Ness
@nesstheenby.bsky.social
They/them. Non-binary psych nerd. AuDHD. Plural, co-host with @herald-trashboy.bsky.social. Queer and trans. Boyfriend of @wolfinwherever.bsky.social
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Ness
@nesstheenby.bsky.social
· Jun 13
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Hi, I'm Ness, I'm a non-binary plural person living in the UK. I'm autistic & ADHD and have a special interest in psychology. Life is good, but society could be better. Destigmatise mental health
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Hi, I'm Ness, I'm a non-binary plural person living in the UK. I'm autistic & ADHD and have a special interest in psychology. Life is good, but society could be better. Destigmatise mental health
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The alpha wolf concept was debunked by the very guy who coined it because he realized that wolves in the wild are extremely communal and defer to parents for guidance. The “alpha” behavior was observed in captivity and was a terrified and violent male lashing out to feel some sort of control.
idiot guy: i'm like the wolf i'm stalking my prey alone through the forest and being raw as fuck even if i'm in a group i'm the alpha
actual wolf: i love my friends so much!!! i love to romp and kiss my bros and work together as a family <3 awooo etc etc have you seen the puppies oh my god come see
actual wolf: i love my friends so much!!! i love to romp and kiss my bros and work together as a family <3 awooo etc etc have you seen the puppies oh my god come see
November 26, 2025 at 6:40 AM
The alpha wolf concept was debunked by the very guy who coined it because he realized that wolves in the wild are extremely communal and defer to parents for guidance. The “alpha” behavior was observed in captivity and was a terrified and violent male lashing out to feel some sort of control.
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The 50 wealthiest families own more wealth than the bottom 50% of the population.
How can this Labour Government say this is a "cost of living" budget and refuse to tax the rich?
They care about protecting power and wealth. And cost of living is a buzz phrase for them. Dire.
How can this Labour Government say this is a "cost of living" budget and refuse to tax the rich?
They care about protecting power and wealth. And cost of living is a buzz phrase for them. Dire.
November 26, 2025 at 12:16 PM
The 50 wealthiest families own more wealth than the bottom 50% of the population.
How can this Labour Government say this is a "cost of living" budget and refuse to tax the rich?
They care about protecting power and wealth. And cost of living is a buzz phrase for them. Dire.
How can this Labour Government say this is a "cost of living" budget and refuse to tax the rich?
They care about protecting power and wealth. And cost of living is a buzz phrase for them. Dire.
DID is like an onion, except it's just layers and layers of "I can see how that sucks" to "oh that REALLY sucks" to "oh now that you've told me THAT that is just actually fucked up" to "okay that's it, I want to hit your parents with a car"
November 26, 2025 at 8:59 PM
DID is like an onion, except it's just layers and layers of "I can see how that sucks" to "oh that REALLY sucks" to "oh now that you've told me THAT that is just actually fucked up" to "okay that's it, I want to hit your parents with a car"
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I have no idea who came up with the idea that humans are superior to other animals, but, all things considered, it was probably a human.
November 26, 2025 at 8:11 PM
I have no idea who came up with the idea that humans are superior to other animals, but, all things considered, it was probably a human.
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Years of work involving an amazing team at BBCSstudios Framestore AppleTV, our series #PrehistoricPlanetIceAge is out now on #AppleTV. Huge thanks to everyone involved. All 5 eps have been released!
November 26, 2025 at 2:16 PM
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I have the type of mental illness where I need 27 different social media accounts in order to function
November 26, 2025 at 1:43 PM
I have the type of mental illness where I need 27 different social media accounts in order to function
All PTSD survivors should get the option to take their traumaversaries off from work as standard
November 26, 2025 at 1:41 PM
All PTSD survivors should get the option to take their traumaversaries off from work as standard
I need Bluesky to lock. Not lock in, just make locked accounts that is
November 26, 2025 at 12:16 PM
I need Bluesky to lock. Not lock in, just make locked accounts that is
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one of the coolest things about ChatGPT is how you can actually just never use it. you can fill your whole entire life with simply not once using it. it's incredible.
November 25, 2025 at 4:15 PM
one of the coolest things about ChatGPT is how you can actually just never use it. you can fill your whole entire life with simply not once using it. it's incredible.
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www.nexusmods.com/morrowind/mo...
I made a mod that replaces cliffracers with Thomas the Tank Engine. I am incapable of learning lessons whenever it involves corporations, because I fundamentally do not view toy company CEOs or media CEOs as people.
#morrowind #thomasthetankengine
I made a mod that replaces cliffracers with Thomas the Tank Engine. I am incapable of learning lessons whenever it involves corporations, because I fundamentally do not view toy company CEOs or media CEOs as people.
#morrowind #thomasthetankengine
November 24, 2025 at 8:52 PM
www.nexusmods.com/morrowind/mo...
I made a mod that replaces cliffracers with Thomas the Tank Engine. I am incapable of learning lessons whenever it involves corporations, because I fundamentally do not view toy company CEOs or media CEOs as people.
#morrowind #thomasthetankengine
I made a mod that replaces cliffracers with Thomas the Tank Engine. I am incapable of learning lessons whenever it involves corporations, because I fundamentally do not view toy company CEOs or media CEOs as people.
#morrowind #thomasthetankengine
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This case is so incredibly fucked up, it isolated the teenager from his family and actively tried to prevent him from confiding in anyone about his suicidal thoughts on multiple occasions.
There's a fairly decent summary on Wikipedia, but this is so utterly tragic.
There's a fairly decent summary on Wikipedia, but this is so utterly tragic.
Raine v. OpenAI - Wikipedia
en.wikipedia.org
November 26, 2025 at 7:43 AM
This case is so incredibly fucked up, it isolated the teenager from his family and actively tried to prevent him from confiding in anyone about his suicidal thoughts on multiple occasions.
There's a fairly decent summary on Wikipedia, but this is so utterly tragic.
There's a fairly decent summary on Wikipedia, but this is so utterly tragic.
Sometimes I go to r/raisedbynarcissists and go "damn this is all very relatable, these are my people, they've all gone through everything that I have" and then I get to "and that's why narcissists are all evil pieces of shit" and I'm like.....
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aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
November 26, 2025 at 10:51 AM
Sometimes I go to r/raisedbynarcissists and go "damn this is all very relatable, these are my people, they've all gone through everything that I have" and then I get to "and that's why narcissists are all evil pieces of shit" and I'm like.....
aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
Good news everyone, James Dobson is still dead
November 26, 2025 at 10:36 AM
Good news everyone, James Dobson is still dead
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They should invent an email that doesn't find me at all
November 25, 2025 at 5:45 PM
They should invent an email that doesn't find me at all
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I've seen people say that getting attached to ChatGPT is like "believing the stripper really loves you", but that's not true. It's more like believing that the dryer personally composed that little jingle on a lonely sockless night just to win your affections.
November 26, 2025 at 1:55 AM
I've seen people say that getting attached to ChatGPT is like "believing the stripper really loves you", but that's not true. It's more like believing that the dryer personally composed that little jingle on a lonely sockless night just to win your affections.
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Sure get the psychosis exacerbating technology to guide people to the right service.
What could go wrong.
What could go wrong.
📢 A new AI tool will be a "real game changer in providing faster and real time access to support", says the mental health minister.
👉 Report issues, make suggestions
👉 Report issues, make suggestions
Mental health data won't be misused by new AI navigation tool - minister
www.rnz.co.nz
November 26, 2025 at 6:58 AM
Sure get the psychosis exacerbating technology to guide people to the right service.
What could go wrong.
What could go wrong.
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I need meds and stuff so you should help me out if you can or boost it around ko-fi.com/ashley95676
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November 26, 2025 at 7:15 AM
I need meds and stuff so you should help me out if you can or boost it around ko-fi.com/ashley95676
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5 years ago tonight ness made the decision to leave home, and I'm using the word "leave" lightly. I'm so fucking proud of them for making that decision. it wasn't easy. it fucked us up for a bit. but it was the best choice we've ever made. we now have the chance to heal and define ourselves
November 25, 2025 at 6:32 PM
5 years ago tonight ness made the decision to leave home, and I'm using the word "leave" lightly. I'm so fucking proud of them for making that decision. it wasn't easy. it fucked us up for a bit. but it was the best choice we've ever made. we now have the chance to heal and define ourselves
It would be very nice if I was able to front in and not immediately go "am I in trouble for xyz" and it's literally the most trivial inoffensive innocent shit that nobody cares about
November 26, 2025 at 12:07 AM
It would be very nice if I was able to front in and not immediately go "am I in trouble for xyz" and it's literally the most trivial inoffensive innocent shit that nobody cares about
Oh. That makes sense why I've been having the nightmares lately then. Traumaversary yay
November 26, 2025 at 12:06 AM
Oh. That makes sense why I've been having the nightmares lately then. Traumaversary yay
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gotta say, plurality in and of itself? not a problem. plurality when you've got a whole subsystem designed to fuck you up? kinda a problem. kinda irritating. don't even have fronting privileges and yet they're the bane of my life
November 24, 2025 at 10:34 PM
gotta say, plurality in and of itself? not a problem. plurality when you've got a whole subsystem designed to fuck you up? kinda a problem. kinda irritating. don't even have fronting privileges and yet they're the bane of my life
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Alastor: "is this fucking book about me?"
November 24, 2025 at 6:35 PM
Alastor: "is this fucking book about me?"
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Why do they seem to be putting more effort into finding the victim than the perpetrator.
Given the victim is claimed to be trans (how do they know if they don't know who they are) under the current regime there is probably a good chance of arresting them for damaging the bottle.
Given the victim is claimed to be trans (how do they know if they don't know who they are) under the current regime there is probably a good chance of arresting them for damaging the bottle.
November 24, 2025 at 9:23 AM
Why do they seem to be putting more effort into finding the victim than the perpetrator.
Given the victim is claimed to be trans (how do they know if they don't know who they are) under the current regime there is probably a good chance of arresting them for damaging the bottle.
Given the victim is claimed to be trans (how do they know if they don't know who they are) under the current regime there is probably a good chance of arresting them for damaging the bottle.
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The trail will involve 220 children.
Meanwhile 3000 another children seeking health care for their gender dysphoria will be placed on an ‘observational’ study.
The old ‘watch and wait’ is how Alice was treated. Although this time there might be someone actually watching, this is not health care.🧵
Meanwhile 3000 another children seeking health care for their gender dysphoria will be placed on an ‘observational’ study.
The old ‘watch and wait’ is how Alice was treated. Although this time there might be someone actually watching, this is not health care.🧵
Puberty Blocker clinical trials to begin
on the NHS
- The trial will involve around 220 children under 16
- Young people will “undergo intensive medical and psychological screening”, including Gillick competency evaluation
- Trial: Group 1 will get PBs straight away vs Group 2, 12 months later
on the NHS
- The trial will involve around 220 children under 16
- Young people will “undergo intensive medical and psychological screening”, including Gillick competency evaluation
- Trial: Group 1 will get PBs straight away vs Group 2, 12 months later
New puberty blockers clinical trial to begin after UK ban - BBC News
Those taking part in the study will be children under 16 who are going through puberty.
www.bbc.co.uk
November 22, 2025 at 8:30 AM
The trail will involve 220 children.
Meanwhile 3000 another children seeking health care for their gender dysphoria will be placed on an ‘observational’ study.
The old ‘watch and wait’ is how Alice was treated. Although this time there might be someone actually watching, this is not health care.🧵
Meanwhile 3000 another children seeking health care for their gender dysphoria will be placed on an ‘observational’ study.
The old ‘watch and wait’ is how Alice was treated. Although this time there might be someone actually watching, this is not health care.🧵