📚🖤GothGirl🖤📚
@kstarlight21.bsky.social
Any pronouns ✨
Level 28 ❣️
Married 💍
Love books, manga, anime, heavy metal and art 📚
Coffee enthusiast ☕
Goth 🖤
Awkward, weird and trying my best 💖
Pro-choice, atheist, LGBTQIA+ rights are human rights🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈
Bigots get blocked🙅🏽
Minors DNI 💥
Level 28 ❣️
Married 💍
Love books, manga, anime, heavy metal and art 📚
Coffee enthusiast ☕
Goth 🖤
Awkward, weird and trying my best 💖
Pro-choice, atheist, LGBTQIA+ rights are human rights🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈
Bigots get blocked🙅🏽
Minors DNI 💥
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@kstarlight21.bsky.social
· Nov 17
My name is Kay, I go by any pronouns. I'm a pro-choice atheist who believes that all people deserve human rights and decency. I do not tolerate any bigotry, bullying or harassment towards others. I don't like bigots and I'll block without hesitation. I'm married, a little awkward but overall chilled
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Current needs-
$40 for gas
$30 for Uber
$250 for two nights at a hotel (includes refundable deposit)
$110 for pain medication
CA and Venmo- ladyasterianox
$40 for gas
$30 for Uber
$250 for two nights at a hotel (includes refundable deposit)
$110 for pain medication
CA and Venmo- ladyasterianox
January 7, 2026 at 1:55 PM
Current needs-
$40 for gas
$30 for Uber
$250 for two nights at a hotel (includes refundable deposit)
$110 for pain medication
CA and Venmo- ladyasterianox
$40 for gas
$30 for Uber
$250 for two nights at a hotel (includes refundable deposit)
$110 for pain medication
CA and Venmo- ladyasterianox
I hope it goes well!
January 7, 2026 at 2:50 PM
I hope it goes well!
Nooooo I'm so sorry, Kate 😭
January 7, 2026 at 2:45 PM
Nooooo I'm so sorry, Kate 😭
I'm glad you feel better! I hate that a common side effect of medication is nausea, it's super unpleasant.
January 7, 2026 at 2:41 PM
I'm glad you feel better! I hate that a common side effect of medication is nausea, it's super unpleasant.
I'm so sorry, Shine. 💔
January 7, 2026 at 1:17 PM
I'm so sorry, Shine. 💔
And then whenever you see your doctor, you get the letter or ask for a different doctor to get that letter. Cos it's honestly ridiculous they didn't write one for you in the first place.
January 6, 2026 at 8:04 PM
And then whenever you see your doctor, you get the letter or ask for a different doctor to get that letter. Cos it's honestly ridiculous they didn't write one for you in the first place.
Deep breaths. Just tell them you're going to get a medical letter from your doctor regarding your condition and that you're actively seeking medical assistance for it as well.
January 6, 2026 at 8:03 PM
Deep breaths. Just tell them you're going to get a medical letter from your doctor regarding your condition and that you're actively seeking medical assistance for it as well.
Me at whoever your health insurance provider is
January 6, 2026 at 8:00 PM
Me at whoever your health insurance provider is
I hope that they are good!
January 6, 2026 at 7:52 PM
I hope that they are good!
*barely cover anything too
January 6, 2026 at 7:51 PM
*barely cover anything too
I wish you guys had better Healthcare, it's so horrific. And wisdom teeth removal is something that can literally make you sick if you delay it too long and an infection happens, plus the pain is awful🫠I don't even understand it, you guys pay so much for insurance and then they cover too 😭
January 6, 2026 at 7:51 PM
I wish you guys had better Healthcare, it's so horrific. And wisdom teeth removal is something that can literally make you sick if you delay it too long and an infection happens, plus the pain is awful🫠I don't even understand it, you guys pay so much for insurance and then they cover too 😭
Holy shit, that's so horribly expensive???
January 6, 2026 at 7:48 PM
Holy shit, that's so horribly expensive???
Without falling for any guilt trips and manipulation. It's hard and it'll take lots of work, but you have a good therapist and decent support system now!
January 6, 2026 at 11:20 AM
Without falling for any guilt trips and manipulation. It's hard and it'll take lots of work, but you have a good therapist and decent support system now!
Abusers tend to be able to sense when someone is vulnerable and use it to their advantage. It's one of the reasons why you absolutely need to work on your confidence, boundaries and assertiveness before having any kind of relationship again so that you're able to say "this isn't OK, I'm gone"
January 6, 2026 at 11:20 AM
Abusers tend to be able to sense when someone is vulnerable and use it to their advantage. It's one of the reasons why you absolutely need to work on your confidence, boundaries and assertiveness before having any kind of relationship again so that you're able to say "this isn't OK, I'm gone"
I haven't been able to eat eggs for years but my granny made me scrambled eggs with bits of bacon in and I managed to eat it. And it was really nice so hopefully I will be able to enjoy more egg dishes in the future!
January 6, 2026 at 11:12 AM
I haven't been able to eat eggs for years but my granny made me scrambled eggs with bits of bacon in and I managed to eat it. And it was really nice so hopefully I will be able to enjoy more egg dishes in the future!
Some companies are quite understanding and would be fine with a long notice period. Also, unless it states in your contract that you should train a replacement, you don't have to do it. You can give in your notice and leave when it's up.
January 5, 2026 at 9:03 PM
Some companies are quite understanding and would be fine with a long notice period. Also, unless it states in your contract that you should train a replacement, you don't have to do it. You can give in your notice and leave when it's up.
Once you have your new job and place secured, preferably. I'm not sure what your company policy is regarding notice periods, you should look into it so you can prevent getting penalized (like if they need 2 weeks or whatever).
January 5, 2026 at 9:00 PM
Once you have your new job and place secured, preferably. I'm not sure what your company policy is regarding notice periods, you should look into it so you can prevent getting penalized (like if they need 2 weeks or whatever).
Important than ever while you're still figuring things out.
January 5, 2026 at 8:57 PM
Important than ever while you're still figuring things out.
That's normal, but you can definitely bring it up in therapy. Even rushing into a physical relationship isn't always a good idea. Plus, there are risks when it's via dating apps cos those people are essentially strangers who can lie about serious things. Your mental and physical health is more
January 5, 2026 at 8:56 PM
That's normal, but you can definitely bring it up in therapy. Even rushing into a physical relationship isn't always a good idea. Plus, there are risks when it's via dating apps cos those people are essentially strangers who can lie about serious things. Your mental and physical health is more
Better place mentally, then it will be easier to date cos you'll be more confident, spot red flags, be assertive with what you want in a relationship, etc. It's important not to rush into such things while you're unpacking your trauma.
January 5, 2026 at 8:53 PM
Better place mentally, then it will be easier to date cos you'll be more confident, spot red flags, be assertive with what you want in a relationship, etc. It's important not to rush into such things while you're unpacking your trauma.
I think you need to learn how to be okay on your own first before you try going on dates/having serious relationships. You just got out of an abusive marriage, I'm not saying you should be alone forever, but you have other things going on right now that should take priority. When you are in a
January 5, 2026 at 8:52 PM
I think you need to learn how to be okay on your own first before you try going on dates/having serious relationships. You just got out of an abusive marriage, I'm not saying you should be alone forever, but you have other things going on right now that should take priority. When you are in a
Definitely not. Not that dating apps are always bad, but I'd highly suggest against it. I always see horror stories regarding those types of apps and how terrible people can be on them.
January 5, 2026 at 8:50 PM
Definitely not. Not that dating apps are always bad, but I'd highly suggest against it. I always see horror stories regarding those types of apps and how terrible people can be on them.
I hope your therapist can give you some decent suggestions and that they help! But also, be patient with yourself. You are still recovering from a lot of trauma. There is no deadline for recovering from abuse. Take it one day at a time, do what you can and reach out for help when you need to.
January 5, 2026 at 7:11 PM
I hope your therapist can give you some decent suggestions and that they help! But also, be patient with yourself. You are still recovering from a lot of trauma. There is no deadline for recovering from abuse. Take it one day at a time, do what you can and reach out for help when you need to.
Also, remember it's not one size fits all and it's okay to try things and discover they aren't for you. It doesn't mean there isn't a healthy coping mechanism out there for you. It took me a while to find mine because I thought journalling was silly, but the more I did it, the more it helped.
January 5, 2026 at 7:09 PM
Also, remember it's not one size fits all and it's okay to try things and discover they aren't for you. It doesn't mean there isn't a healthy coping mechanism out there for you. It took me a while to find mine because I thought journalling was silly, but the more I did it, the more it helped.