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Ryan
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Love 🎶music, ⚽️football 🔴⚫️Lewes FC, 🇮🇹🇪🇸🇩🇪language learning and 🥪food.
December 2, 2025 at 8:32 PM
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Keir Starmer today called it “utterly appalling” that a Reform UK councillor described children in care as “downright evil”.

This report by a Care Experienced writer reveals how that remark still reverberates in Cambridgeshire.

@eastangliabylines.co.uk
Cambridgeshire’s most vulnerable deserve respect, not contempt
Councillor Andy Osborn faces investigation after calling children in care “evil,” sparking outrage among Care Experienced people
eastangliabylines.co.uk
November 12, 2025 at 8:14 PM
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Love being reminded to do this every year. It's a win/win all round
November 11, 2025 at 11:00 AM
🥚 The mainstream narrative of #adoption feels like someone has made a three-hour biopic but only given the subject five minutes’ worth of screen time.
June 26, 2025 at 9:26 AM
Why are some food outlets so averse to displaying a fixed menu above their counter? If all I am greeted with is an endless scroll of promos and part menus that disappear too quickly, I will simply walk away and not come back.
May 21, 2025 at 12:44 PM
December 2, 2024 at 10:46 PM
🥚 I’m thinking out loud on this one, but I want to articulate something along the lines of:

‘When you adopt, your ‘story’ ceases to be only yours to tell. You are now the ‘stewards’ of another family’s ‘story’- a responsibility to be borne with the requisite level of care and discretion.’
November 18, 2024 at 4:08 PM
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if you are an adoptive parent you do not so much *have* a perspective to set against that of #adoptees as *lack* necessary perspective.

It may make you uncomfortable to listen to adoptees. But instead of writing us off as “angry” outliers, a bit of respectful listening might help you as a parent.
November 17, 2024 at 5:40 PM
Gave my #loopearplugs their public debut today and they definitely made crowded stations and trains more bearable.
November 16, 2024 at 10:01 PM
Has anyone out there put together a UK-based #adoptee starter pack? #adoption #adopteesky
November 16, 2024 at 9:48 PM
I suppose I ought to post something, just to show willing and fill the blank space on my home screen.
November 16, 2024 at 9:29 PM