SN Désirée Cha
@sndesireecha.bsky.social
lightning + foam /she.hers/ bylines: Autostraddle; Rest for Resistance; The Rumpus; The Butter; The Nervous Breakdown; AlterNet.
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next month marks 1 year since a friend created this emergency fundraiser for me. since then, it’s been 51% funded.
my boxes still remain in Korea due to lack of funds.
i am stuck in an unsafe couch stay.
please help us meet our goal before a year passes.
gofund.me/c28bc2b1b
my boxes still remain in Korea due to lack of funds.
i am stuck in an unsafe couch stay.
please help us meet our goal before a year passes.
gofund.me/c28bc2b1b
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i am being threatened with physical violence. tonight someone threw my food all over the floor. i am not safe here. i have nowhere else to go and no way to get there.
i desperately need help.
this is my SOS. if something happens to me, it was not my own doing.
help.
gofund.me/15d5a4298
i desperately need help.
this is my SOS. if something happens to me, it was not my own doing.
help.
gofund.me/15d5a4298
Donate to Help First Gen Immigrant Get Documents, Survive Homelessness, organized by Sam Dylan Finch
Dear community,
The story of what my friend has endured i… Sam Dylan Finch needs your support for Help First Gen Immigrant Get Documents, Survive Homelessness
gofund.me
November 6, 2025 at 12:40 PM
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We are expected to act calm while facing annihilation, danger, privation. That is also part of the betrayal. That is also part of the turning away of people. The harm that forced "calm” exerts on a nervous system is incalculable.
November 8, 2025 at 11:31 PM
We are expected to act calm while facing annihilation, danger, privation. That is also part of the betrayal. That is also part of the turning away of people. The harm that forced "calm” exerts on a nervous system is incalculable.
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job app in.
please share my fundraiser and help me get out of a verbally and physically abusive situation.
also open to remote work. i’ve been job-hunting since February.
V SNDesiree
C $SNDesiree
gofund.me/4d4f84abd
please share my fundraiser and help me get out of a verbally and physically abusive situation.
also open to remote work. i’ve been job-hunting since February.
V SNDesiree
C $SNDesiree
gofund.me/4d4f84abd
Donate to Help First Gen Immigrant Get Documents, Survive Homelessness, organized by Sam Dylan Finch
Dear community,
The story of what my friend has endured i… Sam Dylan Finch needs your support for Help First Gen Immigrant Get Documents, Survive Homelessness
gofund.me
November 6, 2025 at 9:43 PM
job app in.
please share my fundraiser and help me get out of a verbally and physically abusive situation.
also open to remote work. i’ve been job-hunting since February.
V SNDesiree
C $SNDesiree
gofund.me/4d4f84abd
please share my fundraiser and help me get out of a verbally and physically abusive situation.
also open to remote work. i’ve been job-hunting since February.
V SNDesiree
C $SNDesiree
gofund.me/4d4f84abd
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humanity doesn't need to be educated into people
they already have it
it is the inhumanity of the civilised rational actor that must be taught
and it takes the rewards of privilege to motivate acceptance of membership of that elite class
they already have it
it is the inhumanity of the civilised rational actor that must be taught
and it takes the rewards of privilege to motivate acceptance of membership of that elite class
October 9, 2025 at 3:49 PM
humanity doesn't need to be educated into people
they already have it
it is the inhumanity of the civilised rational actor that must be taught
and it takes the rewards of privilege to motivate acceptance of membership of that elite class
they already have it
it is the inhumanity of the civilised rational actor that must be taught
and it takes the rewards of privilege to motivate acceptance of membership of that elite class
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If every one of my 3000+ followers could give Désirée $2, she'd exceed her goal for getting safe housing. I know that everyone won't see this, but if you do see it and have $5 or a bit more to spare, please consider it.
gofund.me/cfd069ce3
gofund.me/cfd069ce3
Donate to Help First Gen Immigrant Get Documents, Survive Homelessness, organized by Sam Dylan Finch
Dear community,
The story of what my friend has endured i… Sam Dylan Finch needs your support for Help First Gen Immigrant Get Documents, Survive Homelessness
gofund.me
November 1, 2025 at 4:42 AM
If every one of my 3000+ followers could give Désirée $2, she'd exceed her goal for getting safe housing. I know that everyone won't see this, but if you do see it and have $5 or a bit more to spare, please consider it.
gofund.me/cfd069ce3
gofund.me/cfd069ce3
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The thing about persistent poverty and the long-term effects of homelessness is that it sets into motion a powerful cascade of events that make a person more and more vulnerable to people with whom they would have otherwise never interfaced.
(18 oct 2024)
(18 oct 2024)
August 11, 2025 at 10:51 PM
The thing about persistent poverty and the long-term effects of homelessness is that it sets into motion a powerful cascade of events that make a person more and more vulnerable to people with whom they would have otherwise never interfaced.
(18 oct 2024)
(18 oct 2024)
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please help us get out of here. they are intentionally making my dog sick and threatening me (body, yelling, blocking me, bullying me) when i try to keep my dog safe. please help me.
it’s hard enough to be homeless. cruel abuse is a choice people make.
V SNDesiree
C $SNDesiree
it’s hard enough to be homeless. cruel abuse is a choice people make.
V SNDesiree
C $SNDesiree
If every one of my 3000+ followers could give Désirée $2, she'd exceed her goal for getting safe housing. I know that everyone won't see this, but if you do see it and have $5 or a bit more to spare, please consider it.
gofund.me/cfd069ce3
gofund.me/cfd069ce3
Donate to Help First Gen Immigrant Get Documents, Survive Homelessness, organized by Sam Dylan Finch
Dear community,
The story of what my friend has endured i… Sam Dylan Finch needs your support for Help First Gen Immigrant Get Documents, Survive Homelessness
gofund.me
November 10, 2025 at 6:14 PM
please help us get out of here. they are intentionally making my dog sick and threatening me (body, yelling, blocking me, bullying me) when i try to keep my dog safe. please help me.
it’s hard enough to be homeless. cruel abuse is a choice people make.
V SNDesiree
C $SNDesiree
it’s hard enough to be homeless. cruel abuse is a choice people make.
V SNDesiree
C $SNDesiree
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The rental car company offers free pick-up as part of a car rental. If I can raise $300 I can get a ride to and pick up a rental car to get to safety.
Please share and help. Thank you.
Please share and help. Thank you.
if i can raise $300 today i can rent a car to get out of here with my dog and boxes on 11/15
please help.
V SNDesiree
C $SNDesiree
please help.
V SNDesiree
C $SNDesiree
today i was pushed out of the way in the basement and then told that i "walked into" their hand.
please help me get out of here.
i am shaking.
i am not safe.
my things are being moved.
i need help. please.
please help me get out of here.
i am shaking.
i am not safe.
my things are being moved.
i need help. please.
November 10, 2025 at 9:48 PM
The rental car company offers free pick-up as part of a car rental. If I can raise $300 I can get a ride to and pick up a rental car to get to safety.
Please share and help. Thank you.
Please share and help. Thank you.
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if i can raise $300 today i can rent a car to get out of here with my dog and boxes on 11/15
please help.
V SNDesiree
C $SNDesiree
please help.
V SNDesiree
C $SNDesiree
today i was pushed out of the way in the basement and then told that i "walked into" their hand.
please help me get out of here.
i am shaking.
i am not safe.
my things are being moved.
i need help. please.
please help me get out of here.
i am shaking.
i am not safe.
my things are being moved.
i need help. please.
November 10, 2025 at 9:36 PM
if i can raise $300 today i can rent a car to get out of here with my dog and boxes on 11/15
please help.
V SNDesiree
C $SNDesiree
please help.
V SNDesiree
C $SNDesiree
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This time I add the direct link when I share. Maybe you can add words and link? Or you add some money to get this going?
#MutualAid #AnimalCaucus
www.gofundme.com/f/i-do-not-w...
#MutualAid #AnimalCaucus
www.gofundme.com/f/i-do-not-w...
November 9, 2025 at 6:45 PM
This time I add the direct link when I share. Maybe you can add words and link? Or you add some money to get this going?
#MutualAid #AnimalCaucus
www.gofundme.com/f/i-do-not-w...
#MutualAid #AnimalCaucus
www.gofundme.com/f/i-do-not-w...
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If there’s one area where I deeply sympathise with journalists, it’s the influencer behaviour of stealing their work and amplifying it while promoting anti-media narratives. That this has become a fully realised business model is so bleak.
November 11, 2025 at 3:48 AM
If there’s one area where I deeply sympathise with journalists, it’s the influencer behaviour of stealing their work and amplifying it while promoting anti-media narratives. That this has become a fully realised business model is so bleak.
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i’ve raised 0/300 for rental car. i live off of $290 a month before taxes.
November 11, 2025 at 11:38 AM
i’ve raised 0/300 for rental car. i live off of $290 a month before taxes.
i’ve raised 0/300 for rental car. i live off of $290 a month before taxes.
November 11, 2025 at 11:38 AM
i’ve raised 0/300 for rental car. i live off of $290 a month before taxes.
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For a Distinctive Black Culture, a Rerouted Parade Feels Like Erasure
The annual Penn Center Heritage Day Parade in South Carolina draws hundreds to celebrate the Gullah Geechee people. But a new route has Black residents feeling as if their legacy is vanishing.
www.nytimes.com/2025/11/08/u...
The annual Penn Center Heritage Day Parade in South Carolina draws hundreds to celebrate the Gullah Geechee people. But a new route has Black residents feeling as if their legacy is vanishing.
www.nytimes.com/2025/11/08/u...
For a Distinctive Black Culture, a Rerouted Parade Feels Like Erasure
www.nytimes.com
November 11, 2025 at 2:49 AM
For a Distinctive Black Culture, a Rerouted Parade Feels Like Erasure
The annual Penn Center Heritage Day Parade in South Carolina draws hundreds to celebrate the Gullah Geechee people. But a new route has Black residents feeling as if their legacy is vanishing.
www.nytimes.com/2025/11/08/u...
The annual Penn Center Heritage Day Parade in South Carolina draws hundreds to celebrate the Gullah Geechee people. But a new route has Black residents feeling as if their legacy is vanishing.
www.nytimes.com/2025/11/08/u...
I Must Become a Menace to My Enemies
I will no longer lightly walk behind
poets.org
November 11, 2025 at 1:54 AM
"Nourishment is not only about food, but about dignity, health, and belonging."
—Audrey Winkler
—Audrey Winkler
November 11, 2025 at 1:48 AM
"Nourishment is not only about food, but about dignity, health, and belonging."
—Audrey Winkler
—Audrey Winkler
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The word cruelty is no longer a good enough descriptor. It is insufficient, too puny, for explaining this moment, these conditions, the politics of the so-called G7.
November 11, 2025 at 1:20 AM
The word cruelty is no longer a good enough descriptor. It is insufficient, too puny, for explaining this moment, these conditions, the politics of the so-called G7.
snow outside tonight
November 11, 2025 at 1:19 AM
snow outside tonight
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observe how people act when they think nobody is watching.
September 13, 2025 at 2:31 PM
observe how people act when they think nobody is watching.
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I don't actually care if Schumer resigns. The whole Senate Democratic Caucus is terrible. All of them.
November 10, 2025 at 6:01 PM
I don't actually care if Schumer resigns. The whole Senate Democratic Caucus is terrible. All of them.
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Please help, emergency!
Please help our friend leave a DV situation asap!
Desiree is not safe.
She and her ESA need to get out asap!
Please, if you can't help, please share!
🚗
Please help our friend leave a DV situation asap!
Desiree is not safe.
She and her ESA need to get out asap!
Please, if you can't help, please share!
🚗
if i can raise $300 today i can rent a car to get out of here with my dog and boxes on 11/15
please help.
V SNDesiree
C $SNDesiree
please help.
V SNDesiree
C $SNDesiree
today i was pushed out of the way in the basement and then told that i "walked into" their hand.
please help me get out of here.
i am shaking.
i am not safe.
my things are being moved.
i need help. please.
please help me get out of here.
i am shaking.
i am not safe.
my things are being moved.
i need help. please.
November 11, 2025 at 12:38 AM
Please help, emergency!
Please help our friend leave a DV situation asap!
Desiree is not safe.
She and her ESA need to get out asap!
Please, if you can't help, please share!
🚗
Please help our friend leave a DV situation asap!
Desiree is not safe.
She and her ESA need to get out asap!
Please, if you can't help, please share!
🚗
The rental car company offers free pick-up as part of a car rental. If I can raise $300 I can get a ride to and pick up a rental car to get to safety.
Please share and help. Thank you.
Please share and help. Thank you.
if i can raise $300 today i can rent a car to get out of here with my dog and boxes on 11/15
please help.
V SNDesiree
C $SNDesiree
please help.
V SNDesiree
C $SNDesiree
today i was pushed out of the way in the basement and then told that i "walked into" their hand.
please help me get out of here.
i am shaking.
i am not safe.
my things are being moved.
i need help. please.
please help me get out of here.
i am shaking.
i am not safe.
my things are being moved.
i need help. please.
November 10, 2025 at 9:48 PM
The rental car company offers free pick-up as part of a car rental. If I can raise $300 I can get a ride to and pick up a rental car to get to safety.
Please share and help. Thank you.
Please share and help. Thank you.
if i can raise $300 today i can rent a car to get out of here with my dog and boxes on 11/15
please help.
V SNDesiree
C $SNDesiree
please help.
V SNDesiree
C $SNDesiree
today i was pushed out of the way in the basement and then told that i "walked into" their hand.
please help me get out of here.
i am shaking.
i am not safe.
my things are being moved.
i need help. please.
please help me get out of here.
i am shaking.
i am not safe.
my things are being moved.
i need help. please.
November 10, 2025 at 9:36 PM
if i can raise $300 today i can rent a car to get out of here with my dog and boxes on 11/15
please help.
V SNDesiree
C $SNDesiree
please help.
V SNDesiree
C $SNDesiree
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i am being dead-named by people who are bullying and harassing me, pushing me out of the way. i need help. please help me get out of here. i am not safe. i don't know what else to do. please help me.
November 10, 2025 at 7:51 PM
i am being dead-named by people who are bullying and harassing me, pushing me out of the way. i need help. please help me get out of here. i am not safe. i don't know what else to do. please help me.
i can't take a walk because it's snowing outside right now. it is a terrible feeling to not be able to remove myself from a situation or keep myself or my ESA dog safe from these people.
November 10, 2025 at 9:08 PM
i can't take a walk because it's snowing outside right now. it is a terrible feeling to not be able to remove myself from a situation or keep myself or my ESA dog safe from these people.