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Avoiding skeletons
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Shared moderation lists by hj: serving ut/au/utmv fanfiction enjoyer part of town who follow “eat-what-you-like and prioritize leaving ppl to their business” fanfiction etiquette, and can be used for general moderation and info sharing as well. Thank you!
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To use, select Lists tab > (moderation list name) > Subscribe > choose between mute/block (but have a look first to see if it fits your boundary needs)

As the list is maintained by the experience of one person only, you can also use it to curate a list for your own boundary use as well. Thank you!
Hello! The moderation lists here are manually curated around trouble observations specific to ut/au/utmv-skeleton fanfiction town (as there may be few overlaps with general fanfic community) and updated manually, and the observation methods follows the below:

(credits to Ao3Tikli for the pictures!)
Hello! Just wanted to give a small update that various moderation lists are being manually upkept from where firesparks could be spotted from around town. Hope everyone have a nice day and staying safe out there! 🙏
July 1, 2025 at 9:40 AM
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A good blocklist tells you what kind of accounts are on it, in reasonably clear enough detail that you know what to expect. It doesn't necessarily have to tell you how it finds its accounts (and often there's not enough room in the description for it -- they're brutally short) --
November 17, 2024 at 10:31 PM
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A list-maker doesn't have to be abusive or malicious for their lists to be bad *for you*. Even if a list is run completely above-board and lists only accounts that the list-maker genuinely believes fit the list, your sense of "fits the list" and theirs can be totally off.
November 17, 2024 at 10:31 PM
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A thread that's been brewing for a while: how DO I vet a moderation list that I've come across to see whether or not it's a good list to subscribe to? The key to deciding: you aren't deciding if the list-maker is using it abusively or maliciously; you're deciding if their instincts match yours.
November 17, 2024 at 10:31 PM
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Warning anyone who uses paypal for business

Starting feb 1st Paypal will dox you if someone can correctly guess your email.
Log into paypal go to your invoice settings and change all the info to "Hide From Recipients"
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January 27, 2025 at 7:55 PM
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ngl in light of all the troll/discourse bots showing up on bsky, remember that you do not owe anyone a response. You do not owe anyone online your time or attention, and replying to people is not an obligation. If you don't feel joy talking to someone here, just mute/block them and move on.
December 4, 2024 at 9:35 AM
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Quick social media headsup from the olden days: do not subscribe to any blocklists of which you do not -absolutely- know and trust the creator. A lot of trolls will make genuine looking blocklists, and then slowly start adding good people to them. Always verify account names & handles!
November 19, 2024 at 12:52 AM
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Hi

The new NSFW button is called LABELS. It shows up when you put an image in a post.

Labeling your NSFW images makes them work with Bsky's built-in moderation system. You won't lose visibility because people who want to see NSFW have it turned on.

It's just considerate, that's all.

Cheers!
November 12, 2024 at 8:35 PM
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⚠️PSA ABOUT SCAMMERS

There's been an uptick in impersonators who target users with easily swappable handles (i's for l's, o's for 0's, varying repeated letters, etc)

They will always
1) block the original artist
2) target users who have replied with interest, either thru QRPs, replies, or DMs

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This has never happened to me but if you get this reply please do NOT interact with it but report this account for scam and impersonating because I would NEVER reply like that when it's about comms!!!!
I cannot track this account down as I seem to be blocked personally.
October 28, 2024 at 7:10 PM
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To adjust DM permissions go to: ⚙️Settings > 💬Chat settings > Allow messages from: select “Everyone”, if users from everywhere should be able to message an acc

it also seems possible to turn on DM for “Everyone” temporarily, start a conversation thread and then turn it back down again
oh also: it looks by default DMs are only allowed from users of which your acc is following and allowing “everyone” is off by default, so if your acc’s needs are similar to twi where lots of different ppl might need to send DM you can adjust it in ⚙️settings accordingly
October 26, 2024 at 6:09 PM
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Please use the shield icon next to the post button if your post is Not Safe For Work (AKA NSFW):

Flagging your art NSFW isn't a judgment of your character. It's not bowing to corporate. It's not even a statement on your feelings about Yaoi.

It's just considerate & it's very appreciated!

Thanks!
October 23, 2024 at 7:51 PM
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Numerous -very- trusted blocklist and labelers have been caught either not adding people to a list for the same conduct as others because they are friends, or adding people because of specific beefs that are not covered by the label.

Use blocklists/moderation labelers with extreme caution.
Do not take this as a dig against this specific labeler, but newer bsky users may not be aware of the issues we've had with user moderation. Remember when you subscribe to this or a block list you are trusting another person to hide content from you, and not be biased or put personal foes on a list.
Spreading the word about this community-run label system that lets you filter AI images like any other moderation toggle, so you can either minimize or totally hide it from your timeline

bsky.app/profile/aimo...
October 21, 2024 at 12:24 AM
To use, select Lists tab > (moderation list name) > Subscribe > choose between mute/block (but have a look first to see if it fits your boundary needs)

As the list is maintained by the experience of one person only, you can also use it to curate a list for your own boundary use as well. Thank you!
Hello! The moderation lists here are manually curated around trouble observations specific to ut/au/utmv-skeleton fanfiction town (as there may be few overlaps with general fanfic community) and updated manually, and the observation methods follows the below:

(credits to Ao3Tikli for the pictures!)
October 20, 2024 at 5:17 PM
Hello! The moderation lists here are manually curated around trouble observations specific to ut/au/utmv-skeleton fanfiction town (as there may be few overlaps with general fanfic community) and updated manually, and the observation methods follows the below:

(credits to Ao3Tikli for the pictures!)
October 20, 2024 at 3:00 PM