Gay & Tonic
@deerene.bsky.social
The kinda girl you meet in a bar.
Writer for the page and screen. Visual Artist.
Queer. Black AF. Event curator. Creative Director. THEE mood board.
Geriatric millennial. ENM/Poly.
📍DC. Daniellerene.com
Writer for the page and screen. Visual Artist.
Queer. Black AF. Event curator. Creative Director. THEE mood board.
Geriatric millennial. ENM/Poly.
📍DC. Daniellerene.com
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When we lock eyes when something ridiculous happens in front of us
In honor of the first day of Black History Month, what is your favorite NON laborious thing about black women?
SN: fellas will be tomorrow so get to thinking.
SN: fellas will be tomorrow so get to thinking.
February 1, 2026 at 8:08 PM
When we lock eyes when something ridiculous happens in front of us
look what I taught myself today! painting flowers (acrylic). And already so much improvement which I'm proud of lolol You can see how it started (the paper up top) and where it ended up.
February 1, 2026 at 10:46 PM
look what I taught myself today! painting flowers (acrylic). And already so much improvement which I'm proud of lolol You can see how it started (the paper up top) and where it ended up.
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I truly enjoy being greedy 😭 I want it all
February 1, 2026 at 6:06 PM
I truly enjoy being greedy 😭 I want it all
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why is it called a foursome and not a fling quartet
February 1, 2026 at 5:05 PM
why is it called a foursome and not a fling quartet
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I signed all of us up for the blessed and highly favored package this year, so we gone be aight
Dear February, please be good to us.
February 1, 2026 at 3:10 PM
I signed all of us up for the blessed and highly favored package this year, so we gone be aight
go support my fine ass babe!
Atlanta: I will be competing for Mx. Ebony Burlesque Georgia on February 20th.
Win or not, all the competitors are fantastic. You'll enjoy it.
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Win or not, all the competitors are fantastic. You'll enjoy it.
www.eventbrite.com/e/the-3rd-an...
The 3rd Annual Ebony Burlesque, Georgia Pageant!
A Nomi Foxxx production
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February 1, 2026 at 7:16 PM
go support my fine ass babe!
I really want to wear barrel leg jeans but every time I try them on I look like the rootin-est tootin-est and I'm so mad about it 😖
February 1, 2026 at 6:44 PM
I really want to wear barrel leg jeans but every time I try them on I look like the rootin-est tootin-est and I'm so mad about it 😖
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I woke up a kind, thick, brilliant, neurodivergent baddie yet again.
a close up of a woman 's face with long hair
ALT: a close up of a woman 's face with long hair
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January 31, 2026 at 1:24 PM
I woke up a kind, thick, brilliant, neurodivergent baddie yet again.
all the gays were in philly for shooty hoops and nobody told me. rude!
January 31, 2026 at 2:28 PM
all the gays were in philly for shooty hoops and nobody told me. rude!
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I’m really craving one of -those- kind of dates.
January 30, 2026 at 11:16 PM
I’m really craving one of -those- kind of dates.
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Low light. Corner booth to people watch and craft stories. Hand on the thigh. The kiss on the shoulder or clavicle. The random whisper. Music just loud enough to drown others out but low enough not to drown you out. Eyes tracing outlines of hands wrapped around glasses imagining the possibilities.
January 31, 2026 at 12:07 AM
Low light. Corner booth to people watch and craft stories. Hand on the thigh. The kiss on the shoulder or clavicle. The random whisper. Music just loud enough to drown others out but low enough not to drown you out. Eyes tracing outlines of hands wrapped around glasses imagining the possibilities.
yet again I realize I'll be in all black/black n white for any galentines events lmao. One day I will not be Wednesday Adams but it won't be the season lol
January 29, 2026 at 5:41 PM
yet again I realize I'll be in all black/black n white for any galentines events lmao. One day I will not be Wednesday Adams but it won't be the season lol
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Every single time a company was given two options: “consider human safety and make less money” or “poison everyone and make more money”
They choose the latter 😭
They had to be legally mandated to choose the former and they spend all their time and money getting to the latter w/lobbyists.
They choose the latter 😭
They had to be legally mandated to choose the former and they spend all their time and money getting to the latter w/lobbyists.
January 29, 2026 at 3:25 PM
Every single time a company was given two options: “consider human safety and make less money” or “poison everyone and make more money”
They choose the latter 😭
They had to be legally mandated to choose the former and they spend all their time and money getting to the latter w/lobbyists.
They choose the latter 😭
They had to be legally mandated to choose the former and they spend all their time and money getting to the latter w/lobbyists.
"You're so pretty." is not shooting your shot. I am gonna lead a workshop for the queers and lesbians b/c baby it is a problem in the community 😂. at least say I wanna get to know you??
January 29, 2026 at 4:59 PM
"You're so pretty." is not shooting your shot. I am gonna lead a workshop for the queers and lesbians b/c baby it is a problem in the community 😂. at least say I wanna get to know you??
Oh I'm a quarterfinalist in a big short story competition so that's exciting! Everyone who sighed, laughed and cried with me about Merci and Whitney helped (re)shape the story and I submitted it. I'll find out if I moved on to the next round in march I think
January 29, 2026 at 4:48 PM
Oh I'm a quarterfinalist in a big short story competition so that's exciting! Everyone who sighed, laughed and cried with me about Merci and Whitney helped (re)shape the story and I submitted it. I'll find out if I moved on to the next round in march I think
I'm glad nobody could see me eating my weight in snow snacks & nonsense meals lmao. It is out of pocket I am gonna make a smoothie lmao
January 29, 2026 at 4:44 PM
I'm glad nobody could see me eating my weight in snow snacks & nonsense meals lmao. It is out of pocket I am gonna make a smoothie lmao
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But the name lasts forever. 1 musty offense and your 1st name because Musty (ex. Musty Rob)
Musty can be fixed. Weird is forever.
Idk, musty is worse to me. Haha
January 29, 2026 at 3:37 PM
But the name lasts forever. 1 musty offense and your 1st name because Musty (ex. Musty Rob)
so conundrum, I like threads better but all my friends on here. I don't wanna make new friends, y'all come over there!
a black and white cartoon cat is sitting on a red pillow .
ALT: a black and white cartoon cat is sitting on a red pillow .
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January 29, 2026 at 4:38 PM
so conundrum, I like threads better but all my friends on here. I don't wanna make new friends, y'all come over there!
stacking the snow up in the crosswalks, and not shoveling a path, was a choice omg what is going on in the city smh
January 29, 2026 at 4:36 PM
stacking the snow up in the crosswalks, and not shoveling a path, was a choice omg what is going on in the city smh
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10 tickets left for the kickback! 12 tixs left for the wine tasting (price drop!). Black Lesbian and Queer, 30+, Events in DC (DMV)
Wine tasting: posh.vip/e/sunday-fun...
Kickback: posh.vip/e/the-cards-...
Wine tasting: posh.vip/e/sunday-fun...
Kickback: posh.vip/e/the-cards-...
January 29, 2026 at 9:50 AM
10 tickets left for the kickback! 12 tixs left for the wine tasting (price drop!). Black Lesbian and Queer, 30+, Events in DC (DMV)
Wine tasting: posh.vip/e/sunday-fun...
Kickback: posh.vip/e/the-cards-...
Wine tasting: posh.vip/e/sunday-fun...
Kickback: posh.vip/e/the-cards-...
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Oopp Sunday funday me !!!
Hi Loves! Curating two events in DC for Black Lesbians and Queers. Please share and tell a friend. First up is a kickback with card games and crafts, and then a Sunday Funday wine tasting. #wlw Limited tixs.
Kickback: posh.vip/e/the-cards-...
Wine Tasting: posh.vip/e/sunday-fun...
Kickback: posh.vip/e/the-cards-...
Wine Tasting: posh.vip/e/sunday-fun...
January 28, 2026 at 6:11 PM
Oopp Sunday funday me !!!
10 tickets left for the kickback! 12 tixs left for the wine tasting (price drop!). Black Lesbian and Queer, 30+, Events in DC (DMV)
Wine tasting: posh.vip/e/sunday-fun...
Kickback: posh.vip/e/the-cards-...
Wine tasting: posh.vip/e/sunday-fun...
Kickback: posh.vip/e/the-cards-...
January 29, 2026 at 9:50 AM
10 tickets left for the kickback! 12 tixs left for the wine tasting (price drop!). Black Lesbian and Queer, 30+, Events in DC (DMV)
Wine tasting: posh.vip/e/sunday-fun...
Kickback: posh.vip/e/the-cards-...
Wine tasting: posh.vip/e/sunday-fun...
Kickback: posh.vip/e/the-cards-...
K bye. lol if you need me I'm on IG. Please share those events on my page if you get a chance. Be good!
January 27, 2026 at 4:15 PM
K bye. lol if you need me I'm on IG. Please share those events on my page if you get a chance. Be good!
I have not found my person(s) romantically, but I'm supported, cared for, held accountable, loved, taken care of and doted on in all the ways I would want from a romantic partner. Whoever comes will add a lot to my life, I'm sure, but there's no 'gap' for them to fill.
January 27, 2026 at 4:08 PM
I have not found my person(s) romantically, but I'm supported, cared for, held accountable, loved, taken care of and doted on in all the ways I would want from a romantic partner. Whoever comes will add a lot to my life, I'm sure, but there's no 'gap' for them to fill.
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Good morning, lovers and friends ❤️
Do something nice for someone else today if you can.
Do something nice for someone else today if you can.
January 27, 2026 at 3:23 PM
Good morning, lovers and friends ❤️
Do something nice for someone else today if you can.
Do something nice for someone else today if you can.