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Grunkle Harm
@harmcox.bsky.social
Midwestern writer, movie watcher, perv about town. He/him. Here as mental health allows, but don't count on it. Trans himbo. Writing lives on my site: harmcox.ghost.io. I don't DM but I do reply to Venmo @harmcoxrules.
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Hello new friends! I'm Harm Cox and I'm a transmasc culture writer that loves horror movies and porn.

I just got laid off from my last reliable gig so your subscriptions and donations mean the world to me. If you want to support trans folks, here I am 🙏
Apocalypse From Now On
The apocalypse is new to some of you. For queer people, it's been here a while. Who wants to die for art?
harmcox.ghost.io
Since my website is dead, some end of the year thoughts about Tony Todd's goodbye in FINAL DESTINATION: BLOODLINES. Mild spoilers for a dumb franchise follow.

I saw a lot of great movies this year, real serious interesting art. But if i am honest, the scene that impacted me most was Todd's goodbye.
Tony Todd's ''Last Scene'' In Final Destination: Bloodlines (R.I.P Tony Todd) Best Venom Voice Actor
YouTube video by Zach Recorder King (Daredevil Fan)
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January 1, 2026 at 12:42 AM
This year i changed my name and that was pretty cool.
December 31, 2025 at 11:07 PM
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December 31, 2025 at 10:50 PM
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Mark Richardson sent me this great artwork- and I send you my thanks for spending Saturday nights with us! Wishing you all a happy 2026!
December 31, 2025 at 7:55 PM
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December 31, 2025 at 9:00 PM
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Times Square used to put a human sacrifice beneath the New Years ball to get crushed to death at exactly midnight. A blood offering to nourish Baby New Year. They stopped doing that in the 1990s though, these days they use a goat
December 31, 2025 at 3:38 PM
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I'm being honest about who I am as a person: www.youtube.com/watch?v=gTa0...

It's not just about the music video, though-- it's the way they talk about it in Gigantic / on the Direct From Brooklyn commentary track. This was peak them being pretentious art fucks about music videos, and I love that.
December 31, 2025 at 7:59 PM
I wish i had a better answer, but in my heart i know the truth.

youtu.be/seYrIajpU8Q?...
December 31, 2025 at 6:30 PM
It's true: as a trans person, i have solidarity with chatgpt because i am also unfairly persecuted for telling people to eat glue
I know this is long but I strongly encourage you to read this incredible reply chain, which contains two buzzer-beater contenders for Post Of The Year.
December 31, 2025 at 5:38 AM
Tried to get an essay posted for the end of the year only to learn that overdraft shenanigans bounced the payment to keep my website alive. I guess if the person who wants working class poets to exist would like to commission a sestina on the experience, you'll be able to read the essay in 2026.
December 30, 2025 at 11:39 PM
The detransition/pray-the-gay-away bullshit is only going to get more popular as our society regresses into Christian conservatism; if you're a trans/queer person who is happy in their own skin, you should feel free to ignore it. Pity the folks who get sucked in, but it's not your problem.
December 30, 2025 at 11:18 PM
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"Manhood is about asserting your power over others and repressing your own weakness to maintain social power" no, that is what disney villianhood is about, you are literally describing Scar from THE LION KING
December 29, 2025 at 10:11 PM
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lol, you can't trick me into reading devon price's dumb substack, i was here when the gender discourse was forged in the ancient fires and i know that any take on masculinity that isn't "i dunno, do it if you want to" is bait
December 29, 2025 at 10:09 PM
lol, you can't trick me into reading devon price's dumb substack, i was here when the gender discourse was forged in the ancient fires and i know that any take on masculinity that isn't "i dunno, do it if you want to" is bait
December 29, 2025 at 10:09 PM
As we apporach the end of a terrifying and difficult year, a sesonal reminder of what really matters: my beard finally grew in, and it looks great.
December 29, 2025 at 9:10 PM
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@megelison.bsky.social really was Cassandra when she wrote “The Pill” huh: escapepod.org/2022/11/03/e...
December 29, 2025 at 8:36 PM
I take cool photos at shows sometimes.
last night’s show ruled, slit and stander and waxing were all amazing, what a fucking blast, i love chicago, i love music so loud i roll out of bed the next day with my molars still rattling
December 28, 2025 at 11:11 PM
No disrespect to the OP, but this isn't congruent with the poets and working writers i know. Trans folks write about being working class all the time, and if we got platformed in the publishing world more people would be aware of that. We can't be a corrective to a system that does not value us.
December 28, 2025 at 10:51 PM
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"I love religious movies"
Me too, bud
modesty laws prevented showing even one lousy frame of John Waters' PINK FLAMINGOS (1972) in the trailer, so the only footage in it is of people reacting to a screening they just came out of. every single type of extant queer person is contained in the specific sequences I have selected here
December 28, 2025 at 10:37 PM
WAKE UP DEAD MAN is a dull self-important mess with all the depth of a middle-school atheist. I think it's time for us to start making movies that are about absolutely nothing again. Remember CON-AIR? That movie is about jack shit, and it rules.
December 28, 2025 at 10:04 PM
Rare chance to spot me and several other trans cryptids at Burlington tonight
They are predicting it's going to be 52 degrees on Saturday btw.
December 27, 2025 at 9:49 PM
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another robot highlight for 2025: man wearing humanoid mocap suit kicks himself in the balls
December 27, 2025 at 5:27 PM
I often think about the white guy who came to talk to my MFA workshop. He managed to get his graduate thesis published by the third agent he queried with zero prior publications under his belt. He explained that his SECOND book was struggling to get sold because of "diversity quotas." What a peach.
December 27, 2025 at 12:11 AM
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A little holiday card I got to draw for a public library last year that I’m still proud of; happy almost-new-year ✨
December 27, 2024 at 7:15 PM
Made a real good xmas gift i wanna show off. They are a huge Sabrina Carpenter fan so i made them a cute little joint case out of an old tin, one million stickers and some printed elements. I colored Sabrina in with acrylic markers using the technique they used to do to paint anime cells. Pleased!
December 24, 2025 at 6:37 PM