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Lady Silk
@idoflythings.bsky.social
Writer Stylist Black Barbie hobbyist.
I love purple, 2pac & I’m 40+ 💜
It was a really great event and ThirdSpace always has something cool going on !
@idoflythings.bsky.social, I see that @azrael1.bsky.social shared your @thelandcle.bsky.social article:

“Black Children’s Book Fair draws a crowd at ThirdSpace in Glenville”

It is great to learn about the good work done at #Cleveland ‘s ThirdSpace for “Black Book Week”📚
3rdspaceactionlab.co/events
April 4, 2025 at 12:27 AM
I think it’s why I didn’t understand the hype when I watched for the first time a few yrs ago. I tried to put myself in the context of when it was made & still came up short. All of the “classic” films I tried to watch ended up being some bullshit so idk
I rewatched Eyes Wide Shut. Still a brilliant looking movie but found the theme hadn’t aged well. The scandalous orgy feels so harmless and the secret society rituals are just ridiculous. A film that only makes sense in a society that’s deeply afraid of sex
February 20, 2025 at 12:29 PM
I read my new piece “Writers Need 2 Back it Up Too” at the Lit Cleveland Toni Morrison Celebration today.

Inspired by this pic of Toni dancing & I got a great response 🥰
February 19, 2025 at 2:03 AM
Had to get fitted for my contacts today & wear them out of the office. Now here I am barefaced to the world. Face just opened & exposed I gotta go buy some sunglasses asap
February 5, 2025 at 6:21 PM
I feel like they didn’t even give the show a chance. From the lack of marketing to the disjointed way they released it smh. @natasharothwell.bsky.social touched on a lot of issues not seen on tv & the characters were all interesting. I’m upset not to know what happened after the finale & that plane
February 4, 2025 at 10:48 PM
Lol I agree but I don’t think it matters at our big age. I’m just glad that people are consuming other forms of media.

The Libby app is a way to use your library card to listen/read as many books as you want!!
Audiobooks don't count as reading.

Reading counts as reading
February 3, 2025 at 8:57 PM
Ok I’m officially over nostalgia… I think. Which is unfortunate for my collection of essays about my teenage yrs lol. I’m gone edit & rewrite the ones that I do have & generate new work too cause I need to tell y’all about being in my 40s, single & an empty nester. I got stories about right now
February 3, 2025 at 8:47 PM
Today was the @literarycleveland.bsky.social writing retreat at the CSU Mansion. I got so much work done! I wrote a short essay/recipe piece titled “Teaching Your Grandchildren How to Freak a Black & Mild & I even shared it. I love being a part of the writing community & can’t wait to finish Spittin
February 1, 2025 at 11:13 PM
January 25, 2025 at 8:09 PM
This post made me realize that it’s been a year since I got my partial hysterectomy due to fibroids & anemia.

I was severely anemic & eating ice for decades. Now I only eat ice for pleasure instead of feeling like my life depends on it.

Ladies get your iron levels checked!!
January 22, 2025 at 2:27 PM
1. I wanted to write for The Source 🥴
2. Communication/journalism
3. I never changed majors but also got a fashion merch degree
4. I’m a personal stylist, community journalist & freelance writer
If you went to college,
1. What was your career goal when you started?
2. Your initial major?
3. If you changed majors, what did you change to?
4. What do you do now professionally?

For me:
1. To become RN
2. Nursing (pre-reqs)
3. Changed to acctg/finance
4. Now, a change management consultant 🥴
January 22, 2025 at 2:22 PM
I’m laughing but it ain’t funny cause where was this energy when “they” came (and keep coming) for Black people? Even in the comments where they are correcting this Americanized version- still no mention of Black folks.

But whatever ig
🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨
January 22, 2025 at 2:17 PM
Let’s start with me!

I’m excited about the new notebook I recently bought. It’s small, purple, college ruled & it’s encouraging me to HAND WRITE again.

Aaand I just bought my very first U part wig which is 🔥

Watched a few yt videos & I’m ready to start back making my own wigs now
I wish we could cultivate a culture where people get excited about and share the new skills they've learned more than the new stuff they've bought.
January 17, 2025 at 11:57 PM
I’ve always loved “Heavens to Betsey!”

Cause what’s her story lol??
January 17, 2025 at 11:52 PM
Ok I’m here in what might be my new alternative writing space! It’s called ThirdSpace Bookstore & my writing hg told me about it. It’s Black owned & it’s in my old stomping grounds, Glenville. Right across from my ex bf’s house where I spent a lot of my teen yrs lol WHEW!
January 17, 2025 at 6:35 PM
It’s a beautiful day in the neighborhood 💜
January 17, 2025 at 5:52 PM
Not a fan of the actual book in fact I quit reading after the 2nd chapter because I couldn’t relate to nonna that shit, BUT! I still do the morning pages, the artist dates & some of the challenges. I’m thinking it’s the same as journaling which I’ve always avoided. Now I want stickers to decorate 😂
January 17, 2025 at 12:17 PM
Ok I know how I want to use this platform now. For writing. To showcase my work, connect with other Black writers, and whatever else revolves around that so I need to get serious about posting
January 17, 2025 at 12:14 PM
It’s the same for me I fear & I was re-triggered when there was a discussion last month about it & they were in there gaslighting left & right smh
You know what lives rent-free in my head and still has me FUCKED UP every time I get in the shower???

Yop.

White ppl not washing they legs. I think about it every damn time.

That was a day!!!
January 8, 2025 at 5:48 PM
I’m working on a new project this yr that combines AR, storytelling, video, fashion & hip hop so I’ve been at the library grabbing DVDs for inspiration. Not pictured:

Snow on tha Bluff
Nora’s Beauty Salon
Stop Pepper Palmer

I used to do the same for inspiration for my fashion shows & photoshoots
January 4, 2025 at 10:32 PM
Real ones know you gotta start with “Good Morning, Miss Bliss” the pilot show that Saved By the Bell was derived from. It was only one season ofc but Hayley Mills was the teacher & it was good!
All right, this is official. I'm a Millennial but I was raised Charismatic and I've only seen exactly one episode of Saved by the Bell, decades ago, so I know nothing about it. People have been talking about it all day. I'm getting the teenager and watching the pilot episode right now!
December 29, 2024 at 1:36 AM
Why was there so much pizza on here yesterday? Was it international pizza day & I missed it? Is it a tradition that I know nothing about?
December 29, 2024 at 1:12 AM
That is exactly what it’s looking like! But I’m thinking I’ll at least dress up, make myself a nice dinner, smoke myself out & drink one last time.

Or something like that
Damn we all in the house for NYE?
December 28, 2024 at 11:44 PM
It’s been a week since I e lost my grandma & I’m realizing I don’t know how to grieve as an adult. I feel selfish & guilty for all the crying & rotting I’ve been doing but I’m not sure how to snap out of it. New years is usually my fave holiday & I’m wondering if I can still celebrate
December 28, 2024 at 11:38 PM
I gained so much more confidence in my writing. I realized that I have enough musings for a quick lil book of essays if I want & I found a good writing community through classes with Lit Cleveland. I learned how to add layers of context to my work to help “fill in” & I plan to lock tf in in 2025.
December 21, 2024 at 1:24 PM