held the hero as he wept.
"No, you shouldn't."
"They say I'm strong," he said. "And I am."
He took a sip.
"They say I can overcome any hardship."
"Mm," said the witch.
"And I can. I do."
The witch said nothing.
"But I shouldn't have to!"
"No."
The witch held the hero as he wept.
"No, you shouldn't."
November 18, 2025 at 9:10 PM
Ow, my feelings
Today we get to find out whether getting blood work done during a migraine/exhaustion episode yields interesting information.
This depends, unfortunately, on me getting my ass to the lab.
This depends, unfortunately, on me getting my ass to the lab.
November 17, 2025 at 9:28 PM
Today we get to find out whether getting blood work done during a migraine/exhaustion episode yields interesting information.
This depends, unfortunately, on me getting my ass to the lab.
This depends, unfortunately, on me getting my ass to the lab.
I have just finished an 18 year stint of working at the same company.
Now I’m like “oh I’ve started enjoying food again, that’s nice” and then “waaaaait when did I stop” so I think I’ve independently discovered what burnout is like.
Now I’m like “oh I’ve started enjoying food again, that’s nice” and then “waaaaait when did I stop” so I think I’ve independently discovered what burnout is like.
November 16, 2025 at 5:18 AM
I have just finished an 18 year stint of working at the same company.
Now I’m like “oh I’ve started enjoying food again, that’s nice” and then “waaaaait when did I stop” so I think I’ve independently discovered what burnout is like.
Now I’m like “oh I’ve started enjoying food again, that’s nice” and then “waaaaait when did I stop” so I think I’ve independently discovered what burnout is like.
Me, unemployed: I could chat with friends. But I could also reschedule those events in favor of napping…
November 6, 2025 at 7:05 PM
Me, unemployed: I could chat with friends. But I could also reschedule those events in favor of napping…
@dieworkwear.bsky.social has taught me a lot about menswear, and it’s been really useful during my gender transition.
Also now I have a well tailored off the rack sport coat, which I feel good wearing with a more casual outfit because it’s a rougher, patterned fabric.
Also now I have a well tailored off the rack sport coat, which I feel good wearing with a more casual outfit because it’s a rougher, patterned fabric.
October 24, 2025 at 11:50 PM
@dieworkwear.bsky.social has taught me a lot about menswear, and it’s been really useful during my gender transition.
Also now I have a well tailored off the rack sport coat, which I feel good wearing with a more casual outfit because it’s a rougher, patterned fabric.
Also now I have a well tailored off the rack sport coat, which I feel good wearing with a more casual outfit because it’s a rougher, patterned fabric.
I made a protest sign.
October 18, 2025 at 4:25 PM
I made a protest sign.
The kind of person I am is that I binge watched Wayward and spent half of it squinting at the scenery before finally confirming yeah, no, this was not filmed in Vermont.
I could NOT have told you what I was seeing to tell me that. Well, not until the rocks. The rocks are all wrong.
I could NOT have told you what I was seeing to tell me that. Well, not until the rocks. The rocks are all wrong.
October 14, 2025 at 7:33 PM
The kind of person I am is that I binge watched Wayward and spent half of it squinting at the scenery before finally confirming yeah, no, this was not filmed in Vermont.
I could NOT have told you what I was seeing to tell me that. Well, not until the rocks. The rocks are all wrong.
I could NOT have told you what I was seeing to tell me that. Well, not until the rocks. The rocks are all wrong.
This morning Pallas, our simple cat, got herself stuck in one of the drawers in our bed. The meowing was MOST piteous. Francie actually came to bother me on her behalf.
October 14, 2025 at 6:27 PM
This morning Pallas, our simple cat, got herself stuck in one of the drawers in our bed. The meowing was MOST piteous. Francie actually came to bother me on her behalf.
Just realized that Wikipedia is be the only web giant I can think of from the old days that feels like it’s still doing what it set out to do.
October 11, 2025 at 9:42 PM
Just realized that Wikipedia is be the only web giant I can think of from the old days that feels like it’s still doing what it set out to do.
I’m slightly embarrassed to say that Apple TV has now caused me to enjoy shows about first football and now golf. What the hell, dude.
October 10, 2025 at 11:44 PM
I’m slightly embarrassed to say that Apple TV has now caused me to enjoy shows about first football and now golf. What the hell, dude.
I have thoughts about causing and repairing harm when you can’t necessarily promise to just not do it again. Also on when to fix vs when to step away.
Not sure if this is quite the thing, but there are times when people’s needs just conflict and the way to resolve it is not about apologies and doing better but about deciding “we cannot coexist in [whatever environment] without harming occurring, so I will remove myself from the environment”
March 31, 2025 at 5:00 PM
I have thoughts about causing and repairing harm when you can’t necessarily promise to just not do it again. Also on when to fix vs when to step away.
Have a template to contact public schools about not complying with trump’s EO: docs.google.com/document/d/1...
Sample Letter to Principal & Superintendent re: Trump anti-trans EO
Dear Principal ____, My child, ___, is a ____ grader at ____ and we have loved our time here. I am deeply concerned about President Trump’s 1/29 Executive Order, “Ending Radical Indoctrination in K-1...
docs.google.com
February 4, 2025 at 3:10 PM
Have a template to contact public schools about not complying with trump’s EO: docs.google.com/document/d/1...
Please someone adopt these dogs before my partner can. It is less than a month after my top surgery, adopting one of these absolutely adorable pups would be a bad idea.
For us, anyway. You definitely need a dog.
For us, anyway. You definitely need a dog.
A Meet The Puppies Thread, cause they are 6 weeks old and in another couple weeks need their own homes. They're near LA, transport available along the 5 to the Bay Area. 395 to Reno a possibility!
January 30, 2025 at 7:07 PM
Please someone adopt these dogs before my partner can. It is less than a month after my top surgery, adopting one of these absolutely adorable pups would be a bad idea.
For us, anyway. You definitely need a dog.
For us, anyway. You definitely need a dog.
I'm 3 weeks past top surgery and when I look at my chest in the mirror, I'm starting to be like “oh i think that’s going to heal nicely” and not “my chest is made of underbaked dough and body horror, am I okay”
January 27, 2025 at 8:38 PM
I'm 3 weeks past top surgery and when I look at my chest in the mirror, I'm starting to be like “oh i think that’s going to heal nicely” and not “my chest is made of underbaked dough and body horror, am I okay”
I just got the steri-strips taken off my incisions! I can see all the cool Frankenstein scars now!!! I think next they’re gonna remove the stitches!
(I’m waiting in the appointment room between people coming to poke me)
The amount of medical nerdery I’m getting from this process is…large.
(I’m waiting in the appointment room between people coming to poke me)
The amount of medical nerdery I’m getting from this process is…large.
January 22, 2025 at 8:37 PM
I just got the steri-strips taken off my incisions! I can see all the cool Frankenstein scars now!!! I think next they’re gonna remove the stitches!
(I’m waiting in the appointment room between people coming to poke me)
The amount of medical nerdery I’m getting from this process is…large.
(I’m waiting in the appointment room between people coming to poke me)
The amount of medical nerdery I’m getting from this process is…large.
I don’t think one should be allowed to get a cold while recovering from top surgery. And by one I mean me.
January 22, 2025 at 5:36 PM
I don’t think one should be allowed to get a cold while recovering from top surgery. And by one I mean me.
Nothing like waking up from the same dream several times, each time more alarmed and agitated that hey THIS ISN’T WHERE I’M SUPPOSED TO BE
January 17, 2025 at 2:40 PM
Nothing like waking up from the same dream several times, each time more alarmed and agitated that hey THIS ISN’T WHERE I’M SUPPOSED TO BE
Moose people is the name of my next band, though.
Former Yellowstone National Park Employee here. Do you know how many people I’ve seen almost die because they think moose are friendly?
DON’T GO NEAR MOOSE PEOPLE
DON’T GO NEAR MOOSE PEOPLE
January 17, 2025 at 2:33 PM
Moose people is the name of my next band, though.
Speak to me of your favorite smoky whiskeys. Smoke note is important and I love some brine, but I don’t necessarily require strong peat.
These flavors seem most common in Scotch-qua-Scotch, but recs for other whiskeys are welcome.
These flavors seem most common in Scotch-qua-Scotch, but recs for other whiskeys are welcome.
January 13, 2025 at 11:47 PM
Speak to me of your favorite smoky whiskeys. Smoke note is important and I love some brine, but I don’t necessarily require strong peat.
These flavors seem most common in Scotch-qua-Scotch, but recs for other whiskeys are welcome.
These flavors seem most common in Scotch-qua-Scotch, but recs for other whiskeys are welcome.
According to everyone, I am too perky and healthy for how much surgery I had. This is somewhat tongue in cheek.
But it’s also accurate, and highlights the very real risk of me doing too much a fucking up my healing.
*grumbles in overachiever*
But it’s also accurate, and highlights the very real risk of me doing too much a fucking up my healing.
*grumbles in overachiever*
January 8, 2025 at 7:52 PM
According to everyone, I am too perky and healthy for how much surgery I had. This is somewhat tongue in cheek.
But it’s also accurate, and highlights the very real risk of me doing too much a fucking up my healing.
*grumbles in overachiever*
But it’s also accurate, and highlights the very real risk of me doing too much a fucking up my healing.
*grumbles in overachiever*