After CSA
@after-csa.bsky.social
- Rated M for mature themes
(but nothing actually explicit)
- Run by @teyviary.bsky.social
CSA = childhood sexual abuse.
Content may trigger.
#PluralSky
(but nothing actually explicit)
- Run by @teyviary.bsky.social
CSA = childhood sexual abuse.
Content may trigger.
#PluralSky
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the correct response to "turns out they were right about that thing all along" isn't "whew! good thing I understand now."
the correct response is is "wait, what else were they right about?"
the correct response is is "wait, what else were they right about?"
January 19, 2026 at 10:48 PM
the correct response to "turns out they were right about that thing all along" isn't "whew! good thing I understand now."
the correct response is is "wait, what else were they right about?"
the correct response is is "wait, what else were they right about?"
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It’s never about the little things in isolation, that could have just been done differently to prevent a tantrum. It’s about the abuser’s reaction to the little things, making any casual, mundane, ordinary thing a potential unpredictable risk, and a pattern of that over time.
January 11, 2026 at 11:51 PM
It’s never about the little things in isolation, that could have just been done differently to prevent a tantrum. It’s about the abuser’s reaction to the little things, making any casual, mundane, ordinary thing a potential unpredictable risk, and a pattern of that over time.
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A lot of them also seem to feel that they are owed forgiveness and acceptance because of that personal belief that they've repented.
That level of entitlement is a red flag that indicates they haven't really changed that much at all, because they can't even acknowlege the harm that they've done.
That level of entitlement is a red flag that indicates they haven't really changed that much at all, because they can't even acknowlege the harm that they've done.
November 13, 2025 at 2:08 AM
A lot of them also seem to feel that they are owed forgiveness and acceptance because of that personal belief that they've repented.
That level of entitlement is a red flag that indicates they haven't really changed that much at all, because they can't even acknowlege the harm that they've done.
That level of entitlement is a red flag that indicates they haven't really changed that much at all, because they can't even acknowlege the harm that they've done.
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there's a common dynamic where victims are framed as vicious, vindictive people who only seek to ruin lives while people think abusers are just little guys who don't know they're abusing.
November 18, 2025 at 4:03 PM
there's a common dynamic where victims are framed as vicious, vindictive people who only seek to ruin lives while people think abusers are just little guys who don't know they're abusing.
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abusers and privileged people think consequences are unfair.
thats why they work to avoid them
like when they start writing "has #metoo gone too far" two days after it went viral and barely anything happened to 99.9999% of abusers
thats why they work to avoid them
like when they start writing "has #metoo gone too far" two days after it went viral and barely anything happened to 99.9999% of abusers
November 18, 2025 at 4:10 PM
abusers and privileged people think consequences are unfair.
thats why they work to avoid them
like when they start writing "has #metoo gone too far" two days after it went viral and barely anything happened to 99.9999% of abusers
thats why they work to avoid them
like when they start writing "has #metoo gone too far" two days after it went viral and barely anything happened to 99.9999% of abusers