Steffi Graves ⚰️
@graves.bsky.social
She/Her • Bi • Witch • Mom • Crossroad of cute and creepy • Goth • Metal • Bats & Buffy • PTSD & AuDHD • twitch.tv/amongstgraves
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Steffi Graves ⚰️
@graves.bsky.social
· Jan 30
Needing to watch more horror films to escape the horrors of reality.
A lot of those meds have horrific withdrawal side effects. I know because I’m on one for my ptsd. Ughhhh. Once I move I’ll be able to do charity streams again. Time to link up with some I’ve worked with in the past for veterans.
Oh, this is really, really bad.
Suicide rates absolutely will go up.
You cannot take a person with serious mental health problems and yank their meds away without serious repercussions.
You just can't.
This is beyond cruel.
Suicide rates absolutely will go up.
You cannot take a person with serious mental health problems and yank their meds away without serious repercussions.
You just can't.
This is beyond cruel.
As expected, MAGA is coming after disability benefits for combat veterans.
Here's just one example of the rule's impact: Veterans taking anti-depressants for PTSD will be forced to stop taking the medication in order to retain their disability payments.
Here's just one example of the rule's impact: Veterans taking anti-depressants for PTSD will be forced to stop taking the medication in order to retain their disability payments.
February 18, 2026 at 6:57 AM
A lot of those meds have horrific withdrawal side effects. I know because I’m on one for my ptsd. Ughhhh. Once I move I’ll be able to do charity streams again. Time to link up with some I’ve worked with in the past for veterans.
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swresourcesandsupport.com/index
A complied list of sex work related resources and support as well as informative articles about sex work on our website! 🥰 #swresources #swsupport #sexworkresources #sexworksupport
A complied list of sex work related resources and support as well as informative articles about sex work on our website! 🥰 #swresources #swsupport #sexworkresources #sexworksupport
Index
A compiled list of public resources that were either posted by sex workers and/or specifically for sex workers.
swresourcesandsupport.com
July 18, 2025 at 9:50 AM
swresourcesandsupport.com/index
A complied list of sex work related resources and support as well as informative articles about sex work on our website! 🥰 #swresources #swsupport #sexworkresources #sexworksupport
A complied list of sex work related resources and support as well as informative articles about sex work on our website! 🥰 #swresources #swsupport #sexworkresources #sexworksupport
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Tom Noonan (1951–2026)
February 18, 2026 at 5:43 AM
Tom Noonan (1951–2026)
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Re-reading stories from Batman’s year one in part prep for my superhero class, and impressed how much time Batman spends thinking about safe places to park his car…
February 15, 2026 at 11:54 PM
Re-reading stories from Batman’s year one in part prep for my superhero class, and impressed how much time Batman spends thinking about safe places to park his car…
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I have no interest in policing other people's personal health choices in any way. If you're taking a GLP-1 and happy with it, then I'm happy.
But we're never going to be a country without fat people — or the need to treat each other with grace and humanity regardless of size.
But we're never going to be a country without fat people — or the need to treat each other with grace and humanity regardless of size.
February 17, 2026 at 8:16 PM
I have no interest in policing other people's personal health choices in any way. If you're taking a GLP-1 and happy with it, then I'm happy.
But we're never going to be a country without fat people — or the need to treat each other with grace and humanity regardless of size.
But we're never going to be a country without fat people — or the need to treat each other with grace and humanity regardless of size.
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Black Witches in Horror That Deserve More Love! 🌙✨ Just my top 3. Who are some of your favorites?
February 18, 2026 at 2:41 AM
Black Witches in Horror That Deserve More Love! 🌙✨ Just my top 3. Who are some of your favorites?
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Happy to write about @ashcclark.bsky.social's new book The World of Black Film: A Journey Through Cinematic Blackness in 100 Films.
My thoughts and an excerpt via @ebertvoices.bsky.social.
My thoughts and an excerpt via @ebertvoices.bsky.social.
Book Excerpt: The World of Black Film: A Journey Through Cinematic Blackness in 100 Films by Ashley Clark | Books | Roger Ebert
A look at the new book from Ashley Clark, along with an excerpt from it, available today.
www.rogerebert.com
February 17, 2026 at 9:38 PM
Happy to write about @ashcclark.bsky.social's new book The World of Black Film: A Journey Through Cinematic Blackness in 100 Films.
My thoughts and an excerpt via @ebertvoices.bsky.social.
My thoughts and an excerpt via @ebertvoices.bsky.social.
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ENOUGH.
Fucking hell. Some people are out here are engaging in the most disgusting, craven, cruel behaviour I've ever witnessed.
It's not enough for there to be acts of mass violence.
They have to turn around and USE them to drive an agenda of anti-trans hatred.
Enough!!!!
Fucking hell. Some people are out here are engaging in the most disgusting, craven, cruel behaviour I've ever witnessed.
It's not enough for there to be acts of mass violence.
They have to turn around and USE them to drive an agenda of anti-trans hatred.
Enough!!!!
February 17, 2026 at 9:41 PM
ENOUGH.
Fucking hell. Some people are out here are engaging in the most disgusting, craven, cruel behaviour I've ever witnessed.
It's not enough for there to be acts of mass violence.
They have to turn around and USE them to drive an agenda of anti-trans hatred.
Enough!!!!
Fucking hell. Some people are out here are engaging in the most disgusting, craven, cruel behaviour I've ever witnessed.
It's not enough for there to be acts of mass violence.
They have to turn around and USE them to drive an agenda of anti-trans hatred.
Enough!!!!
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I LIED LET'S PLAY MASS EFFECT! it's Priority: Citadel time!!!
twitch.tv/meretoogs
twitch.tv/meretoogs
February 18, 2026 at 12:32 AM
I LIED LET'S PLAY MASS EFFECT! it's Priority: Citadel time!!!
twitch.tv/meretoogs
twitch.tv/meretoogs
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Twitch now has documentation for people who are concerned that something they said or did in the past might get them suspended.
tldr: Twitch cannot evaluate 'what if' scenarios.
tldr: Twitch cannot evaluate 'what if' scenarios.
February 18, 2026 at 12:38 AM
Twitch now has documentation for people who are concerned that something they said or did in the past might get them suspended.
tldr: Twitch cannot evaluate 'what if' scenarios.
tldr: Twitch cannot evaluate 'what if' scenarios.
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Thread 🧵: Food Assistance By State/Territory
The document below lists previously established food assistance programs, searchable by state.
Each state and territory is also listed alphabetically in the thread comments.
Help will come and go, so pls use this thread to update info for your state:
The document below lists previously established food assistance programs, searchable by state.
Each state and territory is also listed alphabetically in the thread comments.
Help will come and go, so pls use this thread to update info for your state:
Without SNAP: Finding Assistance in Uncertain Times
Without SNAP: Finding Assistance in Uncertain Times Due to the completely preventable shutdown, the USDA says “the well has run dry” in regards to SNAP benefits. Beginning November 1st, SNAP benefits...
docs.google.com
November 2, 2025 at 3:51 AM
Thread 🧵: Food Assistance By State/Territory
The document below lists previously established food assistance programs, searchable by state.
Each state and territory is also listed alphabetically in the thread comments.
Help will come and go, so pls use this thread to update info for your state:
The document below lists previously established food assistance programs, searchable by state.
Each state and territory is also listed alphabetically in the thread comments.
Help will come and go, so pls use this thread to update info for your state:
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I don’t know who needs to hear this but please do not waste your 20s with people that don’t fucking like you
February 17, 2026 at 7:06 PM
I don’t know who needs to hear this but please do not waste your 20s with people that don’t fucking like you
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The shelter I volunteer with has a unique adoption situation right now and I'd be so grateful if people could share to anyone they know in Vermont who might be a good fit. This is Devon, and his story is a little complicated so please click this link to find out more! www.hsccvt.org/Cats#sl_embe...
February 18, 2026 at 12:46 AM
The shelter I volunteer with has a unique adoption situation right now and I'd be so grateful if people could share to anyone they know in Vermont who might be a good fit. This is Devon, and his story is a little complicated so please click this link to find out more! www.hsccvt.org/Cats#sl_embe...
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honestly every shade of green ever 🌿
February 18, 2026 at 1:06 AM
honestly every shade of green ever 🌿
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Trailer and poster for Lynchian “I LIVE HERE NOW,” sneak-previewing on “TWIN PEAKS Day” https://ow.ly/JEj950Yhbci
Trailer and poster for Lynchian “I LIVE HERE NOW,” sneak-previewing on “TWIN PEAKS Day” - Rue Morgue
Audiences nationwide can get an early look at the surreal psychochiller.
ow.ly
February 17, 2026 at 9:00 PM
Trailer and poster for Lynchian “I LIVE HERE NOW,” sneak-previewing on “TWIN PEAKS Day” https://ow.ly/JEj950Yhbci
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CHOOSE YOUR -FERATU!
... aka the most effort I've ever put into a stupid horror pun, lol.🦇
... aka the most effort I've ever put into a stupid horror pun, lol.🦇
February 17, 2026 at 7:45 PM
CHOOSE YOUR -FERATU!
... aka the most effort I've ever put into a stupid horror pun, lol.🦇
... aka the most effort I've ever put into a stupid horror pun, lol.🦇
Using a gif whos your favourite femme game character
February 17, 2026 at 7:59 PM
Using a gif whos your favourite femme game character
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PONTYPOOL rips and I will always share writing about how PONTYPOOL rips.
"Words can be weapons, yes, but we can choose to harness their power differently and wield them with much more care and intention." New at the site: here's @xtinemakepeace.bsky.social on PONTYPOOL and the damage words can do.
Mrs. French’s Cat is Missing: Words as Weapons in 'Pontypool'
Contributing editor Christine Makepeace explores the primal power of language in her essay on Bruce McDonald's 'Pontypool.'
certifiedforgotten.com
February 17, 2026 at 7:51 PM
PONTYPOOL rips and I will always share writing about how PONTYPOOL rips.
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We looooved this series (both seasons!)
Anyone remember the short-lived Exorcist TV series on FOX? Our co-editor and co-founder, Carla, makes a good case as to why the show deserves a rewatch!
#horrorsky #horror #TV
www.thehorrorlounge.com/post/why-you...
#horrorsky #horror #TV
www.thehorrorlounge.com/post/why-you...
Why you should watch this under-appreciated horror series: The Exorcist
The first under-appreciated horror series that I wrote about for The Horror Lounge was The Following, which starred Kevin Bacon and premiered in January of 2013. Now we are moving onto another worthy ...
www.thehorrorlounge.com
February 17, 2026 at 7:52 PM
We looooved this series (both seasons!)
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does anyone have just $8 so I can get some pain meds? I'm hurting extra today and I'm completely out of ibuprofen. please 🥺🙏
ca venmo PayPal stephaniebri22
ca venmo PayPal stephaniebri22
February 17, 2026 at 6:22 PM
does anyone have just $8 so I can get some pain meds? I'm hurting extra today and I'm completely out of ibuprofen. please 🥺🙏
ca venmo PayPal stephaniebri22
ca venmo PayPal stephaniebri22
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Caption contest!
February 17, 2026 at 6:30 PM
Caption contest!
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🚨 @sharai.bsky.social pays homage to Marlene Clark, a Blaxploitation era Scream Queen that deserves a well-earned space in horror’s collective memory. 👻 📽️ #NightTideMag
nighttidemag.com/2026/02/12/m...
nighttidemag.com/2026/02/12/m...
MARLENE CLARK: THE BLACK HORROR ICON THAT DESERVED SO MUCH MORE
Blaxploitation era Scream Queen Marlene Clark’s reign of the film landscape was constricted due to bias, racism and Hollywood disrepect. Sharai Bohannon pays homage to a Black icon that deser…
nighttidemag.com
February 12, 2026 at 1:44 PM
🚨 @sharai.bsky.social pays homage to Marlene Clark, a Blaxploitation era Scream Queen that deserves a well-earned space in horror’s collective memory. 👻 📽️ #NightTideMag
nighttidemag.com/2026/02/12/m...
nighttidemag.com/2026/02/12/m...
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A whole lot of folks (esp white folks) have been acculturated not to “make a scene” or “cause a disturbance.” Bullies rely on that.
Make a scene. Be loud. You have to demonstrate it won’t be tolerated.
Make a scene. Be loud. You have to demonstrate it won’t be tolerated.
Every time you speak up - and every time you don't - there are people watching and learning about you and the world you help create.
The drunk uncle theory.
You don’t argue with the casually homophobic uncle at Thanksgiving dinner to change his mind; you argue so that the closeted cousin at the kids table knows there’s safe people and better possibilities out there
You don’t argue with the casually homophobic uncle at Thanksgiving dinner to change his mind; you argue so that the closeted cousin at the kids table knows there’s safe people and better possibilities out there
February 17, 2026 at 4:30 AM
A whole lot of folks (esp white folks) have been acculturated not to “make a scene” or “cause a disturbance.” Bullies rely on that.
Make a scene. Be loud. You have to demonstrate it won’t be tolerated.
Make a scene. Be loud. You have to demonstrate it won’t be tolerated.
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Hard to believe, at one point a bunch of people were paid yearly salaries to watch and reflect about how they felt about movies. And some of the writing was pretty great.
February 17, 2026 at 4:30 AM
Hard to believe, at one point a bunch of people were paid yearly salaries to watch and reflect about how they felt about movies. And some of the writing was pretty great.
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I’m in my no money in my bank account week before payday and we are striking low on groceries. Any help is greatly appreciated friends 🦇
PayPal.me/galaxydescends
PayPal.me/galaxydescends
a bat with its tongue out is eating a piece of meat .
Alt: a bat with its tongue out is eating a piece of grape .
media.tenor.com
February 16, 2026 at 3:27 PM
I’m in my no money in my bank account week before payday and we are striking low on groceries. Any help is greatly appreciated friends 🦇
PayPal.me/galaxydescends
PayPal.me/galaxydescends