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nesstheenby.bsky.social
Ness
@nesstheenby.bsky.social
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They/them. Non-binary psych nerd. AuDHD. Plural, co-host with @herald-trashboy.bsky.social. Queer and trans. Boyfriend of @wolfinwherever.bsky.social

Avery System co-host

System members & pronouns - https://pronouns.cc/@theaveries
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I'm fine now actually haha
A leaflet or infographic with a doctor's smiling face on it. Caption reads: Ask your doctor if strategic clinical amnesia is right for you" but the words "strategic clinical amnesia" have been edited in
November 23, 2025 at 8:57 AM
nesstheenby.bsky.social
My one
A collage that includes a picture of someone who's had top surgery, a "would you like to go back? yes / never" video game option, someone with a mask over their face, an androgynous person with blue hair listening to music over headphones, a jinx-themed masked figure with "anxiety" written above them in spiky pink letters, a hissing cat, a non-binary ghost, a trans flag, a raven, a non-binary cartoon character, and the message "these weren't originally my memories. But I'm happy to take care of them" written in techy green font as if on a computer screen
November 21, 2025 at 4:57 AM
nesstheenby.bsky.social
Yes officer it's this one right here
An infographic. It reads: Dissociative identity disorder symptoms - Passive influence - Internal voices - Intrusive thoughts, feelings, urges - Changing memories, skills, preferences - Identity confusion - this one is circled multiple times in yellow highlighter - Amnesia - Flashbacks - Feeling like different people - Dissociation
November 18, 2025 at 11:46 PM
nesstheenby.bsky.social
Nobody speak to me
Kabutops from Pokemon. It's a rocky bug pokemon with scythes for hands
November 13, 2025 at 2:22 PM
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Reposted with alt text and a grim sense of dread
A screenshot of a website that looks very newly set up. It has red text and the banner reads "Wes for Leader" and "We're with Wes". The rest of the text is the "lorem ipsum" latin that serves as placeholder text
November 13, 2025 at 1:56 PM
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One of them responded that "our benevolence is only for our members" and as someone raised Christian, that boiled my blood.

There is literally a Bible verse speaking about how much Jesus hated this!
41 “Then the King will turn to those on the left and say, ‘Away with you, you cursed ones, into the eternal fire prepared for the devil and his demons.[d] 42 For I was hungry, and you didn’t feed me. I was thirsty, and you didn’t give me a drink. 43 I was a stranger, and you didn’t invite me into your home. I was naked, and you didn’t give me clothing. I was sick and in prison, and you didn’t visit me.’ 44 “Then they will reply, ‘Lord, when did we ever see you hungry or thirsty or a stranger or naked or sick or in prison, and not help you?’ 45 “And he will answer, ‘I tell you the truth, when you refused to help the least of these my brothers and sisters, you were refusing to help me.’
November 11, 2025 at 11:58 AM
nesstheenby.bsky.social
My headmate who has never asked for anything for zirself has managed to make more progress in one conversation than I have in months of trying with our subsystem. And the only thing they've asked for is

Yes. Yes I will buy you the game
A Discord screenshot. Cyan (ze/zir/any) I would like us to purchase Detroit Become Human at some point.
November 10, 2025 at 9:08 AM
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Winding down after the first day back at work
A picture of a non-binary person with short brown hair, brown eyes, a collared shirt, black glasses, red and black headphones and a slight smile
November 1, 2025 at 10:56 PM
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😅
A screenshot showing that I have Switch on a custom feed called "notifications" alongside pluralsky and neurodiversity
November 1, 2025 at 8:34 PM
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They were so freaking adorable I was so lucky to get to them right around dinner time otherwise my photos of them would have been
A vaguely red panda shaped blob high up in the trees, but you absolutely cannot tell that it's a red panda
October 31, 2025 at 9:01 AM
nesstheenby.bsky.social
It would be mean not to show the class
A red panda walking up a log to a platform with a bowl on it. It is impossible to overstate how hecken adorable this ginger foxlike panda is The red panda is now standing squarely on the platform eating the loose food on top of it with the trees behind them. You can see their adorable white face nomming the food and the fluffy white and ginger tail and the adorable dark brown legs. I need a plushie of this immediately A red panda standing on a log with their adorable little face picking food off the top of one of the poles. You can see their white ears pricked up as they survey the area before picking up food
October 30, 2025 at 11:50 PM
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My body is a machine that turns *unholy screaming* into "hehehe me no remember"
October 30, 2025 at 9:20 PM
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I would highly recommend, and if you can't get, I will give
A film poster for Mickey 17. It depicts multiple people in sci fi uniforms and suits, but Robert Patterson's face is repeated throughout as if they are different people, with x's over the eyes. A larger Robert Patterson is front and centre of the poster with no x's over the eyes
October 28, 2025 at 2:11 PM
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Didn't stop us from trying though 😂
Ness sent a text: "Pay my therapy bills and then we'll talk" Mother: I related your thoughts to Dad. He says to send his love, and that you'd be better off sticking to Benefit Fraud as extortion is really not your style. Smiley face emoji Herald replying: Idk I always operated on the principle of "you break it, you pay for it" but that's just me ig
October 24, 2025 at 9:06 AM
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A photo of Kristen Bell and her husband from Instagram. It is a post of her hugging her husband on a bed. She has her face hidden because of the hug and he is wearing a wife beater shirt. 388k likes, 2674 comments, 477 reposts, 4656 DMs Caption: Happy 12th wedding anniversary to the man who once said to me: "I would never kill you. A lot of men have killed their wives at a certain point. Even though I'm heavily incentivised to kill you, I never would." [Red heart emoji]
October 21, 2025 at 1:13 PM
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I'm not good at maths but I'm slightly better than he is and...
A Google search showing that Donald Trump is 79 years old 2048-2025 is 23 79+23 = 102
October 20, 2025 at 10:11 PM
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I genuinely feel like I'm living in a parallel reality with these headlines. AI is not profitable. It costs OpenAI and all these companies money to produce utter slop. That's why Sora is aiming to be a social media platform, not an AI machine
By Steven Levy, business Oct 17th 2025, 11:00am Can AI avoid the Enshittification Trap? Cory Doctorow's theory of "enshittification" explains how tech platforms rot from within. As AI grows more profitable - and powerful - it risks the same fate.
October 20, 2025 at 9:38 PM
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Sometimes you gotta traumatise them back a little
A screenshot of Discord messages: The Chatter: A block of text covered up by pen and the caption*abusive drivel* written over the top. Next message reads: You're a freak Ness: I'm a weirdo. What the hell am I doing heeeeereeeee
October 15, 2025 at 11:46 PM
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Me at dysphoria:
Frieren, a white haired elf lady, directing Fern, a young purple haired child with a dark oversized cloak to fire an RPG at something out of frame
October 12, 2025 at 3:27 PM
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When someone goes "yeah but how did you get like this"
Gru from Despicable Me speaking to his yellow minions saying "in terms of memory, we have no memory"
October 9, 2025 at 12:04 PM
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I keep coming back to this and like...yeaaaah it keeps saying "dude go to therapy" about it
Thank you for taking the Avoidant Personality Disorder Symptoms Test. Please share and review these results with your medical provider. The ADDitude team has also suggested next steps and further reading below. Your Score: 36 (Out of 40) The higher the point total, the greater the likelihood that you show signs of avoidant personality disorder. This screener is designed to determine whether you demonstrate symptoms similar to those of avoidant personality disorder (AVPD). A high score does not necessarily mean you have AVPD. That being said, if your score is 30-40, that means you answered "Often" or "Very Often" to most of the questions and should see a trained health care professional as there is a possibility that you may be experiencing symptoms of AVPD. An accurate diagnosis can only be made through clinical evaluation.
October 6, 2025 at 10:50 PM
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I don't like this game anymore
Trauma Profile Test Childhood injustice - 80% Childhood abandonment - 80% Childhood rejection - 95% Adult frustration - 81% Adult anxiety - 100% Adult stress - 93% Adult inattention - 93% Adult shame - 100% Childhood betrayal - 100%
October 6, 2025 at 9:06 PM
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I 100%'d Terra Nil!
A screenshot of the credits scrolling at the end of Terra Nil and in the background the planet is fully restored
October 6, 2025 at 9:59 AM
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I'm surprised that the non-binary score was so low tbh
7 identities test: 0% cisgender, 46% genderfluid, 60% non-binary, 93% transgender, 86% genderqueer, 26% intersex, 80% agender Your identity is primarily transgender
October 6, 2025 at 8:20 AM
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I- I...um WHAT???
A screenshot from twitter from Andrew Tate's account saying "when my super yacht is finished I'm joining the Flotilla"
October 3, 2025 at 9:59 AM