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@whothehellisiva.bsky.social
pronounced as [/ˈivə/]
21y.o., they/them, AuDHD (autistic + ADHD), chronically ill lesbian
your local night owl (un)friendly ghost and definitely a rachel bochner fan account
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21y.o., they/them, AuDHD (autistic + ADHD), chronically ill lesbian
your local night owl (un)friendly ghost and definitely a rachel bochner fan account
pfp by coyu 🩷
guess the amount of secondhand embarrassment i had to endure throughout the whole movie for @east-is-up.bsky.social to say this
December 21, 2025 at 9:14 PM
guess the amount of secondhand embarrassment i had to endure throughout the whole movie for @east-is-up.bsky.social to say this
gimme more pieces of media where the hero isn't trying to be a people pleaser because the fact that people-pleasing protagonists are the current mainstream image of "good" is a big fucking problem
December 21, 2025 at 12:24 PM
gimme more pieces of media where the hero isn't trying to be a people pleaser because the fact that people-pleasing protagonists are the current mainstream image of "good" is a big fucking problem
one more thing I remembered just now:
if a school / university student has told a teacher multiple fucking times that their disability is making it difficult to write by hand and has a history of constantly handing in homework in e-format because of that, LET THEM, ffs.
if a school / university student has told a teacher multiple fucking times that their disability is making it difficult to write by hand and has a history of constantly handing in homework in e-format because of that, LET THEM, ffs.
"my least woke opinion is---"
That's enough. We've had enough people indulging in the "thrill of a little conservatism", as a treat. Of considering reactionary thought to be a salacious and taboo in a world descending into reactionary mania.
Give me your MOST woke opinions. We're bringing it back.
That's enough. We've had enough people indulging in the "thrill of a little conservatism", as a treat. Of considering reactionary thought to be a salacious and taboo in a world descending into reactionary mania.
Give me your MOST woke opinions. We're bringing it back.
December 21, 2025 at 11:34 AM
one more thing I remembered just now:
if a school / university student has told a teacher multiple fucking times that their disability is making it difficult to write by hand and has a history of constantly handing in homework in e-format because of that, LET THEM, ffs.
if a school / university student has told a teacher multiple fucking times that their disability is making it difficult to write by hand and has a history of constantly handing in homework in e-format because of that, LET THEM, ffs.
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when you want to join a conversation but the 2 people speaking don't leave any room for anyone else to join so you miss the opportunity and the topic changes
a man stands on a stage playing a drum set
Alt: a man stands on a stage playing a drum set
media.tenor.com
December 21, 2025 at 9:51 AM
when you want to join a conversation but the 2 people speaking don't leave any room for anyone else to join so you miss the opportunity and the topic changes
those who are unable to work shouldn't be dogpiled for it.
i've had enough of seeing disabled people be harassed for "begging for money" in mutual aid threads because some dumbasses created themselves a fantasy world where everyone who doesn't work is given everything for free.
i've had enough of seeing disabled people be harassed for "begging for money" in mutual aid threads because some dumbasses created themselves a fantasy world where everyone who doesn't work is given everything for free.
"my least woke opinion is---"
That's enough. We've had enough people indulging in the "thrill of a little conservatism", as a treat. Of considering reactionary thought to be a salacious and taboo in a world descending into reactionary mania.
Give me your MOST woke opinions. We're bringing it back.
That's enough. We've had enough people indulging in the "thrill of a little conservatism", as a treat. Of considering reactionary thought to be a salacious and taboo in a world descending into reactionary mania.
Give me your MOST woke opinions. We're bringing it back.
December 21, 2025 at 9:59 AM
those who are unable to work shouldn't be dogpiled for it.
i've had enough of seeing disabled people be harassed for "begging for money" in mutual aid threads because some dumbasses created themselves a fantasy world where everyone who doesn't work is given everything for free.
i've had enough of seeing disabled people be harassed for "begging for money" in mutual aid threads because some dumbasses created themselves a fantasy world where everyone who doesn't work is given everything for free.
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(I know I quote posted two times, but I have more to say)
Empathy shouldn't be a measurement of someone being "good" or "bad". It is helpful and useful to understand people's feelings and experiences, but it doesn't mean low/zero empathy folks can't do good or are "heartless".
Empathy shouldn't be a measurement of someone being "good" or "bad". It is helpful and useful to understand people's feelings and experiences, but it doesn't mean low/zero empathy folks can't do good or are "heartless".
"my least woke opinion is---"
That's enough. We've had enough people indulging in the "thrill of a little conservatism", as a treat. Of considering reactionary thought to be a salacious and taboo in a world descending into reactionary mania.
Give me your MOST woke opinions. We're bringing it back.
That's enough. We've had enough people indulging in the "thrill of a little conservatism", as a treat. Of considering reactionary thought to be a salacious and taboo in a world descending into reactionary mania.
Give me your MOST woke opinions. We're bringing it back.
December 21, 2025 at 2:51 AM
(I know I quote posted two times, but I have more to say)
Empathy shouldn't be a measurement of someone being "good" or "bad". It is helpful and useful to understand people's feelings and experiences, but it doesn't mean low/zero empathy folks can't do good or are "heartless".
Empathy shouldn't be a measurement of someone being "good" or "bad". It is helpful and useful to understand people's feelings and experiences, but it doesn't mean low/zero empathy folks can't do good or are "heartless".
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can we be normal. can we all be fucking NORMAL
December 21, 2025 at 8:29 AM
can we be normal. can we all be fucking NORMAL
time for the monthly witchcraft session
December 21, 2025 at 8:44 AM
time for the monthly witchcraft session
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take all my suffering. triple it. give to the borderline misogynistic and homophobic people talking about my favorite character.
December 19, 2025 at 10:08 AM
take all my suffering. triple it. give to the borderline misogynistic and homophobic people talking about my favorite character.
i fear if our circadian rhythms aren't matching half of y'all probably would want to kill me (i don't sleep until like 4am)
December 20, 2025 at 6:53 PM
i fear if our circadian rhythms aren't matching half of y'all probably would want to kill me (i don't sleep until like 4am)
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i wake up fine and dandy, but then by the time i find it handy to rip my heart apart and start planning my crash landing.
December 20, 2025 at 4:25 PM
i wake up fine and dandy, but then by the time i find it handy to rip my heart apart and start planning my crash landing.
lost a friend of 10 years over that shit once, do not recommend
December 20, 2025 at 4:23 PM
lost a friend of 10 years over that shit once, do not recommend
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people are so incredibly dumb, I'm mad that I felt pressured to be smart my entire life
November 15, 2025 at 9:52 PM
people are so incredibly dumb, I'm mad that I felt pressured to be smart my entire life
robby when someone sends a ":3" into the chat: this startled rat gif
December 20, 2025 at 2:07 PM
robby when someone sends a ":3" into the chat: this startled rat gif
a woman approached me on the street when i left the uni and tried to give me witchy books 😭 it was so random that i'm still left baffled
(her outfit was the epitome of whimsy btw, i still have the view stuck in my head)
(her outfit was the epitome of whimsy btw, i still have the view stuck in my head)
December 20, 2025 at 8:28 AM
a woman approached me on the street when i left the uni and tried to give me witchy books 😭 it was so random that i'm still left baffled
(her outfit was the epitome of whimsy btw, i still have the view stuck in my head)
(her outfit was the epitome of whimsy btw, i still have the view stuck in my head)
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friendly reminder
Hi, I use a screenreader and FONTS BREAK SCREENREADERS!!! Please be mindful of people with screenreaders.
Font Reader
YouTube video by Sur Govindarajan
youtu.be
December 13, 2025 at 6:11 PM
friendly reminder
had one "diva not down" moment today and witnessed another, life is good
December 19, 2025 at 6:46 PM
had one "diva not down" moment today and witnessed another, life is good
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*diva walk* i have been awakened
December 19, 2025 at 3:02 PM
*diva walk* i have been awakened
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what if the world loved trans ppl
December 18, 2025 at 2:02 AM
what if the world loved trans ppl
it looks like a way to annoy me on purpose now
December 18, 2025 at 4:09 AM
it looks like a way to annoy me on purpose now
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sorry but nicki minaj is transphobic trash and a shit musician and ur trash if u still like her
December 17, 2025 at 8:04 PM
sorry but nicki minaj is transphobic trash and a shit musician and ur trash if u still like her
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it is very normal to gift your other sapphic writer friends typewriters you’ve personally restored by hand shut up
December 17, 2025 at 8:43 PM
it is very normal to gift your other sapphic writer friends typewriters you’ve personally restored by hand shut up
severely dehydrated and sick lol i hate this combo
December 17, 2025 at 8:09 PM
severely dehydrated and sick lol i hate this combo