Kim Crayton [She/Her]
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“The thing that was given to me by the universe was the chance to question it, and that is my divine duty.” Leonardo da Vinci
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This may be uncomfortable to hear, but it’s essential to say clearly…there is no such thing as a “non-racist” white person.
Whiteness itself is not just a neutral identity.
It’s a social construct built historically in opposition to Blackness.
Whiteness itself is not just a neutral identity.
It’s a social construct built historically in opposition to Blackness.
One of the least acknowledged consequences of the myth of white supremacy is the deep cynicism it breeds in all of us.
And I don’t mean discernment.
I don’t mean healthy boundaries.
I don’t mean strategic awareness.
I mean cynicism:
And I don’t mean discernment.
I don’t mean healthy boundaries.
I don’t mean strategic awareness.
I mean cynicism:
November 15, 2025 at 8:51 PM
One of the least acknowledged consequences of the myth of white supremacy is the deep cynicism it breeds in all of us.
And I don’t mean discernment.
I don’t mean healthy boundaries.
I don’t mean strategic awareness.
I mean cynicism:
And I don’t mean discernment.
I don’t mean healthy boundaries.
I don’t mean strategic awareness.
I mean cynicism:
There’s a truth I need you to sit with:
White male loneliness isn’t a crisis because it’s new.
It’s a crisis because it’s finally being named.
For generations, white men have been conditioned by the myth of white male supremacy to disconnect from their own humanity.
White male loneliness isn’t a crisis because it’s new.
It’s a crisis because it’s finally being named.
For generations, white men have been conditioned by the myth of white male supremacy to disconnect from their own humanity.
November 15, 2025 at 12:49 PM
There’s a truth I need you to sit with:
White male loneliness isn’t a crisis because it’s new.
It’s a crisis because it’s finally being named.
For generations, white men have been conditioned by the myth of white male supremacy to disconnect from their own humanity.
White male loneliness isn’t a crisis because it’s new.
It’s a crisis because it’s finally being named.
For generations, white men have been conditioned by the myth of white male supremacy to disconnect from their own humanity.
One thing that I suspected, from working with my white male business advising clients, and that has now been confirmed in the Facilitated Conversations with Kim Crayton – Mediocre sessions is this truth: white male loneliness is not new.
November 14, 2025 at 12:18 PM
One thing that I suspected, from working with my white male business advising clients, and that has now been confirmed in the Facilitated Conversations with Kim Crayton – Mediocre sessions is this truth: white male loneliness is not new.
So much of navigating professional spaces as a Black woman requires an ongoing conversation with yourself. A constant reminder that you know what you know, that you deserve what you ask for, and that your presence in spaces designed against you matters.
November 13, 2025 at 9:50 PM
So much of navigating professional spaces as a Black woman requires an ongoing conversation with yourself. A constant reminder that you know what you know, that you deserve what you ask for, and that your presence in spaces designed against you matters.
“At a time when most social networks are actively promoting fascism, it’s heartening to find a community that centers joy and learning. The PWO community has helped me recognize my internalized racism...
November 13, 2025 at 11:03 AM
“At a time when most social networks are actively promoting fascism, it’s heartening to find a community that centers joy and learning. The PWO community has helped me recognize my internalized racism...
There’s a moment in nearly every conversation about equity when the myth shows up.
You know the one.
The myth of “hard work,” “personal responsibility,” and “deservingness.”
The myth that says if someone is hungry, it’s their fault.
The myth of “hard work,” “personal responsibility,” and “deservingness.”
The myth that says if someone is hungry, it’s their fault.
November 12, 2025 at 10:25 PM
There’s a moment in nearly every conversation about equity when the myth shows up.
You know the one.
The myth of “hard work,” “personal responsibility,” and “deservingness.”
The myth that says if someone is hungry, it’s their fault.
The myth of “hard work,” “personal responsibility,” and “deservingness.”
The myth that says if someone is hungry, it’s their fault.
I want to talk about something that came up during one of the Facilitated Conversations with Kim Crayton — Mediocre sessions.
It’s a conversation I haven’t seen others have publicly because it’s risky.
It requires care, compassion, and precision.
And even then, someone may be harmed.
It’s a conversation I haven’t seen others have publicly because it’s risky.
It requires care, compassion, and precision.
And even then, someone may be harmed.
November 12, 2025 at 11:05 AM
I want to talk about something that came up during one of the Facilitated Conversations with Kim Crayton — Mediocre sessions.
It’s a conversation I haven’t seen others have publicly because it’s risky.
It requires care, compassion, and precision.
And even then, someone may be harmed.
It’s a conversation I haven’t seen others have publicly because it’s risky.
It requires care, compassion, and precision.
And even then, someone may be harmed.
I just saw a YouTube video titled “How White Supremacy Hijacked Christianity.”
And without even watching it, I already disagree.
White supremacy didn’t hijack Christianity.
Christianity, as practiced in the United States, is white supremacy.
And without even watching it, I already disagree.
White supremacy didn’t hijack Christianity.
Christianity, as practiced in the United States, is white supremacy.
November 11, 2025 at 2:17 PM
I just saw a YouTube video titled “How White Supremacy Hijacked Christianity.”
And without even watching it, I already disagree.
White supremacy didn’t hijack Christianity.
Christianity, as practiced in the United States, is white supremacy.
And without even watching it, I already disagree.
White supremacy didn’t hijack Christianity.
Christianity, as practiced in the United States, is white supremacy.
From colonial expansion to corporate boardrooms, supremacy indoctrination of white masculinity has always meant extraction.
You’ve been told “providing” means taking.
This event is about learning another way to live, lead, and be in community.
Register now to begin unlearning.
You’ve been told “providing” means taking.
This event is about learning another way to live, lead, and be in community.
Register now to begin unlearning.
November 11, 2025 at 1:11 PM
From colonial expansion to corporate boardrooms, supremacy indoctrination of white masculinity has always meant extraction.
You’ve been told “providing” means taking.
This event is about learning another way to live, lead, and be in community.
Register now to begin unlearning.
You’ve been told “providing” means taking.
This event is about learning another way to live, lead, and be in community.
Register now to begin unlearning.
One thing that became clear to me yesterday is that choosing to live by the principles of a supremacy-, coercion-, discrimination-, and exploitation-free worldview comes with a cost that too few people talk about honestly.
You will lose people.
You will lose people.
November 10, 2025 at 10:38 PM
One thing that became clear to me yesterday is that choosing to live by the principles of a supremacy-, coercion-, discrimination-, and exploitation-free worldview comes with a cost that too few people talk about honestly.
You will lose people.
You will lose people.
Today reminded me that I still have work to do.
I attended a professional/friend event and if you know me, you know how rare that is. Rare enough that when I show up, people are genuinely surprised.
I attended a professional/friend event and if you know me, you know how rare that is. Rare enough that when I show up, people are genuinely surprised.
November 9, 2025 at 11:17 PM
Today reminded me that I still have work to do.
I attended a professional/friend event and if you know me, you know how rare that is. Rare enough that when I show up, people are genuinely surprised.
I attended a professional/friend event and if you know me, you know how rare that is. Rare enough that when I show up, people are genuinely surprised.
Every time you avoid this work, something in you dies.
A little more honesty, a little more connection, a little more integrity.
The systems, institutions, and policies that protect you also isolate you.
You can’t be free within the myth that built your cage.
Choose liberation. Dec 6.
A little more honesty, a little more connection, a little more integrity.
The systems, institutions, and policies that protect you also isolate you.
You can’t be free within the myth that built your cage.
Choose liberation. Dec 6.
November 8, 2025 at 10:47 PM
Every time you avoid this work, something in you dies.
A little more honesty, a little more connection, a little more integrity.
The systems, institutions, and policies that protect you also isolate you.
You can’t be free within the myth that built your cage.
Choose liberation. Dec 6.
A little more honesty, a little more connection, a little more integrity.
The systems, institutions, and policies that protect you also isolate you.
You can’t be free within the myth that built your cage.
Choose liberation. Dec 6.
Your isolation is not accidental. It’s intentional.
A client of mine recently attended two international tech conferences and reached out to share his experience.
The first, he said, was “status quo white dudes and a handful of women.” The second, Mozilla Festival, felt completely different:
A client of mine recently attended two international tech conferences and reached out to share his experience.
The first, he said, was “status quo white dudes and a handful of women.” The second, Mozilla Festival, felt completely different:
November 8, 2025 at 11:31 AM
Your isolation is not accidental. It’s intentional.
A client of mine recently attended two international tech conferences and reached out to share his experience.
The first, he said, was “status quo white dudes and a handful of women.” The second, Mozilla Festival, felt completely different:
A client of mine recently attended two international tech conferences and reached out to share his experience.
The first, he said, was “status quo white dudes and a handful of women.” The second, Mozilla Festival, felt completely different:
Two days after the U.S. election, the predictable noise has started.
I’m hearing the chatter that success on California’s Prop 50 means Gavin Newsom is now the obvious choice to become president. And once again, we see the binary worldview that most white folx operate from:
I’m hearing the chatter that success on California’s Prop 50 means Gavin Newsom is now the obvious choice to become president. And once again, we see the binary worldview that most white folx operate from:
November 6, 2025 at 8:00 PM
Two days after the U.S. election, the predictable noise has started.
I’m hearing the chatter that success on California’s Prop 50 means Gavin Newsom is now the obvious choice to become president. And once again, we see the binary worldview that most white folx operate from:
I’m hearing the chatter that success on California’s Prop 50 means Gavin Newsom is now the obvious choice to become president. And once again, we see the binary worldview that most white folx operate from:
What if your worth was never measured by control, dominance, or status?
What if being “a good, white man” started with compassion and accountability?
That’s the work.
Join us Dec 6. rsvp.lifebeyondthesupremacymyth.com/winter-2025
What if being “a good, white man” started with compassion and accountability?
That’s the work.
Join us Dec 6. rsvp.lifebeyondthesupremacymyth.com/winter-2025
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November 6, 2025 at 12:48 PM
What if your worth was never measured by control, dominance, or status?
What if being “a good, white man” started with compassion and accountability?
That’s the work.
Join us Dec 6. rsvp.lifebeyondthesupremacymyth.com/winter-2025
What if being “a good, white man” started with compassion and accountability?
That’s the work.
Join us Dec 6. rsvp.lifebeyondthesupremacymyth.com/winter-2025
I know that a lot of folx in the U.S. woke up this morning with a bit of the weight we’ve been carrying for a year lifted.
A year ago today, my life quite literally fell apart.
This is no exaggeration because for three days, I could not walk.
My body simply stopped.
A year ago today, my life quite literally fell apart.
This is no exaggeration because for three days, I could not walk.
My body simply stopped.
November 5, 2025 at 7:35 PM
I know that a lot of folx in the U.S. woke up this morning with a bit of the weight we’ve been carrying for a year lifted.
A year ago today, my life quite literally fell apart.
This is no exaggeration because for three days, I could not walk.
My body simply stopped.
A year ago today, my life quite literally fell apart.
This is no exaggeration because for three days, I could not walk.
My body simply stopped.
Look around, the crisis of disconnection among men isn’t new...it’s inherited.
A culture built on control leaves no room for care.
Life Beyond the Supremacy Myth is a call to rebuild community where integrity, joy, and courage take the place of domination.
A culture built on control leaves no room for care.
Life Beyond the Supremacy Myth is a call to rebuild community where integrity, joy, and courage take the place of domination.
November 5, 2025 at 1:08 PM
Look around, the crisis of disconnection among men isn’t new...it’s inherited.
A culture built on control leaves no room for care.
Life Beyond the Supremacy Myth is a call to rebuild community where integrity, joy, and courage take the place of domination.
A culture built on control leaves no room for care.
Life Beyond the Supremacy Myth is a call to rebuild community where integrity, joy, and courage take the place of domination.
I would challenge that it's a "misunderstanding" because the history of this country documents the violent intent and permission structure.
This is by design...full stop!
This is by design...full stop!
Sora 2 is not being “misused” when people use it to produce racist, transphobic, misogynistic, & otherwise vile images—it exists to make it easier to put these images out into the world. Calling it a “misuse” is a grave misunderstanding of what these companies are up to, & lets OpenAI off the hook.
November 4, 2025 at 4:32 PM
I would challenge that it's a "misunderstanding" because the history of this country documents the violent intent and permission structure.
This is by design...full stop!
This is by design...full stop!
During my time with the participants of Facilitated Conversations with Kim Crayton – Mediocre, a few things have become clear.
It’s not just about how you uphold the myth of white supremacy. It’s about how deeply that myth has hollowed you out from the inside.
Here’s what I now know:
It’s not just about how you uphold the myth of white supremacy. It’s about how deeply that myth has hollowed you out from the inside.
Here’s what I now know:
November 4, 2025 at 12:57 PM
During my time with the participants of Facilitated Conversations with Kim Crayton – Mediocre, a few things have become clear.
It’s not just about how you uphold the myth of white supremacy. It’s about how deeply that myth has hollowed you out from the inside.
Here’s what I now know:
It’s not just about how you uphold the myth of white supremacy. It’s about how deeply that myth has hollowed you out from the inside.
Here’s what I now know:
Andrew Cuomo, who on paper is a Democrat and served as Governor of New York from 2011 to 2021, was just endorsed by Donald Trump.
Pause for a moment and let that sink in.
This is not an isolated incident.
Pause for a moment and let that sink in.
This is not an isolated incident.
November 3, 2025 at 3:52 PM
Andrew Cuomo, who on paper is a Democrat and served as Governor of New York from 2011 to 2021, was just endorsed by Donald Trump.
Pause for a moment and let that sink in.
This is not an isolated incident.
Pause for a moment and let that sink in.
This is not an isolated incident.
I don’t know why, but out of nowhere the story of the “Sword of Damocles” came to mind today.
When I looked it up, this line from Wikipedia stopped me cold:
“Though having much fortune, [he was] always having to watch in anxiety against dangers that might try to overtake him.”
When I looked it up, this line from Wikipedia stopped me cold:
“Though having much fortune, [he was] always having to watch in anxiety against dangers that might try to overtake him.”
November 3, 2025 at 1:39 PM
I don’t know why, but out of nowhere the story of the “Sword of Damocles” came to mind today.
When I looked it up, this line from Wikipedia stopped me cold:
“Though having much fortune, [he was] always having to watch in anxiety against dangers that might try to overtake him.”
When I looked it up, this line from Wikipedia stopped me cold:
“Though having much fortune, [he was] always having to watch in anxiety against dangers that might try to overtake him.”
I recently came across the term “the politics of care” while watching the YouTube video From Prince to Commoner: What Andrew’s Downfall Tells Us About Power. The concept is explored beautifully in an academic article by Berenice Malka Fisher and Maurice Hamington, which asks:
November 3, 2025 at 12:55 PM
I recently came across the term “the politics of care” while watching the YouTube video From Prince to Commoner: What Andrew’s Downfall Tells Us About Power. The concept is explored beautifully in an academic article by Berenice Malka Fisher and Maurice Hamington, which asks:
Only mediocre, unremarkable white dudes would be bribe with a shit ton of money to do their fuckin job 🤣
November 2, 2025 at 11:51 PM
Only mediocre, unremarkable white dudes would be bribe with a shit ton of money to do their fuckin job 🤣
Between George Clooney saying it was a mistake to push Biden out and the chatter about Jon Stewart possibly entering politics, I can’t help but see, once again, the myth of white male supremacy at work in real time.
It’s the same story, over and over again.
It’s the same story, over and over again.
November 2, 2025 at 11:21 PM
Between George Clooney saying it was a mistake to push Biden out and the chatter about Jon Stewart possibly entering politics, I can’t help but see, once again, the myth of white male supremacy at work in real time.
It’s the same story, over and over again.
It’s the same story, over and over again.
The myth of white supremacy was never about truth...it was about control.
Laws, institutions, and economies were built to uphold it.
And for centuries, white men were taught that domination was leadership.
That training didn’t just harm others, it broke something in you, too.
Laws, institutions, and economies were built to uphold it.
And for centuries, white men were taught that domination was leadership.
That training didn’t just harm others, it broke something in you, too.
November 2, 2025 at 11:37 AM
The myth of white supremacy was never about truth...it was about control.
Laws, institutions, and economies were built to uphold it.
And for centuries, white men were taught that domination was leadership.
That training didn’t just harm others, it broke something in you, too.
Laws, institutions, and economies were built to uphold it.
And for centuries, white men were taught that domination was leadership.
That training didn’t just harm others, it broke something in you, too.