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Grunkle Harm
@harmcox.bsky.social
Midwestern writer, movie watcher, perv about town. He/him. Here as mental health allows, but don't count on it. Trans himbo. Writing lives on my site: harmcox.ghost.io. I don't DM but I do reply to Venmo @harmcoxrules.
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Hello new friends! I'm Harm Cox and I'm a transmasc culture writer that loves horror movies and porn.

I just got laid off from my last reliable gig so your subscriptions and donations mean the world to me. If you want to support trans folks, here I am 🙏
Apocalypse From Now On
The apocalypse is new to some of you. For queer people, it's been here a while. Who wants to die for art?
harmcox.ghost.io
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your dead AI mother loves you so much ❤️
November 15, 2025 at 12:50 AM
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There is a scene in the movie where Mother congratulates a synth for capturing a specimen by saying "we are truly building better worlds" and all i could think of was the titular line sketch
November 14, 2025 at 2:53 AM
There is a scene in the movie where Mother congratulates a synth for capturing a specimen by saying "we are truly building better worlds" and all i could think of was the titular line sketch
November 14, 2025 at 2:53 AM
PREDATOR BADLANDS has the same problem as every other modern Alien franchise film: it's at its best when it's doing its own thing, and it's at its worst when it's reminding us its an Alien joint. We need to put the synths in rice, y'all. It's getting weird.
November 14, 2025 at 2:48 AM
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I fucking love squibs in jidaigeki. I love that samurai swords make you explode 😂
November 13, 2025 at 9:40 PM
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I'm not even talking about MAGA chuds, I mean ostensible allies, libs, lefties. Old enough, like me, to have fucking knee issues. Defaulting to 12 year old boy snickering. Control yourselves, fools.
November 13, 2025 at 10:01 PM
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I'm seeing some middle aged men whose hearts I really do think are in the right place NONETHELESS making dumb "sexy time" jokes about the Epstein stuff. Just a default setting of heh heh, whoa sex heh heh.

I feel like a real drag for scolding about this, but c'mon man. Discernment, Even in jokes.
November 13, 2025 at 9:57 PM
Thank you indy radio for reminding me of my favorite Pulp song youtu.be/fq4VHd4Azuk?...
Pulp - Like A Friend
YouTube video by PulpVEVO
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November 13, 2025 at 8:32 PM
My girlfriend is so fucking beautiful and it's her birthday today??? We're all lucky to have another year of Lillian ♥️
it’s my birthday today
November 12, 2025 at 12:36 AM
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i need to brag about my boyfriend for a minute

at the leather archives a few weeks ago they were doing a trivia round before ANOES 2, and i definitely raised my hand first to answer a question before the guy next to me who won some shadowbox art. anyway for my bday, harmon made this. look at it
November 11, 2025 at 7:14 PM
I do find these movies very funny as a horror fan in my forties. Im a wrinkly old who still fucks, boogedy boogedy, where's my movie Ti West?!?
Watching modern horror films
November 11, 2025 at 12:20 AM
umpopular opinion: Lemon Drink Lady from THE HAPPENING walked so Aunt Gladys could make those kids run
Watching modern horror films
November 10, 2025 at 10:30 PM
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I love Curtains. Nutty theater characters, a beautiful house, ICE SKATING, a creepy mask and a creepy doll, a backstage scene with mannequins & cool theater props, and yes, the toilet head!
A favorite winter horror
BLACK PHONE 2: not a Canadian film, but was filmed in Canada & at one point reminded me of this freaky scene from Canadian slasher movie CURTAINS (1983) which co-stars Samantha Eggar & Linda Thorson (aka Tara King) & also features a seminal severed-head-in-the-toilet-bowl moment (not shown here).
Curtains (1983) Ice Skating Scene
YouTube video by 80sThen80sNow
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November 10, 2025 at 8:45 PM
Today in transmasculinity: after a lifetime of my weird deadname never appearing anywhere, i am unsure whether to be weirded out or delighted by THE CHAIR FACTORY's inclusion of a character named "Bahld Harmon."
November 9, 2025 at 10:29 PM
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Atlanta, Chicago, Los Angeles, New York, and San Francisco/Bay Area - here are some restaurants helping with food if you’re struggling with loss of SNAP benefits.

Please share!
November 7, 2025 at 7:27 PM
This is maddening bullshit. The purpose of a passport is to allow travel, not to share irrelevant historical facts. Having a passport that does not match your appearance absolutely subjects you to differential treatment. I would not accept this rationale from a term paper, much less SCOTUS.
NEW: On the shadow docket, the Supreme Court lets Trump resume misgendering trans Americans on their passports, claiming "the government is merely attesting to a historical fact without subjecting anyone to differential treatment." All three liberals dissent. www.documentcloud.org/documents/26...
November 6, 2025 at 11:09 PM
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Dorothy Allison (top left) was the co-founder of the Lesbian Sex Mafia in New York and an award-winning author. Allison received the Publishing Triangle’s Bill Whitehead Award for Lifetime Achievement in 2024.
November 6, 2025 at 8:09 PM
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SERIOUSLY?
November 6, 2025 at 7:37 PM
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My biggest problem with the SAW franchise is that i do not understand why people humor Jigsaw and his dumb traps. He's not gonna let you go! Stop helping him! Make that lazy theater kid get up and kill you with a machete!!!
November 6, 2025 at 3:24 AM
My biggest problem with the SAW franchise is that i do not understand why people humor Jigsaw and his dumb traps. He's not gonna let you go! Stop helping him! Make that lazy theater kid get up and kill you with a machete!!!
November 6, 2025 at 3:24 AM
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heads up to anyone who holds trans kids near: amy harmon from the nyt is searching for and having a hard time finding people to interview to find out exactly what trans kids are doing when their care is limited or cut off, and for purposes of community safety, please shut the fuck up around her.
November 5, 2025 at 8:54 PM
A thing i want cishet folks to understand if people like me have stopped talking to them is that it was most likely a safety decision. Maybe it hurt your feelings, but it's absolutely justified in our current climate. If you aren't safe, i no longer have the ability to ignore that.
November 5, 2025 at 12:42 AM
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That pheasant finally got him.
November 4, 2025 at 4:07 PM
you ever get so depressed that the only thing you can do is google photos of jennifer tilly
November 3, 2025 at 11:38 PM