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Ness 🟡⚪🟣⚫
@nesstheenby.bsky.social
They/them. Non-binary psych nerd. AuDHD. Plural, co-host with @herald-trashboy.bsky.social. Queer and trans. Boyfriend of @wolfinwherever.bsky.social
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Hi, I'm Ness, I'm a non-binary plural person living in the UK. I'm autistic & ADHD and have a special interest in psychology. Life is good, but society could be better. Destigmatise mental health

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Why do I keep coming back. I want to come back, but I don't want to stay what is that all about?
February 17, 2026 at 12:55 AM
I don't know if I want to front more around people or not. I keep switching out without meaning to
February 17, 2026 at 12:22 AM
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I'm sure we've all seen the graphic that lays out the United States ' relationship with slavery. It's good, but I never thought it was quite impactful enough. So I made my own.

I've used a few key events, including my birth, to highlight how recent these events are in history.

1 square = 1 year.
February 16, 2026 at 6:12 PM
I want to watch Frieren season 2
February 16, 2026 at 9:28 PM
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This is how we win.

One by one, ordinary Americans see what is happening and reach their breaking point — and they act.

One by one.
Yesterday morning kids were sent running from their bus stop in panic because ICE showed up. This guy at today’s ICE Out of Lindenwold protest is a must watch 😭. @maddow.bsky.social
February 14, 2026 at 9:46 PM
I got asked if I was North American again by a taxi driver 😅
February 14, 2026 at 10:23 PM
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Hey.

You're not in trouble and no one is mad at you.

Anxiety is a filthy liar.
February 14, 2026 at 9:14 PM
It turns out I can resign from being host but I can't resign from my headmate sending me devastatingly insightful memes on Instagram. He's such a dick 😂
February 14, 2026 at 9:05 PM
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valentine's day isn't just for couples, it's also a day to celebrate love. for instance, i would love it if housing prices came down.
February 14, 2026 at 8:11 PM
It's so weird that staying in the front now is an active effort instead of the passive default
February 14, 2026 at 8:01 PM
The urge to delete all of my posts and go back to being fine is overwhelming
February 13, 2026 at 1:54 PM
I'm just going between feeling absolutely everything and nothing. I don't want to be host anymore. Herald can do it better than me. I'm so tired. I'm so done. My chest hurts so much. I don't want to be depended on anymore. I don't know what I'm doing so don't ask me to make you feel better
February 12, 2026 at 8:18 PM
Yey let's go back to work and immediately have a Big System Event fantastic love that for me what the FUCK
February 10, 2026 at 6:57 PM
Are you protecting children or are you protecting parents' ownership over their children?
February 10, 2026 at 6:54 PM
Okay I'm going to try and be a person. I don't really know what that means and my entire brain is screaming at me that I'm going to die and that terrible things are going to happen but I'm going to try anyway
February 10, 2026 at 6:33 PM
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The No ICE in Minnesota Charity Bundle has officially LAUNCHED!

There are 1,439 games to discover for a $10+ donation to Immigrant Law Center of Minnesota!

Purchase the bundle here: itch.io/b/3484/no-ic...
February 9, 2026 at 2:33 PM
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That upset the humans and it sort of upset me, too, which you wouldn’t think it would
February 10, 2026 at 12:15 PM
It's funny how I relate to both Wanda and Vision in WandaVision just for different reasons
February 10, 2026 at 11:16 AM
*throws the ball outside of the game map into the void*
Fetch!
February 10, 2026 at 10:34 AM
One day maybe the sun will come out
February 10, 2026 at 9:13 AM
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So there is a discord for adult survivors of child sexual abuse, does that count as an adult server, Discord?
February 10, 2026 at 2:39 AM
It's like someone cleaned our house but the house is our brain. Does that make sense? Probably not. Still true though
February 9, 2026 at 11:05 PM