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@datchubbybtch.bsky.social
She / they - adhd - bpd- s.a.d - anxiety - artist/crafter - nature lover - mom - wife - future social worker - advocate of change
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I accept you for who you are, no matter who that may be. No matter where you are. I love you endlessly. From sunrise to sunset and back around again.
I accept you for who you are, no matter who that may be. No matter where you are. I love you endlessly. From sunrise to sunset and back around again.
October 29, 2025 at 1:18 PM
Every #system or person I had #faith in or trusted to help or save me has #failed me but hey, the #sunrise is still pretty.. its probably the #pollution and the #dying planet. #fuckitall
October 17, 2025 at 6:10 AM
My husband under estimates himself, I just say silly things and he runs with it.
The missus and I pitched / bounced about 5 different book ideas in the car while her prison-bound ex spam-texted her unhinged nonsense. The book ideas were 🔥🔥🔥 and ofc unrelated to the nonsense.

There's a reason my first couple books sucked and the new ones don't and it's 110% her.
October 13, 2025 at 2:45 AM
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Warp Drive Into Love: A disillusioned starship captain takes on an alien POW to save her life, challenging the line between human failing, manufactured consent, and necessity in this #darkromance #militaryscifi. #DVpit
October 8, 2025 at 3:41 PM
2,048 words today.

Been stressful, but we survived another day.

#amwriting #spooniewriter #writerslife #writesky
September 22, 2025 at 5:43 PM
My heart ❤️
I got my first real homework assignment with my stepdaughter this week.

Honestly, it wasn't so bad, and we've been working on reading and math over summer so she just sort of.. did it.. barking at me to stop helping the whole time #proud #girldad
September 19, 2025 at 11:53 PM
I #stole your #wish this year and Im setting my #Intentions with the #universe and any #power greater than myself #willing to #help. I ask that you find #safety, that you find #happiness. Happy #birthday sweet girl. I #love you and your sister #allthewayforevernomatterwhat
#daughters #abuse
September 19, 2025 at 6:44 PM
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I guess I can either have a week full of Dr appointments, or I can get some #writing done, but not both. Started ch4(of 12) today #wordcount 717

How much trouble could a #BoxOfNothing be for our crew?

#scifi #scifiadventure #scifiauthor #scifinovel #scifibook #ancientaliens #writer #wipsnip
September 1, 2025 at 6:43 PM
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Been to exhausted after the last few sessions, but ch4(of12) is done, total #wordcount of 21830

What do you think Emma18 was looking for in her reflection on the #BoxOfNothing? Will she find it?

#scifi #scifiadventure #scifiauthor #scifinovel #scifibook #ancientaliens #writer #wipsnip
September 10, 2025 at 6:13 PM
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I've read a lot of articles and have yet to understand what makes a novel #upmarket.

Maybe I'm more an #engineer than an #author, but it sounds like its an opinion, not something the #writer did on purpose.

Does that mean #WarpDriveIntoLove is an #upmarket #darkromance #militaryscifi novel too?
September 11, 2025 at 7:51 PM
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Editing is a very important part of the publishing process; from making sure the story flows well to ensuring the final product is error-free and formatted correctly. I offer a wide range of editing services to make your manuscript as perfect as possible.
www.naomischmidtediting.com
September 16, 2025 at 6:01 PM
With #sobriety comes #clarity. Sometimes, that #hurts. #Feeling #alone and #isolated.

Picture of the #midwest #sky
#suburban #nature
September 18, 2025 at 6:00 PM
From a while ago, went on a drive.
#sunset #sky #nature #midwest
September 8, 2025 at 12:51 PM
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August 27, 2025 at 1:46 AM
"My life is like a fart!"
-Clarence (adventure time)
August 21, 2025 at 7:48 PM
my husband likes to pat me. He recently told me these pats have no meaning except I love you or its stim. I made up a whole patting language like 3 fast pats he's irritated, 2 fast pats is knock it off. It goes on and on. There is no pat language. He just loves me.
#husband #love #mentalhealth
August 20, 2025 at 6:21 PM
This may seem silly but shitty past relationships and whatever... my husband holds my hand. In the car, in the parking lot, at meetings,at the store literally everywhere. He does this cute little hand squeeze to let me know he has to let go. It makes me feel so loved and cared for.
QT with one little seemingly inconsequential thing a friend, spouse, or other loved one does that makes you feel loved.

For example, my spouse refills my weekly pillbox on Saturday nights. I've never seen her do it, but the pills are there on Sunday mornings.
August 20, 2025 at 6:10 PM
My attempt at a (beef) gyro for hubby. I also made dill yogurt sauce. I remembered he liked Greek food so I tried.
I thought it was alright.. definitely the midwest version lol
#dinner #gyro #midwest #cooking
#noob
August 15, 2025 at 3:02 AM
Meeting and a date tonight
#photography #sunset
August 11, 2025 at 5:23 AM
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The Galaxies Largest Crab is our second stop #7wondersofthegalaxy ? What do you think our crew will find at its gift shop?

#wordcount 1910 ch2(of12)

#scifi #scifiadventure #scifiauthor #scifinovel #scifibook #ancientaliens #writer #wipsnip
July 31, 2025 at 3:55 PM
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I have to eat to feel less nauseated.

Sounds fake.
July 29, 2025 at 12:15 AM
I have a #colonoscopy and #endoscopy tomorrow and im very worried they wont find anything and ill continue to be in pain.

I need #distractions please!

#Shoutout to my amazing husband @simonsfolly.bsky.social who has done nothing but cheer me on, put up with my whines,smells and taken care of me
July 29, 2025 at 2:33 AM
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July 28, 2025 at 2:55 PM
Quiet moments with you are the reason I haven't given up.
#nature #photography
July 27, 2025 at 8:16 AM
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Taking a break from #writing to #paint about my @bitcraftonline.bsky.social character.

Our relationship is like building a city; one bit of love picked, one brick of fidelity fired, and one outside affliction beaten back at a time @datchubbybtch.bsky.social

To our castle in the sky <3
July 27, 2025 at 12:08 AM