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Poet, Editor, Farmer, Herbalist, Queer as hell.

He-ing and him-ing

“The Party told you to reject the evidence of your eyes and ears. It was their final, most essential command.”
― George Orwell, 1984
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I don't know who needs to hear this, but hating yourself isn't an integral part of the trans experience and we need to stop glamorizing it.
November 19, 2025 at 3:04 AM
Nice to see everyone is having a normal morning
November 19, 2025 at 2:08 PM
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Hey authors! Check to see if Anthropic stole your book to train their slop generator on. You’re entitled to $1500 per stolen Work.

Look up your work, and if you’re in the database, file a claim
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Submit a Claim
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November 18, 2025 at 7:39 AM
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A "criminal" is whoever the cops say it is and y'all using that term as synonymous with "evil" are making me uncomfortable.
November 18, 2025 at 5:49 PM
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just putting out there that i would like to cowrite a paper about this with a trans woman linguist, especially ecrs. email me if you're interested (& fairly serious about it)
Funny how trans women are always 'they' when they're saying things you don't like.
November 18, 2025 at 9:50 PM
You literally do not have to care about the opinions of a blatant transphobe with 14 followers, you can just block the incredibly obvious shitheads
November 19, 2025 at 8:40 AM
Ok so remember all of those cheesy educational computer games? It would probably be a net good if we could get some adult literacy folks to team up with some software folks to make games that will teach at least some of the population to read even a little better. Secretly, like hiding veggies
November 19, 2025 at 8:10 AM
Medicated and sleep deprived is a new one for me! Glad I have a quiet house to myself for now bc even though I'm pretty much just chilling my brain has been stuck for like 6 hours in one of those "as if I were talking to my therapist" monologues and it's not what I meant to be doing but it's good
November 18, 2025 at 5:18 PM
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Anyway, this is a great time to consider getting involved with LUCE.

www.lucemass.org
LUCE Immigrant Justice Network of MA
www.lucemass.org
November 18, 2025 at 11:08 AM
seeing posts about cloudflare: hm i don't actually know much about this, i wonder if or how this effects me?

checking the patient portal to see if my nurse answered my bandage questions: oh I see
November 18, 2025 at 1:55 PM
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As we look prospectively to launching poetry next year, we are working to build out that team now. If you are interested, please apply via our submission manager: duotrope.com/duosuma/subm...
November 18, 2025 at 1:11 PM
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Hey, I'm looking for comics and graphic novels *by* Indigenous writers and/or illustrators, especially in the Americas. Doesn't have to be a recent book. Any genre! Any topic, any themes, does not have to be a memoir or history, though that is welcome too!
November 18, 2025 at 3:10 AM
I'm not trying to get my hopes up after the year we've had but in case you want to plan for how this might go, they would have 30 days to release the files
November 18, 2025 at 11:49 AM
recently i've been outlining some planner pages with the vague idea of finally putting together my own ideal planner like I've said I would for a few years but I'll be honest I'm balking a little at the premise of organizing and deciding on a reasonable printing method
November 18, 2025 at 11:43 AM
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Hey!! Here's my new piece for The New Republic!!

It's about how Meta is cramming generative video slop (the most energy-intensive of the gen systems) into its massive global advertising engine: a recipe for an order magnitude worsening of its already-huge harms 😱

newrepublic.com/article/2028...
November 11, 2025 at 8:25 PM
i'm not checking but at this point I think the shitty 200 dollar tablet has lasted longer and done more than my average phone, which is really annoying actually
November 18, 2025 at 7:03 AM
I don't need a screen reader so I don't really want to pay for one or set one up but at the same time I am interested in learning how they process different punctuation marks and such. I think it'd make me a better editor and help post more thoughtfully in general. Not sure where to start looking
November 18, 2025 at 6:22 AM
i've only watched twin peaks I think twice and it's been a while but am I correct in fondly remembering that when that one lady had I think brain damage and thought she was a teenager again there were people being pretty nice to her about it?
November 18, 2025 at 6:10 AM
turns out part of the reason I was struggling so much with the knot in my neck that turned up today is that it was at least three knots in a trenchcoat

I knocked out two and this third one is giving me a hard time so I may need to reassess for further conspirators
November 18, 2025 at 6:06 AM
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I hope men understand that it is very very rare for anyone who is not a woman’s lover, close friend, or relative to stand up for her when another man insults her in a room of other men. It is incredibly unusual. They may not join in the bullying, but they’re unwilling to step in to stop it.
November 18, 2025 at 4:39 AM
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Been spending a little less money on dumb shit and a little more on various artists/journalists/podcasters.

Makes me feel like a network CEO putting together my own personal media company. Uplifting stuff, highly recommend going beyond social media to support people!
November 17, 2025 at 11:42 PM
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POV: you are my friend reading this post
November 18, 2025 at 3:14 AM
BC of the obvious news cycle stuff I've been thinking a lot about how I was pretty lucky growing up as a girl-child that, to my memory, none of the men in my immediate circle were creeps toward me directly (they were still varying levels of gross men) but I just came across something that
November 18, 2025 at 3:32 AM
I used most but not all of the things people commonly recommend for top surgery recovery (if my partner weren't helping me I likely would have also used the poncho and shower chair and sponge on a stick) but bc of this I'd like to make an additional rec: back massage tool of any kind
Oh cool I have a tight muscle in my bed and I can't stretch in the ways that will help 😭 heating pack save me
November 18, 2025 at 3:06 AM
I've seen a lot of thoughtful commentary on why Hillary and Kamala aren't great examples of whether or not Americans are willing to have a woman president but I do think, opinions on her policies aside, it's also worth remembering that Kamala got like 2 months to campaign not as VP
November 18, 2025 at 2:29 AM