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Ness 🟡⚪🟣⚫
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They/them. Non-binary psych nerd. AuDHD. Plural, co-host with @herald-trashboy.bsky.social. Queer and trans. Boyfriend of @wolfinwherever.bsky.social
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Hi, I'm Ness, I'm a non-binary plural person living in the UK. I'm autistic & ADHD and have a special interest in psychology. Life is good, but society could be better. Destigmatise mental health

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This is how we win.

One by one, ordinary Americans see what is happening and reach their breaking point — and they act.

One by one.
Yesterday morning kids were sent running from their bus stop in panic because ICE showed up. This guy at today’s ICE Out of Lindenwold protest is a must watch 😭. @maddow.bsky.social
February 14, 2026 at 9:46 PM
I got asked if I was North American again by a taxi driver 😅
February 14, 2026 at 10:23 PM
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Hey.

You're not in trouble and no one is mad at you.

Anxiety is a filthy liar.
February 14, 2026 at 9:14 PM
It turns out I can resign from being host but I can't resign from my headmate sending me devastatingly insightful memes on Instagram. He's such a dick 😂
February 14, 2026 at 9:05 PM
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valentine's day isn't just for couples, it's also a day to celebrate love. for instance, i would love it if housing prices came down.
February 14, 2026 at 8:11 PM
It's so weird that staying in the front now is an active effort instead of the passive default
February 14, 2026 at 8:01 PM
The urge to delete all of my posts and go back to being fine is overwhelming
February 13, 2026 at 1:54 PM
I'm just going between feeling absolutely everything and nothing. I don't want to be host anymore. Herald can do it better than me. I'm so tired. I'm so done. My chest hurts so much. I don't want to be depended on anymore. I don't know what I'm doing so don't ask me to make you feel better
February 12, 2026 at 8:18 PM
Yey let's go back to work and immediately have a Big System Event fantastic love that for me what the FUCK
February 10, 2026 at 6:57 PM
Are you protecting children or are you protecting parents' ownership over their children?
February 10, 2026 at 6:54 PM
Okay I'm going to try and be a person. I don't really know what that means and my entire brain is screaming at me that I'm going to die and that terrible things are going to happen but I'm going to try anyway
February 10, 2026 at 6:33 PM
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Hmm, I wonder if there's a word for this.
The Big Money in Today’s Economy Is Going to Capital, Not Labor
Soaring profits and stocks funnel more of GDP toward companies, their top employees and shareholders. AI will intensify this trend.
www.wsj.com
February 10, 2026 at 1:37 PM
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The No ICE in Minnesota Charity Bundle has officially LAUNCHED!

There are 1,439 games to discover for a $10+ donation to Immigrant Law Center of Minnesota!

Purchase the bundle here: itch.io/b/3484/no-ic...
February 9, 2026 at 2:33 PM
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That upset the humans and it sort of upset me, too, which you wouldn’t think it would
February 10, 2026 at 12:15 PM
It's funny how I relate to both Wanda and Vision in WandaVision just for different reasons
February 10, 2026 at 11:16 AM
*throws the ball outside of the game map into the void*
Fetch!
February 10, 2026 at 10:34 AM
One day maybe the sun will come out
February 10, 2026 at 9:13 AM
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literally years of our life are on that platform. alters who would never otherwise communicate with us made contact because of the accommodations provided by that platform. pluralkit in particular. not to speak of the communities we've built on there
February 9, 2026 at 5:59 PM
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what if haha you used a piece of software as a disability accommodation for your poor memory and impermanent sense of self and communication within your system, but then discord said "give me your ID or else"
February 9, 2026 at 5:37 PM
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So there is a discord for adult survivors of child sexual abuse, does that count as an adult server, Discord?
February 10, 2026 at 2:39 AM
It's like someone cleaned our house but the house is our brain. Does that make sense? Probably not. Still true though
February 9, 2026 at 11:05 PM
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Every time Elon starts talking about building an army of unstoppable sex robots or a space base in 5 years, it's because he's in a state of blind panic and squirting bullshit the way a squid does ink.

The actual story, if journalists didn't suck, would be: what is he panicking about this time.
February 9, 2026 at 9:53 PM
I accidentally scrolled on Herald's TikTok and uh I will not be doing that again
February 9, 2026 at 9:42 PM
Every so often I remember the time where my abuser went "I know I was harsh on you as a kid" and I responded "that's okay I don't even remember it" and he looked at me with this weird expression and said "if you do it's very important that you come and talk to me about it, okay? It's important."
February 9, 2026 at 1:12 AM
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reading the immortal hulk on the recommendation of a friend who went "hey this does DID really well you might get something out of this", a thread
February 8, 2026 at 10:34 PM