Kim Crayton [She/Her]
@kimcrayton1.bsky.social
“The thing that was given to me by the universe was the chance to question it, and that is my divine duty.” Leonardo da Vinci
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This is the work.
And it’s work that cannot, and should not, be done alone.
➡️ It’s time to confront cynicism not as a personality but as conditioning.
➡️ It’s time to choose connection over suspicion.
➡️ It’s time to build what the myth has denied you.
And it’s work that cannot, and should not, be done alone.
➡️ It’s time to confront cynicism not as a personality but as conditioning.
➡️ It’s time to choose connection over suspicion.
➡️ It’s time to build what the myth has denied you.
November 15, 2025 at 8:51 PM
This is the work.
And it’s work that cannot, and should not, be done alone.
➡️ It’s time to confront cynicism not as a personality but as conditioning.
➡️ It’s time to choose connection over suspicion.
➡️ It’s time to build what the myth has denied you.
And it’s work that cannot, and should not, be done alone.
➡️ It’s time to confront cynicism not as a personality but as conditioning.
➡️ It’s time to choose connection over suspicion.
➡️ It’s time to build what the myth has denied you.
✔️ Allowing for vulnerability where you’ve been taught to show dominance
✔️ Building the skills to engage in community where accountability is part of care, not punishment
Cynicism lets us off the hook.
Liberation demands that we get back on it.
✔️ Building the skills to engage in community where accountability is part of care, not punishment
Cynicism lets us off the hook.
Liberation demands that we get back on it.
November 15, 2025 at 8:51 PM
✔️ Allowing for vulnerability where you’ve been taught to show dominance
✔️ Building the skills to engage in community where accountability is part of care, not punishment
Cynicism lets us off the hook.
Liberation demands that we get back on it.
✔️ Building the skills to engage in community where accountability is part of care, not punishment
Cynicism lets us off the hook.
Liberation demands that we get back on it.
If we want a supremacy-, coercion-, discrimination-, and exploitation-free world, then pushing against cynicism must become a daily discipline.
That means:
✔️ Choosing intentional trust over instinctive suspicion
✔️ Recognizing sincerity instead of immediately questioning motives
That means:
✔️ Choosing intentional trust over instinctive suspicion
✔️ Recognizing sincerity instead of immediately questioning motives
November 15, 2025 at 8:51 PM
If we want a supremacy-, coercion-, discrimination-, and exploitation-free world, then pushing against cynicism must become a daily discipline.
That means:
✔️ Choosing intentional trust over instinctive suspicion
✔️ Recognizing sincerity instead of immediately questioning motives
That means:
✔️ Choosing intentional trust over instinctive suspicion
✔️ Recognizing sincerity instead of immediately questioning motives
But the truth is: cynicism is isolation.
And isolation is exactly where the myth needs white men to remain, because men who are disconnected from themselves and each other are far easier to manipulate, distract, and keep in cycles of harm.
And isolation is exactly where the myth needs white men to remain, because men who are disconnected from themselves and each other are far easier to manipulate, distract, and keep in cycles of harm.
November 15, 2025 at 8:51 PM
But the truth is: cynicism is isolation.
And isolation is exactly where the myth needs white men to remain, because men who are disconnected from themselves and each other are far easier to manipulate, distract, and keep in cycles of harm.
And isolation is exactly where the myth needs white men to remain, because men who are disconnected from themselves and each other are far easier to manipulate, distract, and keep in cycles of harm.
Cynicism ensures that trust never forms.
Trust is the soil where community grows.
Community is where accountability becomes possible.
And accountability threatens the entire foundation of white supremacy.
For white men in particular, cynicism is sold as strength.
As intelligence.
As leadership.
Trust is the soil where community grows.
Community is where accountability becomes possible.
And accountability threatens the entire foundation of white supremacy.
For white men in particular, cynicism is sold as strength.
As intelligence.
As leadership.
November 15, 2025 at 8:51 PM
Cynicism ensures that trust never forms.
Trust is the soil where community grows.
Community is where accountability becomes possible.
And accountability threatens the entire foundation of white supremacy.
For white men in particular, cynicism is sold as strength.
As intelligence.
As leadership.
Trust is the soil where community grows.
Community is where accountability becomes possible.
And accountability threatens the entire foundation of white supremacy.
For white men in particular, cynicism is sold as strength.
As intelligence.
As leadership.
✔️ “Everyone’s only out for themselves.”
✔️ “If I don’t protect what’s mine, someone will take it.”
✔️ “No one is really sincere.”
✔️ “I’m doing it because everyone else is—or would if they could.”
This isn’t accidental.
It’s a strategy.
✔️ “If I don’t protect what’s mine, someone will take it.”
✔️ “No one is really sincere.”
✔️ “I’m doing it because everyone else is—or would if they could.”
This isn’t accidental.
It’s a strategy.
November 15, 2025 at 8:51 PM
✔️ “Everyone’s only out for themselves.”
✔️ “If I don’t protect what’s mine, someone will take it.”
✔️ “No one is really sincere.”
✔️ “I’m doing it because everyone else is—or would if they could.”
This isn’t accidental.
It’s a strategy.
✔️ “If I don’t protect what’s mine, someone will take it.”
✔️ “No one is really sincere.”
✔️ “I’m doing it because everyone else is—or would if they could.”
This isn’t accidental.
It’s a strategy.
You can’t extract from people you see as fully human.
You can’t maintain hierarchies if people believe connection and collaboration are possible.
So this myth teaches all of us, especially white men, to approach life with suspicion:
You can’t maintain hierarchies if people believe connection and collaboration are possible.
So this myth teaches all of us, especially white men, to approach life with suspicion:
November 15, 2025 at 8:51 PM
You can’t extract from people you see as fully human.
You can’t maintain hierarchies if people believe connection and collaboration are possible.
So this myth teaches all of us, especially white men, to approach life with suspicion:
You can’t maintain hierarchies if people believe connection and collaboration are possible.
So this myth teaches all of us, especially white men, to approach life with suspicion:
It’s a byproduct of living inside systems, institutions, and policies designed around domination, exploitation, and the prioritization of whiteness, particularly white masculinity.
And the myth of white supremacy requires cynicism to survive.
Because you can’t dominate people you trust.
And the myth of white supremacy requires cynicism to survive.
Because you can’t dominate people you trust.
November 15, 2025 at 8:51 PM
It’s a byproduct of living inside systems, institutions, and policies designed around domination, exploitation, and the prioritization of whiteness, particularly white masculinity.
And the myth of white supremacy requires cynicism to survive.
Because you can’t dominate people you trust.
And the myth of white supremacy requires cynicism to survive.
Because you can’t dominate people you trust.
A distrustful, suspicious posture toward human nature that assumes people are motivated only by self-interest. A worldview that treats sincerity as naïve and integrity as optional.
Cynicism is not a personality trait.
Cynicism is not a personality trait.
November 15, 2025 at 8:51 PM
A distrustful, suspicious posture toward human nature that assumes people are motivated only by self-interest. A worldview that treats sincerity as naïve and integrity as optional.
Cynicism is not a personality trait.
Cynicism is not a personality trait.
This is the work required for Life Beyond the Supremacy Myth.
And it’s work that cannot, and should not, be done alone.
Join us on Dec. 6th rsvp.lifebeyondthesupremacymyth.com/winter-2025
And it’s work that cannot, and should not, be done alone.
Join us on Dec. 6th rsvp.lifebeyondthesupremacymyth.com/winter-2025
Life Beyond The Supremacy Myth - Winter 2025
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November 15, 2025 at 12:49 PM
This is the work required for Life Beyond the Supremacy Myth.
And it’s work that cannot, and should not, be done alone.
Join us on Dec. 6th rsvp.lifebeyondthesupremacymyth.com/winter-2025
And it’s work that cannot, and should not, be done alone.
Join us on Dec. 6th rsvp.lifebeyondthesupremacymyth.com/winter-2025
It’s choosing humanity over hierarchy.
White men need community!
Not the kind you’ve inherited, but the kind you must build:
A community where you can make mistakes, learn from them, and grow without harming the people you claim to care about.
White men need community!
Not the kind you’ve inherited, but the kind you must build:
A community where you can make mistakes, learn from them, and grow without harming the people you claim to care about.
November 15, 2025 at 12:49 PM
It’s choosing humanity over hierarchy.
White men need community!
Not the kind you’ve inherited, but the kind you must build:
A community where you can make mistakes, learn from them, and grow without harming the people you claim to care about.
White men need community!
Not the kind you’ve inherited, but the kind you must build:
A community where you can make mistakes, learn from them, and grow without harming the people you claim to care about.
This isn’t comfort. It’s accountability with care.
🔹 To Engage
Engagement is not performative “allyship.”
It’s building community rooted in connection, not power. It’s practicing emotional maturity, learning to apologize, navigating conflict, seeking repair, and showing up without expecting reward.
🔹 To Engage
Engagement is not performative “allyship.”
It’s building community rooted in connection, not power. It’s practicing emotional maturity, learning to apologize, navigating conflict, seeking repair, and showing up without expecting reward.
November 15, 2025 at 12:49 PM
This isn’t comfort. It’s accountability with care.
🔹 To Engage
Engagement is not performative “allyship.”
It’s building community rooted in connection, not power. It’s practicing emotional maturity, learning to apologize, navigating conflict, seeking repair, and showing up without expecting reward.
🔹 To Engage
Engagement is not performative “allyship.”
It’s building community rooted in connection, not power. It’s practicing emotional maturity, learning to apologize, navigating conflict, seeking repair, and showing up without expecting reward.
AND the cost they demand of you.
🔹 To Heal
Healing requires privacy…not secrecy.
White men need spaces where the work can be done without causing more harm. Spaces where you can confront your socialization, name what you lost, and finally feel what you were taught to bury.
🔹 To Heal
Healing requires privacy…not secrecy.
White men need spaces where the work can be done without causing more harm. Spaces where you can confront your socialization, name what you lost, and finally feel what you were taught to bury.
November 15, 2025 at 12:49 PM
AND the cost they demand of you.
🔹 To Heal
Healing requires privacy…not secrecy.
White men need spaces where the work can be done without causing more harm. Spaces where you can confront your socialization, name what you lost, and finally feel what you were taught to bury.
🔹 To Heal
Healing requires privacy…not secrecy.
White men need spaces where the work can be done without causing more harm. Spaces where you can confront your socialization, name what you lost, and finally feel what you were taught to bury.
🔹 To Learn
You can’t reclaim what you’ve never been taught to value.
Learning is not an intellectual exercise it’s unlearning domination as your default. It’s expanding beyond competition, control, and avoidance. It’s understanding the cost of the systems you benefit from...
You can’t reclaim what you’ve never been taught to value.
Learning is not an intellectual exercise it’s unlearning domination as your default. It’s expanding beyond competition, control, and avoidance. It’s understanding the cost of the systems you benefit from...
November 15, 2025 at 12:49 PM
🔹 To Learn
You can’t reclaim what you’ve never been taught to value.
Learning is not an intellectual exercise it’s unlearning domination as your default. It’s expanding beyond competition, control, and avoidance. It’s understanding the cost of the systems you benefit from...
You can’t reclaim what you’ve never been taught to value.
Learning is not an intellectual exercise it’s unlearning domination as your default. It’s expanding beyond competition, control, and avoidance. It’s understanding the cost of the systems you benefit from...
Your socialization taught you that intimacy is weakness, that honesty is dangerous, and that community is something other people need…not you.
And now we’re watching men and boys crumble under the weight of that lie.
This is where To Learn. To Heal. To Engage. begins.
And now we’re watching men and boys crumble under the weight of that lie.
This is where To Learn. To Heal. To Engage. begins.
November 15, 2025 at 12:49 PM
Your socialization taught you that intimacy is weakness, that honesty is dangerous, and that community is something other people need…not you.
And now we’re watching men and boys crumble under the weight of that lie.
This is where To Learn. To Heal. To Engage. begins.
And now we’re watching men and boys crumble under the weight of that lie.
This is where To Learn. To Heal. To Engage. begins.
Step toward a life that isn’t defined by supremacy, isolation, or inherited lies but by healing, connection, and collective freedom.
#MythOfWhiteSupremacy #LifeBeyondTheSupremacyMyth #BeyondMediocre #MythOfWhiteMaleSupremacy #ProfitWithoutOppression #PWOCommunity #KimCrayton
#MythOfWhiteSupremacy #LifeBeyondTheSupremacyMyth #BeyondMediocre #MythOfWhiteMaleSupremacy #ProfitWithoutOppression #PWOCommunity #KimCrayton
November 14, 2025 at 12:18 PM
Step toward a life that isn’t defined by supremacy, isolation, or inherited lies but by healing, connection, and collective freedom.
#MythOfWhiteSupremacy #LifeBeyondTheSupremacyMyth #BeyondMediocre #MythOfWhiteMaleSupremacy #ProfitWithoutOppression #PWOCommunity #KimCrayton
#MythOfWhiteSupremacy #LifeBeyondTheSupremacyMyth #BeyondMediocre #MythOfWhiteMaleSupremacy #ProfitWithoutOppression #PWOCommunity #KimCrayton
Join us on December 6.
Come experience what aligned, accountable, healthy community can make possible.
Your life doesn’t have to be this small.
Register now. rsvp.lifebeyondthesupremacymyth.com/winter-2025
Come experience what aligned, accountable, healthy community can make possible.
Your life doesn’t have to be this small.
Register now. rsvp.lifebeyondthesupremacymyth.com/winter-2025
Life Beyond The Supremacy Myth - Winter 2025
rsvp.lifebeyondthesupremacymyth.com
November 14, 2025 at 12:18 PM
Join us on December 6.
Come experience what aligned, accountable, healthy community can make possible.
Your life doesn’t have to be this small.
Register now. rsvp.lifebeyondthesupremacymyth.com/winter-2025
Come experience what aligned, accountable, healthy community can make possible.
Your life doesn’t have to be this small.
Register now. rsvp.lifebeyondthesupremacymyth.com/winter-2025
If you are a white man ready to understand this loneliness differently,
not as a personal failing but as a product of your socialization...
not as shame but as an invitation…
not as an endpoint but as the starting place for liberation...
not as a personal failing but as a product of your socialization...
not as shame but as an invitation…
not as an endpoint but as the starting place for liberation...
November 14, 2025 at 12:18 PM
If you are a white man ready to understand this loneliness differently,
not as a personal failing but as a product of your socialization...
not as shame but as an invitation…
not as an endpoint but as the starting place for liberation...
not as a personal failing but as a product of your socialization...
not as shame but as an invitation…
not as an endpoint but as the starting place for liberation...
It’s white men choosing:
🟣 connection over control
🟣 community over competition
🟣 vulnerability over silence
🟣 liberation over supremacy
That’s why this work matters.
And it’s why I created Life Beyond the Supremacy Myth.
🟣 connection over control
🟣 community over competition
🟣 vulnerability over silence
🟣 liberation over supremacy
That’s why this work matters.
And it’s why I created Life Beyond the Supremacy Myth.
November 14, 2025 at 12:18 PM
It’s white men choosing:
🟣 connection over control
🟣 community over competition
🟣 vulnerability over silence
🟣 liberation over supremacy
That’s why this work matters.
And it’s why I created Life Beyond the Supremacy Myth.
🟣 connection over control
🟣 community over competition
🟣 vulnerability over silence
🟣 liberation over supremacy
That’s why this work matters.
And it’s why I created Life Beyond the Supremacy Myth.
It keeps you unaware of how much you’ve lost…
and how much you could gain in community rooted in healing and liberation.
Here’s the truth:
The biggest threat to systems, institutions, and policies built for white men’s benefit is not rebellion.
It’s white men healing…together.
and how much you could gain in community rooted in healing and liberation.
Here’s the truth:
The biggest threat to systems, institutions, and policies built for white men’s benefit is not rebellion.
It’s white men healing…together.
November 14, 2025 at 12:18 PM
It keeps you unaware of how much you’ve lost…
and how much you could gain in community rooted in healing and liberation.
Here’s the truth:
The biggest threat to systems, institutions, and policies built for white men’s benefit is not rebellion.
It’s white men healing…together.
and how much you could gain in community rooted in healing and liberation.
Here’s the truth:
The biggest threat to systems, institutions, and policies built for white men’s benefit is not rebellion.
It’s white men healing…together.
Not because it makes white men strong, but because it keeps them isolated, disconnected, and unable to challenge the systems, institutions, and policies that shapes them.
And that isolation is powerful.
It keeps the lie alive.
It keeps white men believing that connection is weakness.
And that isolation is powerful.
It keeps the lie alive.
It keeps white men believing that connection is weakness.
November 14, 2025 at 12:18 PM
Not because it makes white men strong, but because it keeps them isolated, disconnected, and unable to challenge the systems, institutions, and policies that shapes them.
And that isolation is powerful.
It keeps the lie alive.
It keeps white men believing that connection is weakness.
And that isolation is powerful.
It keeps the lie alive.
It keeps white men believing that connection is weakness.