Ness 🟡⚪🟣⚫
@nesstheenby.bsky.social
They/them. Non-binary psych nerd. AuDHD. Plural, co-host with @herald-trashboy.bsky.social. Queer and trans. Boyfriend of @wolfinwherever.bsky.social
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Ness 🟡⚪🟣⚫
@nesstheenby.bsky.social
· Jun 13
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Hi, I'm Ness, I'm a non-binary plural person living in the UK. I'm autistic & ADHD and have a special interest in psychology. Life is good, but society could be better. Destigmatise mental health
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Hi, I'm Ness, I'm a non-binary plural person living in the UK. I'm autistic & ADHD and have a special interest in psychology. Life is good, but society could be better. Destigmatise mental health
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The cat just wants to curl up and go to sleep
February 19, 2026 at 3:44 PM
The cat just wants to curl up and go to sleep
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reminder for those who need it
February 19, 2026 at 3:31 PM
reminder for those who need it
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every time someone’s like “why can’t we have a nuanced discussion about trans issues” i want to scream “MANY OF US ARE ALREADY NAVIGATING OUTRAGEOUSLY DEGRADING ‘NUANCED DISCUSSIONS’ WITH LOVED ONES ABOUT WHETHER WE’RE FULL PEOPLE WHO CHANGED OR THE WALKING UNDEAD.”
just let us piss & play soccer!
just let us piss & play soccer!
February 19, 2026 at 6:28 AM
every time someone’s like “why can’t we have a nuanced discussion about trans issues” i want to scream “MANY OF US ARE ALREADY NAVIGATING OUTRAGEOUSLY DEGRADING ‘NUANCED DISCUSSIONS’ WITH LOVED ONES ABOUT WHETHER WE’RE FULL PEOPLE WHO CHANGED OR THE WALKING UNDEAD.”
just let us piss & play soccer!
just let us piss & play soccer!
Herald took us to therapy, bought us fluffy pyjamas, dressed us in them and then got into bed and switched me in. I'm so cozy right now. He can be such a dick but he genuinely does care about me
February 19, 2026 at 1:30 PM
Herald took us to therapy, bought us fluffy pyjamas, dressed us in them and then got into bed and switched me in. I'm so cozy right now. He can be such a dick but he genuinely does care about me
*exhaustedly* I did a therapy
February 19, 2026 at 1:26 PM
*exhaustedly* I did a therapy
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if you hate or love "maxxing" please be advised that guys my age think it's funny as hell and will shortly be using it approx. 500 times a day. you will be cringemaxxing and despairmaxxing but no amount of cringe & no depth of despair will stop the guys my age from usemaxxing "maxxing." just fyi
February 18, 2026 at 8:42 PM
if you hate or love "maxxing" please be advised that guys my age think it's funny as hell and will shortly be using it approx. 500 times a day. you will be cringemaxxing and despairmaxxing but no amount of cringe & no depth of despair will stop the guys my age from usemaxxing "maxxing." just fyi
Herald wants me to go to therapy tomorrow. I haven't fronted long enough to have a full conversation with anyone but my girlfriend in a while. I don't know if I can do that
February 18, 2026 at 10:25 PM
Herald wants me to go to therapy tomorrow. I haven't fronted long enough to have a full conversation with anyone but my girlfriend in a while. I don't know if I can do that
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These noise-cancelling headphones aren’t doing shit about the screaming in my head.
February 18, 2026 at 5:04 PM
These noise-cancelling headphones aren’t doing shit about the screaming in my head.
I can feel all the things I like being left behind by us. Maybe I should be me if only so I can pick them up and carry them along as we move
February 18, 2026 at 9:28 PM
I can feel all the things I like being left behind by us. Maybe I should be me if only so I can pick them up and carry them along as we move
Herald says it's important that I keep fronting
February 18, 2026 at 9:01 PM
Herald says it's important that I keep fronting
Why do I keep coming back. I want to come back, but I don't want to stay what is that all about?
February 17, 2026 at 12:55 AM
Why do I keep coming back. I want to come back, but I don't want to stay what is that all about?
I don't know if I want to front more around people or not. I keep switching out without meaning to
February 17, 2026 at 12:22 AM
I don't know if I want to front more around people or not. I keep switching out without meaning to
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I'm sure we've all seen the graphic that lays out the United States ' relationship with slavery. It's good, but I never thought it was quite impactful enough. So I made my own.
I've used a few key events, including my birth, to highlight how recent these events are in history.
1 square = 1 year.
I've used a few key events, including my birth, to highlight how recent these events are in history.
1 square = 1 year.
February 16, 2026 at 6:12 PM
I'm sure we've all seen the graphic that lays out the United States ' relationship with slavery. It's good, but I never thought it was quite impactful enough. So I made my own.
I've used a few key events, including my birth, to highlight how recent these events are in history.
1 square = 1 year.
I've used a few key events, including my birth, to highlight how recent these events are in history.
1 square = 1 year.
I want to watch Frieren season 2
February 16, 2026 at 9:28 PM
I want to watch Frieren season 2
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This is how we win.
One by one, ordinary Americans see what is happening and reach their breaking point — and they act.
One by one.
One by one, ordinary Americans see what is happening and reach their breaking point — and they act.
One by one.
Yesterday morning kids were sent running from their bus stop in panic because ICE showed up. This guy at today’s ICE Out of Lindenwold protest is a must watch 😭. @maddow.bsky.social
February 14, 2026 at 9:46 PM
This is how we win.
One by one, ordinary Americans see what is happening and reach their breaking point — and they act.
One by one.
One by one, ordinary Americans see what is happening and reach their breaking point — and they act.
One by one.
I got asked if I was North American again by a taxi driver 😅
February 14, 2026 at 10:23 PM
I got asked if I was North American again by a taxi driver 😅
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Hey.
You're not in trouble and no one is mad at you.
Anxiety is a filthy liar.
You're not in trouble and no one is mad at you.
Anxiety is a filthy liar.
February 14, 2026 at 9:14 PM
Hey.
You're not in trouble and no one is mad at you.
Anxiety is a filthy liar.
You're not in trouble and no one is mad at you.
Anxiety is a filthy liar.
It turns out I can resign from being host but I can't resign from my headmate sending me devastatingly insightful memes on Instagram. He's such a dick 😂
February 14, 2026 at 9:05 PM
It turns out I can resign from being host but I can't resign from my headmate sending me devastatingly insightful memes on Instagram. He's such a dick 😂
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valentine's day isn't just for couples, it's also a day to celebrate love. for instance, i would love it if housing prices came down.
February 14, 2026 at 8:11 PM
valentine's day isn't just for couples, it's also a day to celebrate love. for instance, i would love it if housing prices came down.
It's so weird that staying in the front now is an active effort instead of the passive default
February 14, 2026 at 8:01 PM
It's so weird that staying in the front now is an active effort instead of the passive default
The urge to delete all of my posts and go back to being fine is overwhelming
February 13, 2026 at 1:54 PM
The urge to delete all of my posts and go back to being fine is overwhelming
I'm just going between feeling absolutely everything and nothing. I don't want to be host anymore. Herald can do it better than me. I'm so tired. I'm so done. My chest hurts so much. I don't want to be depended on anymore. I don't know what I'm doing so don't ask me to make you feel better
February 12, 2026 at 8:18 PM
I'm just going between feeling absolutely everything and nothing. I don't want to be host anymore. Herald can do it better than me. I'm so tired. I'm so done. My chest hurts so much. I don't want to be depended on anymore. I don't know what I'm doing so don't ask me to make you feel better
Yey let's go back to work and immediately have a Big System Event fantastic love that for me what the FUCK
February 10, 2026 at 6:57 PM
Yey let's go back to work and immediately have a Big System Event fantastic love that for me what the FUCK
Are you protecting children or are you protecting parents' ownership over their children?
February 10, 2026 at 6:54 PM
Are you protecting children or are you protecting parents' ownership over their children?