Jennie Tian | Trauma Coach
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Trauma • Neurodiversity • Community
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ooo what a great idea i want to do this, let's lean into the good good so we have strength for the bad bad
1 like = 1 thing i love
1 like = 1 thing i love
This is a pleasing meme. I will talk about nice things and I'd love to hear about yours.
1 like = 1 thing I love.
You know what, I'm in.
This is a pleasing meme. I will talk about nice things and I'd love to hear about yours.
1 like = 1 thing I love.
This is a pleasing meme. I will talk about nice things and I'd love to hear about yours.
1 like = 1 thing I love.
January 22, 2025 at 5:32 AM
ooo what a great idea i want to do this, let's lean into the good good so we have strength for the bad bad
1 like = 1 thing i love
1 like = 1 thing i love
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Now, whenever a troll posts something online, clearly trying to get under my skin, I remind myself of that guy at the ren faire losing his mind with self-imposed anger, and I just block the troll. Any urge I might have had to respond disappears in a satisfying cloud of effortless justice.
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January 20, 2025 at 7:20 PM
Now, whenever a troll posts something online, clearly trying to get under my skin, I remind myself of that guy at the ren faire losing his mind with self-imposed anger, and I just block the troll. Any urge I might have had to respond disappears in a satisfying cloud of effortless justice.
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Years ago, my wife and I were at a renaissance faire and a vendor started heckling us as we were walking by. Somehow, my wife hadn't noticed, so I just redirected and ignored him. He started yelling louder and eventually he got so upset that he was screaming, “I KNOW YOU CAN HEAR ME ASSHOLE”
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January 20, 2025 at 7:20 PM
Years ago, my wife and I were at a renaissance faire and a vendor started heckling us as we were walking by. Somehow, my wife hadn't noticed, so I just redirected and ignored him. He started yelling louder and eventually he got so upset that he was screaming, “I KNOW YOU CAN HEAR ME ASSHOLE”
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one thing i started noticing after working on cptsd healing is how much i hold my breath, clench my teeth, tense up my shoulders and back and face muscles
i do all these with no awareness & it contributed to chronic pain
once we began to be more aware of our bodies,we can work on the pain
i do all these with no awareness & it contributed to chronic pain
once we began to be more aware of our bodies,we can work on the pain
January 20, 2025 at 5:53 PM
one thing i started noticing after working on cptsd healing is how much i hold my breath, clench my teeth, tense up my shoulders and back and face muscles
i do all these with no awareness & it contributed to chronic pain
once we began to be more aware of our bodies,we can work on the pain
i do all these with no awareness & it contributed to chronic pain
once we began to be more aware of our bodies,we can work on the pain
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In case anyone is worried about the kids:
My thirteen year old has been devastated in advance by the TikTok ban, but was not fooled or lulled for one second by the "reprieve." His cohort already moved to Twitch and Bluesky.
My thirteen year old has been devastated in advance by the TikTok ban, but was not fooled or lulled for one second by the "reprieve." His cohort already moved to Twitch and Bluesky.
January 20, 2025 at 6:51 PM
In case anyone is worried about the kids:
My thirteen year old has been devastated in advance by the TikTok ban, but was not fooled or lulled for one second by the "reprieve." His cohort already moved to Twitch and Bluesky.
My thirteen year old has been devastated in advance by the TikTok ban, but was not fooled or lulled for one second by the "reprieve." His cohort already moved to Twitch and Bluesky.
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Spent the morning shoveling snow with my kid. We talked about how--because the world is increasingly stupid, unkind, and selfish--we need to work hard at being curious, kind, and helpful to others. Even if we're just starting with shoveling the walk for our community.
January 20, 2025 at 3:42 PM
Spent the morning shoveling snow with my kid. We talked about how--because the world is increasingly stupid, unkind, and selfish--we need to work hard at being curious, kind, and helpful to others. Even if we're just starting with shoveling the walk for our community.
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line drawing first, colour later
January 20, 2025 at 8:27 PM
line drawing first, colour later
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Our three-month-old thinks that his fists are the best thing ever. He loves to shove them in his mouth and suck on them.
Today I showed him his feet while changing him and he gave me a look like “I have fists down there too?!”
Today I showed him his feet while changing him and he gave me a look like “I have fists down there too?!”
January 20, 2025 at 8:28 PM
Our three-month-old thinks that his fists are the best thing ever. He loves to shove them in his mouth and suck on them.
Today I showed him his feet while changing him and he gave me a look like “I have fists down there too?!”
Today I showed him his feet while changing him and he gave me a look like “I have fists down there too?!”
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it feels like TikTok got bitten by a zombie and is hiding the bite
January 20, 2025 at 5:10 AM
it feels like TikTok got bitten by a zombie and is hiding the bite
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We all saw that confession tonight, right? Like....
January 20, 2025 at 6:12 AM
We all saw that confession tonight, right? Like....
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if you are neurodivergent, it is so important to find other people you feel psychologically safe around, to unmask, to brain-dump special interests, to let them know when you feel tired and/or overstimulated, and who understand the importance of clear, considerate, direct communication
January 20, 2025 at 12:51 AM
if you are neurodivergent, it is so important to find other people you feel psychologically safe around, to unmask, to brain-dump special interests, to let them know when you feel tired and/or overstimulated, and who understand the importance of clear, considerate, direct communication
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What’s the difference between a gov controlling an algorithm, silently eliminating reach for things it doesn’t like, vs the same gov using its power, to demand that the platform remove the things it doesn’t like.?
In China they are overt. With TikTok in the US, they control silently
In China they are overt. With TikTok in the US, they control silently
January 19, 2025 at 5:10 PM
What’s the difference between a gov controlling an algorithm, silently eliminating reach for things it doesn’t like, vs the same gov using its power, to demand that the platform remove the things it doesn’t like.?
In China they are overt. With TikTok in the US, they control silently
In China they are overt. With TikTok in the US, they control silently
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It’s good to make TikToks about the FTC because it reminds you that a whole lot of people have no idea how the fuck anything works.
January 20, 2025 at 1:42 AM
It’s good to make TikToks about the FTC because it reminds you that a whole lot of people have no idea how the fuck anything works.
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As a DV educator I've been trying to explain how our relationship to the gov is so similar to abusive relationships with each other. This is by design. We don't learn abuse on our own, it funnels down from the systems we live and is another way we hurt each other in the name of the system we ignore
January 19, 2025 at 3:43 PM
As a DV educator I've been trying to explain how our relationship to the gov is so similar to abusive relationships with each other. This is by design. We don't learn abuse on our own, it funnels down from the systems we live and is another way we hurt each other in the name of the system we ignore
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Withholding something to create fear, then giving it back, is a classic abuse pattern. When they see it works, they'll do it again. If they see where you go and what you do when hurt, it'll be used to cut you off from those options next time. Just remember that, and create safety plans now.
January 19, 2025 at 8:01 PM
Withholding something to create fear, then giving it back, is a classic abuse pattern. When they see it works, they'll do it again. If they see where you go and what you do when hurt, it'll be used to cut you off from those options next time. Just remember that, and create safety plans now.
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The cycle of abuse: we are currently headed back to the tension building phase. The longer abuse goes on, the less time is spent in "calm". When victims start to anticipate the cycle, the abuse increases in intensity and rapidity. We are there.
January 19, 2025 at 9:44 PM
The cycle of abuse: we are currently headed back to the tension building phase. The longer abuse goes on, the less time is spent in "calm". When victims start to anticipate the cycle, the abuse increases in intensity and rapidity. We are there.
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This guy had been on TikTok for 5 years but had never posted. Yesterday, he posted this absolutely perfect song, and I cant stop listening. His band is Truce Canyon, and they are on all the music platforms (including Bandcamp). The full video was almost 5 minutes. I can only upload 1 min here.
January 19, 2025 at 2:28 PM
This guy had been on TikTok for 5 years but had never posted. Yesterday, he posted this absolutely perfect song, and I cant stop listening. His band is Truce Canyon, and they are on all the music platforms (including Bandcamp). The full video was almost 5 minutes. I can only upload 1 min here.
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alright TikTok kids I will now be dispensing advice on how to get rich and start a side hustle. step one: while your loser peers are partying at the club, you need to start locating sources of raw uranium and building a stockpile for future enrichment.
step two: Lasers. now the government says don-
step two: Lasers. now the government says don-
January 19, 2025 at 6:55 AM
alright TikTok kids I will now be dispensing advice on how to get rich and start a side hustle. step one: while your loser peers are partying at the club, you need to start locating sources of raw uranium and building a stockpile for future enrichment.
step two: Lasers. now the government says don-
step two: Lasers. now the government says don-
hey so, this is actually CRAZY. this is political theatre to the n-degree. f this and keep grieving yall, bc nope u cant play w our wellness like this. thought they’d wait till at least monday? guess they got what they needed… #tiktok
January 19, 2025 at 7:28 PM
hey so, this is actually CRAZY. this is political theatre to the n-degree. f this and keep grieving yall, bc nope u cant play w our wellness like this. thought they’d wait till at least monday? guess they got what they needed… #tiktok
why is this the most relatable/ relevant thing ?
January 19, 2025 at 9:05 AM
why is this the most relatable/ relevant thing ?
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Never have I gotten the type of care and traction I did on #tiktok. Am proud 🥲 and mad as hell lmao 🗣️ Now who wants to talk about ✨trauma✨ 😌
January 19, 2025 at 6:16 AM
Never have I gotten the type of care and traction I did on #tiktok. Am proud 🥲 and mad as hell lmao 🗣️ Now who wants to talk about ✨trauma✨ 😌
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if you're having ideations please hold on, i know the world is spiralling but we still have community, we have sunsets, the clouds, we have music, arts, we have people doing funny little things, we have grass, we have cats. please stay, stay -- not to do things but stay just to exist and breathe.
January 19, 2025 at 1:57 AM
if you're having ideations please hold on, i know the world is spiralling but we still have community, we have sunsets, the clouds, we have music, arts, we have people doing funny little things, we have grass, we have cats. please stay, stay -- not to do things but stay just to exist and breathe.